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TheRedpillguy:
Nah.you are greatly misteken, i dont really care what you take seriously. Am just calling u out on ur BS. You tried to sway women into faminazim and destroy families by pointing out irellavant chores that are already automated by(MEN) You are incabable of comprehending logic. You are going to see any thing that don't appeal to your feelings or narrative as nonsense.
Lol men are animalistic, sociopaths and evil wen they refuse to help a woman who don't need a man. A woman want a man to risk his life when she feels too oppressed to butter a bread. u think thy say women first cus y'all some fairy qeens?
For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Natural law. Let me tell you what is wrong with your ferminist narretive. You are going to work till you die and since your body was not built for stress, it will changed you phycologically and psychologically Unless u give up, or u manipulate a man u don't need to provide 4 u like the woman u are.
Tik tok. You have a biological clock coming, work is only going to faster it and men really don't care how much money you have. If you are old you are invnivible. Men can prospond marriage anytime they like.
Maybe marriage is not important, you will just have a kid. You will leave that kid to a stranger everyday to work and it will break ur hrt. Even if you are successful in getting
a man. Hehe he has to be lil bitch to take ur shit. you got rights! Chores are automated. You just want to shit on people and get away with it. Nope ur shit will not be tolerated, you are not going to get rescued, the militery and police that protects you are men. Know that. And yes we will marry that traditional woman and she is not going to do chores, we will care for her, protect her, fight for her, provide for for her, she can have a job and do what makes her happy and we will respect her. I don't respect you jezibel I spit on you.

Lmao, I didn't read through this foolishness, red pill guy one day I will have the time to answer you, for now keep deceiving yourself with your emotional diatribes.

1. Keep your filthy respect to yourself I dont need it

2. Read and learn history of religions and societies and find out why women were relegated to being home makers instead of helping to build civilizations by greedy selfish sociopath men that wanted control of everybody , stop writing and vomiting senseless crap abouf natural law everywhere,

3.You spit on your mother not me, stop spitting on your mom red pill guy.

TheRedpillguy:
Yep y'all refuse to do chores and their is a machine for every chore.
Y'all refuse to be respectful to people
Y'all can't survive in a shit storm
Y'all can't go to war
Y'all can't do the real jobs that matters
Honestly am not that bright so help me out here is there something am missing. How do u contribute to sociaty. In ancient times the mention of women alone was motivation enough for soilders to win a war. Now men are not even helping women who are attacked by wild animals. Below is an image of a woman being attacked by an elk, why men stood and watch. And about me wanting women. Lol nothing a woman can do for me that a machine can't do.

Those men in your picture are a typical example of how men are animalistic sociopaths, their evil nature has nothing to do with women.

I still can't take your drivel serious.

TheRedpillguy:
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Oh God this again. Lady you have the right to vote, education, job, equal pay, you have more rights than men.
Their are Dishwashers
Their are floor cleaning robots
Their is a thing called the laundry machine and laundry marts
Their is an all smiling willing lady called the Nanny
You can literally order plutonium from the internet, so getting a piece of cake is a piece of cake incase i ignore all those family restaurant I drive pass everyday
So stop it with that woman chores thing you have going. Their is no social construct, the reason why their is predator, pray its the reason why the human race is like the way it is, its still the same Law that dictates how everything works in the universe. You play with natural laws, their will be consequences. wait til you have a natural disaster and nobody helps you out cus u know? You don't need men. Hope all Feminists know war is coming. The extremist all over the world, they don't take a break, thy are breading like flies while feminist want men to be puppies. The only value women have is their reproductive capability, it is why they are protected cus nature on default makes it so but u guys don't like the things nature provides for you. Their is that artificial womb in development, once it is done. The only thing to worry about in a war is how to transfer the source code to a secure servers.

@bold, really?
Lwkmd, I can't take this drivel serious abeg

Omar09:
But leave men alone no. If we contribute subjugation and mayhem to you females, then stop accepting our proposals, stop being with us.

Someone pointed here that without women that nature will not continue. Yeah. Remove all the men in this equation called life, who fertilizes the egg you all carry. It goes both ways. Y'all are just misguided leeches. I'm not against y'all raising kids with morals, by all means do it, it's for the beneficial of mankind and not womankind.

Work on yourselves lots. You can't work or change anything without first accepting that thing for what it is. You can't work on or change men without first accepting men for whom they are.

Women are misguided leeches?
I no fit laugh abeg.

Nobody forces men to give women money or material things, nobody holds a gun to their heads before they give. You men should stop giving women anything if you dont want to. It's that simple. While you guys are at it, stop asking women out, stop contacting them for sex or any type of intimacy. Leave them alone as well.

I am very vocal on this forum about how damaging and oppressive traditional idea of marriage is to women and I always sound it that women dont need to be desperate to get married or tied to some man. Save the advice you gave me about leaving men alone. I don sabi am before.

Women are leeches my butt, as if your fellow men were not the ones who put laws in place to keep women economically inferior to you, as if your fellow men were not the ones who compiled ridiculous religious laws about how women need to submit and obey husband while the man provides. Unfortunately for you guys there is global economic meltdown and you have realised how important it is for women to be independent instead of waiting for men to provide like religions teach them.

Just few years ago there were popular slangs that made fun of ambitious women, one of them was PhD. Men would say women's PhD is different from men's PhD, women's PhD is Pikin, Husband and Degree from university ie the most important thing for them was to graduate and get married and have pikin instead of going for an actual PhD,
Another slang was, " Na kitchen everything go end" that one was usually said to an ambitious woman that wanted to pursue money making and business instead of getting married.
It's even recently women started getting bold enough to buy cars and live alone if they aren't married because in the recent past, any woman living large like that would scare off prospective suitors into thinking she would not make a good wife because she is wealthy.
The list goes on, society and religion taught women to depend on men and men liked it initially because it gave them power over women and married men could do anything they felt like to their wives and she would have no choice but to put up and shut up because she had no way of surviving without him.

Now Buhari's next level don dey show una pepper you have suddenly realised its important for women to make money like men

The boyfriend should have never shown the video to his friends or shared it with them, he is the genesis of the problem.
Guys like to brag among themselves when it comes to matter of sex and girlfriends So the chance of his keeping that video to himself was slim to none, I dunno why the girl agreed to film it in the first place.

Is this topic still running?

Many Nigerian boys are just confused children.

They dont want feminists, they want a woman who regards them as superior but at the same time they dont want to marry a jobless woman because they want a wife who is co provider. You want a woman who you can lord it over and at the same time she provides for you and feeds you.

Stupid users.

Just look at this thread where a woman said her mother was trying to help her choose a spouse who can provide, many idiotic males rushed in to start calling the lady a gold digger.
https://www.nairaland.com/5074399/mother-doesnt-want-me-marry#76582613

Any non feminists reading this thread should bear that in mind as they get married, you will be expected to play traditional role of submissive obedient wife and still feed your husband as co provider.

Just Think of all the Ls you are going to take

Your husband will charge home at the end of the day and demand you serve him food you bought part of with your money, in a house you both pay rent for and then put his feet up on a table you probably bought or contributed to buying. He dumps his butt on the chair you probably bought or contributed to buying and starts watching dstv/gotv you payed part of the subscription for and while you are in kitchen sweating and trying to put the food together, you are also watching over the kids that bear his name and technically belong to his family all the while he is relaxing and watching his favourite TV channel while you are putting his food together after you BOTH return from work.

What a worthless life of being used and taking losses left and right.

If I say many Nigerian men are selfish users they will call me man hater.

pocohantas:
You are more obsessed with them than they are with you, tbh. Do they even want to marry you?I bet the answer is NO.

Everyone should find his/her type.

The Naija girls that break your hearts and make guys whine online are not the supposed feminist. Deal with those ones first.

You won't marry feminist, you won't marry non-virgin, you won't marry single mother, you won't marry evening newspaper, you won't marry broke girls...you won't marry dumb girls. finally 90% of Naija girls are all of this. Last last na goat una go marry.

Leave them.

Tomorrow you will see different topics about how women are gold diggers and liabilities that want men to provide for them instead of doing co-breadwinner.
Is it not the same religion/society that taught women to be submissive that is also responsible for the gold digger mentality in many females? I dont know how a woman will see a man as superior (aka non feminist woman) and at the same time will be willing to hustle money to pay the guys bills or houserent or give him upkeep money etc

Anyway @topic, many non feminists exist in Nigeria, very many in fact. That see men as alpha omega superior beings that should give them cash and protect and provide for them. Just dont complain when the girls start expecting you to live up to your "superior" role and take care of them.

Ladycewhy:
sadly they don't want to fully implement the american way they are already practicing ,lol

Dont mind them

LilMissFavvy:
No adult would be so ignorant to say that undomesticated men are few, rather it is domesticated Nigerian men that are few. So I bet you are joking, and she got your joke and ignored you. Click on family section, you gonna see several threads that border on lazy men who cannot do chores/help out, even to cook their own breakfasts during emergency situations. Some who work from home, and others who are jobless, wife is bread winner, yet they don't help, because of the black man's foolish ego. The thread is titled ''how can I understand/satisfy my
husband?''.

The second thread is titled ''married men can you tolerate this? Married ladies are you all the same?''. Both threads are currently on the front page, and such threads keep littering the front page, go and read it, come back here and start another line of arguments and false claims........... but I'm done with you.

In addition to being criminally inclined many men are also blockheads that dont understand opposing points of view.

These topics you mentioned I have read every single one of them including the lazy dolt that called his wife to return back home to serve him breakfast and the woman has her own job and is a co provider. I know what's up.

In the building I live presently and have lived before, there are some useless men like that.
Even where I work there is this jobless man that comes to the betnaija shop sharing our building, to waste whatever money he borrowed or stole on betting and then goes home to beat her up out of ego and frustration. Everybody on the block knows the guy. In my former office my boss made the mistake of marrying a guy who has a diploma while she herself has masters, she had to divorce the him after the daily beating from the man was too much for her to bear. Why was he beating her up? Because of low self esteem and because he felt she is now too arrogant for him.

What these small boys on nairaland do is spend all day on American forums and American websites, all day, never leaving their houses, they learn American ways of life and then come to a Nigerian forum thinking things are the same in both countries. Clowns that dont know jack about real life but want to argue.

Ladycewhy:
very well said, the future is in the hands of the woman, its up to her to instil the traits and norm she wants to retain in hee offspring to break the circle of archaic thought processes that does not fit in with the present day. The future is female. Raise your sons better!

@ CHoccolaTE

Future has always been female, men just contribute mayhem and subjugation of females

Ladycewhy:
well said, they become vindictive and bitter when their ability to provide is taken away, before you know any small this "na because i nor get work" , even when they are supposed to use their heads and atleast help out since they are useless to their pockets.lol.

According to them women are the greatest evil ever known to the world o. Meanwhile 99% of the people that have soiled the name of this country are all men, even here in Nigeria ,from boko haram, to bandits, to rutialist to serial killers to cultists to yahoo, to pedeophiles even sodomising young boys, they now even have occupational rapists , lol

I really enjoyed your last paragraph

That's the thing I like reminding women of for them to realise male superiority is just absolute nonsense.

Look at that one telling me men fight wars to protect women as if they were not also protecting their own male interests on the process of fighting wars, as if the soldiers were not protecting their fellow men as well, as if the men themselves were not the cause of the wars.
Who else will fight wars that men started if not men themselves? Idiots
Go around causing trouble and mayhem then want to be patted on the back for doing barest minimum

Ladycewhy:
honestly, that was why i kept reiterating that it was my personal opinion, but these dickheads just have a way to be usual dolts they are known for ,very insufferable beings

I know, when they run out of sensible things to say they start writing irrational bullshit all in a bid to avoid agreeing with females because they want to protect online reputation of being rolemodel redpillers

Many men are so stupid

On a side note and unrelated to the topic, one thing that's making me laugh is how entitled the average man feels and they have the nerve to call women entitled
Can you believe some people think traditional roles were fair to women.

Traditionally the man had to provide for the wife even if the provision he is providing cannot satisfy her needs properly and in exchange for his shitty provisions the wife in return had to:

1. Submit to his authority whether she is happy or miserable aka strip away her freewill and freedom.
2. Cook two/three times every single day for household for all the decades they stay married.
3. Clean up after everyone on the house including mr shitty provider
4. Endure stress and sickness of pregnancy while keeping house in one piece
5. Cater for children for all the years it takes then to be able to look after themselves
6. All her children belong to the mans lineage and family and bear his name
7. Even in the past, married women had farms they worked on to grow crops for sale or for feeding family so they were always co providers, it didn't start with modern feminism.

Basically men have done one thing and one thing only in the family structure since the beginning of time which is to provide. Remove their ability to provide and see how useless many of them become.
Lousy useless group of people.
It wouldn't even be so bad if they didn't go around causing all sorts of violent mayhem and wars and criminality, they create majority of problems in the world and at the same time endlessly gripe and whine about how women are very evil and bad and entitled,.

I see that the dumbass redpill morons on this thread have succeeded in provoking op even though she started on a very civil and peaceful note.
OP kpele o
I dont know if you are new to nairaland but the average small boy on nairaland will spend hours and hours browsing foreign sites like reddit and then come to a Nigerian site thinking they can apply foreign ideologies in Nigeria that's why many of them will start wondering idiotic wonders like how are women still being oppressed,
Are women not given equal opportunities like men?
Are they not already empowered?
And all other crap they would have known about if they actually left their foriegn websites and went into Nigerian society to see how things work.

You have made very good points op, too bad some small boys are too dumb to comprehend.

vickydevoka:
She is very right

Thanks

Don't mind that guy deceiving himself

drizzypat:
hi can i ask a question?

do you have a man in your life?,i dont wonna seem rude but the way you outrightly bash the guys makes me wonder if everything is ok with you

Abeg shift, nairaland men always bash women and you people don't see anything wrong with it

Khaleell001:
This quote of yours shows how one sided you are in your analysis.

And using our prophet as a premise for your conclusion is just too shallow.
Moreover, you don't even know the reason why he rejected a second wife for his cousin Ali while he had Fatimah (peace be upon her ) as a wife?

Leave religion aside,and let's reason this on a biological and logical level ;polygyny(marrying more than one wife) not polygamy(marrying or having more than one partner: man or. woman) is a boon than a bane for women if it is practiced correctly which Islām calls for.

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First of all Muhammad mentioned the reason why he forbade Ali from marring a second wife which was because Ali marrying another wife will hurt Fatima and anything that hurts Fatima also hurts him, Muhammad. He gave a reason so he knew polygamy hurts women but went ahead to practise it and decree it.

Secondly the rest of your post is you vomiting what you were taught in madrasa about polygamy
The reality is that it only favours males, it's very bad for the emotional well being of the women involved, it's even written in the Quran that men will never be able to love their wives equally even if they tried so how do you expect the least loved wife to feel in that situation?

Theboss100:
Pls 4give him for calling u nematode

OK

LoudlyMouthed:
Eyaaah

What a very ridiculous and stupid picture.

I am trying not to believe the racist opinion of whites that black people are stupider but it gets harder every day

How can anyone be encouraging polygamy in a country as impoverished as Nigeria, where hope for a better future is non existent for the majority, country lacking basic infrastructure and amenities, people in parts of Nigeria still live without water and electricity and unemployment/underemployment is rife. Just because you want to have sex with variety of women you ignore the difficulties that come with polygamy and start advocating for it.

I believe op is a Muslim that's why he is talking of polygamy, it will interest you to know that your prophet Muhammad who introduced polygamy of four wives knew how painful and difficult polygamy is for women so he forbade his son in law from marrying another wife after marrying his daughter Fatima. If that doesn't show you how unfair and oppressive polygamy is to women then you're a moron_

healthserve:
Wished I care about your inconsequential existence


Bye, nematode

Lol

And he quoted me first to type trash

Bye don't let the door hit you on your way out

healthserve:
The energy, vile and destructive. You proved it right

Op stay away from this one and her counsel. Save your marriage by preserving it from bad energy.

yenyenyenyen

Cry baby

healthserve:
You're trying to turn the op against her marriage as you do on any thread females ask for help on marital issues. I think we need a bad energy containment for your destructive energy.


Deal with yourself and stop spreading venom

Sharrapp

I asked op to discuss with her husband I didn't ask her to leave him or turn against her marriage. You deal with your inability to comprehend first

healthserve:
What did we men do to you so badly. You've been this way since 2016 as your old posts suggests. You're deliberately sowing bad energy in this marriage. If you must give counsel in marital issues, it ought to be balanced not hateful my dear. Forgive men

I won't show grace and consideration to the group of people the are always seeking to subjugate women and inconvenience them with selfishness and over bloated ego.

Oga dont worry majority of nairaland women are nice as civil when writing about men, just skip my posts if you find them non edifying.

Thanks

Am not going to change though

healthserve:
Try to come up with edifying words

Which edifying words agan??
My post was filled with edifying words

SKYloafFISH:
men view things from a different perspective. They are only a one way thinker and only want to Lord everything on us

Honestly, especially Nigerian men. Evil, arrogant and selfish group of people.
Even if housework and bread winning is killing their wives it's not their concern, as long as his ego is massaged.

And look at the hypocrites on this thread asking madam to continue showing a self centered egoist love and pray for him.

Let a woman be the one acting so useless in her marriage this thread will be counting five pages of insults by now.

See another example of how women keep getting scammed with this marriage crap.

Men will never ever agree that they should be responsible for housework and childcare but ther selfish arrogant asses want women to be co-breadwinners and providers.


Op the lord is your strength. Ask yourself what he himself would do if you were the one sitting at home 24/7 not providing and not doing housework and then demanding that he should not employ house helps. Will he take it in patience and still show you love?
Or better still ask him.
Ask him if he enjoys seeing you get stressed and overworked because of his ego issues.

And the funny thing is that many men in marriages today are living like this because of the bad economy, they depend on their wives for financial support but will stubbornly refuse to help with house chores.

I knew before opening this thread that useless men would have come here to downplay the mans actions and blame the woman.

I wasnt wrong.

More and more useless men crawling out of their caves everyday.

No wahala o, men

Your wives will start hustling to feed you and pay houserent but prepare to enter kitchen to cook her favourite food and be ready to share authority with her.

Shikena

You can't eat your cake and have it.

Gbegirisoup:

Audio twinny nko?
I laugh in government house

You guys sef.....leave titans alone naaa

Please

Sweetpink:
I'm cutting onions....
This is so sweet.

Wow, are they dating?

I wonder how lalasticlala is related to tokswhatever in real life.

His idiotic topics always make front page courtesy of lalasticlala