₦airaland Forum

naptu2:
The thread is a response to generalisations like:

All men are scum.

All Fulani are killers

All Nigerians are fraudsters.


Etc.


He is saying that generalisations are bad.

It worked because a lot of the people that always tweet "Men are scum" were offended by his generalisation that "Igbo women are lazy".


(He was responding to another tweet that stereotyped men. The person that made that tweet deleted it after Noble Igwe created his thread).

Mariangeles:
There's no point racking one's brain and wasting one's advice to what simply isn't.
There are realer issues out there that deserve one's valuable contribution, rather than wasting one's time proffering solutions to a "plot" that was conceived by a lazy mind.

Akwara1234 can put his "talent" to good use by writing a movie script instead of wishing his imaginary friend bad.

Unnerve:
Lol, I quite find it odd though how any parent today will be comfortable collecting a monthly donation from a young married couple they ought to let build their lives.

Perhaps people who do this have parents who have no single source of income of their own, but even then, my grandparents, all late from both sides, who didn't attend school, didn't work formal jobs and had no pensions or gratuities, weren't receiving a monthly salary. Not to mention we talking about parents today who are mostly retirees or business owners.

Isobug:
But Is it how it is supposed to be?

The biblical quote comes to mind. .... Women Keep your bodies for your husband

bukatyne:
What can't happen on my thread?

#EazzyFleek2022

Alexaonfleek:
1) I guessed I used the wrong term
More like someone who seems tough

2) Why the hmmms

bukatyne:
What can't happen on my thread?

#EazzyFleek2022

Ishilove:
I'm not familiar with your stance. What is your POV?

RedPhoenix:
Unfortunately you just defined your standpoint

Mine is and remains how he handles this situation will go a long way in what happens in his Union and he should take caution


Why you seem to be a good counsellor, rather an excellent one, you should watch out for your weakness while doing this madam

RedPhoenix:
Smiles. It goes both ways. Don't use your believes and perspectives to make him. Assume his wife or family is bad. Detach your assumpttions, presumptions, posturing from the situationship

RedPhoenix:
Does the work status of the parent disconnect what they represent to them both?

Chorismate:
I agree with you, deep conversation about our financial goal would go along way to sort this. Thanks

Ishilove:


Seriously though, the fact that we don't see the wind doesn't mean it doesn't exist. We feel it and we see it shaking things around us

Ishilove:
Why is it funny?

RedPhoenix:
Yes. She's right. Her parents are yours.


Split it 25k each side. The peace you'll achieve will help you along way in your own marriage. If you don't, expect it to affect her habits and antique towards you. It's in your court to weigh in on the long term. Benefits

LewsTherin:
Do you know her view about finances?
Does she know your views about finances?
Are you both getting married without knowing what and how you both handle finances?
Have you both discussed it at any time?

As one half of a married couple, would your resources be capable of taking care of your new family and still afford to send 50k to your parents? What of when the children come?

Do you know what she currenly does for her parents?
Have you both discussed it?
Do you have the interest of her parents in consideration?
Does she have yours?

Ishilove:
Wazz funny?

Klass99:
Lol, your yeye dey boom abeg leave me o!

Maybe we need to start speaking pidgin and also translating in other languages.

The first man in the Garden of Eden set a pattern.......for others.

Alexaonfleek:


As for the topic
1. I'd like a guy who looks and seems like a hard guy on the exterior but a really sweet and caring guy

And I also want the male version of what mr eazzy wants too

Liposure:
I dont if she's slutty, foulmouthed and raunchy.

Unnerve:
There's a big difference between telling someone to do something, and asking IF they can do something. The latter leaves them with the option to accept or refuse and this is all that matters.

If she's fine with it and does it out of her own good gesture, I see no reason to cast aspersions.

If she refuses on account of discomfort, I see no reason to hold it against her.

They are siblings, not warriors at the frontline .

gowonmaharajah:
Lol,a perfect description of what I am Looking forward to in a lady!

Kenplay:
Naturally am an introver who doesnt relate much with people except it involves intelligent discussions, business, politics and world affairs. I also have anger issue.

So definately, the kind of woman I know I will need in a wife is one who is very very calm and dont take things personality, atleast this will help not to ignite my anger as her calmness will be like a water to my fire nature.

Secondly, I am not the religious type but I will love my woman to be a little religious with moral, a lady that upholds religion, conservative and traditional values is more likely to believe in family and marriage.(this is where I personally like you)

Thirdly, I am the type that act out of my impulse before thinking so I will love someone who is the opposite, she should be one who can advice me like; “Honey I dont think you should fight him, just forgive him because you might hurt him and put yourself in trouble."

Well, I hope this one disappear too. I can't handle 2 monikers at a time.

I will give it time, if refuses, I will request that a mod do that for me. I'm not comfortable with this moniker anymore

eazzzy1:
Lol I gotcha. rice stew very plenty. Lol when you see party rice it could mean fried rice or rice and stew. When you say jollof rice it may not be the smoky party type. Party jollof covers all the bases.

Klass99:
I started laughing after your first paragraph and didn't get pass it.

comrChris:
Bloggers are dangerous people
This man said many things, but they chose to make this particular one the headline