₦airaland Forum

Opak001:
bro, it a experience I will not like to happen to any one.
meet this lady on a transit to a local government in where I base,everything when smooth throughout the journey,we get to exchange contact.
Unknowing to me she was weeks pregnant for her boyfriend or husband,things go good with us,good character,kind,sweet,everything was just too good.
Two months into what ever I should call it, she say she was pregnant for me that's was when it occur to me that men!,I need to settle down, omo boi don see wife material na,we then went for test and everything for I have heard alot of story from friends for every frist born child, man need to know the truth before you train another man pikin. sha it happens that she was already pregnant before we even meet.
Never saw her again since the day we departed from the hospital after the scan and everything.
Na oluwa save my head oooo.
2020 covid made me job hunting again,
I was no like "I for hear am for this life".
alaye always trust your instincts, e no go cheat you.
Thanks

How do people get the courage to bleep unprotected with people they just met?

Viknat:
this man don smoke igbo from abbi this morning. My kwale/ukwuani guys on this forum go understand. Oshogbo no get better igbo for where Abbi dey . Trust me

You Don go abbi before?

9jakool:
The language of ukpe is Ekue. Akoko is a very linguistically diverse area.

Do you classify it as a language or a dialect?

Sammy07:
My state only has two.

Ondo state

Yoruba and Ijaw

Have you heard the ikpe dialect of undo state. Don't know if I got the spelling right. The first time I heard them speak, I was forced to ask if they are kogi or Benue indigene. I was shocked when they said they are from Ondo. Ikpe akoko

BigBashiru:
White mans not sanner clime..... so you can't develop your own country but you want to run to white mans land.... there was a French revolution in 1728. Common protest una no fit - the black man takes the easy way out by relocating to "sanner clime" - shameless people

Same to you! What did the last protest yield? Loss of lives that can't be accounted for... you want to protest in a country where there is no respect for human lives. And again you are talking about development when we are still battling with ordinary electricity in this century.

I see no future in this nation! God help me to relocate my children to a sanner clime.

dam4sam:
Where in the Post did you read that she was just staying for 30mins or 3days? How would you know?

You mean a MIL will leave her house probably at 6:30am, drive for 35mins in Nigeria's early morning Holdups, just to "Say Hi" to her Son-inlaw and then drive back after staying for 10mins?
You guys need an Upgrade, really.

In-laws dont come and spend five minutes on Visits, they likely will sleep-over. and you cant tell them when to leave.

What if it was a working day and the Couples have to go to work? That means they have to leave her all alone at home.
She came at 7:30am for God's sake and it is not her first visit..

Let me give an example:
What if they have just fumigated the House at that 7:30am (since they will be at work all day) and she just bumped-in as they were about going out, will she not be embarrassed when told she cannot stay and have to go back or will she kill her self with the Mosquitoes, just to prove she can visit anytime?

Is that kind of embarrassment not better avoided, just by calling them to inform them of your intention to come to Visit?

Would you say the same if it were the man's mother that came visiting? I am sure by now the whole Nairaland will be agog with insults for not only the woman but the whole Nigerian women. The op is just not a nice person!

You don't use Tonto Dikeh shine finish. Who know you before?

As you don't want to borrow anyone money again, you can do give away instead.

MejiLoyon:
Na abiola I dey na. And Malu road that year worst. Na inside that thick bush I pass comot for jibowu extension. Bad day bro

Sorry, the distance is quite far.

MejiLoyon:
When you tell someone safe journey no be only by motor accidents. So many factors dey including this shit factor.

At least you see bank enter

My own worse
And it happened to Mejiloyon when I was in 200 level. Mom has always warned me from eating outside because I react to seasonings especially those white ones like Vedan and Ajinomoto. One Saturday near exam period owu don blow men we go chow party chow. I won't say the meal so I won't seem tribalistic. But on our way back na that time I know say khaki no be leather. My belle first do tiiiiiuuuuunnnnn with one small mess . I overlook am. I just see my guy deji just start to run. Just like that he start to run. Wetin dey worry this one? Before you know I don dey sweat. All my body sweat full am. God so good I don pass great Hall. The way I take enter bush. You think I'm relieved Abi. Nah. You see the anus has a way of loosening when you don dey near toilet. Before I say make I loose belt shit don pour. All my legs all my boxers everywhere shit. Time was 3 pm.
Fellow Nigerians. I clean my body ,throway the jeans come turn Tarzan. I didn't leave that bush till 12 or 1 am. Yes I trekked butt naked to the hostel. It was my guy wande that left a three quarter for me at the carpark. Wande if you're here you know who I am finally. 9 hours in the bush. Dodging people,doing nothing,got bitten by insects and stuffs. It was horrible. Na so we shit am..I mean see am

You for follow those bush wey dey back of primary school enter Akindeko... Shitty experience! It Gat no respect for no one

It's possible Chioma and Davido are planning a big wedding... maybe they just want to give people something to talk about. Then suddenly turn round with a surprise wedding IV!

masterflowx:
The same thing happened last year at thuue same spot. Furniture people are in big problem once again. Less that 1km to my house. Isn't ordinary.

Where exactly in Ajah?

mrdharkchild:
Dont say what u dunno. I saw this for myself, fire fighters were there.

Where in Ajah did this happen?

Lafrresh:
Firefighters are nowhere to be found I don't know if those people can be fast for once in their lives

Where in Ajah

fearlessigboman:
Only "allegedly" and they burnt the nigga... But on the other side is a lady that dressed almost naked in a reverend clothing and posted it on media...

So what are you saying? That we should go and burn her?

Patrioticman007:
The most common punishment for blasphemers was capital punishment through hanging or stoning, justified by the words of Leviticus 24:13–16. This for the Christians in the house, go & read your Bible.

However this effect of insanity, the man was supposed to be taken to mental asylum, however frustrated Nigerians transfered their anger on him.

Please I have just one question for you. How many people have been killed by Christians for blasphemy in this modern age?

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

You are in a situationship.

Georgekyrian:
Oh I'm very happy today, not because I already made it but because I found out on the long run I'm not the first and can never be the last. I join Nairaland since 2011 and since then is my best place to be online, like my particular Bestie will always say; Gi na Nairaland mgbe obula (you and Nairaland everytime), that's when she want my attention but only to found out Nairaland has it already.
This forum had made me learn a lot, find out a lot about life, know my worth, and now I cannot stay a day without surfing through this place at most 8 times on my busy days. I have my favorites pals here and can't get to their post without a gaze at the thread, when I talk about this people @Lalasticlala (snake lord) @explorer @ilegend @anuofgod @righteousness55 and lots.. comes to my mind.
Thanks you all for been family, thanks for the times we share, thanks for the knowledge.
Life comes with all it's challenges but above all things I give my God the glory
Let love leads

Happy Birthday My husby's birthday mate! More grace to excel!!!

Help2020:
A civilian hired soldiers to come and do the work of police, only in Nigeria. And tomorrow you will claim the politicians are the only bad people in Nigeria. Change your mentality dude.

The police have failed in their duties and are still failing. Most of the are cult members too.

oshozondii:
https://thenationonlineng.net/breaking-three-suspects-arrested-over-attack-on-ortom/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

Very funny! We're they expecting to still meet the attackers in the same spot after the attack? Common sense should let them know that they won't still be there. The people arrested were just unlucky to be at the scene at that time...

tobillionaire:
all the abokis there needs to be given quit notice first. They're just constituting nuisance on that road alaba rago is not supposed to be that close to lasu, it should be relocated inside badagry

You have spoken well! The Northerners have turned the road to a ghetto... shanties are constructed with reckless abandone along the road sides... it will take a lot of might to evacuate them because they already see Nigeria as their property. The sight is an eye sore!

The only thing we have up there is a Nepotistic figure head... we don't have a president!

omoadeleye:
In this scenario, it's obvious that it is her husband that's putting food on the table.

There is nothing that indicates that in her narrative,

Jayventures:
My neighbor’s mother-in-law and sister-in-law came 11pm at night for sleep over visit, mind you they only leave 30minutes away . After welcoming them and entertaining them, everyone went to sleep only for her to wake up around 6am to find the sis in-law in the kitchen washing out their pot of stew they had for dinner ,with over 20 pieces of meat in a nylon bag. When she asked why her day old soup was thrown away , the in-law said they don’t like the way the stew looks , and they are taking the meat from the stew to feed their dog when they leave. :

Please how did it end?

omoadeleye:
The husband that's putting money to make food on the table is not complaining. While will the devil of a woman be co
mplaining?

What makes you think it is only a man that is financially responsible for family upkeep. These days all hands are on deck... you rarely see a full-time house wife.

SweetCunt97:
He probably doesn't have food in his house.

All he should do is ask for assistance to stock his house with foodstuffs.

bukatyne:
5

@OP:

The lady should seek healing so she doesn't let the rapists keep robbing her of her future.

I don't see the wisdom in publishing this; she should have consulted her elders/friends she decides if she wants to hand over the guy to the law after accepting his friend's request or letting it go.

Now the guy and remaining four culprits know what is going on and she loses the element of surprise. The remaining four can decide to silence the dude seeking 'forgiveness' to cover their tracks such that she can't get justice even if she wants to.

Apart from sordid entertainment, I don't know the purpose of this on SM; not everything is for SM clout.

At least potential rapists will know that no matter how long it takes, that karma is a bitch.

Andyvilly:
let her marry and produce like two children and let's start the accolade from there. but for now she is beautiful though.

She was married for 11yrs with 3 kids. Read again!

Future impossible tense

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Must your wife know when your mother request for money? Must you take permission from her? I don't understand these breed of men?

adadike:
Welcome to the world new baby but there is something I don't understand , why do most ladies go naked whenever they want to take shots of their pregnancy? This is not good at all. Where are our mothers of those days? Please come back to us

You should also blame the men in their lives who sheepishly tags along with this crazy trend. As in, you can't call your woman to order?