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(1). Thinking I have well connected Uncles and Aunties in the society, that employment will not be difficult for me, and going to University is just to fulfill all righteousness. I wished I knew better, I would have taken my studies seriously.

(2). Waiting for that NNPC job my neighbor promised me, that I missed The Nigeria Breweries Job they were begging me to come and collect.

(3) Borrowing money to some people

eazzzy1:
I know you and your wife’s aunty do not like yourselves, and you are allowing it affect your relationship with your wife. Your wife lived with her for 18 years, she practically raised your wife and can be referred to as your mother in law.

Treat her with respect as you would treat your own mother or let your hatred for her remain your hatred for her, stop forcing your wife to have issues with her, don’t put her in that position where she has to choose between her ‘mother’ and you, it’s unfair to her.

I dont think you are married Sir! Am in the same situation with him! Some Aunties and Big sisters do not know when to let go! They are manipulative

Welcome to my world! My wife said she would rather leave this fucking marriage, than curtail her association with her divorced aunty that brought her to Lagos, her evil elder sister that has refused to marry and her friends.

Every day new wahala!

Bros there is not much you can do, than to put your feet down like I did!

I dont want them in my house! I dont want them, If I come back and see they came, I call them and warn them. Thank God the boys and the men are by my side, I will call the boys and the men to warn them too.

Every place will be on fire for a while!

Finally she will ruin your marriage like they ruined mine, but dont worry, if she is your wife her eyes will open.

Madam, even this evening called, was bagging me, to come and take her back, to the house, but I no gree! Make she enjoy their company very very! She don stay one year with them now, my plan is that she will stay two years with them. I learnt tension is getting high over there! If they no fight, I no go come carry am. Period!

After while we are going to relocate very far from them

Reading about Sylvester Oromoni Jr’s death makes me very mad, because it was a very possible preventable death.

So, the parent knew he was been bullied to the point that he was afraid for his life and they redrew only his sister and left him “The Indestructible One!” there.

Now he is dead!
https://jesus.bingo/2021/12/04/reading-about-sylvester-oromoni-jrs-death-makes-me-very-mad/


And now,I am very very pissed with his parents!

How can a parent that pays one million naira school fees per term, be so, full of inferiority complex!

Tufikwa!

Rest In The LORD Son!

It is a pity you have to pay the prize for your parents’ negligence.

11 bags for N1k, Sangotedo Ajah, Lagos

No mind her! That's how my own and her friends were planning M3million wedding, while I was working with the 300k I have! Thank GOD for coming through for me.

Please Prioritize Your Friendship, not everybody is allowed inside the Holy of Holies, Be Wise, Be Guarded,

I just remembered now! I have a friend! A very good friend! I love him like a brother! Him and all his siblings love me too, as "Their Adopted Senior Brother"

The first day he introduced me to their mum, he said: "Mum, meet your son! Our adopted senior brother from another parent." His siblings chorused: "True Mum! Our Senior Brother!" The old lady laughed so hard, we caught her from falling to the ground!

But that's not where I am going to this evening!

A couple of years back, when I was a bachelor and he was an undergraduate, he would always call me: "Big Bros! Where are you"

"At home"

"Okay! am coming to WASTE 2 hours in your house"

"Am coming to WASTE 4 hours in your house!"

"Am coming to WASTE this evening or this weekend in your house".

And his choice of words will infuriate me! I will curse him! I will abuse! I will warn him!
https://jesus.bingo/2021/11/25/please-prioritize-your-friendship-not-everybody-is-allowed-inside-the-holy-of-holies-be-wise-be-guarded/

No matter angry I was with him, he will find a way to brush it aside and apologize! But will still repent the same words some other time.

And this went on for like 3 years! I will always blame myself for picking his calls or for not slamming the door on his face.


Fast forward 5 years later, he graduated! Started hustling! God picked his calls almost immediately. In 4 years he has bought and used up to 5 different cars, could afford some quality luxuries! Became successful in his businesses.


And in 5 years he has refused to show or invite any of his old friends to his new apartment nor his office. He will always make excuses! He once told me, his house is his sanctuary, he doesn't need disturbance at all there! His office is for business transactions, not a meeting point for friends.

But a couple of years back, he would call to inform me that he is coming to while away time in my own sanctuary! Placing demands at my own expenses.

I still love him like a friend and a younger brother! Will always do! And I know he will always value our friendship and brotherliness!

Their mother still hugs and prays for me. His siblings still honor me as their "Senior Bros!"

But we have prioritized our friendship!

Please Prioritize Your Friendship, not everybody is allowed inside the Holy of Holies!

Be Wise! Be Guarded!

Sorry Bros! All what your wife said to you last night is not new to a typical Nigerian Husband! Dont kill yourself! Do your best and leave the rest for GOD! Refused to be emotionally blackmailed! Marriage gave some of us High BP! And we have learnt! Pray for more financial blessings and God will honor your prayers! Amen!

My Mum doesnt even say "Thank You" Talkless of apologizing to you! So many times she will tell my Dad "Sam biko leave this boy, let him do his worst, in this house! we go dey treat your Bleep up!!!"

But my Dad will always apologize. He even apologized to use for all the missed business opportunities, not being buoyant enough to contribute to my wedding, etc

But I learnt early in life not to wait for his apologizes. I think I was about 10 years then, my Dad beat me for what I thought wasnt my fault, so I cried heavily, expecting him, to hug me and apologize like he used to! Lie lie! This man lock up! I increased my wailing to gear 10, hoping he will change him mind! This man lock up! I cried the whole day, refused to eat, even was praying for him to bail me out by saying "Sorry" because by then headache and hunger don hold me. This guy man lock up. After that day I learnt my lesson, I no dey wait for apologizes again Oooooo!

Why are they like this? They will refuse to compromise, but they will want you to be romantic towards them 24/7

Barrister026:
We've had several discussions about it, to The extent it nearly led to quarrel.
But still she refuse to change.

I understand your pain Sir! Am in it presently! You are lucky your wife cooks, my own hates to cook and when she cooks she serves me like a slave or a houseboy. Sometimes when I see my food I weep inside, sometimes I eat, sometimes, I ignore! Me and you are the same, I buy suya every night to avoid, trouble at home. Most times the eba is hot while the soup is full of ice, she will say use the hot eba to dissolve the ice soup or go and employ a house girl. The only difference is that mine is from Akwa Ibom, when she cooks she must add all the protein in large quantity.

APGA won! Fake Prophet!

Miracle By Whitney Houston

Who know where nairalander Badboipo is? He was last seen: 6:57am On Sep 21, 2020, over a year now. I just stumbled unto his topics and they are all giving me concern. Who knows his where about? Thank You!

FlipModeSquade:
I don't walk around naked..

They both happened immediately I finished having my evening bath, while in my bedroom about to dress up

Twice I mistakenly picked up whatapp video calls unclad, thinking they were voice calls, thank God I always realize in time to cut them off, but one day I pray it does not happen that I will be unlucky not to realize in time and for for whosoever to see what he or she is not suppose to see.

Have you made that mistake before and how did you save the situation?

I bought this blender few months ago, but it is leaking underneath the cup, how do I seal the leakage? Thank You!

You are lucky Man! My own has told me in a nonsense tone a million times, that she will never support me financially, her sister too has told me a million times too! So, I know it is me and My God and God has never failed me. It made me a better Child of God!

Mad Ooooooo!!!

I just discovered my niece suffers from that, I do too and my Mum said I got it from her, even though I have not seen tears coming out from her eyes. My sister is taking her daughter to the hospital, I wouldn't do anything about mine, It happens my ministry. As a leader when people start telling your their problems and challenges and tears start zooming down your eyes, it helps! Hahhahahahahhaha.

Please apologize to your Dad! Dont bring curses upon your self. If you beat your father, the probably your son will beat you is high, please apologize!

Jesus is taking care of me by Moses Bliss

My Aunty was mocking for been unemployed for almost 4 years after graduation and she said cynically "If I were you, I will run to God for help, maybe giving your life to Christ will get you a job." You know what I took her advice, even though she was mocking me, but I took her advice and God did not disappoint me. I got a very good job 4 months later.


When I got my first car, my Dad called to find out how I was coping with driving in Lagos, since I had fear for driving! I told him, I could move the car forward only, I cant reverse! He said "Son! Forget about reverse! The more you move the car forward the easier the reverse will be!" Immediately he said that, something clicked in my spirit, This Is How Life Works! the more you pursue your dreams, the less difficult it is to overcome all the obstacles to your greatness!


3rd one! Before I started driving (Now I be 007 James Bond) I have gone to 3 different driving school, taught a million times by friends and family members for over years. So when my car came, I had finished one month driving lessons, paid for additional 2 weeks, was waiting for my instructor to come and carry me for training, when a friend said to me "boy if you don't practice what you have been taught at school on your own how will you master that course? We go to school to learn, we perfect what we have been taught on our own." That made a lot of sense to me. I got into my car, drove all by myself, from Lekki to Sangotedo, called my instructor, asked for a refund.

I can feel your pain Bros! Everything you said is valid! Am currently separated from Madam, because of most of the things you listed, you were going through in your marriage. The only different is that my wife grew up in a normal family setting, Papa, Mama and Siblings (though they are orphans now). But her elder sister who does not want to marry and whom they all fear ruined my home with the support of Madam. Madam doesn't shout and use foul language on me. But most of her friends and siblings insult me to my face, while she enjoys every show put up by them. Forgetting I paid her siblings house rent, for 3 years going with I just stopped now she is gone. Got jobs for 3 of the boys at different times. Training the two brothers I love from secondary school, now one is in university. Doing that because I love those two.

Love is not enough in marriage! Dont demand from your husband what your father could not provide for you, his entire life. If you want it, go and get them for yourself. Women are now Nigerian Banks CEOs

Last month my loved one and a friend escaped too from Ghana. Luckily they made friend with a POS vendor there, so I sent money to the POS guy account, which he redrew and gave them for their transport back to Nigeria. This is a new modern slavery for greedy and lazy Nigeria youths. If not the I loved him so much and did not want to lose him, since I could help, I would had ignored him. Since he disappeared from my house without telling me, nearly gave me BP. And I had to trail him to Ghana to bring him back.

N500 Sangotedo Ajah Lekki Lagos

My aunty told me how she drove one of my cousins out of her house. The boy came to live with my aunty because his father's business had a set back, the boy been a hardworking handsome lad, everybody loved him, most especially my auntie's husband. To the man the boy is another son, which my aunty hated, and her husband had such a great plan for the boy's future.

So, she told me, the boy always ran to welcome her husband, carried his briefcase to their room all the time. So this particular day, she knew her husband was going to come back with a lot of money, so she sent everybody on an errand expect the boy towards the time her husband will come back. So it was only her and the boy at home, when the man came back. As usual the boy collected the man's briefcase, took it to their room upstairs, after a while, Madam sneaked upstairs to their room, removed some money from the briefcase and hid them in the boy's room. https://jesus.bingo

Later that day they were looking for the money, she asked her children to search my cousin's room, where they found the money. She said nobody believed they boy stole the money, but how did the money get his room? Since there were only three persons at home, for a long time. She insisted she will not live in the same house with a thief! They had no option but to send him away. My cousin now is a big boy with airtel.

Strength, Health Gratitude, Breakthrough

I dont pity you at all! How could you give somebody your ATM card and pin, and you were comfortably watched him, send another person on an errand with your ATM card and pin. You deserve what is coming to you. You want to impress your guy. Next time you will not try this shit! Even wives clear out their husbands' account, talkless a second and third party. And since you knew you had that kind of money in your account, why did you not block your card using your phone app and banking code!


Please bear your cross in peace!

Tips to Make College Homework Fun and Get Rid of the Tedium by Elijah Mageto.
Even the best students need homework help from time to time. Even if you love the subject, daily homework tasks soon become boring, tedious and eat into the time you’d rather spend having fun.
It doesn’t mean you have to flunk out of college. Instead, there are simple tips you can use to complete your homework assignments correctly and on time.
If you ask most students their biggest struggle when completing homework assignments they’ll tell you they lack motivation. They know what they need to do and when they need to do it, but they can’t get started.
Motivation isn’t easy; you just have to work on it. Remember, no one is motivated all the time. It’s normal to feel like you don’t want to get a task done. The trick is to get started and once you do, keep doing your assigned tasks until you’re through.
Easier said than done, right? Don’t worry. There are simple things you can do that will help get you in the mood.




Top Homework Tips for College Students
• Get the right music going in the background
Music can make doing homework more enjoyable. However, not all music works. Music with words (rap, soul, hip-hop, for example) is more suitable for process-based subjects like mathematics and physics where you’re scribbling and can keep track of your work.
If you’re working on an essay you may find that listening to instrumentals like jazz works better.
Test yourself to see what works for the different subjects you’re taking.
• Choose a snack you enjoy and save it for homework time
If you know at the back of your mind that you’ll get to eat something you’ve been craving when you sit to do your homework you’re more likely to feel motivated.
• Change your environment
If you’re always cooped up in your room when doing homework it will soon get boring. So take your books and head outdoors, find a quiet spot and do your assignments there.
• Find 2 or 3 study buddies
This is one of the best ways to make doing homework easier. Look for 2 or 3 like-minded students and form a homework group.
• Make a list
Most of us get lost in mundane tasks and let the big and important tasks slide because we aren’t sure exactly what we have to accomplish within a given timeline. You can avoid this by making a list of all the things you have to do each day and in the coming weeks and months. A simple calendar will work. Each time you get an assignment write it in your calendar so it doesn’t slip your mind.
• Assign time for each task?
How much time do you need to finish an assignment? Sometimes we put off tasks because we worry that they’ll take a lot of time. In reality, those homework tasks may take just a few minutes to complete. Assigning time to tasks helps you feel organized and motivated.
• Get what you need to complete homework assignments
Do you ever start to do your homework then find yourself wandering around looking for a textbook or a notepad or a pen? These sorts of distractions don’t help; they hurt. Before you get started make sure you have everything you need within reach.
• Take breaks
Break up homework sessions into manageable chunks. Then, during breaks you can stretch, call a friend, and take a shower or even nap – whatever makes you feel refreshed.
• Reward yourself
If you manage to finish your homework early reward yourself with something you enjoy. You can catch up on your favorite show, go out for a drink or go and see a friend.
Should You Get Online Homework Help?
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Online classes during Covid have become commonplace and many students are now waking up to the reality that there are websites that provide homework help for students. However, if you’ve been struggling with school during Covid you may be wondering, “Is homework help legal if you use an online tutor?”
The answer is that it is, so long as you don’t plagiarize and follow the guidelines provided by your teacher or instructor. No law prohibits students from getting homework help online.
However, if you get your assignments done online, you need to make sure that you are conversant with the course material enough to pass your exams. Online tutors help with your assignments but they cannot sit your final exams for you.
How Do You Find the Best Online Tutors for Homework Help?
Many websites help students with homework and essays. That said, you need to know how to find the right one if you want your assignments done correctly and professionally.
The best thing to do is look at how qualified the tutors are and what they have to offer. Homework sites that make too many promises aren’t trustworthy; even if you find the best tutor in the world and they do your homework for you, you have to polish it up yourself before you hand it to your teacher.
You should also look at how much they charge. If they are very cheap, odds are they aren’t doing a very good job. The best homework sites recruit well-educated and working professionals as tutors. These sorts of people don’t usually accept minimum wage.
Which is the Best Online Homework Help?
There are many good ones, but they are also expensive and out of reach for ordinary students. Sites like Tutor and Homework Helper have competent tutors but they charge more than some students can afford.
Look for smaller sites that may not have a big online presence but provide a quality service. The procedure to put you in touch with a tutor should be simple. Ideally, you should upload your homework so that the most qualified tutor picks it up. They can then get in touch with you to iron out the requirements, price and terms.

This reminds me, when we were homeless and were sleeping in one of the bushes in Lekki! The security men in the other uncompleted building, will allow us in by 5am to have our bath there and by 10pm also. We were not allowed to sleep there, but they always welcomed us there. Those guys were like angels then to us, the uncompleted house had running borehole, titled spacious bathroom that can take 5 people at once and toilets, but no doors and the windows were bare. We had a friend Aloy who loved to be unclad all the time. He hardly put on clothes. One night another friend Chike joined us, in the morning we all ran to the house to bath, before day breaks fully. As usual our guy Aloy don strip from house, dey waka like the King of the Jungle to the place, he liked it when people looked at he's gbola.


Suddenly we heard Chike laughing uncontrollably and his laughter was so infectious, we ran to the bathroom to see what was happening, when we got there, Chike was pointing at Aloy gbola and was saying many unprintable things about its looks, size and all that. We all joined in and had a laugh at Aloy's gbola, because the more Chike dey jab Aloy, the more it seems, what he was saying was true. We had to beg him to stop. For the first time, I saw Aloy hide his modesty.

When we finished and got dressed to leave for work, I noticed Aloy had not left one of the toilet since he went in there, I went to find out whatz up. I saw my guy silently sobbing in there. For the 3 days Chike stayed with us Aloy disappeared, just to reappear when Chike had left.

Go and get a court order instructing your bank to recover your missing fund. Your bank will not tell you this and your lawyer will not tell you this also, if he believes you can not afford his services. But it works. Banks will do anything to avoid going to court.