Properties › 4 Bdm With Bq For Purchase. Reach Out!! by Countersam(op): 6:07pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
*Urgent Request* *Please I have a serious client that needs a four bedroom duplex with a bq at Ajah axis maybe in Orchid area for outright purchase. Budget is between #50millions and #60millions.
Please send pictures or videos of what you have immediately* |
Romance › Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Countersam(m): 7:41am On Aug 17, 2022 |
daylay7: I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters It was a one off thing but if you still see him again you will open..... Aunty zip up!
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Properties › For Rent: 3 Bedroom Flat by Countersam(op): 5:47pm On Aug 16, 2022 |
3 bedroom flat (all rooms with toilets) 1 parlour with 1 toilet I kitchen Interlocked compound Parking space No flooding of any kind! Very spacious!
Total - 900k Yearly - 750k
LOCATION: MOPOL ZONE, OKE IRA NLA, AJAH - LEKKI.
CLOSEST LANDMARK: SKYMALL OR JONAITH HOTEL, Sangotedo AJAH!
08054389119 |
Family › Re: Man Laments After His Little Son Refused To Allow Him ‘Enjoy’ his Wife (Video) by Countersam(m): 2:09pm On Aug 16, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Magu Failed To Remit N48billion Loot Including Seized Jets, Hotels— Salami Panel by Countersam(m): 2:07pm On Aug 16, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Man Dies In Lagos Hotel After Meeting His Online Lover by Countersam(m): 2:00pm On Aug 16, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: I Need Advice Pls(rape Case) by Countersam(m): 12:36pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
You enjoy and encourage it by always going back to him for reasons best known to you. So stop wailing. This is now a tolerated rape.
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Career › Re: Please Someone Should Help With The Quotation To Fence This Pice Of Land. by Countersam(m): 12:25pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Will you pay 899k? |
Politics › Re: FG Silent On Identities Of Nigeria Air Investors by Countersam(m): 12:24pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
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Webmasters › Re: Facebook Account For Sale by Countersam(m): 12:22pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Over a decade old Facebook account for sale. 08062512778 |
Romance › Re: She Has Gone Worst by Countersam(m): 12:06pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Profperfect: Dear Fam,
Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .
My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong .
The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now
Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision OP so you want Nairaland to help push your brain to jump start?..... NL oya push.... OP comot leg for brake....
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Politics › Re: PDP Crisis: Atiku Sends Adamawa Gov To Wike, Meeting Deadlocked by Countersam(m): 11:28am On Aug 12, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: States Owing Salaries As At July 31, 2022 by Countersam(m): 10:44am On Aug 12, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: I Mistakenly Bought Stolen Iphone 8 by Countersam(m): 9:59am On Aug 07, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: The second hand iphone 8 plus i ordered online came in today via God is Good logistics.
Long story short, dem run me street  The guy made a video showing him using the iphone and it was working very well. Once he sent me a photo of the reciept of waybill in God is good office where he went to send the phone to me. I sent him 70k plus 7500 for way bill.
Today the parcel arrived and when i opened it I turned it on It showed the Iphone is LOCKED i went to phone repair to unblock network Only for them to tell me it is a stolen iphone and the owner has permantely locked it. That nothing can be done
The guy has blocked me in telegram and he is not responding to my messages on whatsapp. I have been angry since Afternoon, i feel like crying. 77k just go like that.
Abeg how should i unlock a stolen iphone locked by the owner. I cant let this 70k go just like that Please HELP ME You no get sense. Sorry to say!
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Romance › Re: My Husband Likes Suckling My Breast, I'm Afraid Of Saggy Boobs by Countersam(m): 3:26pm On Aug 03, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: My Husband Likes Suckling My Breast, I'm Afraid Of Saggy Boobs by Countersam(m): 1:47pm On Aug 03, 2022 |
LilianGeorge: My hubby likes to suck on my breasts, he can be on my breasts suckling it for over 30mins, its not as if I don't like it cos it actually turns me on, but I'm scared, I'm scared that its going to make my boobs saggy, We have talked about this and he was like, he doesn't care if its saggy that afterall, he owns it. What do y'all think? Does your husbands name start with 'E'?
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Politics › Re: Photos Of Okezie Ikpeazu Before He Became Governor by Countersam(m): 11:20am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Kemistri4: These are pictures of Abia state governor Okezie Ikpeazu before he became governor  Oga ASEPA, no wonder he keeps thinking Abia state is a regular dustbin.
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Crime › Re: Insp. Richard Gele: Police Dismisses, De-kits Police Inspector In Viral Video by Countersam(m): 7:37pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
OscarJaden: 22 years into the Nigeria police and still on inspector..... I feel bad for him especially this period When things are hard
The salary structure of police should be revisited because if they are payed well He won't be caught collecting money on the highway More pay won't make they stop extortion. |
Science/Technology › Re: How Do I Get Rid Of Cockroaches In My House... by Countersam(m): 9:19pm On Jul 26, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: Almost everywhere in the room, kitchen and toilet.
Mind you, I'm not dirty, my room, kitchen and toilet are clean. I sweep my room.
Many times I have used goknight, cockroaches powder and others.
Yet, they'll go and come back after after a little while.
Pls whats the advice comrades Look for their entry and exit points and block them off.otherwise no amount of sniper will stop them |
Romance › Re: Help!! See what Buhari has caused. I'm Traumatized!! (graphic Pics) by Countersam(m): 5:01pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan: I just went to shit this night after coming back from 2 burials. I ate there and still carried extra food back. After demolishing the extra plates I decided to release some of it and next thing I know was a strong hand from above just came and pushed me away and I rolled outside with a crash.
I shouted and ran out before I turned and saw this criminal elephant stealing my shit.
The guy told me hohaa that he doesn't want any confrontation that he is just hungry so I should just calm down. This is what Buhari has caused in this country to the extent that even animals are feeling the heat.
Please who do I report this to because I'm not very comfortable about this and I feel he may return again another day. I'm traumatized. So your toilet doesn't have a roof and you expect to be safe? Better an elephant than a snake.
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Career › Re: 100k Job On The Mainland Vs 150k Job On Island. Please Help!!! by Countersam(m): 3:22pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Profmetoo: Good morning guys
So I currently work with one of the top commercial banks and I was posted to one of their branches on the mainland very close to my place of residence. So I incur close to zero cost of transportation, no traffic issue, no stress. And the salary is 100k, no promotion in sight, career growth is uncertain and the role isn't really great for my CV. I'm a teller.
Last week I did an interview via zoom because of the nature of my work and I got another job, but on the island. It's a private equity firm and the pay is 150k. The cost of transportation for the month is about 20k. There's great career growth and opportunities for self development. However, I fear the stress of going to the island and back daily. Waking up as early as 4am sometimes and coming back home late.
Please advise me on which to choose. I have till Monday to decide.
Those working on the island and staying on the mainland, how do you cope?
Thank you.
Mods Lalasticlala My brother mainland sure pass.... Island na just buga! |
Romance › Re: The Next Time You Allow A Hooker Spend The Night With You, Stay Awake !!! by Countersam(m): 3:14pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
MadeINchenzen2: In your own interest, do short time and let the babe go. You wan carry ashawo daybreak abii? You want her to come to your house and spend the night with you right?
The question is... do you know who she is Some guys have learnt a bitter lesson paying hookers for a night.
4 things can possibly happen.
1. You may get lucky, she just dress-up and go at dawn.
2. She might be a mole, sent to spy on you.
3.she might run away with something that belongs to you. Eg. Your genitals or your life, your phone, money, PS5 or your clothes.
4. If she's fetish and diabolic, she might take some of your pubic hairs or semen.
Note: If she's aggrieved with you in anyway, she may signal some of her loyal notorious customers to trace you to your house and pounce on you. Especially men who will not pay her the agreed cash for service rendered
So in your best interest... stay awake, do not sleep In your best interest, stop carrying olosho/ashawo.
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Romance › Re: Help! My Virgin Girlfriend Wants Me To Disvirgin Her Now by Countersam(m): 1:35pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by Countersam(m): 4:07pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
victooman: Good day nairalanders,, l met a beautiful and excellent girl during my Nysc, honestly she is everything l need in a woman, We finish our service last year and started life in Abuja, she live with her sister and doing her own business while l live alone in the same town,, The problem now is that this girl mother is already pressurizing her for marriage,, she is 27 yrs and the mother is already making her looks like she is too old for marriage,, yesterday she came to my house looking all moody and worried,, when l enquired she told me her mom is asking her when the man she is dating will come home for introduction,, l took my time to explain things to her,we can't go into any marriage without been financially stable,l have a business l am running and l am looking at stability of that business in 3-4yrs time,,l told her l wont give you any specific date on when to come see her people ,,but l assured her if she stick with me God knows l wont think of any other woman during marriage,,, she told me her plan is to get married at 25yrs and l told her things dont always work out the way we plan them,, honestly l dont want to lose this girl and l also dont want to rush anything,, what do l do nairalanders... Don't move faster than your shadow. Because when the chips are down even your shadow will leave you. Go and see her parents and have a candid talk with them if you are sure of your intentions towards her. If possible have a formal introduction, |
Romance › Re: All These Girls Who Sit & Close Legs, What Is The Purpose Of Buying Fine Pants? by Countersam(m): 4:04pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
essentialone: All these girls who sit and close their legs, what then is the purpose of buying expensive pants?  Y Don't you have a sister or female in your whole household? Not to talk of who gave birth to you. Get busy and go get your PVC |
Crime › Re: What Can I Do To Die When I Am Sleeping (don't Want To See Tomorrow) by Countersam(m): 3:42pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Jmichael1: i dn even 4get sum of the names of loan app i dey owe.... And we haven't committed suicide.... |
Crime › Re: What Can I Do To Die When I Am Sleeping (don't Want To See Tomorrow) by Countersam(m): 6:54am On Jul 18, 2022 |
AyesolveNLA: What can I do to die when I am sleeping (don't want to see tomorrow) I am in a serious problem I'm owning someone 9k am I have begged for help from all the people I think can help me, but non of them were able to help me. � I just want to take something that will kill while I sleep to night. Scam. You want to kill yourself because of 9k. Make I show you my loan app? |
Health › Re: Help! Drug Is Ruining My Relationship by Countersam(m): 6:49am On Jul 18, 2022*. Modified: 3:41pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Benki003: Okay I'll try and make it snappy
So am into this new relationship with this beautiful girl, everyman's dream, fun and nice to be with, but the only issues i have is that she abuses sleeping pills So she told me that before she met me earlier this year, she's been taking the sleeping pills so as to fall asleep. but then after we started dating she stopped taking it and she's now finding it hard to fall asleep naturally without the aid of the drugs. please guru's in the house how do we handle this situation, am willing to help her find help. Cc lalasticlala Mynd44 Seun please push to front page for wider view
Ps: she's been taking the drug for close to a year and it has been having advert effect on her, also note that she's been to the hospital before and the doctor warned her to stop and she refused to stop then. you should both give it some time. The effects of the drugs will take some time to wear off. I was once in those shoes. Search for other healthier alternatives for supplements and aids in sleeping. Eat healthily |
Romance › Re: Is This Back Side Real Or Surgically Enhanced(photos) by Countersam(m): 5:41pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Omo! You Go Sweet To Fuccck!! Thats What I Told Her! by Countersam(m): 5:39pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Stallionhorse: Omo! My people today vibes different sha!! After sitting I traffic for 4 he's coming back from lekki, when I got home I was feeling bored and depressed so I went and bought my usual 4 fufu and melon soup with one big fish.. After eating my stomach was too full so I say make I buy sachet take digest the fufu.. Ended up drinking like 6 sachet of action bitters then my oga down below started his own.. Omo! I just dey call all the girls for my phone then I realized that what I'm looking for in sokoto is right in front of my eyes, the girl selling sachet drink.. She is curvy and short has a good ass and was wearing a shirt gown, I just need humble myself find one place sit Don near am start to gist her while buying kpomo back to back to cure the Highness.. Omo! I don't know when I told this girl * You go sweet to Bleep sha*! She just laughed and told me no p that she would soon close that I should buy her dinner.. I told her I will make indomie and eggs for her with tea she said yes.. Omo! My people as I'm typing this she is having dinner in my place Now and the rest will be story for sure.. I just want to let all my guys know be bold enough to say rubbish to a girl she will fall like naira to dollars asap!! Good night my guys.. Make I go start my matter.. Last last you go open new nairaland handle begin post say you need help with infection...
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Family › Re: Man And His Very Tall Brazilian Wife Cause A Stir On Social Media (Pictures) by Countersam(m): 9:08pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Is It True that Nurses Cheat and Bleep A lot.. by Countersam(m): 2:38pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Over here in owerri, i have been able to smash a couple nurses from a midwives school/hospital not far from my house. So far a lot of them are clean and well shaved. Most of them i knacked raw, beautiful angels  My experience in owerri has opened my eye to nurses. They seem to know how to take care and please a man. My boy keeps warning me to stay away from nurses that they are coded ashawos and they sleep alot with doctors.
Is there anybody that can confirm this Clean and well shaved.... Make we tell am?
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