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VinnyBaba:
You Lie.🤨

Currently, there are many Guys who CAN'T those languages u mentioned.
I know Many of them.

While the ones who know how to Speak it do NOT teach their Children.
E.g. Wizkid and Davido. I wonder if their children know to speak Yoruba.

In 30 yrs time, ALL Nigerian languages will DIE OFF from the face of the earth. 😒

Not all but it'll definitely go extinct in 100 years to come, everyone will most likely communicate in English and pidgin languages, na then real wahala go set for naija due to the unison and one language!

mushroomFarm:
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I might have made a few mistakes in the past (not sex related) but ever since I met my first and only girlfriend (we are together for two years now) all I want is to keep loving her and being a good guy to her. It's not exactly hard...when you love someone, you respect them and respect gives you so much self control because you only see the best of the world in the eyes of the woman you love.
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Yes many men as promiscuous by nature. As someone in the medical field I can argue on and on about the biology and anatomy and physiology and psychology behind this... At the same time we can chose what we want to be, we can chose to be responsible and good expecially when the right, loving woman comes along.
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I will always always be loyal to my GF. She is my world.

Rubbish, assume you're not in that medical field first, let's see how proud of her you will be

damosky12:
This is disgusting, really!

That's the thing with giving yourself to unbridled lust at a young age. It messes you up! Imagine having had sex hundreds or thousands of women and never getting satisfied! Isn't that some kind of bondage??

Tell me how this guy would have a nice marriage or be a responsible head of a family.

But but he has money!?

Capernum:
No. Simply put. She doesn't believe in my dreams and aspirations and she doesn't support it one bit.

How do people marry people who don't believe in there dreams and ambitions!?

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

And still want to claim equality!?... you must be a 🤡

Everything, count me in!

mariahAngel:
What do you know about honour?

What nonsense honour in cooking!?... make she do something that'll add value to the society not all these lame stuffs

Reason by Omah Lay

Jennyclay:
Biko, men should stop this sick attitude. How can you buy a gift for a lady, then any misunderstanding or break-up between you two, you go back and collect the gift back from her . That's a stupid attitude biko you men should stop it. Even kids don't behave like that.

Henceforth, if any man wants to get me a gift, wether iPhone, hair, car, house etc.. the receipt must contain my name and my signature. so that incase of tomorrow he wants to show his stupid and sick character I will quickly sue him to court for stealing and assault. Because he's forcefully trying to steal what belongs to me. The receipts has stated it all and it would be my evidence.

If the receipts doesn't contain my name, Biko just keep your useless gift to yourself.

Shame on all men that collect back gifts he already given to a lady. Shame!!! Shame!!! Shame!!!

Should contain your name kee you there!.. onye oshi!

saintbillion:
Might be she went for a high class guy with money

Most definitely!, always entitled and feels the world revolves around them!

Mentor all your kids to strive for themselves!... no one owes anyone anything, na as dem born me dem born you, first or last born.

Binspector:
She's married last I checked. This is an insult on the husband or baby daddy.
These hoes should learn to keep some issues private. No one asked her.

Bet my last dime she married a SIMP!, A Simp is a danger to himself, family and the society!

Flows001:
Moderators please push this to front page.

My first post on nairaland, so please pardon any error.

Good morning everyone, so let me just go straight to the point.

My elder sister has been dating this guy for more than a year now, she became pregnant months into the relationship and he begged her to keep the child, that he was going to marry her.
So she did and about two months ago, she gave birth to a boy.
Just like he said, he started making moves to marry her, she took him to see my uncle (because our dad is late), alongside with one of his brothers, they also went to see some of my aunties; as well as my Mum. So basically everyone knows them together in our extended family, as well as the street where my sister stays (she resides in Enugu State), because he usually goes to spend time with her and I must admit that he has been really nice to her and made sure she has been comfortable and never lacked anything.
Along the line, my sister started suspecting that this her husband to be has been avoiding picking up strange numbers calling him, she asked him but he told her not to worry.
Fast forward to earlier this week, she stumbled upon a text he received from one unsaved number, the text was begging him to allow the sender to atleast come visit him, apparently; this same guy was already married before and already had two grown children before he left the marriage for reasons which she didn't tell me, so his children have been making efforts to reach their father as their mother went to dump them with his brothers and went her way..

When my sister confronted him, he had to open up to her and apologised, stating that he wanted to start another life and couldn't tell her from the beginning because he didn't want to lose her..

Now my sister is in a dilemma, their traditional marriage was scheduled to hold by the end of this year and he has already started making efforts to officially pay her bride price.
Her two options are:
1. Leave him and become a single mother at this young age (she's a student of NOUN and does business which he supported her to expand).
2. Stay with him and accommodate the children from his former wife.

Please advice 🙏🙏🙏

Good for her!... most Nigerian women are foolish whenever they sees money!, they can't reason properly again, No due findings and back ground knowledge of a man, you don open leg carry belle for am, she's an adult let her sort her self out like a responsible adult would do

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Putin talk too much

Putin talks too much!?... First time you've sounded unrealistic to me!

Hamachi:

🤡

Hamachi:

When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Ms Hamachi. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me



When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place. He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place. I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps. I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.

You met him with nothing does that mean your presence gave him something!?, I no too dey understand una with dis kind mentality

Ezemarcel:
my point is that they are ingrates ...many are looking for who to just send them out......

But there are out and still complaining.,.they should come back and continue with thier security job

If it's so difficult to survive in Nigeria where you have your family, relations and friends support, think about where you know no one, it's very difficult to survive abroad without having anyone at your aid.

Nickelodeon93:
too late we are just finding out now…




Do you have personal experience too?

Not me personally, a friend of mine though

Nickelodeon93:
I don’t believe you guy… I have been following him, in fact I know someone that paid the 800k in March though he is still waiting for his visa … he said he paid money and they gave him cap , can you upload your own chats with him? And email too.. make I show my guy

HE'S A BIG TIME SCAMMER IN OWERRI!

ahnie:
And when they starts having problems tomorrow them go dey blame innocent village people.

May all scammers never ends well.
May they experience anguish all the days of their miserable lives.

It doesn't work!, if it works many politicians worldwide would all be suffering in anguish or dead, fact is to be smart and trust no one!

Michelle55:
I've never encountered such boys before( people who do that can't be called men), I deal with real men and not boys who would ask for things they bought for you when the going was good.

Ladies, date real men and leave boys alone!

And You're a real woman!?, if you don't like someone don't like there money and properties!, go and marry!

An interesting adventure movie coming up soon from this incident

IOXOI:
In this current age and time when Phone camera are something else nobody has been able to produce HD quality pix of UFO/ Alien



WHY

Because it's all a lie!

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
That na normal thing

If you are not ready nor put body...even managing our baby sisters at home is headache not to talk of a girlfriend from another family

You must be ready to tolerate annoying characters like them being Dramatic, manipulative, money conscious, attention seeking, clingy, jealous spirit, emotional, possesive and stubborn.

You see the above annoying characters I listed it doubles more if the girl is between the age of 18-25
So go for ladies above 27 years of age if you don't wanna die

GO for old cargoes!?, only simpletons do that!

kaludestiny10:
Happy birthday Tonto.
She don melo down with her dramas on social media after her encounter with that pkopko of a man.

Men go show you shege till you mellow by force!

crafteck:
Wetin i de do for this discussion now...

Sorry, I mistakenly quoted you

ahnie:
Most of them are deadbeat dads,drug addicts who cannot function and reason well if they're not under the influence of illicit drugs.

The rest percentage are punters,pelvic poachers, sociopaths,bet addicts who grew up in dysfunctional homes.

Only some reasonable percent are sane and you could tell from their beautiful comments n show of empathy.

crafteck:
Lol

For a woman to marry a deadbeat man shows she as well lack good decision making!... an adult should take responsibility and stop shifting there setbacks to others!

People love negative and bad news... they're clowning 🤡 on people!

ViceGovernor:
Look I have seen a lot of guys like that idot....once they see you're getting attention from girls and u are handsome than they are the next natural thing is to call the person gay.
It's all bourne out of JEALOUSY.
E dey pain am say even if he toast woman them fit no gree for am but Op without even trying is getting what they want the most

Exactly 💯, he's a jealous fool!

MechanicMike:
U upset we expose Yor gay kind sir?am upset we expose u two.
My nigggggga..is Yor human rights to be gay & marrrry has much men has u want..but juss don't bring Yor gay faggggggot $hit to Nigeria or else u will be shoot!!!(no offenscce)

Madman!!!

MechanicMike:
Bull$hit..op is gay.why can he tell us he will survive witout women BECUZ he dislike them? (Read his last post)
nigggggga, that man is 100000% full BLOOOODED gay & if he don't change his homo gay behaviour, he will develop to wot white people call faggggggot sir. I can't even imagine myself not talkin to female for 2 days. The boy is gay & therrrris no place for gay people sir!!(no offenscce)

You're mentally unstable... you need psychological evaluation ASAP!