₦airaland Forum

Starzo:
tanx for the correction

DuBLINGreenb:
Eh ya

Instead of the foolish woman to go and do Otopsy she has already started suspecting people of poisoning the girl, what if it's carbon monoxide fumes or drugs they took or herbal sexual enhancement whatever or stress or something else altogether.

Without Otopsy you cannot say for sure what happened, if you don't want to do it you have absolutely no right to suspect anybody.

Is the girl a head of state or drug dealer that she has enemies willing to poison her for the school fees she has

Starzo:
if na man get this type of her hairline Dem go say na residing hairline aka going bald

Men dey suffer sha

texazzpete:
Nigerians and deep poverty mentality sha

Imagine blasting a multi-millionaire for putting the mental and physical health of his wife and baby over living in the UK and working as a Royal.


I pity your wives sha

ADUKKY:
Enough of the bile on this post. Two grown men have issues and the only person who gets the fault is the woman. What manner of madness is this? You guys need help to rid you of the bitterness in you.

FreeSpirited:
CNN has no right or know-how to know the best soup in Africa. Na we we fit determine da one.
To hell with CNN

JoeEeL:
I deh tell you. The charade was just too much for her too bear.

She had bn lamenting and lamenting: "My husband's government has been hijacked".

How else do daft Nigerians expect her to put it again? Is it until they spell it out for them before they use their no 6? I tire for the majority of we people o.

Wherever she is now, she will be at a loss to explain the idiocy of Nigerians and how slow their brains work, especially her fellow northerners. Those ones are iredeemably dumb!

JoeEeL:
So all the commenters on this Nairaland front page are so BLIND not to see the extreme youth of a supposedly 80-year old Buhari's arms?

Is it that Nigerians are a special kind of 'DAFT' or what? No one is talking about an 80-year old hand, no wrinkles, but wrinkles on the face and a silicon ear that always bends under pressure from nose mask...

So with these much quirks, people still call this thing Buhari? I am done with Nigerians. I used to think its only Northerners that are dumb. But now I realise it's the whole country that's seriously daft! Their brains don't work, save a few!

plot697:
Francis609, your write up tells me you are still young and inexperience. You disown your own mother because of your wife? Listen to this, a man was sentenced to 10 yrs in prison for killing his landlord whom he caught him with his wife. Before he served out the sentence, the wife had three children for another man. This happened in the East.

A second one happened in Ogun state late 2019. This man returned unexpectedly to meet his wife with another man in his bedroom. In that anger he killed the man instantly. The next day, police arrested the man and he is still in detention till date.

What do you make of these? They are not worth dying for.

larryking540:
even if it means turning the son to a widower ....

papiforreal:
You want to disown your mother because of the public hoe you call your wife? Ubunja this idiot need some misseducation about these bitches. You are a fool. Mothers love is the only real love in the world.

AfonjaConehead:
Guy chill ooo... nobody says what she said is kool but don't forget she lost a grand child too and some women who aren't too friendly with their daughters in law can become unguarded.. peeps tends to regret certain actions later

emrain:
Efulefu.
When your mother finally dies I hope you and your step mum will not come and shed crocodile tears. After carrying you in her womb for 9 months and feeding you, this is how you want to repay her.

You're a bastard.

AfonjaConehead:
Abeg chill..there are things we say carelessly over things,spur of the moment stuff,I'm trying to say.
It takes grace to overcome such.

Mathiasa:
Most mothers finds if difficult to take when their son gets married, they believe that bond btw them and their son may eventually fade away, not all of them know how to handle situations like that.
I know she did wrong by saying such a thing. Am also happy u said u forgave her pls don't disown her.
98% of women think alike no limit with age.

AfonjaConehead:
be very careful with your words and what you do...when you talk like this about your momma,other people don't like it....what your mom says is harsh but your conclusion on her being a disgrace to womanhood is unacceptable.
And goddamit, you should never have played that tape to her,are you an accused or what! You should have just deleted it and warn your brother never to do such recordings again.
Sorry about what happened but you gotta take things easy.
Just give your momma a long berth for the time being and everything will be ok..she will later get at you.
But before that,she remains the woman that gave birth to you, apologize to her and go your way with your wife..
God will restore double

mutter:
First of all.. I am really sorry about you loss and the whole pain.

But do you actually realize that the real harm came from your brother!.
You ought to disown him if at all you want to disown anyone.
Your mother on receiving the news has two blows... One loosing her grandchild and two knowing the pain her son was in.
People can say allot of things in pain and shock!
I habe actually heard people say thebwishbitbwas their father that died when their mother died.
That was really very wrong of your brother.
I wonder how sorry he felt for you and how pained he was at your loss that he had the mind to tape that conversation and then go back to you to play it to you.
Was it right to confront you with that added pain?
It's obvious that your brother has no love lost for your mother!
It was very wrong of him.
When you confronted your mother on the phone what did you expect?
An apology? You know that parents aren't used to apologising and secondly her apology at that stage wouldn't have meant anything to you.
It was the will of God to take your child back home. The ways of God are not known to man.
In your pain it seems better to feel anger than hurt. I guess anger makes us feel the pain less.
But if your wife is aware of what happened she will only be hurting the more.
Please give yourself and your wife the time to heal and don't project your anger on a mother who lives you but said something stupid.
That your mother does not like your wife could have reasons..
Now you knew this all along but you omitted to correct that issue.
It is often the case that mothers are extremely jealous of loosing their sons to another woman.
May God give you the strength and wisdom to solve this issue

Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.

I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.

Please advice me if am I in the wrong

MejiLoyon:
Abiola hall futa
Year One these set of guys always steal my food and fight me for it.
Decided to teach them a lesson.
Bought a big bag of weed. First day I laid the trap....they avoided it. Threw the food away. Second day I emptied the bag of eegbow in a well scented curry rice. Gbaun they stole it. I just calmly say outside with my roommates and told them to witness an upcoming movie. In minutes they all ran outside naked. They had to tie them so as to take them to hospital. They were there for days.
Never mess with an Edo boy

obinoral1179:
please link to the girlfriend thread I want it check something.

Iamafinegirl:
Did you tell them that when we are talking
“You are not serious is a big INSULT for you”
Did u tell then that when u say I like trump and I say “me I hater trump because of this and that” it is already an offense and you admitted to you having issues with me airing opinions because you are boss or what I don’t know?
Did you tell them a simple conversation or difference in opinion even on a gist is an insult to you?

Did you tell them I think of quality and wen a frying pan was needed I was saying the new expensive ones sef are not good, they burn. Second new is better in this case and we got a second new one? Because it’s not necessarily about cost but most times you won’t even be able to understand the depth of what I suggest sometimes.

Did you tell them I explained something one day that I paid money to so and so person to avoid a problem and you tried to give me another solution to have taken and I was like “me I don’t want wahala oo thats why I did what I did@ and because everything is fight and arguement for you you had stood up stormed out of the house because you felt i said I don’t want your wahala etc when all I was saying is that I didn’t want wahala if d issue boomeranged and so I didn’t even look for other means I just did d surest method in question” did u settle down to listen or because you never patient and always ready to call everything an argument or fight you had kickstarted your nature?

Did you tell them you wanted a car and I said this car is too expensive tell someone who we know imports to bring for you although the person could delay and may change the car you agreed on but I said do a written agreement with him so it would be cheaper for you and that way he won’t do anything funny ? And you would spend less and get a better grade or level like the one I got instead of paying for something lower at the same price as the one you paid for in town. Out of love, did you not turn it to fight and say I am wicked, and louded the issue and dramatised it as being evil.
Did you tell them you lied to me that you don’t drink or smoke?
But you drink and lied from foundation of a relationship to win a girl?
When I realised out of anger I said you lied to me you don’t drink but you are a drunkard.
Did your remember saying my father who doesn’t drink at all and you know fully is the drunkard
You have called me demonic woman
You have called me stupid woman
You have called me very stupid woman
The list is endless but if we discussing and you don’t understand what I am saying and I am frustrated talking and I say “you no dey understand English” you just flare up that that is a big insult.
Things that aren’t insults you made them insults to defend yourself.
Did you tell them the most times we went to Shoprite then I use to be the one buying things...and you usually pick nothing. So why should Shoprite be so expensive if I buy water “nestle water” and other things from there even before we ever dated and you used to follow me there to win me and I never asked you to pay for me or use you as a toaster?

Did you tell them that you are building and I am also building? And the months you spent all your salary not even on the building alone oo. Busy dashing people and at 3rd of the month you were broke and I was like how would we handle the house you said I am there and I held those months because that’s what a good woman would do.

Did you tell dem that wen you arrived at the counsellor we told them we had a 60k and 40k rule as at then but we just weren’t piling it in the same account and the pastor said ok we should do it as a joint account so no one would feel he is bringing all the money” and we stop spending differently. you told them it’s the pastor who proposed it or he told us that ok you people should just put the money in a seperate account and the wife asked what else is making you angry and you said contributions for repair should be added”.

Did you tell them that when your drivers license expired and there was a delay with joint account , you said you would keep some part of the contribution for where you stay but I must submit all my own contribution to your younger sisters account while you submit just some to her because you don’t trust me with money. The younger sister would now be the one dishing out the feeding money to me who is the one working? While you comfortably keep part of your contribution as a boss. Did you tell them I said you should give her all if i would also have to submit my own all to her since she is the chosen financial manager of our own institution so she can be dishing out money to both of us as at when due since distance is not a barrier to bank transfer so I would also monitor u because you don’t trust me with money and you want to monitor what I am eating when u aren’t even there with me.

Did you tell them you don’t live according to your means and you always borrowing and financing a lifestyle heavier than you inclusive of feeding (because you eat 70-80%) of all the food in the house? Did you tell them you have collected above 14 million naira loan and you haven’t completed any house you are building aside still having normal money people have used to complete their own houses.

Did you tell them you give them babes money and say send me your account number Cus I have seen it but to buy Apple extra for me out of a budget as per my love this one na for u from my pocket? Did you tell then as we came back from your location you had meeting with your babe asking if hostel has resumed and all by 6pm same day?

Did u tell them that I had been using clin-cap face cream, benzoxide peroxide face cream, and you have been using it with me and I have never said this cream is 2000 and the other is 1000 let’s contribute from budget but you bought olaybact for me 400 naira and you were balancing account for me?

Did you tell them I did a soap mix of 13000 naira to 15,000 naira and you have been lovingly using it With me since January and I have never in my life said your contribution for soap but you won’t even do it, if you did sef you would have been asking for money by now.

Did you tell them that even to buy apple while taking me to were you lived loveingly as per this is my new location has to be from the budget and that you couldn’t say babes aside this budget this for you?
Did you tell them I also contributed for the fuel as you were taking me lovingly to your new location? Location you dey go dey come yourself but as I go follow u go know d place I must pay for transport. I for kukuma just enter public transport. But I don’t even have a problem with that since that’s what he wanted. We just accounted for my path

Did you tell them...that I am not wasteful and you went ahead to do things you wanted to do and started blaming me for it. Like buying a new tv when your mum was around for them...knowing fully well I hardly look at a television and you did it for you and yours?
Did you tell them this girl who doesn’t contribute lovingly gives your sis money and also give your mum at least in the best way I can afford within my means but you no send me message so that’s my business you are not even seeing it. Na me send myself?
When last did you buy me a gift in a year and half? It was a wig when you were still trying to toast me. That was only when you were trying to win my heart.
Did you tell them you don’t do anything for me I don’t ask you for money for cloth, hair etc or my own fuel as I am a responsible adult and not a burden on a man which you know yourself. Did you let them know that the food you eat 70% of and the house repair you would do definitely if I am there or not is what you would always come and stand on my head for when we weren’t yet contributing in a joint account. Did you tell them you don’t take care of me and you are just so self centered about the feeding part because you eat more of the food? Yet I was still buying food oo no be say I go out and don’t bring anything to the house. I still buy meat, tomatoes, onion etc but maybe not just up to the person who consumes the 80%

Did u tell them d day you took me out and water was bought which was like two years ago was a special day I think maybe Valentine or my birthday or something and “I was only asking to be treated special”. As per today na correct day, spoil me na.
Did you tell them that I spoke of u buying some thing like blender or electronic because you need quality one to last. The cheap juicer bought did it last? No
Was there not finally a decision where the expensive “binatone” blender was picked because for some things, quality is important so it lasts?
Did you tell them I met condoms in your other room and you alleged it’s your boss that came to your house to use it? Because you couldn’t tell him no?
Did you tell them that if I want to do something you would use my car and if you want to do something you would use my car and I said love should cover all this there should be no differentiating of car for activities and you can use mine when you want and viceversal?

The day he said I said drug was too expensive did he tell you he spent all his income that month already by 3rd or so due to poor planning and I used my income all for the month for food. Ofcourse I am sure he borrowed as usual for fuel for his car that month and maybe some extra things like suya etc you may want to eat and that’s why I couldn’t afford to buy that cream or is it even tablet I desperately needed quality type of drug to treat that ailment because it use to be stubborn when it comes but couldn’t afford it that month ?

In addition I forgot. The generator I would tell you to put on when wet had a generator house while some or most Nigerians just make a metal cover or so for their generator. So rain fell and the splash I could look wasn’t much and I would say it’s not like water entered this thing in its house like Dt just few splash on surface. I owned a generator I ran without it having issue before meeting you and while you where toasting me. I didn’t know I am unqualified to run a gen. I stopped touching your gen because it was complain upon complain or I am arguing with you by having a different opinion about ah it’s small splashes. Ofcourse if a gen was drenched would I with my full senses say lets put it on? When Nigerians keep their gen outside with normal cover.

You would go out and meet the true definition of a Nigerian woman. Take care of her is what a man does, send her money for hair, dress, clothes etc.
And still buy food n do stuff.
You would remember I was never a burden on u
I hope you would have love enough for her to cover taking care of her abi u would start complaining and shouting on her too. I just hope you don’t faint then.

On the other hand I Wld meet the true definition of Nigerian man who knows he is to care. Simple

OlawaleBammie:
Guy u re not ok oo

rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

Queenlovely:
2015 my best friend Philis Soctor a missionary was kidnapped in Kogi state Emiworo.

She was kidnapped by the same Fulani she was fighting for. she built a house for them and bought a big land for grazing and yet they kidnapped her.

I cried to my brother that the kidnappers wanted 200 million, what I had with me was 120million then.

He asked me not to worry. He found Philis within 24hours.

If an individual can be this efficient, the government can do better. Pastors are becoming a hunted specimen in the northern part of nigeria

urbobo20:
delta state is the only state that has never been bless with a governor in south south since 1999 to date i dont know if we are cursed in this part of the world

Johfem:
Tell us about the previous times you had intercourse together before 24th.

Her own side of the story is to be heard too.

Nurse the pregnancy and go for DNA immediately after birth shikena!

kiddkash:
I just wish there is birth control for men that doesn't include vasectomy

just swim raw without worrying of giving birth
it sure will be a game changer