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Landcheck:
You forgot to add Azadus

Yea, Azadus. And Lagbaja too. But Where is Azadus. Really miss his songs.

RIP to Mad Melon. My favorite track in the danfo driver album is 'Iya Mi ohh'

Is she from Èkìtì State?

If the roads are good enough, moderate tolling will not lead to hardship

Nukilia:
Its another avenue to inflict hardship on the citizens of this country

Simply mix the oil with Vaseline. Apply on your dick daily. Also you can apply it anytime you want to have sex

ItzSpartacuz:
How is it used?

Disgusting

With the implementation of the new minimum wage, Hike in fuel price is imminent. Let's get battle ready

Though tolling will lead to increase in transport fares, it is worth it so far that road is fixed.

Forget about those craps bruh. Nothing works wonders for p***s enlargement than Vaseline mixed with castor oil or goya oil. Try it out and thank me later

What of 6 Stages of marriage every couple experiences? Can you research into that too, please?

BTW, what media do this guy use to pass his information without the DSS having clues to track him down?

Hmmm I don check am. I like what I saw

auntysimbiat:
lol... come n check.. #nopant #nopantday

I suspect the op 's parents are the cause of the problem. No man out of mere ego, will reject goodwill such as food items from their in laws if they there is cordial relationship between the two parties.
The op' s parents, being rich and their daughter, a working class, might have in the past made comments that brutalized the husband's ego. This is probably why the husband is bitter and transferring the aggression to their daughter.

To single guys reading this, before marrying a working class woman from a rich family, ensure that you study her parents and families very well to ascertain if they are not arrogant and troublesome. Families like that usually have more power, influence and will always cause undue interference on the relationship, especially when you are from a lower class background.

It is often ok for a woman to marry up than for a man to marry up. That is to say it not that ok for a lower class man to marry a woman from a rich or upper class background. A lower class woman can marry into a rich family and be fine with it. But a man who does this will have his ego brutalized from time to time.

Take it or leave it, marriage is all about power and class game. Forget about lovey dovey things.

To the op, you are a working class lady, probably you are pretty too. This is why you mentioned that you are already being attracted by someone else outside when the marriage is just two years please do your calculations very well. You may decide that you are leaving your current marriage but ensure you balance the power relationships with the next man you will find yourself wiith. Otherwise, few years to this time, you may still come back here with a different moniker seeking advice

How can the most beautiful girl in Nigeria be based in the United States. Abeg make dem change her title to most beautiful girl in the USA joor

Celebrityblog:
https://www.instagram.com/p/B3iV0jwpTeg/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

http://www..com/2019/10/Videos-Bikini-Photos-nyekachi-douglas-MBGN.html?m=1

Very useful article. Please how many weeks did it take your episiotomy cut to heal up after delivery? And how many weeks after did you resume having sex with your husband?

beeijeoma:
Today I will look at lochia, episiotomy and episiotomy care

Lochia is simply after birth discharge that is experienced by women after giving birth. It is made up of blood and mucus and tissue . The discharge can last for up to 6 weeks and usually starts out as very deep red and lightens in color as the days go by. It is important for a new mom to take things easy after delivery as too much stress can increase the quantity of lochia experienced.
As a ftm the things you need to deal with this discharge are
1.Disposable pad eg Lady Sept and always . Lady sept is just like thick cotton wool with a net holding it together . It has no wings like always so there is a tendency for underwear to get stained so its advisable to buy always too.What I did was layer my undies first with always before I now put Lady Sept . It saved me the stress of washing stained undies
2. Disposable underwear (optional)
3. Undies that have a good or tight grip to be able to hold the pad in place
It is advisable to wash yourself with water every time you change your pad and the pad should be changed as often as possible to avoid bad smells and infection.

Episiotomy
If a woman has never had a baby the birth canal is usually very tight and sometimes when delivering a baby for the first time the canal may be so tight that it does not allow the baby come out easily. If the baby is left to force his or her way out it could result in terrible tears that may not be easy to repair and could also cause excessive bleeding . What medical personnel do is give you an episiotomy which is basically a cut and this cut is done at the peak of a contraction . My first child had a very big head and I was given a double episiotomy that is cut in 2 places. I didn't feel the first one but I felt the second cut and it was really painful. Once the episiotomy is given the baby slides easily out of the birth canal. Once the baby and placenta have been delivered the next step is to stitch the episiotomy. I was given anesthesia before my stitch was done and I feel every mom should ask for it. I cant imagine being stitched without them numbing the place first.
For episiotomy care you need
Sitz bowl or a big bowl you can sit in comfortably
Salt
Disinfectant ie Dettol
You fill your sitz bowl or regular bowl with warm not HOT water , put in the salt and Dettol and sit in the water for about 10 mins . It is good to do it twice a day both morning and evening. I did this for about a month when I had my first and would do it after I had my morning and evening bath
The episiotomy site gets a bit swollen and can be quite painful . I used to seat on a hard surface stool and it helped the swelling go down a bit, but the pain was a bit much and I was walking funny for about a week after having my son

Plaese do not use hot water for sitz bath it can damage your stitches and you may have to go back for re stitching. It is also advisable to have someone check your stitches before you are discharged from the hospital . My double episiotomy was not properly stitched and i almost cried anytime i looked at my vjay are in the mirror it was a mess and intercourse with my hubby was slightly painful. It improved but i knew something wasn't right, It was when i had a tear with my 2nd baby that they were able to stitch me properly and put everything right again and i was back to normal

I swear that Rant HQ admin lady would not approve the post unless she has a bias for the topic

SenecaTheYonger:
Wish I someone could post what OP says to Rant HQ on facebook. I'd pay you good money for it.

I think all of the above are based on speculations and conjectures. Even the theory of evolution of human is not all accurate.

To learn more about the origin of the world and the evolution of human, go to YouTube and search for 'History of the Earth'
Watch the video and come back here to submit your opinion

Beatswim:
There are many difficulties that arise with this statement since Genesis only records two children of Adam and Eve to this point-Cain and Abel. The issues to be considered are these:

1)If all humanity descended from Adam and Eve, then where did his wife come from?

2)In addition, where did all the people come from that are mentioned in the account?

3)If Cain married a relative, then doesn't this indicate incest?

4)If Cain married his sister, then wouldn't we expect any offspring to suffer degenerative effects?

Pre-Adamic Humanity

Some have attempted to say that Cain's wife came from a race of Pre-Adamic humans who were around before Adam and Eve. The idea of Cain marrying someone from this race creates more problems than it solves. The Scriptures are clear that Adam was the first man created (Genesis 2:7,18-19; 1 Corinthians 15:45). Furthermore, his wife Eve was given her name because she was the mother of all living (Genesis 3:20). These two facts rule out the idea of some Pre-Adamic race from which Cain chose a wife.

Other Children

Other Bible students have attempted to explain the existence of other humans apart from Cain and Abel by saying they were not necessarily the first two sons of Adam and Eve. They contend that other sons and daughters could have been born before Cain and Abel and that the Bible is merely singling out these two for emphasis. The Bible, however, knows nothing of any other children of Adam and Eve before Cain and Abel. Attempting to say that other children existed before Cain and Abel has no support in Scripture but it cannot be totally ruled out.

If all of humanity did descend from Adam and Eve and their first two sons were Cain and Abel then how do we explain the existence of Cain's wife?

Time Not Stated

First, we must understand that no information is given as to when Cain killed Abel. The Bible does not tell us how old Cain and Abel were when this murder took place. It merely says it occurred at the end of days. It is not necessary to assume that they were mere teenagers or young men. If each of them were over fifty years of age, then there could have been a considerable number of people living at the time. We know this because the Scripture does state that Adam and Eve had many more sons and daughters than Cain and Abel.

And he begot Seth, the days of Adam were eight hundred years; and he begot sons and daughters. So all the days that Adam lived were nine hundred and thirty years; and he died (Genesis 5:3,4).

The Bible says Adam was one hundred and thirty years old when Seth was born. He then lived another eight hundred years. God had promised Eve that he would greatly multiply her conception (Genesis 3:16). In fact Jewish tradition states that Adam had 33 sons and 23 daughters! Therefore many people could have existed at the time when Cain killed Abel. It has been conservatively estimated that 32,000 people could have been alive at that time this event occurred.

Long Life Spans

Furthermore, Genesis 5 records long life spans of the descendants of Adam. If we assume the couples gave birth to children for only half of their life span, then the population by the time of Adam's death could have been very large. Moreover, the genealogy in Genesis 5 records that every descendant of Adam down to Lamech had other sons and daughters. These other sons and daughters were born to men not older than one hundred and eighty-seven years.

With these facts in mind, there would be no problem finding a wife for Cain. Prior to his banishment, Cain could have had many women from whom to take a wife.

What About Incest?

It seems then that Cain, or one of his brothers, must have married a sister. If the entire human race came from an original pair then this was unavoidable. Does this not present us with the problem of incest? The answer is no. These early intermarriages between brothers and sisters does not violate the commands God later gave in the Book of Leviticus which condemned these relationships.

Sister Or Niece

Though Genesis condemns incest- relations between children and parents-it does not forbid a man from marrying his sister or niece. The Bible records other examples of intermarriage within families. Abraham, for example. married his half-sister Sarah (Genesis 20:12) while Moses' father Amram, married his father's sister, his aunt Jochabed (Exodus 6:20).

Changed With Law

It was when God gave the people the law of Moses that He established laws forbidding a man from marrying a sister or niece.

None of you shall approach anyone who is near of kin to him, to uncover his unclothedness: I am the Lord (Leviticus 18:6)

At that time God forbade marriage between the following: mother, father, sister, brother, half-brother, brother's wife, aunt, uncle, stepmother, granddaughter, daughter-in-law, and son-in law. Before that time, it was not forbidden (Leviticus 18:7-17).

God forbade intermarriage at the time of Moses to protect the increasing chance of a deformed offspring resulting from such a union. In addition, the future health of the nation Israel was insured by this commandment. Furthermore, the commandment against this type of practice strengthened the structure of the family unit.

Degenerative Effects

If this be the case, then what about the question of genetic damage? Today the risk of genetic damage is high among relatives who intermarry. However, in the beginning, there would not be the usual genetic defects arising from intermarriage among family members. Adam and Eve were created perfect with a perfect gene pool. The Bible says when God created everything it was very good (Genesis 1:31). The perfect world only began to degenerate with the entrance of sin. Cain and Abel would have few, if any, imperfect genes. Any defects that would occur from marriage within families would not begin to appear until later generations. Thus the danger of genetic damage by intermarrying between brothers and sisters was not an issue in those early days.

One final point to note, the command that God gave to Adam and Eve-to leave father and mother-assumes that you are not going to marry either one of them! Therefore the idea of marrying your child, or parent, was never found in Scripture.

Summary

As far as the account of Cain's finding a wife when no other people were mentioned except Adam, Eve, and Abel, we can make the following observations:

1.The problem of the identity of Cain's wife cannot be solved by arguing for some race of Pre-Adamic humans. The Scripture is clear that Adam was the first man and that Eve was the mother of all the living.

2.Some believe that the answer to the population problem is to say that there were older brothers and sisters of Cain and Abel. There is no biblical support for this view but it cannot be totally ruled out.

3.We are not told the age of Cain and Abel when the murder occurred. They could have advanced to a considerable age before Cain killed Abel. The limit the Bible puts on the age of Cain and Abel is 130 years.

4.Adam and Eve had many sons and daughters. We are not told specifically how many, but we are told that Adam lived 930 years. This raises the possibility of dozens of children from that couple alone. There were possibly as many as 32,000 people living at the time Cain killed Abel.

5.Genesis 5 tells us that some of Adam's descendants also had long life spans. Likewise, the Bible says that they gave birth to many sons and daughters.

6.There would not be an issue of incest-parents sexual relationships with their children. This would be a matter of siblings intermarrying-something that was not condemned in Scripture until the Law of Moses. Abraham is one biblical example of a person marrying his half-sister.

7.The Law of Moses condemned intermarriage between brothers and sister to protect the health of the nation as well as the family unit.

8.Because Adam and Eve were created perfect, their gene pool would not have been corrupted until after the Fall. Children of close relatives that married soon after the Fall would not be subject to the same degeneration that would occur in later generations.

9.Genesis 1 says we are to leave father and mother when we get married. That assumes you don't marry one of them!

It was the least I could do

Crazyemberr:
It sounds awfully dangerous. I think i'll pass
Thanks for the SELFLESS offer dear

No vex bruh. Go and arrest her for not being shy about her views on veejay care

tunary:
Why is she complaining that the thing is giving her problem? Don't you know that ladies are too shy to discuss sensitive issues like this

Make Nigeria no go wear that their bad omen dark green jersey ohh. Otherwise, Brazil go flog, flog, flog, flog them tire. Dem go flog flog flog dem go tire (in Success voice)

Come to pm. Let me show you what ikenga is

Crazyemberr:
Where you taught? The knowledge comes naturally.
Whats ikenga?

You can say that again

Katier00:
Wow. The female body is absolutely beautiful

You are 100% correct. My Gf confessed to me she touches herself whenever I am not around her and she is feeling Hot.

KingAzubuike:
Fact is girls masturbate more than men. Any lady that says she doesn't do such or says "ewww" is a pathetic liar. Have you ever wondered why many of them are usually less interested in sex? That's because they have other means of satisfying themselves. Their fingers, dìldos , vìbrators will do a better job and give them the satisfaction whenever konji comes knocking.

No be una dey parade vjay up and down?

Shalommy:
So now vagina come be joke?

Show us the context bruh

femi4:
self cleaning?....not in this context

How are you sure hers has not been washed for one year? Àbí na you dey manage am for her?

tunary:
It requires no effort to take care of itself. A va GI Na that has not been washed without soap and water for one year can you make use of it? Say what u are sure of

OK na. Don't worry. By your fruits, we shall soon know you

Crazyemberr:
nope. You guys keep guessing wrong.

Liposuction

How did you confirm it was staged. Bring forward your evidence

ednut1:
staged. No one wants her dead

Abi Ohh, bruh, the op thought we didn't go to school

daddyfreeman1:
I thought as much oooo... I learnt that in school, from our Biology teacher

Bruh, I dey suspect she's the deactivated Sandra8 in the skin of a new moniker. Na so so 'dear' she dey share us anyhow back then

Young03:
I'm not your dear

This is Romance section not Religion section for Goodness sake.

Let someone go and call Daddy Freeze to come and carry his brother comot from here