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Lool. This women will make mula!

Was there an issue of unrequited love? Did he like you but you didn't like him back?

lammylam:
We used to be very close friends.

Smart.
Believes in equality.
Funny.
Professional.
Sexually liberal.
Displays affection.

End time is near when the guy used the bible to justify his actions. Continue.

adewumiopeyemi:
Haha end time is getting near

STOP. READING. THE. BIBLE.

No, it is not.

nickvanilla:
True. But it's more painful for the man if the lady is older.

Loool.

Check out this long term study:

"Sexual satisfaction in women increases with age"

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/01/120103134907.htm#:~:text=A%20new%20study%20of%20sexually,age%2C%20despite%20low%20sexual%20desire.

kudinkarfe:
She should be worried. The older women become their sex desire reduces while a man sex desire increase with increase in age. Their is high tendency the Man will cheat not because he wants to but because she might not meet his demand in future.

Babes that are younger than their husbands still say this. And people of all ages and of both genders can indeed be immature and childish.

nickvanilla:
I understand the awkwardness in this sha, as I have had a similar experience. In my case, the babe was even 3 years older.

Truth is, many guys would not mind dating/marrying older girls if not that many ladies don't know how to control their toungues in the heat of an argument.

Imagine having a little fight with your babe and she goes like, "I never knew you could be this childish" "stop acting immature" etc. How would you as a guy feel.

Ladies have this nasty habit of using the weakness/disadvantage of their partners against them when things go south. And even if they don't do it intentionally, they will still hurt you because whenever they are angry with their partners, they always talk before they think.

So except the babe is constantly loyal, down to earth, sensible and respectful, there are going to be issues.

You sef you go far, let her look at Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, Rotimi Akeredolu and David Beckham.

MoodyQueen:
Lol. She's a myopic one.

There are lots of succesful couples out there with huge age difference; female being older.

Tell her to check up on Megan Markle, Brigitte Macron, Shakira, etc who cared not about age.

So if you marry a lady who is younger than you by say, 5 years, how strong will she be when she is 80 and you are 85??

You're not making any sense man.

NockMedia:
Age ain't nothing but a number, but when you grow old as a man, you will understand the advantage of marrying a younger woman.
When you become weak and frail and your wife is also weak and frail because she is older than you...how do you cope if you don't have money to hire a nanny or your kids are gone?

Focus on them.

Are you stupid? And if they lose it?

Nobody should agree to this nonsense.

Ezennwa:
hmm!

Anything that can curb this pandemic is a welcome development.

Some of the same people abusing her to get her to whip it out will call her a used woman because she has kids.

Trust no one. Do what comes right/naturally to you.

Many people look down on market and other working women.

They don't know that those are the biggest feminists. Those are the people who believe in equality by what they do and not just what they say.

LewsTherin:
My wife and I go shopping together. In the early days when we always had to go to the local market, is it wierd that we never got any negative reception from the market women? They tended to give my wife more respect and whenever I had to go alone, I was generally fetted over.

So I take exception to your comment that the market woman

The obsession with submission is ridiculous. I, for one, have no interest in a submissive wife.

chiddyok:
Dear woman, you will never be submissive enough for a man you earn more than. You will either resent his headship on empty pocket or he will resent you and make life hell for you. Even if you submit your salary on both knees he will wonder why you got paid on time if you aren’t sleeping with your boss. To avoid stories that touch, until the day men can carry pregnancy, please let them till the ground and be the head. If you want to go far, marry a man who wants to go further. If you want to earn millions, look for a man who wants to earn double. Don’t let them fool you, there’s nothing like a submissive husband.

I like to believe that most people, men and women, prefer equality to preferential treatment.

I'm not paying any bride price. It's so dehumanising, I can't begin to think of doing it.

SmileDance:
Am I the only one who thinks this bride price of a thing is slavery? Pay money in exchange for a human being?

I'm not going to pay bride price. It's ridiculous. I'm not buying Nama

What are these responsibilities?

Boredasf:
I see no logic in marriage tbh.
I already enjoy alot of benefits married men get;so a marriage contract is of no use to me.

I have always wondered how men cope with all the responsibilities marriage requires hence the reason I created the thread.

What is bullshit about not wanting to die young?

KevinDein:
She doesn't even have the honour and dignity to tell you why she's really leaving you. Came up with some bullshit story, basically punishing you for a crime you never committed.

Horrible person, shouldn't be missed.

It's a good and convincing excuse.

frozen70:
To her, the relationship was not a serious one and may not lead to any where

Let her go as she has decided to

What she gave you as excuse is to just give you an answer that has no question

Yes REALLY!!

djoe21:
Really?!

Don't be turned by slay princesses. Pursue meaningful relationships with mutual respect and love.

People have to know and accept what they want. This man is 35 years old, he's not a baby. Maybe he doesn't want to get married.

What I disagree with is trying to have a child and at the same time clearly saying that he doesn't want to be tied down. He's not being smart.

Guys who have no fear of women are not serious. They are human beings!

Marry your best friend!!

I already felt that people should have the freedom to live their lives how they wanted.

However, it was still a bit of a shock at first, especially PDA. Now I don't care and am very much pro LGBTQ+.

There actually should be good live education like this. Sex is an important part of life and all youth should learn.

Besides, when sex education is readily available or even pushed, it loses the "bad boy" factor and makes sex more boring.

This won't reduce sex but will make it safer.

Never has been.

illicit:
But what's happening in church these days

It's suppose to be safe

So what caused people to rape in the alleged biblical times?

Reference:
The sexuaalization of society on the web through uncensored pornography, lurid music and motion pictures from the so called celebrities, the breakdown of family structures and sou d moral upbringing through social stress and runaway poverty will continue fuelling this.

When we as a society feel it is only money that counts, human tragedies are bound to happen. When will the human being count in Nigeria.