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Bola146:
Same as you kid! Bring it on Omo caution who knows how to behave

wahala, who is your teacher? You need serious help


Check my rule 5.

Bola146:
100% YES!!! She trained 2 PhD, Msc and 1 BEd by herself. She loving, caring, she forgives easily, she loves her privacy, she taught me giving is good no matter how rich or poor you are, she can greet from her house to only when she is tired. I hate her first but when I was growing up, I will continue to appreciate her whenever I remember all the lessons she taught us. She is just a good role model to me!

simple question, you are not even a man, you here telling a story.

If this is how you behave, you need caution Asap.

harlee:
Hello,

Considering the high unemployment rate and many Nigeria wahala,what are the hopes of a ond holder who is still trying to get a degree through part-time schooling, all jobs now are degree required with many years experience, it's crazy.

Imagine being on a queue with MSC holders in an interview..

Pray for God's grace.

OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

Since you can't ask 'em, come and ask me. Rubbish!

EmekaChiwe:
Illiterate president of odua nation jumped over a fence to go see a king. His attitude is unpresidential

says an idi*t.

1. Dear all, I am white European

2. Me I cannot work cos of my papers, I am not from Europe Union country


Oop I dey come I beg.....


Check my rule 2.

I let go of anything past, we can be a distance friends.

That's my rule 6.

We are looking forward to instagram and WhatsApp to teach him lesson. Buharia is not a social man, any of his social media handle should be block.

Regular call is ok for him.

Oop I reserve my comment for you

Try this with nja girls, you will get a funny answer by the time she tell officer this is my first time of going out with him. Your mind go skip.

You looking for solution here?

Check my rule 2.

COdeGenesis:
Following the remarks by the NYSC DG, a beautiful NYSC corper to the delight of her followers posed with her gun during camp drills and gave a stern warning to Unknown GunMEN she is coming for them after camp. What is your advice to her? See camp drills below

Las Las all of us go Carry gun for this country nah.

LauraClasikVibe:
Readers are leaders.

Okies

...is late to the story too long.

prezidob:
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Honestly he's such a sweet guy and every lady's dream man. We're both course mates in the same university. We love each other and have pledged to get married after graduation. I'm a very beautiful lady as there's no day gone by without a toaster. Because of financial difficulties, I took a job in a club as a waitress and recently, secretary to my boss... combining both work. I go to meeting with my boss to plan for the organisation of the club and I do come late and sometimes I sleep over.
My boyfriend reprimanded me for late nights and I told him that he's not my father and should not try to control me. He is so jealous!!
But the truth is he doesn't hide anything from me. Throughout the lockdown he was there for me.
I don't like the work but it's the only way to get by since my parents are not helping and my boyfriend is a student too.

How do I convince him that I love him and I will not cheat on him?

He doesn't want me to do the work neither do I. But we can't help it.

Please your opinion matters a lot to me as it will help me manage my situation. I don't want to lose him.

I know you are cheating already but follow your mind.

rightdata:
I have noticed here in Lekki that many rich Yoruba men are married to Igbo women and South South women. What is the secret behind this pattern. I need answers to explain all these. As a Young man, I may as well go for an Igbo woman if the reasons are strong enough. Explain to a brother.

..just like the way you people leave your territory to invade anoder man's land in the name of business.

[quote author=EmmaJnr1 post=102302210]stop this rubbish. seun, lalasticlala, mynd44 you guys are not doing ur work. Ban all this tribalist accounts permanently[/quote...are you a sadist?

Even trouser no stay well for him yansh. Fraudster indeed.

PlayMaker14:
Some people will just go to Twitter to create lies as if they're working with Wale Adenuga Production....

The MF don't even have dp.

Toks2008:
I have lived for decades and i have had several friends .... I have had friends with very annoying manners but with an amazing heart of gold.
I have met ladies who are demonically stubborn but are loyal to the core, ladies who told me they can't date me but had stood by me come rain come shine...

I have met friends who act so arrogant but will always have my back whenever it is necessary ...people who do not have any money to give to me whenever I'm in need but their words of encouragement is worth millions.

The simple fact of life is that there is no need cutting off anyone from your life or consider them irrelevant to you at any point in time cos that person that drives you crazy might be the same person that will come through for you when you least expect...that person you feel is too poor to give you money might be the one that will link you with a life changing opportunity that will be worth more than all the money you have ever seen in your life...and the ex you are so angry with might still have a great impact in your life.

Appreciate everybody and be nice to them because there is something good and valuable in everyone we come across no matter how terrible we may think they are, even that tout you avoid so much might be the one that will save you from hoodlums tomorrow.

You Post is one of a kind I always enjoy your topics. We all got a sad story, you either gon use it as motivation or an excuse. Trauma literally changes how our brains function, that's why some people find it difficult to let go of the past.

..... again?

I suggest you try morning news paper.

That MF did not check my 2 before he bet. Lolololol

TheFacelessMan:
Many years back, I had a terrifying encounter with a ghost....

I am hesitant to tell the tale, in fact I am trembling as I type...

.... receive strength. Speak!!!!

Best option, she didn't kill anybody nah how can they fine her $15k.

Curious345:
Attack on Ortom: FUNAM, Oduduwa, IPOB, others, championing Nigeria's breakup - Daily Post Nigeria


The attack on the convoy of Benue State Governor, Samuel Ortom has continued to generate discussions, reactions and anger in some quarters, with accusing fingers being pointed and denials being made by those so accused.

It is understandable that such a brazen attempt will solicit different reactions, especially anger propelled by fear, with many Nigerians believing that if a sitting governor, with a retinue of security details could narrowly escape being killed in broad daylight, no one then is safe in the country.

However, a Fulani group, hitherto unknown, the Fulani Nationality Movement (FUNAM) has reportedly claimed responsibility for the attack.

The group, in a report by an online news platform, said in a statement signed by one Umar Amir Shehu that they attacked Ortom in an action carried out on behalf of millions of Fulani people in 15 countries.

“Our attention has been drawn to media reports today speculating about who attacked the Governor of Benue State, Samuel Ortom.

“Yes. Yes We did. The Fulani Nationality Movement, ( FUNAM) carried out the attack. We have genuine reasons. We acted on behalf of Millions of Fulani people in 15 countries.

“It’s a case of vengeance against an infidel who has used his time and money, deployed in destroying the Fulani values and inheritance.

“Our courageous fighters carried out this historic attack to send a great message to Ortom and his collaborators: Wherever you are, once you are against Fulani long term interest, we shall get you down. This is a clear warning. We hope those who take us for granted will get the indisputable message.

“Our intention is unequivocal: TO KILL HIM. That mission will one day be fulfilled and very soon too.

“Eleven of FUNAM operatives were involved in the attack. Orton escaped today because of a slight technical communication error. Next time, he will not be lucky. We can assure him and his supporters.

“Ortom has been leading the campaign against Fulani interests in the North. We have our operatives in all Southern States. Each will face our sword soon.

“We warn collaborators working against Fulani people across Nigeria: WE SHALL GET YOU irrespective of your hidden place.

“We state clearly, any state or individual that opposes RUGA will be confronted. Any State or individual that opposes ranching, we shall get you. Speak against ranching and RUGA even on the internet: Our Noiseless fighters shall find and fix you.

“In the next few months, FUNAM will carry out attacks on strategic human and material assets of States and Non State groups or individuals known for their anti-Fulani campaigns.

“We shall hunt you down in your houses, in your work places, in your car, in your streets. It’s a matter of time.”

With this statement, a new chapter of agitations and contradictions the nation has not witnessed in time past was opened, albeit in a more scary way. Though many are tempted to wave off FUNAM as a faceless group that is merely looking for attention, analysts are quick to say that the groups that are today making things difficult for the country in different parts started the same way from obscurity, with people writing them off as attention seekers.

Though it is yet uncertain if FUNAM actually exists, it is worthy of note that the group is not speaking for the first time, as it triggered national outrage in 2018 when it claimed that Fulani are the owners of Nigeria.

The Sultan of Sokoto, Sa’ad Abubakar, who at that time doubted the existence of the group, disowned the statement, labeling it as reckless.

Also in February 2020, the President of the group, one Badu Salisu Ahmadu claimed that a special Fulani strike force was behind the killing of 23 people in Plateau State in late January, 2020.

Mr. Adekoya Samuel, a public affairs commentator, believes that FUNAM is not really a new group but one that may be described as shadowy, lurking in the corner to take advantage of situations and dance momentarily in the sun before withdrawing into a corner.

“I will not say the group does not exist, I will rather ask, how does it exist? On paper and in press releases? FUNAM, to me, is just another faceless group that exists in the mind of an individual who mischievously comes in occasionally, throws in a press release to rock the boat and cause some apprehension. That’s what I believe is happening here.

“I see no reason for apprehension over the sweeping threats in the supposed group’s statement. What is the capacity of a group that has not proven in the past that it truly exists? I think the writer of the press statement was only bluffing and nothing more. No one should lose sleep over it”, Samuel said.

Speaking further, Samuel noted that though it is becoming alarming the rate at which sectional and ethnic based groups are springing up from different parts of the country, the existence of Nigeria is not under threat.

“Nigeria is not about to break and it will not despite the threat posed by ethnic based groups threatening secession. Neither IPOB, MASSOB or Oduduwa Republic proponents have the capacity to carry out their threats. Those threats have always been there and nothing has happened. FUNAM cannot make any difference”, he submitted.

Chigozie Ibe, a Lagos babes businessman, however, thinks differently, warning that Nigerians should not dismiss the claim of responsibility by the Fulani or their threats of further attacks lightly. According to him, FUNAM may just be the face of a larger Fulani organisation with sinister plans.

“To start with, Governor Ortom said those who attacked him were herdsmen, dressed in black, while Miyetti Allah has come out to deny any involvement in the attack. Then this Fulani group came out to say its operatives were responsible. For me, until security agencies conclude their investigation and come out with a different conclusion, I take it that FUNAM was behind the attack.

“A major problem Nigeria has is that we are quick to dismiss things even before we dig into them. What if the group is real and they actually carried out the attack on Ortom and do have the capacity to make good their threat? We would have succeeded in looking the other way carelessly while they go about hitting their targets without resistance”, Ibe said.

On whether the ethnic-based group posed any threat to Nigeria, Ibe said they do and that Nigeria may just be heading for the rocks if issues of concern being raised were ignored.

“The Nigerian government and critical stakeholders and leaders must not ignore what is currently happening in the country. Doing so will be at the nation’s peril. Most times, government tend to look at these agitators as irritants it cannot be bordered with, but they have forgotten the possibility of propelling them from behind the scene. Many of these groups have their backers, people who are the main drivers of the ideas these groups are pushing.

“Events of the last couple of days have shown that clearly, first with a group of Yoruba elders saying they can no longer hold back Yoruba youths on self determination. Also just at the weekend, the Yoruba Sociocultural group, Afenifere was emphatic when they said Nigeria’s disintegration is inevitable if the government fails to agree to restructuring. So it would be foolhardy to treat the threats of disintegration with levity, except the government has accepted that everyone go his way,” he noted.

Another respondent, who wants to remain anonymous, blamed the Nigerian government and the nation’s security and intelligence agencies for the level the agitations and threats have gotten to in the country. According to him, the government and its security and intelligence agencies have given these people the opportunity to fester their ideas to the point that many Nigerians now reason in line with Biafra and Oduduwa Republic.

“To start with, Asari Dokubo came out to declare the establishment of a government within Nigeria and nothing has been done about it till now. The only response that has come from the government was that from Lai Mohammed, the Minister of Information and Culture. Even at that, he failed to accord the obvious breach the seriousness it deserves.

“What Asari did is obviously treasonable, and not a joke or publicity stunt as labelled by Lai Mohammed. Also, the declaration by Sunday Igboho is another sour point that has not been attended to. Both Igboho, who declared that the Yoruba are no longer part of Nigeria and Asari should be undergoing serious interrogation at the moment. It does not matter if they were merely bluffing, letting them roam around freely is dangerous, as the more they propagate their divisive ideas, the more ground it gains and the more chances of them becoming real.

“So, I will call on the government and its agencies saddled with intelligence and security to look more closely into the activities of the groups, including the Fulani Nationalist Movement. Failure to do so will obviously be catastrophic. We must nip the growing agitations in the bud and control the upsurge in ethnic based groups that may with time become ethnic militia groups”, he said.

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...are you okay?

Bedrooomsecret:
This reminds me of one time I was friends with someone I was really crushing on. As in, mad crush.
We will have misunderstanding and I will be the one to beg, he will offend me, I'll go back and plead with him. At some point, he told me he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore and I still looked for a way to talk to him.
Imagine a guy telling you to stop choking him and you wonder what you have done to deserve such treatment from someone you really like and can do anything to make him happy.
This continued for a while until one particular day, I sat down to really think deep about it and I asked myself if I really deserve this treatment i'm getting? I decided I had taken enough.
I deleted his number, blocked him on social media platforms.
He was shocked!
The same person that said I was choking and disturbing started calling but it was way too late as my mind had been up and I had moved on.
In Conclusion, Dont Stay in a place where you are being used, Yes! Some people are human users.
If the person isn't willing to put in the same effort as you are, let them go. Better people will come your way.

Have you been in such relationship before? Share your story

Thumb up. Apply my rule 6. It will work more for you.

ozodigboo:
I recently met a 21 year old girl. We like each other but I know she has a guy, so I wasn't keen on interrupting them.
When the girl kept on showing interest, I asked about the guy.
She admitted that they're close, they do have sex, but they're not dating.
I'm confused.
Did she say that to encourage me? Is she lying? How can you be close to a guy, you like him, you sleep with him, but cannot date him

... tell her to give you the same energy she give the other guy.

Check my rule 2.

Mivici:
I have a girlfriend in school now presently, she claim to be in love with me but told me she has a guy at home who she is in love with, and she thinks he is more serious compare to me when it comes to who want to settle down with her. To cut The long story short, I called her, told her everything, I can't stand a chance seeing her given another man attention, I want her happiness so I want to leave the relationship, she don't want me to go and also can't choose between we both.
Should I continue fighting for love or run away?


Please!

Apply my rule 6 or rule 1

TheGidRedpiller:
So she's over at your place, you try to touch her and she's like "No, i don't want to have sex" Or "I'm not in the mood", bro you are a complete fool if you act all nice and maybe even say "I respect your choices" You are a full blown SIMP!
DON'T BUY THAT SHIIT! You deserve that pvvcy!

She is not on her period and she is not stressed out because of work or other work related things! The fact that she's in your house without the above barriers simply shows she is capable of having sex or maybe even h0rny in the first place!
If she is denying you sex at this point, it is simply because she wants to manipulate you into something that would only favour her(makavelism)

So instead of falling for this nonsense,pick up your phone and call another girl(you can also fake this) right in front of her and tell her to leave because another chick is coming to replace her! If she is sensible enough she would give you what you want or just leave(this way you have gotten rid of the time wasting b1tch)

TRP IS GOLDEN!!!

Some people never found time to be happy because they are too busy trying to be strong.

When you get to Yaba left ask, is not that far from there

Check my rule 2.