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Men! FLEE from women who even talk about violence.
Many of y'all think you're invincible. You are not.

Please be careful.

The 66 million litres is a hoax that they've used to steal from the people for decades.

How do you marry someone without knowing anything about them??

Abi did you get her pregnant? (That's the main case that I won't feel sorry for you).

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Both follow.

It's only lollittaa I know that eats head.

The comb is completely new to me.

mariahAngel:
The comb abi the whole head?

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Tu parles français?

Ekakamba:

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Only 3 months left.

kaylardz:
Obi is not getting those figures except the one of south east.

Obi will likely get 70% in SE states, 60% in SS states, 30% in SW states, 40% in NC states.

I don't know enough about NW, NE to guess.

Never absolve a grown person. Arrested for what? Is sex illegal?

I think she went to him for fetish or prayers. This is part of his solution lol.

mariahAngel:
Looking at the setting, there's definitely more to the story than a pregnant woman cheating on her husband.
She must've been brainwashed.
That bleached bastârd ought to be arrested and interrogated ASAP.

You see bleached "pastor"? Fear them.

Candles on the floor. Is that for romance or fetish?

Then don't be gay. Which one concern you?

ShoeWorld2:
There's nothing normal about gay


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1. Is Nov 24 your birthday (Bday mates)?

2. Which dirty experience do you have?

3. Stop typing rubbish.

November24:
Form experience, immediately she boards that plane, it's over. Although your case may be different.
If she has no atom of cheating in her, no ish

You are mad.

Carry your insecurities and go and sleep.

To the men reading this nonsense, jump and pass. Nobody is praising you for suffering by yourself. Those who do so still get cheated on, used, abused, etc. What matters is WHO you pick. WHO you spend your life with.

Lol.

franchasng:
Only stingy, broke and struggling men abide by this 50/50 rule.



I have never envisaged nor wished to share financial responsibilities with my wife even when I was single, and I keep praying to God to never allow my situation get to that stage till I sign off from this earth.



Not all couple living abroad do this 50/50, to the best of my knowledge, none of my close friends are doing it with their wives.



Any man that allows such sharing formula in his marriage has laid foundation for failure.



I believe in the traiditional marriage style and the Bible way too. A husband's responsibility is to provide for his wife and kids and even take care of his aged parents plus the needy around and these are my daily guide in life even when I was still struggling with life.



In life, you get what you so much desire without doubt

How do these words make sense to you?

If the wife gets pregnant, it would be obvious that it's someone else's child na.

You think people just Bleep anyhow? Unless the wife does not have self respect (and most Nigerian women do, even ashawo work, they do for money), she no go do.

jeromestarks:
Did you marry her as a virgin?

Yes - you shouldn't be worried.

No - worry is what you're. The headache will almost kill because she will be excited to meet Whites and other rich Nigerians.
Your wife will fvck another man, get pregnant and bring the baby for you. You will think it's yours but it's not.

So tell me op, should you be worried?

Your friend may be worried about how he will survive, what work he will do, if he wil earn more.

Tell your friend to get his head out of the gutter and move. Doesn't he know that his wife is lonely. Especially if she's above 30, preek fit dey hard her to see. Work all day and come back to an empty house. Plus 2 incomes make everything better.

What your friend is doing is evil. At least let him visit for 1 month first.

realestate99:
This life Sha, while my friend here has been evading his wife's invitation to Canada 3 times in a row, said he does not love living outside Nigeria and has no clue on how to tell his wife...O.p don't overthink, your case will pan out well don't let those negative stories hold your innocent union to ransom.

There are also sensible people. OP will get all the opinions. The onus is on teamc to discern what will help him/them.

sihamey:
Op you shouldn’t have come to NairaLand to seek for advise on family matters there are lots of WOMAN HATER here they will scatter your marriage

It is okay to share and gain perspective.

As you can see, most commenters, including you, I, ednut1, are telling him that there's nothing to worry about (especially if they were okay pre-travel).

Worriedwife:
Continue having a private thought on a public forum. Untill nlders scatter ur marriage for u,, dats when u would rest

So did you apply as dependents or you withdrew your dependence application?

What is she studying (level)? Can she apply for PR next?

What of your baby?

teamc:
I'm the sponsor on the application and we applied has a family at 1st (wife studying /myself and our daughter are the dependent)
our immigration consultant call and advise that my wife should apply alone to increase the chances .
I love and I trust her just having a private thought of WHAT IF

A man with settled status will not marry a married lady with kids.

advanceDNA:
Na 50/50....
If it works out as u want...good...
If she change and follow another man with settled status then ghost you....no vex... humans can be unpredictable..understand say na survival mode she switch to...

Wateva happens, u go dey alright las las .but no overthink the matter right now...

If your relationship was okay or good, there is nothing to worry about.

Plan how to move her from student to PR. Congrats.

teamc:
Got married 2yrs ago and we have a beautiful daughter, she has this dream of studying in Canada and I support her dream.

Our immigration consultant recommend she apply alone to increase chances that i and our daughter can join her later.

Now visa is out and she will be travelling next month. I have read numerous stories about how women change when they travel out.

Should I be worried?

$40 cleaning fee?

How?

So one night will become how much?

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The perfect size for my partner.

Mecka:
whats your dick size?

$40k is too small unfortunately. That's 1 year income for most people.

$400k would be a different matter.

PoliteActivist:
Abroad people: will you relocate back home if given $40k?

Home guys: $40k to stay in Naija OR $1k to enter any country of your choice without papers. Pick one

Is it a paid girl or a girl you share mutual attraction with?

Sometimes, you just need to relax, spend time without thinking about s3x, and it will come.

From what I understand, with a new person, junior will stand at attention after a shy first day.

KeyEndurance:
Hello Everyone Please I Need Your Help. Whenever Am Alone My Dick will Stand Gallant like A Soldier but When Am With A girl To Have sex the Thing Will Start Sleeping. Please Is There Any Medicine That Can Solve This problem?

"Hey, thanks for reaching out. We broke up for a reason and I have moved on. I sincerely wish you the best".

Is Duoye Diri a terrorist?

It is never worth it to commit suicide. Never.

Yummmm yummy.

The colours are so bright, all the vitamins must be in this.

gloryhomemaker:
Hello Cooooooks, Frittata is served.

MariahAngel, do you mind the plantains?

Happy weekend everyone!

You're mad.

Instead of you go be looking for job, education or japa route, you're dragging your wife from one fake soothsayer to another, to insult and belittle her.

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

This seems calculated. How can people be so evil

You flog modern day boy with belt, ontop wetin?

You learn and you move on. At least this is your brother.

So, he will go out, work and do security then come back and do security again for you? Where is your key?

FeliciaOja:
I use all the vex inside me and push the door open.
My room was smelling strong disgusting smell of Indian hemp. I saw this yeye boy snoring with music playing on speaker
I flog him belt as he was sleeping and we argued as I scolded him.
This morning he refuse to talk to me and even reject the fried egg I made

so I've started thinking of sending him out of my house. The trauma I experience last night still vexing me.
Should I punish him by not giving him money for 1 week
or
Should I purse him from my house?