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Whew...today's sun was terrible, and PHCN didn't help matters.

I'm planing to attend a night vigil later in the night...

Hopefully God would refresh me in the tarry night...

advocate666: They just don't know it.

Satan's greatest gift to mankind is the gift of knowledge which he gave to us through Eve. When people gain knowledge, they find out that godly stories are bullcrap so they turn to atheism. This atheism fulfills the wish of Satan.
Although Satan would like everyone to bow down and worship him, this is however not his priority and unlike god, will not punish you if you don't acknowledge him. What gives him most pleasure is seeing children of men gaining more knowledge everyday and freedom from the godly oppressors and doom preachers.
Although some atheists might deny this assertion, it doesn't matter as He is not bothered. If however you take a step further from Atheism and bow down and worship the true Master, upon your knowledge will be added wealth, power, pleasure, health, happiness etc.

You need Jesus in your life.

Jesus was a very serious person...he took his mission on earth very serious, he never laughed, he never joked...his growing up days may have been filled with jokes and fun...but the bible didn't record it.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Right after yours[/quote]Don't wait for others before you take your lead.

[quote author=Mynd_44]No sense at all[/quote]Hmmm...whatever...

why haven't you granted your interview yet...I'm really looking forward to seeing yours.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Lawd knows I can't take the words of (a) crazyman seriously[/quote]You better start...cos there's great wisdom in the words of a crazyman.

@Rockation.
How was your day....

Rocktation: Yes, we did! Better late than never. I'm good, and trust that you are as well.

Sure...I'm ok...the sun is extremely hot this friday morning...hope I would survive the heat.

Rocktation: ...and I'm wondering whether Mynd found that cafe in Ikeja...

I heard he got lost...I've already posted his pictures on the newspapers...hopefully, a good samaritian might find him and bring him back to us.

Rocktation: Hey there,

Looking for the inside scoops regarding your community? Or you've got some 'sharp' info to share, relating to what people are talking across town? C'mon, give it a voice with the Event Section community, as we understand that there is ALWAYS an interesting discovery around the corner.

From how jammed your route is...to the wrestling match between iya Crazyman and mama Rocky...to the house opening at Okra soup bus stop...and of cos, little doggy Scooby Doo's funeral.

Easily share your life right now, as it happens....where it happens!

So you've finally opened it...lol.

Its raining heavily here, hope the rains won't carry the house away...lol

What's up everyone...what's up rockation...

Happy birthday danny...I wish you success...remain blessed.

olamideayodeji1: Use mortein lemon and mortien LED the LED will repel mosquito in ur room.

Very true...I've used mortien before, and it worked wonders.

pastormustwacc: Na wa for this thread, you want to be a christian and still be apako-master? You wan dey ginger your swagga by the side?

Don't mind the reterdeen

2black: No I havent and dont intend to make it a habit.Moreover I live in Lagos while they live in the south south.I also dont travel that often so I can be there maybe maximum of once or twice a year.

Ok

2black: What I am saying is that my friends who have been married for several years say they have never slept in their inlaws house before and will never do.That's why I asked.

They may have their reasons...humans are the most mysterious creatures on earth...you can never understand them...

You're in laws...you're families, therefore I see nothing wrong with that.

However, you musn't make it a habit, or else they would get fed up with your visits.

Shakabubu: Whao both of you must be a small boy you dont know knacking what of kpoxing or smashing. This question is not for small boys and girls jare sorry

You're a goat...if you have nothing sensible to say, then shut up...if you want to knack or knock, look for a female goat to practice with..christianity isn't for r*etarded fools like you.

biolachick: Hello people,

So I’m supposed to be getting married in Nigeria soon and I just found out that I am pregnant. Do they still join pregnant lady and the man in churches nowadays or what is your take on registry wedding, then church blessing the following Sunday like a thanksgiving? Do we still have plenty of people getting wedded while pregnant nowadays?

Why not...are you not a human being...christ said...he that has no sin let him cast the first stone.

Any church that refuses to wed you and your husband simply because you're pregnant, shouldn't be categorized as a church...they should be regarded as hypocrites cos they aren't holier that you.

The church is meant to accommodate and not to judge and drive people away.

Cheer up, cos I'm sure that you would definitely do a church weeding.

Good luck.

ogbeche77: I'm at the MDG group discussion, no more parade for me.. Hope u ll still be around by 6pm

Welcome back...I trust you're having a great time in katstina....hopefully you might marry a hausa chick.

slimyem: very low quality things...
Especially that nonsense white and green sneakers....
The more you wash it,the browner it becomes.
Na under my bunk i leave the thing for camp...
Khaki na something else altogether..
Thank God i got one sown before i came to camp.
.
Some big people are making millions from that useless kit!!

Exactly...I think its high time people speak up.

Freiburger: @ Isreal2020, how long have you been following this forum?

Good question...

Where are the pics...

I'm not in support of blood oaths....When you love someone badly that it hurts, the best you can do in order to avoid ending up with a high blood pressure is to give the person the benefit of the doubt, and profess your love.

For your brother's girl to think that making him (your brother) take an oath so that he wouldn't b*ang another person in the near future or jilt her is utter rubbish!

The pure truth is that blood oath doesn't actually work...imo, I see it as an occultic practice, and also as an avenue to glorify satan.

You cannot not possible tell me that piercing my thumb with a neddle or so, uttering some gibberish, and finally licking it...or vistting a native doctor, would make someone you claim to love stick to you.

In case you don't know....love is a gamble. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't...There's no way either of them would know whether the love would last for years to come or not. This is the risk involved in a relationship...and if he's planing to go into a relationship, he must be prepared to take this risk...therefore I would suggest that he forgets the blood oath rubbish, and face reality.

Finally, I would second k2039...the girl might be hiding something about her health, her character, it could be that she has a child for some other guy....whatever the reason[s] is/are, it doesn't look good.

So tell your baby brother to keep stay away from her, and face his studies.

Kobojunkie: Simple, she should tell her mum and let them deal with their issues. There is no need for her to pretend she is the first to have this problem. Yes, it is serious issue but it is not her place to make judgement on who in the family should or should not hear of it. The man is involved, She needs to let her mother know that she knows. If outsiders will not do that, at least her mother needs to be able to know that she, a child of that union would know to do better. She should give her mother the chance to make a decision on the where her marriage(not your friend's) should go.

What kind of advice is this....

If she tells the mum...the mum might decide to confront him, and this might lead to insults, beatings...etc. Which might tear the family apart.

The man won't change either, instead it would be an opportunity for him to continue his illicit act.

Be best options she's got would be to keep quiet, or to confront him respectfully and her what he has to say.

Reporting the incident to a third party is totally out of the question.

4wardever: Been seeing this lady for a while now and of late, I been having certain concerns about the relationship. On the surface, everything looks fine but deep down within me, I feel all alone in the relationship.

Low self esteem...you have to work on this.

4wardever: I spend long hours on my job and side business; sometimes not calling her or friends for days just to be able to make everyone happy at the end.

What do you mean by this...how can you not call someone, and claim you want to make them happy.

4wardever: Of course, no one can be as passionate abt your business as you but she doesn't seem to be able to understand this, and even find her place in it.

You can be passionate about your business, and still show care to those you love...your business shouldn't be an excuse for your failure to live up to your responsibilities as a man.

4wardever: In fact, it was until her father assured her that "he will go places with his business" that she began to feel okay with what I do.

Most women want to be loved and taken care of....you can't exhibit a nonchalant attitude towards someone you claim to love, and expect her to remain mute...she would definately be worried.

If you love her as you claim, then I would suggest to devote more time to that relationship and spend more time with her.

4wardever: This gives me another concern that she would be the kind of person that would always run to her father for everything she doesn't understand - if we get married.

Who elso do you expect her to run to?

You don't call her, you don't assure her of your undying love...why shouldn't she be worried...her father is the best friend she's got at the moment.

And if you see that as a problem, then you obviously aren't as matured as you claim to be.

4wardever: I'm not looking for a perfect person, I just want to be happy with the one I love.

Pls advice me.

If you want to be happy, you can start by making her happy...

Good luck.

nxanadu: The guy n the lady ħv been dat'g n during that time they've been quarrel'g every time n the guy do beat ħer As well cos he's hot tempered

If someone isn't your type, why stay with him...you can as well leave.

nxanadu: The lady has been bear'g it that the guy will change $ all this while no money the lady have been suffer'g with him, during the dat'g process the lady got pregnant ,the quarrel n beat'g became worst .

The lady is foolish...I wouldn't call this love, this is pure stupid1ty....why on earth would you stay with someone who beats you on a daily basics...and even go as far as getting pregnant for him....

nxanadu: After 5 month of delivery of a baby girl the guy got a very good job $ he got married 2 her $ now d guy is rich but the quarrel is still go'g on $ on.

Of course the quarrel would go on...its in his nature...nothing can change him.

nxanadu: Unstill 1 day she saw her EX n they so much love each then b4 they lost contact that lead 2 their seperation $ they both exchanged numbers, it happens that her EX stays close 2 her , but she has not visited him b4.

A married woman exchanging numbers with an ex...that girl must really be confused and stup1d.

nxanadu: One day she and her hubby had a serious quarrel that almost lead 2 their divorce n their daughter is 3 yrs and 6 month old and the lady isn't work'g or trad'g and her hubby is the type of man that likes outside so much, if they quarrel it is an opportunity 4 him 2 come back late @ night.

Ok I want to understand you here...so you're telling me that the lady in question isn't working?

Gosh...so she's been sitting at home all day, probably watching Nollywood movies and demanding money from him every now and then...no wonder her man picks up quarrels with her on daily basics...its obvious that he sees her as a parasite.

nxanadu: So the lady need some1 2 talk 2 that will advice her no 1 was close except her EX.

Foolish girl...so of all the friends, families members and relatives she has, its her ex she decided to confide in?

nxanadu: She Went there d 1st day n the 2nd day she went there again, some thing happened $ they had Sex n each time she's with her EX she's always happy cos d guy treat her Well than her hubby but with her hubby its quarrel!! quarrel!! quarrel n she's tired of quarrel .

Hasn't the quarrel be going on for years...why wasn't she tired....why did she wait for her ex to fu*ck her before, it dawned on her that she's tired of the quarrel...

nxanadu: So since that incident with she and her EX she Has been unhappy with herself n she has deleted her EX's phone number on her phone and her consciences wouldn't let her b, even prayer she cannot pray.

Rubbish...she would do it again...its just a matter of time, once another good looking attractive guy, asks her out, she would give in....once an adulterer always an adulterer.

nxanadu: After 4 month of the incident she told her hubby what she and her EX did . As a man what will u do 2 her as ur wife and she Isn't d secretive type . But remember 1 thing she told u by herself so as 2 clear her mind . WHAT WILL U DO 2 ĦËR̶̲̥̅̊ .

I would go for hiv, gonorrhea, staphyl...etc test. After confirming my medical status, I would dump her like a hot coal and move on with my life...I hate foolish people.

There are two options for this act....its either his wife is more successful than he is, thereby making life miserable for him, or he's a widower...cos no sane man would engage in such.

[quote author=*Kails*][size=18pt]AND A 'BLOCK THIS USER' BUTTON!![/size]
for the billionth time! [/quote]