Sucre6: Yes I will gladly wife her because she's trainable and ready to learn, she's ready to adjust and be better, there is no perfect human being on earth, if u looking at human flaws, u may end up dying alone without having a wife and kids
Come back when she has responded to your training. You have already made up your mind to wife her as it seems, it's wrong for you to come here and codedly call her out.
Goodvibes8: My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.
She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.
I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.
Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.
When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.
In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.
I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.
I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.
I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?
This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.
I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.
Bobo please leave that runs girl banker with the old man. That's how they go about tarnishing other good banker girls'image. Relax and sip your alcohol, you will get who deserves you. You are a good man, for not cheating on her thunder will fire her kpekus
Pasima: Good morning everyone, please I need your suggestion on this situation.
I have a female friend who always shares things with me. She tells me everything about her and I also told her mine. She is in a relationship about to enter marriage but she is not certain she will marry the guy because he is in the force.
But I am falling in love with her, she comes to my house we watch film together and eat together. We snap pics together, she even sat on my laps to snap pics. I felt like telling her that I love her and I want her as my girlfriend but I am scared she might get angry with me then on second thought I was thinking maybe she was waiting for me to say the word.
SultanOfPuna: I beat up one small boy that came to toast my junior sister. We caught them kissing. Me and my guy purse the boy catch am, make the boy pick pin, begin dey interrogate am. We seized his phone and 4.7k that was with him. What shocked when we found 5 tablets of trama*** in his back pocket.
I gave him back the phone and took the 4k and trams tablet Now i dey joint with my guy, 2k already spent I have taken 2 bootles of hero already. So i just remember the tram and i was wondering should i take it or is it dangerous to take it with beer?
hmm..the boy will revenge on your sister using the same Tramadol. go beg am oh.
farem: Jennifer, one of the wives of former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, explains why she is divorcing her husband and the controversies that have characterized the process in a statement.
WHY I DIVORCED ATIKU by Jennifer Atiku
Jennifer Abubakar, the wife of former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, has issued an exclusive statement to on the divorce saga with her husband, Atiku Abubakar. Lengthy but worth the read.
NaijaRoyalty: A micro loan company has been accused of declaring defaulters dead, designing and circulating the obituaries of such persons to family and friends.
A customer, Azuwuike Chinedu Achiever recently shared his experience with the loan company on social media.
He said he had defaulted in his repayment plan for five days and the next thing he saw was his obituary.
On a public group on Facebook, another customer of a loan app, Victoria Eyo Ekpo revealed she was also a victim and vowed not to repay the loan.
She said, “This is what Deloan (app) sent to me oooo. I will never pay. They called my mum and insulted her. May God help us.” (sic).
Ekpo added that she borrowed the sum of N15,000.
When PUNCH Online spoke with one of the contact persons of Deloans, who the Truecaller app identified as ‘Scammer,’ he denied ever doing that.
The contact person, who simply identified himself as Somto “How can I do something like that? Am I not a human being?”
Pressed further, he said he doesn’t have the authority to speak on the matter and that our reporter would need to speak to his bosses before abruptly ending the call.
Further calls to his line went unanswered.
Meanwhile, the Executive Vice Chairman/Chief Executive Officer, Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission, Babatunde Irukera, has said that the regulators in the financial system are collaborating to address what is fast becoming a dominant and abusive practice targeting some of the most vulnerable in the society.
Irukera said, “In November (2021), the Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission hosted a meeting attended by the chief executive officer of the Independent Corrupt Practices Commission, and representatives of the National Information Technology Development Agency and the Central Bank of Nigeria; in leading an effort to address multiple potentially dubious conduct of certain money lenders, otherwise known as loan sharks.
“Continuing complaints about questionable repayment enforcement practices including public shaming and violations of privacy, arbitrary, unjust, unreasonable, or exploitative interest rates and or loan balances calculations, harassment, and failure of consumer feedback mechanisms among others have led to significant and understandable consumer aggravation and dissatisfaction.”
Noah9: Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.
My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.
Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.
Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.
Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.
I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.
I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?
I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.
Please Help Me.
If you promise to repent and maturely work out your couple issues which includes 'sex allowance', give me her number I will talk sense Into her in your behalf. But no just fall my hand afterwards.
[quote author=SweetHearted post=109162097][/quote]You get mind, you saw all those things and your prick still stand? All of you that hid your brain in your balls
Steep: If you have believed in Jesus christ as your saviour, you are urged to walk in the spirit, herein lies our victory over sin, Satan and the world.
However, how can a Christian walk in the spirit?
We are told to walk in the spirit. Gal 5 vv16
Put on the new man.Ephesians 4 vv24.
Put on the Lord Jesus. Rom 13vv14
as we see the day approaching. Hebrews 10vv25
We are not children of darkness 1 thessolonians 5vv5
Neither are we children of disobedience. Ephesians 2vv2.
The world is going wild in all manner of profanity and lewdness. There is increase in lawlessness, adultery, murder, hatred, witchcraft, God hating, pleasure seeking, partying (banqueting) or clubbing, pride, boasting of worldly achievements and of the flesh, disobedience to parents, incontinence, insatiable desires, love of money, fornication, kidnapping, all absurdities.
The flesh on the other hand is seeking things contrary to the spirit.
The devil, on one side is moving about like a roaring lion seeking for whom to devour.
If we must overcome the flesh then we must walk in the spirit, don't just be in the spirit which is a state of being in christ Jesus but we must actively live as children of God, different from the world.
Juliusmomoh: I don't even know the right section to post this..
I lost my uncle some days ago and we put him into the mortuary. Our plan to buried him by january...
What brought about thread is that the mortuary attendant called us to take our corpse on the ground that he fight with the other corpse there.
We went there early morning yesterday to comfirm ourselves. What our eye see mouth no fit talk... E shock us.
He fought other corpse there. He even hang some on the window Attendant don beat him tire, they will still wake up in the morning and see other corpse scatterd and only him enjoying the room.
We where told maybe he's a cultist or he's in some spritual stuff before he died..
They ask us to take him away but we don't want to bury him now due to some family issues. You know.
Please exprience nairalanders, what do you suggest to do now to him?
DeejaywonDJ1: There is this online loan company (Quickcheck) that I used to borrow money from around 2019 when my salary was not stable and I used to pay back in time. So around August my phone screen broken and started malfunctioning, so I wanted to order for the replacement on Jumia, since I have jumia account I wanted to deposit the money into the account to order for the screen replacement. I managed to login to the jumiapay account with the same phone since I can auto deposit into the account quickly because my debit card details is with them.
When I wanted to proceed with the transaction the phone immediately started to malfunction again and I off it because if I did it'll work for few minutes before it start to malfunction again. When I switched it on I saw an alert of 20k from quickcheck, immediately I sent a mail to them using my small phone and transfer the money back to the provided account. But they still go ahead to deduct the interest and the accrued late fees of 35 days because they have my debit card details.
So on the day of delivery I checked my balance and 7k is gone in my account and I decided to check what happened on jumiapay with the same phone, on clicking on the Quickcredit loan icon button same thing happened all over again unintentionally because I didn't get any message afterwards, so I paid for the delivery and fixed the screen immediately.
Then I decided to check my balance on uba app and see that I still have 12k excess which shouldn't be. I decided to check jumiapay to know what happened it was the same thing all over again, I sent the 12k to them with explanation like four times on different platforms. But they still go ahead to deduct the money from my account.
Our penchant for easy/free money will ruin us one day. There will soon be mass closure of all these credit/loan apps along with people's bank details, they have your card details and BVN what else?. It will be like a wildfire....
TayoAinaFilms: Why is Nobody Traveling to the Benin Republic is a video where I share my honest review about Lagos Nigeria's neighboring country in West Africa. I spent a week here and this is an honest breakdown of my experience.
We visit Cotonou ,Ouidah Python Temple, Casa Del Papa, Ganvier and a lot more. I also explore some of the best things to do if you are visiting the Benin Republic. Do like, watch and enjoy.
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