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Family › Re: be good to everybody by bukatyne(f): 6:29pm On Jul 10, 2020
SweetCunt97:
But if a kid insults an elder, is it not fitting that kid gets corrected? Why would your wife go insulting the man instead of being diplomatic about the affair?

I've seen this kinda scene way too many times and know d consequences on d man so personally I'd do everything to avoid a confrontation.
@bold:

Hahahahahahaha!
Family › Re: Why You Should Be Very Strict And Responsible In Making Choices by bukatyne(f): 6:26pm On Jul 10, 2020
Vyolet:
How do you mean?
Like someone would have a contrary opinion and attack the OP?
cheesy
Politics › Re: Zainab Gimba Shares 200 Keke, 800 Sewing Machines To Empower Her People by bukatyne(f): 6:24pm On Jul 10, 2020
Nice one.

Kudos.
Family › Re: Nigerian Rapper Says Men Have Become Toxic by bukatyne(f): 5:09pm On Jul 10, 2020
Klass99:
Thanks dear for alerting me.
You are welcome dear
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Carry His Plate To The Kitchen After Eating? by bukatyne(f): 5:01pm On Jul 10, 2020
AfroKnight:
Don’t know why the potbelly part touched me. angry Did you have to go there? Did you?
Hahahahahahahaha
Family › Re: Nigerian Rapper Says Men Have Become Toxic by bukatyne(f): 4:43pm On Jul 10, 2020
Klass99:
Wetin I wan talk again nah?

But I bet you, if they put you with my male colleagues you will choose your female ones over mine.

My own people only need to see us together in your car (you giving me a ride home after work) and the story will be that we are shagging each other.

It got so bad at one point that the MD called a meeting with some PH staff and Lagos staff. PH people were flown into Lasgidi for this meeting to address damaging gossip and rumours some of them were peddling

You go fear men nahgrin
Are you the one canceling your own posts?
Family › Re: “the Man Is Married To Another Woman” – Ladies Warn New Bride by bukatyne(f): 4:29pm On Jul 10, 2020
nero2face:
first u don't tell an African man who and how many to marry, 2ndly no law prevents man from marrying another woman even when he's yet to divorce his first wife, only a woman in under such law, so my dear, go and learn attitude, don't come here to wish evil to a man's matrimony... Lol
@bold:

Your village laws abi?

African man grin

You guys almost never use it for a good trait.

'This is Africa' has stopped trending here.
Family › Re: Men Who Visit Narialand Family And Romance Sections by bukatyne(f): 4:22pm On Jul 10, 2020
Unnerve:
Lol, what's wrong?
Sassysure knows what is right. tongue
Family › Re: Men Who Visit Narialand Family And Romance Sections by bukatyne(f): 4:12pm On Jul 10, 2020
Unnerve:
I'm lost. Who am I? undecided

If you were just trying to get me to comment on the topic though, what I expected was for the instigator to be ignored by the person (s) she was trying to call out.

Men should not concern themselves with the opinions of women, maybe only the opinion of a woman/women they love but that's about it.
@bold:

FBI Sassy kiss
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Carry His Plate To The Kitchen After Eating? by bukatyne(f): 4:11pm On Jul 10, 2020
Florblu:
Not when a good percentage of men these days behaves like a goat
Simple, don't marry one that behaves like a goat. smiley
Family › Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 3:59pm On Jul 10, 2020
sassysure:
Well, I hope this one disappear too. I can't handle 2 monikers at a time.

I will give it time, if refuses, I will request that a mod do that for me. I'm not comfortable with this moniker anymore kiss
@bold:

I duff my hat for people who run multiple monikers especially those who say different things or act in different ways.
Family › Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by bukatyne(f): 3:57pm On Jul 10, 2020
NerdyRudeGyal:
Very true.
God give us the courage and strength to do and stand for the right things no matter how hard, unconventional, unpopular, unpleasant or inconvenient they are.

Amen.
Family › Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 3:49pm On Jul 10, 2020
sassysure:
I don't think the deactivation stuff is working sef lipsrsealed
After my last ban, I tried deactivating my bukatyne2.

I don't think it worked either.

However, I can't find the moniker again. It is just disappeared from my opened pages.

cheesy
Family › Re: “the Man Is Married To Another Woman” – Ladies Warn New Bride by bukatyne(f): 3:05pm On Jul 10, 2020
nero2face:
ur one of the bad belles, evil people always wishing others evil, don't go and learn attitude tomorrow u will come here to rant
Oga Tony, go and resolve your first marriage before you can continue your marriage to the blogger.

Else, it is bigamy which is punishable by law.
Family › Re: Let This Story Inspire You To Do Something Epic by bukatyne(f): 2:54pm On Jul 10, 2020
shekauvsbuhari:
If he was trying to commit suicide even with 800k in his hand, then he does not deserve to live in the first place. Do u know what one can do with 800k? Unless he is hopeless and bereft of ideas. 800k is not a bank vault but most big businesses you see today started with far less. He should not feel stranded with that amount of money in his hand.
Hmmmmmm.

We don't know his monthly recurring expenses.

It is well.
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With This. by bukatyne(f): 2:51pm On Jul 10, 2020
uboma:
While it is not a crime to loose one's job, it is an act of irresponsibility for a man who lost his job 2 years ago to sit at home, refuse to take up some blue collar jobs so as to cater for his family. The annoying part is he buying good clothes for himself with the meagre monthly income the wife earns. Haba! Where is his pride as a man? He is gradually rendering her vulnerable and I am sure his cries will be the loudest if the wife chooses to flirt around so as to complement her meagre income.

The woman has single handedly taken care of the home and the bills for 24 months and counting, cut her some slack. She is a good woman but her husband is taking undue advantage of her.
@bold:

Very true.

From the story so far.
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With This. by bukatyne(f): 2:50pm On Jul 10, 2020
Rozz:
but it is said that maturity comes with age, I don't want to go and be crying in another man's house
Hahahahahahaha!
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With This. by bukatyne(f): 2:45pm On Jul 10, 2020
Rozz:
marriage is somehow sha,its for the very matured people.I have changed my mind on marrying early,i never get strength.
cheesy

It is not by age sha.
Family › Re: Is My Court Marriage Certificate Valid? by bukatyne(f): 2:41pm On Jul 10, 2020
Who told you?

Go to the court that issued the certificate and ask them.
Family › Re: “the Man Is Married To Another Woman” – Ladies Warn New Bride by bukatyne(f): 2:06pm On Jul 10, 2020
nero2face:
if cuz he is my namesake, but not withstanding, those are mere bad belles
You must know the Tony to know that the women are 'bad belle-ing' him.

Several Facebook users would not accuse Tony if there is nothing off about him.

There is a story, one the babe needs to find out.
Family › Re: Let This Story Inspire You To Do Something Epic by bukatyne(f): 2:04pm On Jul 10, 2020
shekauvsbuhari:
You had a cheque of 800k in ur hand after 9yrs and u were complaining? And even wanted to commit suicide? You never see people wey dey stranded. You for jump na. So u think say u don act james bond by pulling through? Mtcheewww!
Do you think N800k is a lot of money for people who have recurring bills? Especially when there is no source to replenish it.

Or do you think N800k is a lot of money for someone who invested 9yrs of his life in a company?
Romance › Re: Ask A Nigerian Man To Describe A Good Woman, He Will End Up Defining A Slave... by bukatyne(f):
Where doyou people pick these types of men?
Family › Re: Why You Should Be Very Strict And Responsible In Making Choices by bukatyne(f): 1:42pm On Jul 10, 2020
HembaqMbk:
Let them come lol.

Thanks
You are welcome. cheesy
Family › Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 1:39pm On Jul 10, 2020
sassysure:
grin

I'm gonna retire this moniker. Wanted to retire it at the beginning of this yr and has been shifting it since then kiss

Will create another one anytime soon kiss
You can run, you can't hide grin
Family › Re: Men Who Visit Narialand Family And Romance Sections by bukatyne(f): 1:38pm On Jul 10, 2020
sassysure:
I swear, tears full my eyes.

Where is crackhaus?

His own outburst will be x2 of lordko cheesy


I am suspecting he is unnerve.
FBI Sassy, I agree with you.

I started laughing when I read:

'What if I came from front page?'
'What if I come here once in a while?'
Family › Re: “the Man Is Married To Another Woman” – Ladies Warn New Bride by bukatyne(f): 1:36pm On Jul 10, 2020
[quote author=midascnn 9post=91573932]CO-ASK[/quote]Hahahahahahaha

Let us patiently wait for the answer.
Family › Re: “the Man Is Married To Another Woman” – Ladies Warn New Bride by bukatyne(f): 1:33pm On Jul 10, 2020
For a life coach, I would expect due diligence.

If she did not, she should dig deep and if he is still married to another woman get the marriage annulled.

Trying to pepper us with pictures without resolving the issues is like sleeping with fire on her roof.

We fall and rise again.

@people shouting bad belle: that is how we are warned of impeding doom and refuse to listen because we think they are jealous or don't like us or judgemental or old school or woke or whatever undecided
Family › Re: “the Man Is Married To Another Woman” – Ladies Warn New Bride by bukatyne(f): 1:29pm On Jul 10, 2020
nero2face:
weeping and wailing from u idiots can't stop the beautiful couple from enjoying their marriage, better go teach ur friend to be submissive to de next man who may come her way, maybe bcuz she's rich she forgot she's a wife...stupid slay goats
Are you Tony?
Family › Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by bukatyne(f): 1:21pm On Jul 10, 2020
LadySarah:
Because things are good for you. The widow that poisoned her 3 kids and herself to death cos of lack of food felt guilty of bringing them to the earth to suffer.

So many single moms regret but won't tell you. Aside the nasty gossips, the financial and mental strain can be something else.

Nobody should judge anybody. It has been done already
I don't think the OP has been judged on this thread yet. undecided

You are missing the point: Every human being is born with a conscience. The stuff that pokes you that you have done something wrong even no one sees you. Yep, some people's own are dead/silenced when they have done wrong stuff one too many times or constantly ignore it.

This OP's own is still alive and active hence the feeling of guilt which would drive her to the cross of Christ for repentance.

@Single mothers: tell me more. I thought it was the best thing since sliced bread, easy peazy, etc. etc.

We know single motherhood is very tough which is why we tell ladies to be careful. It is even worse when the so called father has an epiphany 15 years later and expects you to forgive and be a hero in his child's life.

But what do we know? We are old school, archaic, judgemental, not woke etc.

The fastest alternative thrown is abortion which we can see doesn't solve the problem. It only masks it.

I know some other ladies who have not forgiven themselves for abortions they committed.
Family › Re: Men Who Visit Narialand Family And Romance Sections by bukatyne(f): 1:09pm On Jul 10, 2020
See guys trying to defend themselves.

This OP is a 'strong' woman grin
Family › Re: My Wife Abandoned Me While On A BP Of 250/150.(A Cameroonian Nairalander's Tale) by bukatyne(f): 12:53pm On Jul 10, 2020
Herbephe1:
The real definition of a fool is the op, I hope this won't heighten your bP.
you're sick and you failed to invite your parent(mother) to take care of you when your problem (wife) left and here you're still nurturing the thought of accepting her back. Pls are you human? you must be prophet Muhammad on Earth, he alone I know has the attribute of such forgiveness ( gentility)
shocked shocked shocked shocked

To err is human, to forgive is divine.

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