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tishbite42:
Resign (divorce) from the marriage and go your way na
Love no be by force

Violence began months into marriage and she stayed to have 5 kids.
Who do women this thing?

Yet she go don reject gentle men because dem nor load or get pink lips. Na Agbero masquerading as a lawyer she go follow.

Women, look before you leap.

She will still go back. Na who chook mouth go become enemy.

Sha, if she be my sister, the beating that guy will collect, he go spend months in hospital. Nonsense and ingredient.

Shebi Aregbe and Oyetola of APC were governors there for around 12 years?

Na we Africans sell ourself cheap. They can't try this to Saudi.

DevilsEqual:
That rank at just 24

Wow, Congrats to her

That age is quite normal for that rank. To rise to Lt Col through Captain and Major can be hard. Especially for those who didn't start as commissioned officers at first. But since she went through NDA/Sandhurst, her rise will be regular and normal.

Those ogas should just let her use her talents o.

Amebo123:
The husband was expecting her to go for delivery only for her to have miscarriage. Please just for my knowledge is it possible to miscarry a 9 months pregnancy? and did the miscarriage happened on the way to the hospital?

There was most likely no preggy if allegedly it was so far into it that hubby expected her to be delivering.

Miscarrying at 8 or 9 months nor be beans. Why not do C-section at that point if it managed to stay that long to avoid late pregnancy issues?
Especially if there was genuine history of miscarriage.

Sheistoopretty:
That is what Nigerian men are good at. To steal, do ritual and cultism. No Brain for technologies and innovations. I h@te Nigerian men to be very honest

They are just Use_less. all of them

And they will do it to fund useless oloshos that litter the whole place.

tgmservice:
Hello nairaland Fam need you input on this.

I am a married man going to 3 years now.
I was scrolling on Facebook when a Saw a video of man exercising in a Gym.

This man wore a short nicker and you could see the shape of his joystick dangling. His thing was really big
The issue is that when I scrolled down the comment section I saw a comment from my wife since we are friends on FB and this is exactly what she said in verbatim (guess she is not so smart I would see her comments)

" I love to eat this kind of Food" yea including the smiley face

From her profile pic you can clearly see she is a married woman even other people responded to her comment calling her all sort of names like Olosho and the rest, one even said I pity your Husband.

I saw this when I was in the Office and it clearly spoilt my day I could not concentrate at work anymore.
When I got home I challenged her regarding this comment and she said its nothing that its just a joke comment.

I have been angry as she seriously disrespected me and I am considering a divorce from the marriage.
Edited: File photo used for illustration

Maybe not enough to divorce but enough to check her out more closely.

What she is chatting about with men would be interesting. What if the guy in the picture was her work colleague or somebody she has easy access to?

In the meantime, if you have any kids, do paternity test on your kids. EVERY man should. Nor dull yourself. You should even even have checked her out before confronting her. She may have deleted things by now. Or become more coded in her doings.

Your wife can be banging your best friend or the person you least expect. Trust no gaddem person.

confusedlady:
How can someone lie blatantly before a royal father that you have royal blood when you are a commoner.
I am happy that the Oba of Benin disgraced him and exposed his perfidy in public.......

What people forget is that Benin palace has very important etiquette. There are things that even children, siblings, cousins and nephews/nieces of the Oba cannot say once in the presence of the Oba. Same applies to even the most high ranking chiefs.

Even if your father was a high chief, but you are not of proven royal blood, you are not a child of the palace. Oba being "our royal father" is not same as child of the palace.
Provincial enigies/dukes, most of whom are of royal blood and bear the title of HRH, also have rules to abide by in words and behaviour once in the palace.

Olumide should have got himself educated about palace etiquette.

Oba cannot be seen to claim partiality during election.

Additionally, Edo people largely support rotating governorship to Edo Central. Oba is aware of that.

MrBrownJay1:
but then again, if the above is what you believe, then why marry ONE wife then...? why not just keep various side chics, and never marry a woman (since you believe they all cheat)?

Hehehe. If you like nor do paternity test on your kids, na you know. Especially those firstborns. She preggy then you quickly to marry. Lol.

Reason to marry na for convenience. At least one lady to dey under your roof. Left to me the thing should be a contract. 5 to 10 years contract.

If know wetin we dey see.

SmartyPants:
The groom's cousins not the bride's.

That guy na coded perv.

The guy is becoming too arrogant for his own good.

Last time, he was mocking one lady's foreign accent during a press briefing.

Whereas, his own grandchildren will most likely all have foreign accents.

MrBrownJay1:
- jealous/envious women who cant even find ONE man to propose to them will look down on that family.
- jealous/envious men who cant even find ONE wife to marry will look down on this family

lets just congratulate these people and their future life, whether good or miserable...



how come? so you would prefer to have one wife to yourself and 3 side chic that would be going around with other men (as well as you), rather than have 4 wives for yourself only?

Bro, no guarantee any woman belongs to you only. If you like to wed her at Vatican City or Jerusalem.

Let people do whatever pleases them.

Dey play.

A woman only loves her children. Maybe her parents/some siblings too.

Every other love get question mark. Simple.

SAMBARRY:
sometimes i blame the men for this type of stupidity.you will see a decent working class girl, you go say no na baddies you want.at least you heard when she said the man's wife Is a church girl and the innocent wife will be somewhere wasting her time praying for a useless man that doesn't even know the value of good women.i think many of these married men deserve oloshos as wives because if he really loved and valued his wife will he be with his wife and not an untrained girl to the extent of the girl subbing the wife.tuehhhh

My dear, you cannot know a decent girl anymore. A girl can be working, have a fiancé and still be sleeping with boss or colleagues at work.

In fact your best friend or cousin can be smashing your "responsible corporate, working class" babe. Or even father the child she will bring home to you.

Most dey pretend. This lousy girl here maybe more responsible than some babes you consider to be good working class. The way one working babe engaged to a responsible guy behaved that year, I nor wan elaborate. I begin fear babes more. The girl even jejely explain to me that although her fiancé dey try, she just need to raise more cash as good things of life dey dear. Many other instances. Nowadays, married women are not left out.

Just do DNA test on your kids. That's it.

Jungle don mature tey tey.

Sure, it is men who dey nyansh them and promote the nonsense.

Wow! 76% of candidates could not score 50% in JAMB. Disgraceful.

Look at people who mine skulls, have their kings massacred or have political co-ordinator killed in cold blood or won't dare venture out on Mondays for fear of being killed have mouth to say Benin people are wicked.

Funsho Williams, Kudirat, Dele Giwa, Fagbemi, Chief Rilwane, Bola Ige, were they killed by "wicked Benin people"? Dr Akunyili nko?

It was angels who kidnapped Chibok girls, bah?

Bigots from other parts of 9ja don't know difference between Benin people, the about 25% non-Benin people in Benin and other Edo people.

Even at that, to spew bigotry wantonly from your cave somewhere is foolish.

When Billionaire kidnapper was kidnapping people in Benin before moving to Lagos, bigots from his tribe and other tribes were blaming Benin people for it.

Some fool even said he knows a wicked Benin person called Onime. What is Onime meaning in Benin?

wahaladondey:
Both options are very viable but if I were in your position I’d simply find another place for myself and visit my people once in a while, meanwhile they stay there and watch over my house and tenants.

On other notes could you please help me with 2k, I am a student and I have run out of data subscription and I need it to study.

[b]Also I am a graphic designer [/b]and printer so any jobs or referrals would be greatly appreciated.

Let me see evidence of your graphic design work.

I messaged you.

Kaido:
Can someone list the advantages of getting married to a woman?

And please, your answers should be very convincing to even encourage people that have given up hope on marriage.

Thanks

To give you kids within wedlock and look responsible in society,
Plus to tick the box of done that.
But still, do DNA test on ALL your kids.

If the first two lines nor matter to you, nor bother.

However, if you are extremely lucky, you might marry a lady who is a true companion and partner in progress.

But don't hold your breath.

Tilldendoftime:
I think she still likes her ex, if not all this no matter.

I won't be surprised if she borrowed the wedding dress just to "pepper" her ex that she still loves.
Which new bride calls her ex "baby"?

Usmanovic95:
She still love the ex.

pacino26:
Don't be in a rush comrade, NOLLYWOOD will soon drop a banger for it Season 1 and 2 Pastor

notmyrealmonika:
My question is
Would he have shot her, if she was White?

Nope.

Sizwezi:
Says a man who is already convinced that the above narrative is the “ truth “ . 😂

You can also watch the video below by the late Esogban of Benin, then decide which of em is the TRUTH.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMMCDtCv3/

If after watching it and you don’t feel convinced, no shakes !! Stick to the one you believe and spread it or better still, do your own research and publish it , but make sure it’s the TRUTH..

I did not say show m a tiktok video of Esogban.

Give us a synthesis of what you have learnt over time as the truth.
I wasn't there when when it happened and you weren't there.

Let's see the version supported by research.

Sizwezi:
The truth doesn’t need any explanations….

The church once said the earth was the centre of the universe and even killed scientists who were proving it otherwise.

The minute you feel you have got everything totally figured out, stop learning and become close-minded, you stop living even though alive.

Sizwezi:
Because it’s all lies. 😂

Well, why not tell the world the truth as you know it?

Great.
Quite surprising there are no comments until now.

Penguin2:
Anyone who’s a keen political follower, watcher and analyst in Nigeria, would agree that the Oba accepting to attend this project inauguration in person in this election period simply echoes endorsement.

The Edo governorship election is getting more and more interesting and unpredictable every day.

The road to Osadabey Avenue might be as smooth for Asue Ighodalo as we previously thought.

Olumide Akpata

Where is the Oba? Make una dey sofri lie o.

That chief is not even one of the popular Benin chiefs like Iyase, (Esogban died last year), Eson, Osuma, Ihama, Uwangue, Edogun, Oshodin, Esama, Ineh, Enobakhare, etc.

Vulcan24:
And do I know how many atrocities have been committed with their creation!

Acknowledged first that the fear of God is the begining of wisdom and the wisdom that God gives can't be polluted

Well, bro you need to first stop using tech! So that their creation will not pollute your religiosity. Don't drive car, don't use aeroplane, phone, laptop etc. Because all use computer chips.

And who said our ancestors didn't already have fear of God?

They marvelled at the power of God displayed in his creation: rivers, mountains, forest, wind, sunshine, darkness, fire, the earth, thunder and lightening, etc.

They had enough presence of mind to develop their own religious philosophy of lesser gods being in the service of God.

Ifa, Ogun, Sango, Amadioha, Yemoja, Esu, Ani, Olokun, Osun, Egugun and others in service of Osanobua, Eledumare, Chukwu, etc.

They didn't wait for Europeans to come first.

Oyinbo continued to develop their ideas despite their religion to produce modern age.

We Africans stopped developing the ideas of our ancestors to play follower to oyinbo religious ideas. While Oyinbo dumped same religious ideas they gave us.

Keepamsafe:
Just last night, this bird flew into my house. Well, it had a nest in my AC unit hole, so when I scattered its house just yesterday morning, when I got back in the evening, I realized a bird had fallen into my house through the hole.

Well, eating it is out of the picture . I support vegetarians but I eat meats not birds . Im thinking of keeping it as a pet, it’s been flying up and down in the house with no success of finding its way out, and thus weak and exhausted. I know birds are fragile and difficult to train. Should I keep it? Any idea the breed? Or what to feed it, Or I just let it go back to it’s habitat so we don’t stress eachother. Im confused. Help.

Im in a dilemma. help please.

Give it to a local zoo.