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Lool.

Maybe some food money is in the house but MOST of the money is her own.

She just shared this BS story to keep the guy's 'ego' in check.

I second this motion.

Let us see individual men and women as... individuals.

missimelda01:
Nice piece but let's agree that some women just want sex too.

I wish there was a way to connect people with the kind of people they deserve.. I'm really tired of the complaints here and there, the unnecessary quotes and write ups against each genders.

Just be honest. You're not looking for virgins and don't consider it especially important.

1. Virginity is not especially special

2. Only have sex for you! Not because someone threatens or blackmails or begs you.

3. Move on from someone playing with your emotions.

Lool. If you're happy with someone who is intelligent, hardworking and a go-getter, go for her!

Your father will not live in your house, you will.

What's the age difference like? Is she working? Does she like/make money in the field she works in? Are there ways of advancing?

E.g: some SSCE holders join tailoring as apprentices and start making money that even public servants don't get in salary alone or salaries low level oil workers get.

The man wants to fvck his mom. You inconvenience your wife and yourself to remain a Mama's Boy?

Mtchew.

Lool. Done men have done worse for less.

Sirvingeo:
There is more to this story. The husband will never drive his wife away just because she asked if his family will stay with them permanently.

Those of us who learned differently from our Father will continue our coded movements.

Please all good diggers should continue to show themselves.

sexylassie2:
The answer is simple.

They are broke.

If they were rich they won't hestitate to tell bisi, nneka and Fatima that they have arrived.

I know how men from third world countries behave when they have money. The world must hear.

Lol.

Please be showing yourself so that some of us can continue to stay away.

Millenniumlady:
What else is your job than providing for her needs when dating if can provide for your girlfriend then you're of no use


It's better you deactivate your acct than posting trash on this forum i won't warn you again.

Guiness coming directly from Ireland.

Lumidee007:
This is purposely posted in the romance section because of the love I have for Goldberg

The smooth taste
Satisfaction



What's your favorite brand and how much do you miss it doing this luck down?

WhatsApp Web will show on her phone. She'll know you're tracking her.

emkz:
She is cheating albeit emotionally which is a precursor to physical cheating.

You cannot act based on the scanty information you currently have. Take her phone, dowload whatsapp web on your computer, scan her phone on it and monitor her chats in real time or back up her chats in dropbox every 30 seconds. Alternatively, pretend you are not suspecting her and live normally with her until the day she would be off her guard (like forgetting to delete the chat or introducing new unconventional sexual positions like reverse cowboy, reverse doggy, reverse well digger, head-over-heels, ladder, squat-and-kiss-while-bonking, etc).

Before a man can discuss phallus matters with a woman including that of her husband, he must have become too comfortable with her, either having been intimate with her or he has bonked her.

If you are suspecting she's cheating, she probably already is. Goodluck.

Yo self you know that she and the guy will see if and when he visits Nigeria, especially if you guys are in Lagos/Abuja.

Accept and move on. If you're jealous, tell her but don't be shocked if she makes a strategic move.

There is no god.

OrestesDante:
Church gatherings have been banned, clearly most of our prayers and songs are yeye(nonsense). The so called churches are full of hypocrites, thieves, murders including many pastors I know all that.

But why hasn't God done anything about Covid-19?
Reasonable opinion please
Lalasticlala mynd44 Seun

Are you stupid?

In the same Nigeria where 90+% of women have been raped, fondled and suffered attempted sexual assault

Liliantalks:
are we gonna ignore the fact most gay peeps r rapist! Many of these gays started as a kid when their gay uncle open their asses .especially here in Nigeria . Are u gonna ignore that part , that gay male prisoners rape their fellow inmate? Unlike femal prisons? Gayism is the highest form of immorality.

Yay.

Everyone mind their business.

HammedOlanaija:
What are your perspectives about Lesbianism and Gayness(Homosexuality)?Yay Or Nay
Do you think it's normal if every country normalize the act or should I say legalize it?
BoBrisky,James Brown,Lil nas,Brittany Ashley and others
Give reason why you chose your answer

Don't mind him. She has not yet poisoned his food??

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

Just tell her that both of you love her so much. Don't try to force her to change your mind.

At least she's being honest with you.

Beggars can't be choosers.

One of the richest 20-something guys I know is a tailor. I mean rich as in multimillionaire.

He came from a rich family o.

ProfDview1:
There is this lady I like so much, even my friends know that I like her so much and will love to spend the rest of my life with her.

One day, I saw her with my friend and I later asked her why she is so close to my friend. She said they are dating each other, that she cannot marry me simply because I am tailor.

My friend is a yahoo boy, he doesn't have any work. The only way he eats is via internet scam. To be honest I was so pained, moreover she is not the only lady to have done this to me. Have met several ladies that told me that they can't marry a tailor and they end up dating yahoo Boys for my street.

They always tell me to leave my tailoring job and go hustle like my frnds to make cool money.

Guys, I am tired.. Should I leave the tailoring job and join my friends to do the yahoo stuff?

Girls keep rejecting me up and down and I am fed up.

Pls advise me

Your 'fiancé' cheats on you severally including with her 'bestie' and you're still speaking grammar. Lack of self-respect.

Send a concise text to her and her mom and cut off all contact. Block their numbers.

Deathisfree:
My Fiancé mother swear for me after I kicked her daughter out of my life.

Hello guys,I will try to be brief as possible.i’m confused
I have been dating this girl for over a year and the intention of marrying her was all on my mind
I was 100% faithful and honest with her,I was a play boy but I changed my ways because of her .im 28 and not an infant anymore

I caught her about cheating ,almost 3 times (clearing chats ,fixing date with a guy ,never transparent with me and mostly lying)...she begged and I forgave her simple because I don’t really take all that as a serious offend.

This faithful evening I saw her chat with her bestie(guy)which I have always warned her to breach the relationship between em.”Before I found this,she sweared with her life that ,they are just co workers and nothing more.imagine she even introduced the guy to me on her birthday “I always suspected but you know women na. She cries and showed me proofs that she can’t date a married man cox the guy (about my age)is married and they’ve been close before I met her.

I saw her chat with this same guy about the last sex they had in the shower,the sex was about 6weeks ago before the lockdown,she didn’t deny it. She started crying and begging,I broke up with her in that moment
She cried,cried and cried,I love her so much but I can’t stand a cheating wife,no matter what,she won’t change her ways. Fast forward to this morning.her mother called me on the phone that she wants to see me.
I respected her old age and went. She begged too and I told her ,I love your daughter so much but she knows my rules ,I can’t stand a cheating spouse and “no forgiveness for that”I kept telling her this every time she bleeped up and before now.then her mother was ranting and blabbing,i never saw that part of her mom before .i really love the babe but I have to take this decision myself despite that it hurt me

Please Naira L. I don’t think I can go back to that relationship,I am moving on already. but your comment might make me rethink. I need someone with a sounds reasoning to advice me

Of course.

steveneche:
Just wondering if this is still possible in this generation?

How can you tell a girl you need a gf the FIRST time you talk to her

Na wa o.

Depends on the man.

I never did because the women in question were/are amazing, smart and beautiful and I liked them back.

Only if the guy doesn't like you will he throw it in your face, same with women.

Bola146:
Naija men will definitely use it against you in future or whenever there is a misunderstanding

Lol. We full ground.

xendra:
where are the guys

Umm, they do.

I've been asked out starting from secondary school.

chukwuka123456:
Please I want to know, this is directed to all the Nigerian ladies out there - why must you wait for a guy to approach you first? Why not make the first move?

2. One can defeat fornication, be disappointed by her husband (poor performance, vaginismus, husband cheating) and seek things elsewhere.

4. Does not exist.

5. Just hope this is not sexual naivety.

6. Lol

7. What?

8. If you're shit, she won't be content. When she compares your performance to her novels, she won't be content. When she compares your performance with porn, she won't be content. The idea that virgins are these calm timid girls who don't have any idea yet about sex is so false.

lavylilly:
ADVANTAGES OF MARRYING A VIRGIN WOMAN.

1- No STDs

2- Higher chances of faithfulness. One that has defeated fornication, can defeat adultery.

3- You are sure your firstborn is yours. 30% of firstborns in Nigeria belong to other men. Paternity fraud is common with nonvirgins.

4- Unique spiritual bond. There is a unique bond when a husband has sex with his virgin bride, especially if the man is also a virgin. Honeymoon of two virgins(virgin bride + virgin groom) is awesome.

5- A great role model for your kids. Having lived a life of sexual purity, she is in the best position to guide your kids in the right way.

6- Brand-new has a special kind of feeling.

7- You don't want to hear another man launching a single 'I hit her first'.

8- She won't compare you with others. Her only sexual experience is the only one she is having with her husband. Therefore she is contented. Those who are not virgins will compare you with 100 of their exes.

A clean vj doesn't smell bad, it's unique and somewhat nice but with vagisil there is literally NO scent AT ALL.

It's strange the first time you encounter a ZERO scent vj.

Eulalia:
This is chemical na... Why use such for the hooha.
You guys just ignore that secondary school boy who has only slept with his dirty secondary school mates who can't take care of their bodies.


The VG does not stink. In fact, it has a nice natural smell that is inviting but because girls sleep around with different men contracting various infections and disease that attack and kill the flora (healthy bacteria) that cleanses the vagina, that is why their VJ begins to smell. And those are the kind of girls op is unfortunate to meet hence hes wrong perception of the VJ.

Another likely causes of smelly VJ is wearing nylon pants and keeping pubic hair which I believe every girl should have known by now is not hygienic. But apart from those causes I mentioned above, the VJ has a very lovely fresh smell And doesn't require any scents down there.

My grandma always says: "Don't spend money on my burial. Call me now before I die".

zionmde:
Sharrap
u think someone who raised u up, suffered for u, made sacrifices for u to be successful will die and u wrap him around a mat and dump him in a shallow grave just like dat, u must be crazy den

We pay our dead a befitting final respect, because dats all we can do for him at d moment.
u can keep dumping urselves into d ground using a mat

Expensive burials is not civilization.

fulaniHERDSman:
If Southerners didn't embrace civilization. We would have been like the Brutish Herdsmen lost and stuck in 13th Century normadic way of life.

Use Vagisil.

It removes all smells

OP contends that sex must be reserved for marriage. That thinking causes people to marry early just to soothe the natural itch to have sex.

However, marriage has a number of cultural and legal ramifications which can sometimes be limiting and difficult to get out of.

By your question, you are equating all relationships with marriages.

GreatAchiever1:
Its good to know more about marriage before putting head into it maybe by going for premarital counselling nd stuff like that, and also be ready for it.

And also if u say is dat its because of sex people are getting married, wouldnt u also say dat is because of dat sex pple are going into fake relationship and dating each other.