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emmaodet:
And point of correction ma -
You can Only DATE a rich man (that is the limit of your power in a relationship that God has given you has a woman) but the Rich man determines who he is going to Marry(at this point, a power transfer was done to give the man a leverage or edge to also determine his future without the woman having absolute control and power over relationship)
It would have been unfair to Man if the woman determines who she dates and also who she is marrying.
That means the other gender will always be going to relationship with no protection from his side.
And that is why mist rich guys hardly marry ladies from poor homes because these guys have more than required girls they need in their life time.
They see the beautiful, the busty, big ass, productive and working, classy, financially stable in-laws etc They have far more than enough to choose than settling down with a low budget poor downtown lady all in the name of I Love You scam words and being Deceptively Submissive.

Never Trust the Love and Submissiveness of a Broke Lady

What kind of pained write up is this?
I don't understand this annoyance men feel whenever women advice themselves to marry rich men. Would they advice their sisters to marry poor men or struggling men?

Men themselves are looking for working class women to marry but expect women to struggle with broke bums.

TheArchangel:
Lawd , I can't imagine sharing my husband with anyone . I'd leave since I can afford to but many women do not have that luxury.

I know a shuwa Arab damsel, a coworker of mine ( google their girls and testify) who told me how she felt when her husband married a second wife. She was traumatized because she thought they were so in love with each other. Her husband that promised her that she will be the only one went ahead to betray that promise by marrying another wife because of religion.
She had to travelled out of the country as the thought of her own husband being intimate with someone else made her sick, murderously jealous and she couldn't bear it. When she came back after being pressured to by family members, they were all expecting her to just accept it and play co-wife. She played it for a week and said fvck it.
Got a new apartment and move out with her three kids for two years now. She is educated and financially independent and was able to pull it off. He wanted them both in the same house, imagine the insensitivity of some men.
What really made her to leave for the sake of her sanity was her husband and his new wife's loud sexual displays inside their house, a duplex. She can hear and even see them most times. How disheartening
Now, he wants her back as I have seen him severally in our office but she made it clear that he can come and see his kids but having sex with her is never gonna happen. He can divorce her if he want.

Her story and many others changed my perception regarding polygamy for muslin women, not all of them accepts it. Heck even many prominent Muslim men in Nigeria aren't polygamist. Case in point, Buhari, Kyari, IBB, the Indimis and a host of others. Dangote isn't married talk more of having a harem. Even in the Middle East too, from Dubai, Lebanon, Turkey, Syria, Iraq to Egypt etc, monogamy reigns supreme in most of their elites households.
Why is it so since they can afford to take care of as many women as possible.? Are they backing out or is polygamy no longer a tasteful venture in the modern world.?

I like what your friend did to her husband.
Men. Especially Muslim men, can be extremely insensitive to the fact that women are human beings too when it comes to this issue of polygamy.
How can he expect her to stay in the same house watching them both having sex and being intimate right in front of by her? The only way a woman will accept that kind of foolishness is only if she absolutely hates the man and sees him as shit or something. She cannot have even the slightest amount of feelings for him and accept such insensitivity.
But they don't care. All they are interested in is more sex for themselves.


The video in op looks like a skit anyway, I don't think it actually happened

spartan117:
Of course not.

There is great power in submission. When a man knows that you respect and submit to him, he will love you and be willing to do anything for you. Learn from Queen Esther of the Bible, she was a virtuous woman.

@bold,

Very big lie.

Submissive behaviour in humans is more likely to trigger bullying instincts in others.
Majority of people only respect you if they know you have some kind of power over them.

Many women are submissive but their husbands still disrespect them and bully them.

I keep saying it that women should never fall for the cheap scam of "marry a broke man and build him, grow with him"

Its Absolute crap, men are very egotistical even when it makes no sense, you will see them being arrogant and full of themselves. Feeling like kings and superstars on top nothing. This egotistical behaviour is pronounced when they are dealing with women because religions and African society tells them that women are inferior to them.

Ladies, never marry a broke or stingy man, you dont live in western societies where marrying a broke man can still benefit you because while you bring money for running the house the man will cover the home front and will not boss you around. In Nigeria even when a man is broke he wants to be treated like a king, infact his feeling of entitlement increases and he starts demanding more respect.

Of course this isn't a general thing but majority of them are like that, marry a broke man and still carry 100% house chores on your head and have to deal with stress of pregnancy and raising children and increase your humility to him even while feeding him and providing for him because he is busy having ego issues. Ask him to assist with housework or attempt to make decisions at home that's when he will start claiming you are rude and disrespectful and you are insulting him because he is poor.

Better marry a rich man. Or comfortable man at least. One thing I like about men is that they are not afraid to demand their rights and even extra on top of what they deserve. Women are scared to demand what they are entitled to, the same bible and Quran that made men leaders and heads of families also mandated them to provide for their families but that part of the religions is hardly focused on or discussed because it deals with what benefits women

egopersonified:
Waiting for the wife's version. And I don't even care if it's all fake.

Abi oo
Even the children and the olosho mother's version of events

This covik one nine has made me so bored at home that I am now very interested in this season film of a story.

Seun, mynd44, lalasticlala,

This man needs advice, help him reach a wider audience from front page

I hope those people saying marriage benefits women more than men are reading this topic and the replies inside that tell their own horror stories.

He doesn't want to start donating palliatives with his stolen money abi?
Its ok.
At least it's better than the governors who enforce lockdown and still refuse to bring palliative

5. Breasts
Breasts of a virgin girl are always tense and hard. After being touched by a man, they normally become less firm and become larger than before. The more she is touched and undergoes sex the more it enlarges and the more it drops. Apart from knowing her virginity, you can also tell if a woman has given birth or not by looking at her breasts. If her nipples are straight or facing upwards, she has never given birth. But if her nipples are facing downwards, she has given birth.

So virgin girls don't need plastic surgery for breast enlargement? The more men touch their breast, the bigger the breast becomes?
Wawuuu
This is really groundbreaking discovery...

jeff1607:
something is about to happen, all I can say to you is stay where you are

I rebuke you and any evil plans you have in the name of god of indaboski.

jeff1607:
Are you really this bitter?

look at the topic and understand what is being discussed

Are you really this frustrated?
Look at my reply and understand what I am telling you

jeff1607:
when you choose an irresponsible man for a husband, bear your Cross and submit, you made the choice for a head and leader

Also bear your cross and love your wife even if she is the village ashawo
After all you chose her

adexpa:
Pastor Mrs, everybody quoting Bible to favour their side..... don't turn Bible for us oooo...Read Ephesians 21-25... Submission comes before love. Your genuine submission provoke his love. Men naturally comes with headship ego and women can suppress that with submission, I think that is why Bible suggest wife submission first.

But I think the best is for individual to know their roles and play them accordingly without waiting for one party first. Though, this will take a dedicated and disciplined man but it will go a long way to make peace.

This is the line men use when they want to avoid responsibility of showing good examples as leaders.

Fine the people who compiled the bible recorded submission first before love by husband but is there anywhere in the bible where God said men should not show love unless their wives show submission? Which kind of ridiculous new laws are you men creating?
Husbands are supposed to be leaders of the home so lead by example and perform your duties as instructed by God so that your family will learn from you abi is your leadership only for giving orders and barking commands at others?

By the way the bible also instructs husbands to provide for their families and calls men who fail to do so infidels but men will never focus on what is expected of them in the bible

What is 'pulp' champagne biko

So men still do that crap of starving themselves when they feel angry?
I thought its only our grandpapa for village that use to do that nonsense.

Lol

Immaturity of the highest order.

Emaprince:
lol...Go and produce the better husband na..

Its always easy to say on social media...but in real life, we have a lot of single moms and divorcees roaming the streets being played by jobless youths due to their desperation to hook a man.

Lol
No be only roaming the streets

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HiFreda:
Tell your 8 out of 10 boys to keep their dick in their pants. Until they learn to do that, we'll keep having bundles of irresponsible deadbeat fathers.

HiFreda:
Actually it should be If more men stopped sleeping around, we will have fewer single mothers in the society.

Lmao

I too like you

Don't mind these people that want to blame their irresponsible behavior on women

Nooil:
Their emotional side only comes when they find the girl attractive and appealing. Aside from this, they have beastly tendencies.

Yes, very true

Look at the man's ugly face.
Wants to claim daddy for a child he abandoned when she was a young child and in need of stable, loving family environment.

I hope his daughter rejects his stupid ass.

Karleb:
The woman is a whorrre.

What if she's a man? Are there not women like her taking care of their children without sleeping around.

So which job do you advice her to do now that everyone is forced to stay home?

Stop calling that old woman names, no one likes to degrade themselves its situation that causes it


@topic
I watched the more recent video on Instagram this afternoon, it seems some people like don jazzy have contributed to give her something.

ahmemmygrey:
chaiiiii


na hunger go make person theft naaaa

me and my gang sef don dey plan for our next mission


issoright

If you rob anybody they will catch you and burn you in the middle of the street with tire round your neck.
Foolish animal.
It's in cases like this seun is supposed to step in and track people posting on the site to their location but I don't even know if this outdated site can do that.

That is why I laugh at people who say when the poor have nothing to eat they will turn on the rich.
In Nigeria that can never happen, the poor will turn on the poor, they are too afraid to go after the elites that impoverished them.

Just look at the areas they rob, main land lagos where people who are just managing themselves live. They will never touch ikoyi or Lekki or banana island.

OP @crispels,

Don't listen to boys praising you telling you that you are very intelligent by starting this topic. The truth is that your topic favours males so they will praise you and tell you that you made sense.


All you did was blame women in your entire write up for foreigner lonliness.
Oh girls are snobs, girls are rude yenyeneyenyen.

As if Nigerian men are saints. You think Nigerian men don't do stupid things to Nigerian girls on diaspora to discourage them from dating Nigerian guys?
You think men are blameless or why did your write up not say anything about the negative things men do to women.


I don't blame you I blame that mods that is too fast to carry women bashing topics to front page making the thread starters to think they actually have sense.

danilmo:
haa. Sabotage happiness and success ke. even after repentance? trust me u too won't be happy in d long run. indirectly ure doing urself na coz u ll most likely suffer part of his unsuccessful life. Who does that.

better u divorce him for good than becoming his devil.

Hahaha
I won't suffer any thing because I love revenge and I am an expert in executing it.

I won't divorce him because I don't want my kids to be stigmatized for coming from a broken home

Plead:
Marriage isn’t an achievement.

Nigerian men stop carrying women matter on top your heads like gala! They’re not complaining about the loneliness (if they’re truly lonely).

They didn’t go to Canada because of marriage ,they went there for things more important to their own well-being and if marriage comes,it’s just a +.

Unfortunately the bolded can never happen.

Timileyin1234:
is it not part of stds. U put if condom bust and I said we can treat others with liquid dettol except hiv

Oh ok.

Timileyin1234:
But do u know this hiv we are talking about self, we can contact it through other means aside sex

Who was talking about hiv?

Timileyin1234:
Syphilis, genital warts and so on, liquid dettol will take care of them all except hiv and aids

Lol,
That's why I must destroy his life for cheating on me

Timileyin1234:
He is using condom na

Did you go round to confirm from all cheating men that they always use condoms? Condoms burst and condoms don't protect against every STD.
Herpes, crabs, genital warts, syphilis etc.

Timileyin1234:
Devil incarnate

Oh but the man exposing me to different STDs isn't a devil incarnate abi

I might not leave a cheating spouse but God know say I go frustrate him life.
I will sabotage any form of happiness or success in his life and pretend to be a loving wife so that he will not suspect me and he will not be able to protect himself from my revenge.