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alutacontinua: lol
You remind me of my mum dad can dash himself out (and everybody knows). Even as kids, na daddy tinz oo, my mum go dey ask how, when, where and what you wanna use it for when I will have got triple from dad


Thing is I think I completely take after the man.
the only solution for me is 'don't ask' cos once you do, I'll gladly go hungry for one week just to put a smile on somebody's face

Really?

Please send 5K to my account

$dollars please

Thank you in advance

lusciouslex: Most women are naturally gold diggers. In all modesty, decency and personal hygiene there's no right thinking person that would want to get down with these geriatrics who have been blimping for so many decades; of which most women they slept with are no longer alive. How can a young woman abandon ice cream, short bread biscuit and so many other cool sugar based stuffs for bitter leaf soup simply because of her husband's age and health? How about public gatherings: always giving people the impression that you came with your dad? Young people do have grey hairs on their head as well as old folks but when it is found on the eye lashes, chest, hands and c.o.c.k please flee from such person because he is tagged RED: Retired and Extremely Dangerous. Imagining how a 7oyrs old man will have need to put on his lenses to help locate his young wife's holes and I also wonder how ugly and crooked a grey haired black shaft will look like. LMAO!

This poster don vex

100Cents: Exactly..

Old poor men cannot attract such ladies..

What is the concord between light and darkness?

50calibre: No I'm saying all women because if the overwhelming majority (90+%) of women fall for money, then it's ok to generalise.

Even you, come with a price tag.

Most of these men don't care if their women have guys on the side, they themselves have chics on the side. Most times, they know they no longer possess the se*xual capability to satisfy their women so they allow them to get their thrill somewhere else.

All they need is a trophy they can show off in public, a pet to flatter them with sweet words.

Lol @ I come with a price tag. I must ask my hubby how much I'm worth

True at your last 2 paragraphs.

There is always an understanding. I believe the women know they must be discreet to protect the family's 'image'

Not every woman is bad though; not even 80% or 70%.

Start by changing your circle.

BABE3: ⦁ "Give your partner the silent treatment for hours, days or even longer to punish him?

⦁Want to have sex after an argument and insist it's because you love her?"


How are these things abusive ? Ever heard of steamy make-up sêx?

I am sure the OP is talking about when a party is not willing

naijaboiy: How much longer will it take for the Old men to waste away and the wives to inherit the wealth

That's another point you know

50calibre: It's not just Nigerian women, it's women in general.

Women are like commodities, they all come with a price tag. The question is; can you afford her price?

Looks counts for nothing when you've got a fat wallet.

True talk!!

Abeg say some women, it wouldn't kill you

That said, it is obvious these women went for the money. And they are clearly living the life. Use hubby's money to take care of one smallie by the side.

It is a good thing to know what you want for go for it.

Besides much older men seem not to mind marrying the young men's leftovers.

Hope they all did DNA test on their kids sha?

Obinoscopy: Aisha2, I love your objectivity, logical and intellectual display. How I wish every female folk gets to read this thread.

However, I pray this post of yours don't influence our fellow guys to resort to tit-for-tat when they find themselves in that situation. This is because the ultimate result could be disastrous.

The guys were designed to be stronger physically. A guy's slap has twice as much impact when compared with a female's slap. Thus it would be unfair for a guy to slap back.

Let me use an example: If a little boy hits a soldier with his wooden stick, do you expect the soldier to return the favour with his steel sword? No.

So guys should learn to resist the urge to hit a lady when she hits him. However if a lady carries a weapon with the intent of harming a guy, then he's permitted to act and anything wey she see make she take am like that .

And for the ladies, please let's not tempt our guys. Abuse him, criticise him, correct him, curse him if you like but please don't hit him. It takes more than gentility for a guy who's slapped not to want to strike back.

I agree very much with your post.

There is something yorubas call aseju

Imagine A & B fighting: A gives B a dirty slap and B shoots A, I doubt B will walk free even if A slapped first.

This is the point some misunderstood posters are trying to make.

If a woman hits a man, is he free to hit back? yes if he wants to. Does he have the licence to injure? let the courts decide.

On a lighter note, if a man hits a woman, should she hit him back?

P.S.: I did not watch the clip in question and cannot comment on it.

I was going to say crazy thread but on the other hand, it shows your family bond well. I bet you look like your dad and younger bro like mum

From pix 1, you look alike but from 2 & 3, you look more handsome

@Babymama: nice thread, hope you are fully ok

Hubby:
Thought about it

He is very principled (and can sometimes be rigid and an idealist (see things as it should be and work towards it)

bosun11: na so but i still maintain the fact that she is just his girlfriend and has no right to impose herself on him

I agree

#where the yimu go?

bosun11: she is still his girl friend and not yet his wife

Na clap we dey take enter dance

Kachisbarbie: story for the godssss....though it was childish of her since the guy hasn't married her...but if na my husband car, nobody fit try am with me, even my husband's last born senior me but they give me my way. I'm not even sure my husband would move the car in a situation like this.

even when I was single, in a situation like this, i would free the front seat for my brother's girlfriend because i think naturally he would enjoy her company more in the front than mine...

if the sister starts having her way now, trust me, she us capable of continuing in this line after the guy marries that lady. That's why sometimes you set things straight early.

The sister should have used her brain to move to the back.

I blame the gf for struggling with the sister though

freecocoa: I vehemently disagree, it's the same car for jesus's sakes mehn.

I would gladly sit at the back and let my husband's brother or whomever at all, sit at the front sit so long as they sat there first.

Sitting in front is reserved for the wife in this scenario

Just how I will not my husband's portion of food to his friend or even his family.

There is a place for each spouse that should not be occupied by anyone else

I can never seat in front when I know a wifey or hubby is to join us. The only place I can flex is with hubby and I will do just that

freecocoa: I vehemently disagree, it's the same car for jesus's sakes mehn.

I would gladly sit at the back and let my husband's brother or whomever at all, sit at the front sit so long as they sat there first.

Sitting in front is reserved for the wife in this scenario

Just how I will not my husband's portion of food to his friend or even his family.

There is a place for each spouse that should not be ocxupied by anyone else

Acidosis: Even after marriage; no sane wife would order her in-law out of the front seat.

And no sane inlaw will seat in front when the wife is accompaning them

5minsmadness:

Awww c'mon you are KIDDING.

Why would I?

Does that mean he will jump down from the car and start chasing her?

5minsmadness: So you wouldn't mind your husband telling g you he was courting another chic on the side while with you? Or that he fancies big busted women like the new secretary that was employed yesterday, etc?

Ist scene, that's cheating:

2nd scene, what's there?When we are in school and a girl with big booty passes, I would ask whose is bigger and he will say 'walk in front of me' or yours or hers or something.

If I see a well endowed chic, I will call his attention to it sef.

Which of them? The Nigerian One? That one love politics die!

If you are referring to the Almighty One across all nations, then campaign (not bribe), contest (not rig) and leave the rest to Him.

And one more thing: your present tenure must be productive (to those you govern not a select few)

ihedinobi2: Well, the Druids may have completely vanished along with all those frightening European religions that cooked up terrifying ways to carry out human sacrifice and use babies, but sexüal abuse of baby girls and even boys and terrorizing and killing people because you love them too much or because they look different from you seems just about the same or slightly worse to me than those examples. What about walking into a school full of young people and shooting as many people as you can dead? Sounds like mass human sacrifice to me. Ceremonies vary in form but sacrifice is the same: something gets killed so that something else is satisfied.

I do agree that we all have it bad. That was my point. When people who live in the West bash Africa you'd think the West is heaven on earth. I was all for pointing out how untrue that is. I did not even remotely suggest that Africa is better.

Just last night, a man was still arrested for raping his 14yr old nephew for 6mths. The boy was bleeding that was what alerted his mom

Your post suggested otherwise

For those praising the west, when you consider that while there is moral decadence, the structures put in place are working

In Africa, morals zero; structure ?

Maybe just maybe...

UuzbaGuuzba: One of the easily misquoted passages of the Bible. Easily misquoted by those who refuse to read it meditatively.

Money is not the the root of all evil. Check your Bible. The [size=18pt]Love[/size] of money is the root of all evil.

It is this [size=18pt]Love[/size] of power through the use of money that constitutes all evil. It simply destroys humility.

You know very well that if a couple had a joint account, then they are bound by condition to explain always to each other what they spent the money on.

Dear, why did you withdraw N100 from our account? I got an sms notification. It is even on our statement.
Oh Dear, it was Gbenkechi O. I that girl asked me to buy her recharge card.

Who the h*** is Gbenkechi?

Kesele don gas!

Well, I think a joint account is very good for a couple because it strengthens the bond and humility between husband and wife. If your wife is truely flesh of your flesh, then why are you afraid to know yourself better as you are?

Unless she is not and you both are still having trust issues. Better to start reading some counselling books now and do deep spiritual prayers and fasting. (More than Pastor Chris O).

Hmmm

Very correct

EddyNumerouno: the organs are reshaped, not replaced
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_reassignment_surgery_(male-to-female)

Atmmachine, see this link.

Read up the one about vaginaoplast. There is even a picture to show

Atmmachine: Does the artificial v have a clitoris ??

Read it up

Dolemite: What would you say about western ladies who pierce their labia and other weird things? body modifications are present in most cultures, education has nothing to do with it.

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https://media-cache-cd0.pinimg.com/236x/1e/80/8d/1e808d050379a584f254e3a47816993c.jpg

https://i1125.photobucket.com/albums/l582/friendsmania-net-forum/FM/insane_body_modifications_36.jpg

This is the problem I have; instead of us to jointly condemn, we are saying b does it so it's ok

These pictures you posted except the lady with iron inserted in her neck are gross and exceptions; there is no culture underneath and they are outloners. Normal people do not emulate them.

The lady with Iron is crazy but it improves her appearance.

Tell me how those plates made those women beautiful; how?

Atmmachine: Maybe the man is blind.

A surgery is done to create a v.

A poster on the first page put up an insightful link, read it up

ihedinobi2: And they say the West is better. How abeg?

Consider the fact that they do not use humans for sarifice or pound new borns for blood money etc.

Everywhere is decayed

Nigerians/Africans need to get off their high horse.

We re not any better

@5minsmadness,

What is wrong with telling your spouse everything as in everything?

5minsmadness: My sista the.thing TIRE me no be small. Everyday one wahala or the other. A person can read all these problems and become depressed.

More stories

And please don't add a man was cheating and after 20yrs repented. It is still a sob story

@5minsmadness:

What is not interesting in these stories? They are so muchy muchy

Interestingly, I find all the sob stories very annoying

This is a very sad story and I am happy the husband realized his mistake slapping her

When all is calm, he should apologize and let his wife know that running her mouth/jacking his shirt can lead to violence and ruin their home. I am sure she will change.

He will also make her realise that just as she can run her mouth to hurt her husband, he can run his hands to hurt her.

If she doesn't, then he needa to escalate to herr family

The woman got served

crackhaus: Shey I follow?

You know the answer na

@OP:

Totally agree

That's why I hate staying for kids advice; it is demonic

@Cococandy said: Most NL men don't help matters. I can only count about 3 I have noted who condemn cheating & abuse