Animegirl: As a lady, I know all too well that many men out there believe some ridiculous shit about us ladies.
1. Women are more emotional and dramatic than men. Men have gotten the bad rap that we are overly emotional (nearly always blamed on hormones!) and can't lead under pressure. What’s ironic about this belief is that when a man slams the table with his hand or raises his voice, it’s somehow perceived as strong and powerful, not emotional. If a woman acted in the same manner, she would be perceived as “emotional” or “a piece of work.”
2.Women don’t support other women. While I don’t think catty behavior between women in the workplace is as prevalent as people often make it out to be, there may sometimes be a grain of truth to it. Because many of us work in male-dominated organizations, there are fewer slots for women to get ahead and competition is fierce.
3.Most men think we want to see their big gbola. No woman ever wants random d*ick picture. Many men are guity of this. It won't generate a reply at any given time, if it's sent inconsequentially. You will be blocked and reported because no woman wants to see unwanted penis pictures.
4. She Asked For It? With the current prevalent rape-culture in society, I've been hearing a lot of 'she asked for it'. What does that even mean? If I am wearing something that's not to your liking or if I go out to party with boys, I asked to get sexually molested or raped? That's the most disturbing misconception I've come across.
5.Not all of us are Gold-diggers or useless. Some of us, have serious big dreams and we don't want to be dependent on someone else’s success or bank balance to get what we want. We want to have our own career and success too. Funny, how men still get intimidated by independent successful women. Truly, I say unto you "men are confuse set of beings".
6. If you use your vagina too much, it’ll get “loose.” No penis, toy, hand, or even baby will stretch your vagina permanently. It might adjust to accommodate what’s coming in (or, in the case of childbirth, out), but it’ll bounce back.
7. Once a woman clock 30, she is evening newspaper, pls what is the meaning of this?
Nigeria men stop the misconceptions/assumptions about women, we are not the cause of your frustrations.
8. The reason why women close their eyes during sex is because they don't like to see a man enjoy himself.
Playloaded: According to the lady, her boyfriend had uttered the unimaginable while they were arguing which had left her in stunned disbelief.
A man has left his girlfriend in shock after he indirectly disclosed that he won't be settling down with her after three years of dating.
According to Chinenerem, the lady who shared the story, her boyfriend had uttered the unimaginable while they were arguing which had left her in stunned disbelief.
This is shocking to her because they have been for three years now only for him to hint that he doesn’t have any intention to marry her.
Mandem111: One of the popular political discussions in Nigeria at this time is the removal of David Umahi as the governor of Ebonyi State by a federal high court sitting in Abuja. Umahi and his deputy, Eric Igwe, were sacked by the court two weeks ago for defecting to the All Progressives Congress (APC) after winning the 2019 gubernatorial election under the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP). The court ruled that the votes cast in an election belong to political parties and not the candidates who participated in the election.This means that Umahi can't transfer the victory of the PDP in the 2019 gubernatorial election to the ruling party.
However, in my opinion, the court shouldn't sack elected officials because they joined another political party after an election.
The argument of the court that votes cast in an election belong to political parties is not strong enough to sack the governor and the lawmakers.The fact that political parties must present candidates to the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) for an election means that the votes cast in the election belong to the candidates.
I dont know why, but whenever i'm having sex, i'm always moaning loud. It is not as if i am doing it intentionally, but that is what my new guy dosn't understand.
Our neighbours now knows the number of times we have sex a day because of my moaning, and he dosn't like it, and even me myself, i'm begining to hate the way i moan during sex..
He said that if he must contineu with me, then i must learn to stop moaning loud during sex.. But the truth is that it has become part of me, as when ever i'm enjoying sex, i don't know when i starts to moan.. I dont even remmember to have moan when i'm done having sex.
Some people may think i do it intentionally, as that is what he keep sayin, but believe me if i tell you that i don't remember doing it.
Nairaland ladies, can it be control, how can i go about learning to control it?... The ealier the better for me.
murecool: Senators got $3000k each, Representatives $2000k They expected at least $10,000 each How Naira rain caused fight between Ondo, Ekiti Obas Reports have emerged that the recent visit of presidential aspirant, Bola Tinubu, to the National Assembly, left disappointment and sour taste in the mouths of some of the legislators.
Tinubu recently paid a ‘plea’ visit to the All Progress Congress, APC, lawmakers in support for his presidential bid.
Those who expected that the Asiwaju Tinubu’s presidential campaign would be an unrelenting distribution of raw cash along the way, may not be wrong after all. But don’t tell that to the members of the ruling APC caucus who received the former Lagos State Governor.
Two days ago, Wednesday March 16, 2022, the All Progressives Congress caucus in the House of Representatives received the former Governor but now they could be heard expressing disappointment that what they were given as “kolanut” for the meeting was disappointing.
Some members of the National Assembly who confirmed this to Quest Times said “most members expected at least $10,000 each, so there is some sense of disappointment that Reps got only $2,000 and Senators got only $3,000.”
A member who was disgusted by the whole thing said “the shameless way some of the NASS members especially Representatives were complaining that they expected more from Asiwaju is so bad, coming from elected representatives of the Nigerian people.”
Media reports had relayed that Tinubu visited the National Assembly to address the APC caucus in the Senate and House, and got a voice endorsement during the House of Representatives meeting.
The meeting with the Senators didn’t have such a ringing endorsement however, but some of the members may have been attracted to the meeting and joined the “voice endorsement” in the hope for at least $10k.
“But now, some of them are feeling short-changed, even though they collected their portions of the medium dollar rain.”
This is not the first time that a consultation meeting by Asiwaju and the attendant sharing of cash will leave behind it sour tales. It happened not too long ago when the former governor visited traditional rulers in Ekiti and Ondo states not too long ago. How Tinubu’s Naira rain tears apart Ondo Monarchs In Ondo State specifically, the cash left behind “a wide gulf between the minority Class A kings and the majority 130 Crowns in the Sunshine State, who belong to the B and C grades.” According to a journalist from the state; “the Presidential aspirant and former Governor of Lagos State famous for keeping cash in bullion vans, Tinubu brought sacks of Naira as homage to the royal fathers in their domains. His entourage’s first port of call was Ondo South Senatorial District, where they met the Obas at an Events Centre in Okitipupa. Below is the narration from the journalist: After exchanging pleasantries and declaring his intention to contest the 2023 Presidential Election, Tinubu’s aides were said to have rolled in millions of Naira notes stacked in Ghana-Must-Go bags, for the kings to share. N30m was allocated to each of the three senatorial political zones. Whereas things went according to plan under the supervision of HRM Olugbo in the South, what obtained in Central and North Senatorial Districts were outright row and chaos. A cold war indeed! In Akure, 18 Monarchs met Tinubu in the Palace of the Deji of Akure, but only 3 of them are Grade A while 15 are in B and C categories. Surprisingly, we learnt from insiders that only a meagre N5m was doled out to the 15 rulers to share while the chunk was kept by the few three senior monarchs. To worsen the situation, no information on the actual largesse was given to the second class Obas. Rage then set in and the N5m offered, by a popular politician in Ondo State, was reportedly dumped at the doorstep of the Paramount ruler of Akure land, the Deji. The protesting royals were said to have staged a walk out without collecting the money.
A similar ugly incident transpired in the North Senatorial District meeting held in Owo, where monarchs converged on the Palace of the new Olowo of Owo. The 7 Grade A Obas present were said to have outsmarted the 26 B and C kings, who were blocked from knowing what transpired between the August Visitor and the royals. At the end of the day, after Team Tinubu had left, a paltry sum of N5.7m was dished out by the Coordinating Grade A Oba Olowo, to the 26 representatives of the lower cadre royals. Having failed to disclose the total monetary gift from the Lagos frontline politician, anger got the best of the cheated Grade B and C Obas, who politely declined collecting their own ‘share’ of ‘Tinubu’s cake.’ Efforts were made to settle the matter equitably and fairly, in order to keep the issue off the public domain.
They expected 10,000 each, they are all scoundrels. What will Tinubu now spend when the main event starts? This is exactly how our present crop of leaders are.... Greedy!
Truthwords: An award winning journalist Lara Logan has revealed the truth that the western media has been hiding concerning Ukraine Russia Conflict. She exposed how the American government has been behind the whole facade all this while. Watch for yourself and wake up.
shazeal: OPPO is one of the top phones in the world but it's like they're still struggling to really fit in in Nigeria. It's better than all these transson phones but people will rather spend money to buy problem than a proper phone. Maybe it's because people don't know much about their devices sha.
True talk. I have been using various models of OPPO in the last 5 years without complaints.
I feel Davido and Chioma's issue is just a case of a cheating boyfriend and a babe who couldn't take the shame and pain. Now the cock is back home to roost.
Sucre6: Yes I will gladly wife her because she's trainable and ready to learn, she's ready to adjust and be better, there is no perfect human being on earth, if u looking at human flaws, u may end up dying alone without having a wife and kids
Come back when she has responded to your training. You have already made up your mind to wife her as it seems, it's wrong for you to come here and codedly call her out.
Goodvibes8: My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.
She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.
I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.
Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.
When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.
In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.
I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.
I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.
I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?
This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.
I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.
Bobo please leave that runs girl banker with the old man. That's how they go about tarnishing other good banker girls'image. Relax and sip your alcohol, you will get who deserves you. You are a good man, for not cheating on her thunder will fire her kpekus
Pasima: Good morning everyone, please I need your suggestion on this situation.
I have a female friend who always shares things with me. She tells me everything about her and I also told her mine. She is in a relationship about to enter marriage but she is not certain she will marry the guy because he is in the force.
But I am falling in love with her, she comes to my house we watch film together and eat together. We snap pics together, she even sat on my laps to snap pics. I felt like telling her that I love her and I want her as my girlfriend but I am scared she might get angry with me then on second thought I was thinking maybe she was waiting for me to say the word.
SultanOfPuna: I beat up one small boy that came to toast my junior sister. We caught them kissing. Me and my guy purse the boy catch am, make the boy pick pin, begin dey interrogate am. We seized his phone and 4.7k that was with him. What shocked when we found 5 tablets of trama*** in his back pocket.
I gave him back the phone and took the 4k and trams tablet Now i dey joint with my guy, 2k already spent I have taken 2 bootles of hero already. So i just remember the tram and i was wondering should i take it or is it dangerous to take it with beer?
hmm..the boy will revenge on your sister using the same Tramadol. go beg am oh.
farem: Jennifer, one of the wives of former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, explains why she is divorcing her husband and the controversies that have characterized the process in a statement.
WHY I DIVORCED ATIKU by Jennifer Atiku
Jennifer Abubakar, the wife of former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, has issued an exclusive statement to on the divorce saga with her husband, Atiku Abubakar. Lengthy but worth the read.
NaijaRoyalty: A micro loan company has been accused of declaring defaulters dead, designing and circulating the obituaries of such persons to family and friends.
A customer, Azuwuike Chinedu Achiever recently shared his experience with the loan company on social media.
He said he had defaulted in his repayment plan for five days and the next thing he saw was his obituary.
On a public group on Facebook, another customer of a loan app, Victoria Eyo Ekpo revealed she was also a victim and vowed not to repay the loan.
She said, “This is what Deloan (app) sent to me oooo. I will never pay. They called my mum and insulted her. May God help us.” (sic).
Ekpo added that she borrowed the sum of N15,000.
When PUNCH Online spoke with one of the contact persons of Deloans, who the Truecaller app identified as ‘Scammer,’ he denied ever doing that.
The contact person, who simply identified himself as Somto “How can I do something like that? Am I not a human being?”
Pressed further, he said he doesn’t have the authority to speak on the matter and that our reporter would need to speak to his bosses before abruptly ending the call.
Further calls to his line went unanswered.
Meanwhile, the Executive Vice Chairman/Chief Executive Officer, Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission, Babatunde Irukera, has said that the regulators in the financial system are collaborating to address what is fast becoming a dominant and abusive practice targeting some of the most vulnerable in the society.
Irukera said, “In November (2021), the Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission hosted a meeting attended by the chief executive officer of the Independent Corrupt Practices Commission, and representatives of the National Information Technology Development Agency and the Central Bank of Nigeria; in leading an effort to address multiple potentially dubious conduct of certain money lenders, otherwise known as loan sharks.
“Continuing complaints about questionable repayment enforcement practices including public shaming and violations of privacy, arbitrary, unjust, unreasonable, or exploitative interest rates and or loan balances calculations, harassment, and failure of consumer feedback mechanisms among others have led to significant and understandable consumer aggravation and dissatisfaction.”
Noah9: Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.
My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.
Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.
Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.
Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.
I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.
I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?
I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.
Please Help Me.
If you promise to repent and maturely work out your couple issues which includes 'sex allowance', give me her number I will talk sense Into her in your behalf. But no just fall my hand afterwards.
[quote author=SweetHearted post=109162097][/quote]You get mind, you saw all those things and your prick still stand? All of you that hid your brain in your balls
Romance › Re: Ridiculous Misconceptions And Assumptions About Women. by Countersam(m): 12:35pm On Mar 23, 2022
