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Oga would you like your wife to cook for her ex, in his house alone? You dey look for trouble Oga

You should have told their parents immediately for correction. Or the next day, you can go ahead and seal up those holes on the walls. When I was living in a public yard, it was a common occurrences, till I personally sealed up all the cracks and holes, even though I got to find out that some guys loved been peeped at. It shows them the next target to hit.

I once lived with my uncle that has one daughter, I noticed, I always woke up to see her pretending to be fast asleep at the foot of my bed, Till one day I caught her lifting and peeping into my boxers. From that day till I left their house, I started sleeping with my jeans trousers on. I know my uncle wouldnt believe me and his wife. And secondly my uncle walked around the house naked, setting some not too good examples for that girl. She's married now.

Uncle! I am Anambra, married to an Akwa Ibom! Biko no come here! Their wahala too much! Look for another tribe to marry from! If you want a wife that will rule over you, marry them, if you want a submissive woman, dont marry them please!

I request prayer of special mercy grace and forgiveness upon my life against death judgment and evil sacrifice passed upon my life and children including my grandchildren as a result of my past evil sacrifices I have done unconsciously and secret dedications to occult unknowingly. Some violence and wickedness I have been involved in trying to get help and hurt so many people as I go from one church to another for help. Please as you pray with me ask for strong protection from God or pray and let God lead you.

Your man is married!

Sorry Dear! The same thing nearly happened to me at Ajah! Thank God my car AC was on, so my windows were winded up and the doors were central locked! The solders jumped out of their truck to flog me for applying my brakes suddenly to avoid hitting the man in front of me, who also applied his brakes suddenly to avoid colliding with the car in front. The most aggressive of them was pulling and banging my door and window. Thank God they were locked. He left to bring a dagger puncture my tires, before the crowd started cursing them, and his colleagues held him back. The more reason I have to spend this N68K to get my AC back again

Presently one of my very tall muscular neighbors, for 2 years going to the 3rd has refused to pay for his utilities! And he had dared us to do our worst! The landlady is afraid of him and nobody wants to be beaten by him.

The 2nd neighbors is one the Yoruba's Oba grand son, claims to be the riches among us, but you have to beg and beg him to pay his bills! Womanizer! Loves fat, yellow old women! The more bleached the skin is the sweeter he says they are! Lastly forever unclad with his men! If not for their love of women I would have thought they were gay or ritualists, because I cant fathom how about 6 gown ass men would be naked as home, all the time as if it is the latest norm, It makes me very uncomfortable to go to the flat to ask for their payment.


When I was living in face me I face you, when I was cooking inside my room, I was at peace with everyone, but after a while my clothes started smelling Indomie, stew and soup, I had to start cooking at the corridor, my next door neighbor suddenly started picking fight with me, one day I call the compound people to ask her what I have done to her. She said her anger with me is that I eat indomie and egg all the time,, I should go and get married!



Still in face me I face you, I had a neighbor/family, they were about 10 of them in 2 rooms, they sabi shit and they no dey flush the toilet, if the toilet is occupy they go shit for bathroom

My Friend posted this on his facebook wall! Please lets help him get some justices done! Thank You


Good morning everyone. My name is Ofobike Sunday Igwe, a 300 level student of Federal University of Technology, Owerri. Department of Electrical and Electronic Engineering.
I have issues to share. I'm currently going through a lot of troubles right now due to the rate of extortion in my school.
We have always been forced to pay for certain things, both academic and non-academic and each time I do not oblige not ultimately because it is not right, but because I do not have, I'm punished in certain ways.
Most of these issues started to evolve last year when we they said we must pay N150 for my class adviser's father's burial, for us to submit our assignment though it wasn't the first time.
I reported to my HOD, a 4 man panel was set up in March 2020. But after the first sitting, nothing happened again.
Other extortions include compulsory N500 for a lost phone, two times compulsory church donations, extra charge on manual, class dues extortion.
My inability and refusal to pay for my class advisers father's burial led to the rejection of my assignment.
Lately, I have been denied access to my manuals for practicals due to related issues.
I have written to Dean of Student Affairs, I have written to the SUG President, I have also written to the Vice Chancellor. I have not received any response from the Vice Chancellor and the Dean and SUG could not take actions due to limited capacity.
My course rep instigated attempted assault on me last week. I had to run to my department and security unit for safety.
I write to well meaning Nigerians to come to my aid. I'm being extremely frustrated, suppressed and depressed by these circumstances. I have been admitted to a psychiatric hospital due to these issues. My health is currently deteriorating right now. I have even observed some manipulation in my grades.
I do not know what to do. My right to education, good health have been thwarted. My emotions, psychology and mental state are not in order. Please come to my aid.
I have suffered a lot of victimization. My materials have been stolen and I've received threats from certain individuals.
Ofobike Sunday Igwe.
Electrical and Electronic Engineering,
Federal University of Technology, Owerri, Imo State.
08143293440

I know the feeling Bros! Please go for Prostate Check Up! And Exercise as well! I have been there before!

Bath with Tesmosol soap, that is what I use everytime I shave!

Chicken dey chop feed naw! And feed na money they take buy am!

My Mum and my wife are from these family. And me, having lived in Lagos ghettos, I have seen a lot of families like this! Though never saw my Mum unclad, but I know our last born must have seen it a million times over. My wife is the worst, she doesn't even try to close the windows or draw the curtains! We have quarreled over it a million times and she had refused to change, now I help her in opening the windows well and the doors, so that all our neighbors would see, since she wants to be a nudist! The most funny thing my next door neighbor and his family walk around naked in the house and you can see them through the windows! Now, madam does pant and bra! All my uncles that lived with us or I lived with don't see it as anything. But the one I hated most, was when I lived with my late uncle in Lagos, how could a grown ass man walk into the house girl room butt naked in presence of everyone, Or give her instructions butt naked! Where does he want her eyes to be! I hated it whenever he did that! Not in front of the house girl! All my brothers in-law started complaining that their little niece just started becoming stubborn and disrespectful now she lives with them, and I keep reminding them, why wouldn't she be; when she always see 6 matured men pricks and butt holes everyday, you need to see them bend to rub cream on the legs!. I stopped coming to their house very early in the morning, because I have seen all of them waking up with strong woody in the morning and they will all laugh about it. So it runs in some family. My son sees my naked, I dont have a daughter, and if I do, she will never never ever see her Dad naked! The boys, because we are of the same sex.

Thunder fire you there!

Saw a bus driver putting on one the other day! Why would a young man wear waist beads? The thing tire me Oooooo!

Somebody I know have gone into hiding! Borrowed N500k from microfinance bank to play 9jabet visual.

Lost his job! His pictures are all over the social media. Police is after him.

4 Boys and many adopted ones!

If her husband was doing well, would she have informed you! Evil women everywhere! Please be careful with her! She's looking for another life line for survival! If you can afford DNA test, please do it? Call up a lawyer and draw the terms of engagement for the child, if he is yours!

I once came home and my junior ones told me they were talking about something and laughing and mom came out and said sheybi they are all laughing and very soon they will start crying.

When we were small my mother will always do the same, and whenever she said so, it will seem as if it was a prompt for us to fight! I kept wondering why everytime, she said so, we the Children will start fighting to justify her utterance!

Abeg tell your brother, let him decide on what he wants to do with his salesgirl! How would you feel that someone is running down your business and your own brother is aware of it, but decided to mind his own business?

Among the emblems that we see all over the world, none is admired, glorified and even worshipped as the Cross. The Cross was the instrument of Christ’s suffering and death. It is also the instrument of our salvation.
The history of the Cross is quite interesting. It goes back several thousands of years, long before Christ came down to earth. The practice was to fasten the victim to the cross by cords, or his hands and feet were nailed to the cross and he was left there to die. The heat from the Sun, the pull on the body, and the torture that the victim would have experienced before he was put on the cross, would take its toll and eventually the victim would give up the ghost. Sometimes it took a few hours, a day, two days, or even a week before the victim would breath their last. It was a terrible and most painful way to die.
In later years, after the death of Christ on the Cross at Calvary, many nations began to use it as a symbol of Christianity. It was embossed upon chariots and other items. The Cross became the symbol of everything that Christianity stood for. Through organizations like the Red Cross, it has become an international sign of goodwill and help to people in need all over the world.

The Cross represents the love that God has for humanity. Every human being had a part in the death of Christ. His death was planned before the foundation of the world because of the sin of mankind. God demonstrated His love for us by sacrificing His Only Begotten Son to suffer the consequences of our sin so that nothing would hinder our relationship with Him. Jesus endured the humiliation and sufferings of the Cross, to the point of death in order to fulfil the purpose for which He came to earth. The price that Jesus paid at the Cross was for all of humanity. It includes those in Asia, Africa, Latin America, Russia, China, America, Canada, Australia, and indeed the whole world. Whoever you are, wherever you are, the message of the Cross of Jesus Christ is very clear. He says, “I LOVE YOU AND DIED FOR YOU, THAT YOU MAY LIVE A LIFE OF ABUNDANCE.”

When we take a look at the magnitude of Jesus’ suffering at the Cross, it is overwhelming. It was so overwhelming that at some point, Jesus cried out saying, “My God, My God, why hast thou forsaken Me?” God Who is Holy and Righteous and Pure, cannot behold evil and so He could not look upon His Son Who was made to carry the sin of the world. In that terrible moment of agony, Jesus was lonely and felt abandoned by His Father. The One Who knew no sin, never told a lie, never had an evil thought, never had any greed or lust, was made to become sin. All the filth and dirt from my life and yours were placed upon Him. None of us will ever be able to fully understand the mystery of that particular moment. It was because of God’s great love for you and I that He allowed His Son to take all that suffering.

Another thing that Jesus said from the Cross was, “ Father, forgive them. They don’t know what they do.” He wasn’t just referring to the soldiers who tortured Him and nailed Him to the Cross, or the crowd that had gathered and were making a mockery of Him. He was referring to you and I whose sins He was being punished for. He was saying, “I am doing this for all of humanity, because I love them.”

God never intended that anybody would ever die. He did not create hell for us either. But we deliberately rebelled against God, and God would not be God, He would not be Just and Righteous and Holy if He came along and patted us on the back and said, “You’re forgiven.” We had to die for our sins, or somebody who was qualified had to die in our place. The Only qualified person was His Son, Jesus Christ, and He volunteered to do it. He died in our place.

Another statement that Jesus made from the Cross was, “it is finished.” What did He mean? In the Book of John 17:4, Jesus said, “I have glorified You down here on the earth by completing the work that You gave Me to do.” God, The Father, gave Him a job to do, and that job was to die on the Cross. Again, in the Book of John 18:37 in response to Pilate, He said, “This is why I was born, and for this have I come into the world, to bear witness to the Truth.” Jesus’ real assignment was the Cross. That is why the Cross is so important and must never be trivialized.

Jesus died to guarantee eternal life for all who will believe in Him. The human body goes to the grave at death, but the soul, the human spirit, that part of us that lives forever is going to live on and on. Where the human soul will spend eternity is determined how we respond to Jesus Christ and what He did at the Cross. From the Cross, Jesus is asking you to repent of sin and receive Him as your personal Lord and Saviour.
https://jesus.bingo/2021/01/08/the-cross/


We were once lost, confused, without purpose and meaning in life. No assurance of eternal life, but Jesus came and died on the Cross to rescue from our hopeless state. Everyone is welcome to the new life in Christ Jesus, even the vilest sinner.

At the Cross, there were two thieves crucified on either side of Jesus. The crowd around Him were jeering and taunting Him, “If You are the Son of God, come down and save Yourself.” Others were saying, “He saved others but He cannot save Himself.” They were having fun at His expense. The two thieves were part of the mockery, but at some point, one of the thieves had a rethink. He knew he was guilty and deserved to die in accordance with Roman law. But the man beside Him was different, He has done nothing deserving of death. He began to say to himself, “This must be the Son of God. He must be Lord.” And he rebuked the other thief saying, “Don’t you fear God? We deserve what we are getting but this man has not done anything wrong.” Then he turned to Jesus and said, “Lord, remember me when You come to Your kingdom.” What an act of faith! And Jesus said to him, “today you will be with Me in paradise.” A thief who deserved to be in hell was pardoned at the Cross because of his faith in Jesus Christ, the Son of God. The forgiveness and mercy of God is so far beyond our human comprehension. Yes, that thief is going to be in heaven and you are going to see him.

I’m asking everyone to make a recommitment to Jesus Christ today. To repent of our sins. To change the way we are living [if we are not living to honour God], to change our attitude. God knows that we cannot do it on our own and that’s why He has promised to help us.
We must be willing to let go of everything in our life that contends with Him for first place, and be willing to follow Him and serve Him wholeheartedly.
We don’t become perfect when we submit our lives to Jesus Christ but the direction of our life will change. The Holy Spirit begins to direct our lives on a path that is completely different from the way of the world.

PRAYER
Father, please touch the hearts of men, women, boys and girls all over the world and stir up their hearts towards Your Son, Jesus, that the world may truly begin to see Your glory manifested everywhere, in the Name of Jesus, Amen!

Praise and Worship
We bring the sacrifice of praise, into the house of the Lord
We give you glory Lord, as we honour you

Introduction
Good morning dearly beloved brethren. Once again, I say happy new year. It’s my prayers that you will experience the wonder-working power of God in all areas of your life this year, in Jesus name, amen.

I am grateful to the Pastorate for another opportunity to share the Word of God and to lead us in a few prayers. And I want to thank you for joining us everyday as we share the Word and pray together. I pray that God will bless you beyond your imaginations in Jesus name, amen.

Message
By the grace of God, I want to share briefly with us today on the topic: Arise.

Topic: Arise
Text: Isaiah 60:1-5
1 Arise, shine; for thy light is come, and the glory of the LORD is risen upon thee.
2 For, behold, the darkness shall cover the earth, and gross darkness the people: but the LORD shall arise upon thee, and his glory shall be seen upon thee.
3 And the Gentiles shall come to thy light, and kings to the brightness of thy rising.
4 Lift up thine eyes round about, and see: all they gather themselves together, they come to thee: thy sons shall come from far, and thy daughters shall be nursed at thy side.
5 Then thou shalt see, and flow together, and thine heart shall fear, and be enlarged; because the abundance of the sea shall be converted unto thee, the forces of the Gentiles shall come unto thee.

Discussion
The key word, Arise, means to get up, to come into action, to become visible. It is a verb, an action word. It presupposes that you have been in a place or situation for long and an action is required to change your location or situation. It is a critical requirement for other things you desire to happen. For your light to shine, you must first arise out of obscurity. For you to make progress in life, you must arise from where you are and take required steps towards your goal. The change you desire can only come when you arise. The Bible passage we read says in verse 2 that “darkness will cover the earth and gross darkness the people”. We are not to fret because of challenges brethren, but we are to rise above darkness and challenges. I pray for you that God’s power will push you above every challenge this year and that you will reach your goals in Jesus name, amen.

Weights of sins and loads of cares and concerns can hinder us from rising. Hebs 12:1 says “Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us...”. Before we begin to pray this morning, you must offload every weight of sin and loads of cares. You must surrender them all to Jesus so you can arise to achieve your dreams this year.

So if you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus or you still live in sin, even though you are a Christian, you need to settle this matter with Jesus right now. He is faithful and just to forgive all our sins if we confess and forsake them (1 John 1:9-10).

Prayers and declarations
Let’s begin to thank the Lord for His mercies and for the gift of life
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and God will reverse my irreversible
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and God will fulfil all my dreams
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and God will end stagnation in my life
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and God will help me fulfil my potentials
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and God will accelerate my promotion
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and God will take me to greater heights
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and God will move me from glory to glory
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and begin to shine for the Lord
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and begin to swim in God’s glory
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and I will never know barrenness
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and I will continue to be fruitful
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and my life will be a wonder
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and my life will go forward, I will never go backwards
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and I will go higher, I will never go down
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and my hallelujah will arise
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and I will sing my song and dance my dance
In the name of Jesus I will arise today and I will sing a new song of joy and dance a new dance of praise to our God
In the name of Jesus I will arise today, please keep poverty far away from me Lord
Father wake up our finances, wake up our blessings, wake up our joy, wake our healing, wake up every good thing in our lives that is asleep.
Father, give life back to every good thing that is dead in our lives. Give life back to our finances, our health, our careers, our business, our ministry
https://jesus.bingo/2021/01/07/arise-sermon-and-prayer-points/

Closing Prayers

Beloved, I join my faith with yours and declare that there will be a performance of all that you have asked of God to do in your life this year in Jesus name, amen.
God bless you. Enjoy your day.

LEAVE YOUR NEXT TO GOD
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going. John 14:1-6
The greatest cause of human fear is the worry about tomorrow. As we have entered the New Year 2021, it is an opportunity to reflect on all that the year 2020 has taught us. We have learned so much in the year of humility with its unprecedented challenges; we don’t need any greater sign to tell us to come back to God.

https://jesus.bingo/2021/01/06/leave-your-next-to-god/

Whatever you may be facing today, you can restart your life today by leaving your next to God. ‘Next’ means one minute from now, one moment from now – your future. Today is yours but tomorrow belongs to God. So, don’t be discouraged if your today looks so bad. Remember no man can tell by the present signs and situation what the future holds for him. Our Lord Jesus Christ was born in a stable; He didn’t stay there. Don’t let your mind stay in failure, don’t let your heart dwell in pain - because when you walk with the Lord, He will walk you through whatever life brings.

Let’s pray.

Father, we thank you for your faithfulness unto us despite our gross unfaithfulness unto you.

Thank you for counting us to be among the living souls this morning.

Thank you for your mercy that sustained us through the storm of year 2020 pandemic among others.

Father, we are here again, please answer our prayers in Jesus name, Amen!

Topic: FORGET YEAR 2020.

Text: Isaiah 43.18-19

“Remember ye not the former things, neither consider the things of old.

Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert” .

The beginning of year 2020 was promising, but all of a sudden, that deadly monster called Covid 19 came to Nigeria. It was killing in the day and the night. It was killing the mighty men and everyone became fearful since no one could predict who was going to be the next victim.

The whole world was locked down. Days running into weeks and then to months. It has no respect for anybody, the President, the Governor, the Senator and all manner of powers that be were subjected unto it.

It affected nations’ economy and Nigeria wasn’t an exception.

So many people lost their jobs, businesses were paralyzed. School children went on compulsory holidays.

Above and many other unpalatable situations of 2020, God said we should forget.

How easy it is to be forgotten, only God knows.

However, He didn’t just asked us to forget and remember no more, He came with a blueprint of His own palliatives.

What are the things God has in stock for us?

1. A new thing: something that hasn’t been seen before.

1 Corinthians 2.9 buttressed it “… Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.

Ask yourself, do you love God?

2. When?

Now it shall spring forth;

The time is now says 2 Corinthians 6:2

It is not next year, it is not next month, it is not next week, it is NOW

3. shall ye not know it?

This is a question you will have to answer yourself.

Don’t be like the Chief in 2 King 7:2 who doubted and said even if the window is opened in heaven, can this thing be? He actually saw it coming to pass, but he didn’t eat out of it.

4. A way in the wilderness

There are different types of wilderness. Unemployment is a wilderness, barrenness is a wilderness, stagnation is a wilderness among others. Whatever is in your life that does not glorify God represents wilderness.

If God says He will make a way, there is no reason to doubt Him, because JESUS, our Captain is the WAY. John 14:6 say so.

He has made a way of escape for His first born, the Israelites on the red sea before, so what is it that will now make yours and mine to be difficult?

5. Rivers in the desert.

Are you thirsty? For what? Are you in the desert of life? He is not only able, but He is ready and willing to give you water to quench your thirst.

Requirements:

a. Forget the past, forget your loss in 2020.

b. Come unto Him now if you have not given your life to Him. Matthew 11:28.

c. Claim His promises for you and

d. Be ready to serve Him for the rest of your life.

https://jesus.bingo/2021/01/06/forget-year-2020/


Let’s pray:

1. Father, thank you for all your promises for me.

2. Father, empower me to forget my losses in year 2020 and to focus only on you.

3. Father, do a new thing (mention it/them) in my life today, this week, this month and in this year.

4. Father, I refuse to doubt your promises, hence I refuse to die at the appearance of my glory.

5. Father, make a way for me in my wilderness (mention it/them).

Father, I am thirsty, give me your living water ( mention what you are thirsty for)

Thank you Lord for the answered prayers in Jesus name.

Have a wonderful day brethren.

12.5kg N3,800 Sangotedo, Ajah Lagos

Your wife must be from Akwa Ibom? That's the story of my life! And I still collect insults on top! Na God go help us Husbands!!!!

T817:
I returned home from my shop only to find my wife 4 siblings in my house I wasn’t happy because she didn’t informed me they were coming over and in this economy when the country is hard why would they come all four of them at the same time.

My mother in law came for omugwo she stayed for 5 weeks, she left 3 weeks ago I had given my wife 30k the money I borrowed from a good friend of mine to get her some few things to take home, then 3 weeks after, her 4 siblings are here too, they are 6. The last born who is 10 have been staying with us for 2 years now. I take care of her, my wife doesn’t work and I am only managing I don’t know why her people want to
drain me.

Can you imagine as soon as I entered the house, her sisters were asking me about their Christmas gifts, "brother where is our gift?" As if I am their ATM. I just ignored them because I was already angry seeing them in my house without my permission but keeping calm was the best thing to do.

What shocked me was the fact her brother was comfortably sleeping in my bed next to my 2 months old baby. My wife didn’t see it as anything bad she said he is her brother and wouldn’t harm his own niece but my point was not about him doing something wrong with her but the fact that he doesn’t have any respect for my bed that what really got me angry which led to my wife and I to quarrell not in their presence but in our room but since it’s only parlour and room self con I believe they must have heard everything but I don’t care.

My Wife thinks I am overreacting and I don’t like her siblings and she said she will tell her parents everything I said to her in anger which I didn’t meant to but nobody in my position will be happy if he happened to be in my shoe. How do I handle this problem with my wife without causing any further problems between us and her parents because I don’t have money to feed 4 more mouths for 2 weeks because they are not leaving any time soon not until the 3rd or 4th of January and before her siblings came she complained about her Christmas clothes and hair. I told her I will only do Christmas for the kids because I don’t have money she frowned her face and started giving me attitudes and on top of that she has invited her 4 siblings when I don’t have a kobo to feed all of them.

Even the food we have in the house won’t even last until January because I bought enough for 5 people but now with 9 of us it won’t last and her siblings are expecting me to do Christmas for them too , I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol.

What should I do right now ? I am not happy Your advice is needed please

Are you on any medication? Sometime some medications give us body odor! My son has that anytime he sweats, I am just waiting for him to ask for help before I step in.

What exercise is that? I want to start training today today!

Thunder fire you there!

Kestolove:
If you can count how much u spend on ur girlfriend monthly it simply means you spending nothing ND u stingy..

Uncle Well Done! You never marry am, you don dey incur N30K bill on top her matter! Well Done! Dont start what you can not finish Ooooo! Abeg how much is your parents monthly allowance from you their son?

Yesterday I drove side by side on the ever busy Ajah road, with a young lady, from her puffy countenance, she just put to bed (She had all the signs of a lady that had just battled victoriously in the favour room).

Obviously she drove herself to the hospital to have her baby, (Glory be to God) and now she’s driving herself home with her baby.

Maybe she had also gone for school runs as well, judging from the two little girl at the back seat, or their aunty, sitting beside their mummy, brought them from school to the hospital, and now they are all going back home.

Now!

My anger is this, she was driving with just one hand, her right hand, and she was trying to breastfeed her crying baby (New born baby!) with the left hand, in an air conditioned enclosed vehicle! In a car that doesn’t have plate number!

This Lady is just a trouble Maker!

I was vexed watching her!

Everybody knows half of Lagos drivers are insane and you are jeopardizing the lives of your loved ones!

What the hell is she trying to prove?

I was watching her forming Super Woman!

Couldn’t she had packed the car at the hospital and order a cab or Bolt?

Where is her husband?

So, she has no neighbour, friends, family, loved ones she could have called to drive her home in her car?

God forbid! If anything happen now she will blame her village people!

#EndSarz has driven the policemen off the road, if it were those days, and they arrested her, everybody will say the policemen are heartless.

This just penny wise, pound foolish!

Madam you’re not a machine! You are human! Ask for help! Money spent on a Cab or Bolt would have been the wisest decision of all!

I hope she got home safely! And I hope the baby does not have a trauma, been pressed against the steering wheel a couple of time and been so close to the AC vent!

May GOD continue to give all of us wisdom! Amen!

I took my teen son to hospital for treatment, among the tests we should do was HIV test! I was afraid, since he turned 16 he has been telling me how various ladies, old women even one guy had tried to seduced him! Most night we read his WhatApp chats together! I kept telling him abstinence is the best, but if you must do please wear a condom! And 2ndly I was very worried he might not get his size in Nigeria market! So, I kept preaching abstinence.

when it was time for us to collect the test results, normally they hand them over to patients, but that day's own a nurse collected them, selected some of the files, called out their names and asked us to follow her to another reception.

I noticed two doors facing this new reception, everyone coming out from room 1 was crying, stifling tears, or wore a long look! I hated that room 1. Room 2 was different, they were happy and smiling.

So the nurse divided us into two groups, those that will enter room 1 which my son's name was mentioned and those of Room 2.

And I panicked!

After a while a young lady burst out of room 1 and was wailing uncontrollably, that was how we discovered she tested positive to HIV! And my son was called to wait for Room 1.

Men! I dead a million times over!

I pulled him aside and asked him to tell me the truth! If he had started having sex, and when did he have unprotected sex! He kept saying "Dad, I have had sex, still a virgin, if I have had sex I will tell you! you will get mad, but will still forgive me! I don't have time for ladies now!"

Another guy came out of Room 1 sobbing! His relatives hugged him and I heard him whisper "Positive"

And I was angry within myself, why will a big hospital like this could be so nonchalant about how they disclose to their patients their status!

A million thoughts were running inside my head! I even wanted to start crying! But I have to man up!

The more i pleaded with him to tell me the truth and prepare for the eventualities, the more he was getting angry that I don't believe him!

Finally they called him in, i wanted to follow him, but the nurse refused! So, I stayed outside, the longest 10 minutes of my life! When he came out, he refused to make eye contact with me, and had a long face!

God! I thought my world had collapsed! I wanted to started shouting and beating him! But I cant remember the last time I beat him! And now he has grown into a fine gentle man! God! This is how this boy finished me!

He stood far from me! I waited for him to make eye contact with me, so i could signal to him to come over to my side! He refused to raise his head up, so I was forced to walk over to his own side!

"What did the doctor say?" I asked him
He just thrust the lab result into my hands, quickly i scanned through them, but they were not making sense to me. I grabbed him, in a low and no nonsense voice i asked him again "What did the doctor say?"

"Its a pity you don't believe me Dad! Negative"
"What/"
"Negative! She asked me a couple of questions, gave me some sex education, nothing I have not heard before"
I still couldn't believe it!
"But they called you into Room 1"
"Because am 16, see" He showed me where the test said Negative!

I was so angry with that Hospital, I wished I could break something there!

I woke up to the sound of a woman moaning! I turned! A male nurse was servicing a female patient with his fingers, all in the name of treating her infection! The mumu girl no even try to cover up at all!