₦airaland Forum

Carteroz:
hehe...this is nairaland people say whatever they wish to get the topic going.
This is not an imagination however my wife is not the first girl i dated i was talking bout my past experience

Carteroz:
Babe dey my house dey send nude to another nigga ...fear woman

Carteroz:
They have fish brain cox matter how smart they play we can still use marriage trap them to play mumu..hahaha[color=#006600][/color]

Carteroz:
u got it right...its more like marketing and its not just 2 or 3 days outa my state ...it might be more pending on the demand of goods or less ..she might stay a whole month without going or might go more than once in a month it depends...however i cant answer all your questions cox she has been working far away i don't know much about it but it has been all on trust...

Iceyjayzz:
No! small Breda

soulstalker:
I was able to suprise her more than my initial budget

Carteroz:
Helo peeps
My wife and i did our traditional wedding sometime last year and we wanted to do our white wedding this year in the month of may but due to this coro issue we shifted it to October.
The place she works in owerri refused to transfer her to the state im staying..we have been staying apart all these while cox her family was bent on we must do white wedding before we start living together..she called today that her company has agreed to give her a commercial job which will make her cover some other close towns but sometimes it will take her a day or two days outside my state
She called me to ask for my opinion
The fact is we need the money cox the pay is good however im good on my own but i dont want my wife idle,it might be cool for now but the question is can i handle this?
Whats ur take on this
Sorry for the errors,English no be our papa language

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I did not spot any mistakes in your post (asides shorthand).
I do not have any advice. But one advice I'll give you regarding seeking advice on nairaland: DON'T LISTEN TO THE FEMINIST AND THE REDPILLERS. They will destroy your marriage before even stepping into it.

obayendo1010:
Please let know one fool you...being a man is not to override everyone but to make a decision that best for you all...is a win win she can't have the date and keep you for 3 weeks...so make her chose between having the marriage as schudule with short honeymoon or postpone it as you propose with enough time for honeymoon....this will reduce the pressure on you...if anyone ask you you will my wife and I has reach an agreement to keep or postpone according to what she decides...

CooKeed:
Everyone is saying the op should do what he likes. You are a man blah blah blah. Have we forgotten that you need the support of family and friends to organise the event? Bride and groom can never do it alone.

My advice is that you have a dialogue with concerned parties and compromise.

efficiencie:
Why should anybody, man or woman, go into a marriage with the hopes of getting prepared to leave at the slightest provocation? Is it not better not to be married at all? Why are couples insincere to each other? Why must couples who at one point were loving each other crazily get to the point where they hate each other so much that they cannot bear to see each other? Why must you marry if you are not ready to sacrifice, be committed and love no matter the circumstance? Because of the self-centeredness of many, marriage has become hoax to be avoided!

FreeConCiencE:
Maybe that's why most of the financially buoyant ladies/women don't have homes. Most of them can't tolerate the ego of their men and because of that they decide to leave at any little provocation or insult. Most of women who have home and are submissive to their husbands are not very buoyant.

ireneidiva:
Ordinary 150k will make a woman proud? Women that earn 600k nko? Calm down abeg.

chigoziri2403:
It takes the Grace of God for a Lady that earns that amount to be submissive to her husband ,especially if he earns less

Ellabae:
But I earn 100k monthly . So I should not think of marriage. This one weak me.

soulstalker:
Hi Landers,
Tomorrow is my mom's birthday and I don't have much with me, I still have 7k with me, and I want to get her a lil cake and lil gift with. So I need ideas of things I can get with 2 or 3k.

obayendo1010:
Don’t know why most chemistry lecturals are so volatile and unstable from greed, evil mindset, constant threat of failure, stressing life out students...to mental downgrading...
They will make you feel as if you don’t know anything whereas you are far better........

jaxxy:
The Indian shud be made to know there are laws in Nigeria and he’s not an exception.

sweetilicious:
Thanks all,he has filed a case in court.Will keep you guys posted.He extends his greetings and appreciation on all the candid advises.

crackhaus:
Well, I admire her tenacity.

After several broken marriages, one would expect her to have 'hang boot' by now, but not Shan George.

Carry go mama

angelfallz:
With the right person, a person deserving, 2face that year. However, he was speaking to a lady

Chai you beat me to this, i had saved the lyrics to the song, to use on NL at the appropriate time and topic, you stole my thunder!

Evolutionlove:
Rubbish And Nonsensical Assertion, I repeat, Stupid Sex Is Overrated. Argue with your phone, Nonsense

1b8m:
My parents are over 70, alive and still fight (abuse each other). They're both born again. The hypocrisy is too much that I swore to stay single than marry a born again. Infact i swore never to get married until i met a lady, the most amazing person I'll ever meet. It turns out she's married to this older man but she keeps promising me that she'll divorce him and be with me.
I'm so messed up now because I doubt that's going to happen. My problem now is I don't know how to move on. I don't know where to find someone like her.
I don't know why my life is such a puzzle

Righteousness89:
I Celebrate God's Servants Pastor Adeboye and his Wife..

53 yrs is not Beans neither is it moimoi..

In this Generation where Marriage is becoming a Part Time stuff!

Even those that Fight the Servant of God find it difficult to Keep their Homes..

I Celebrate Sir and Ma..

I tap into this Marriage Anointing..

Amotolongbo:
Congrats to the them o

I remember a day when I was in an Orthodox church, Baptist, in Oyo town.
The pastor was preaching, lambasting Rev Chris Oyakhilome and his congregation. The pastor said he wonders how a pastor with a divorce wife can still claim to be carrying God’s anointing. That people falling under his anointing are stupid.

Then I sat down to analyze the situation and conditions surrounding the issue critically.

Many of these ministers of God’s homes are intact, not because they are good, love or respect their wives.
The women have been the ones holding and keeping the home which is based more on African culture of perseverance even when persecuted in the home by the husband than the scripture.

Many of these women aren’t comfortable and enjoying the homes, they are just enduring, struggling and pretending to the public that all is well.
If all of these our Ministers’ wives are white or have the white mentality, many of them might have left the homes like Anita Oyakhilome. Including the Oyo Pastor lambasting Oyakhilome