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marlow1962:
Fraudulent charges needs to be pressed.

If found guilty, 10 years with hard labour. Haba!

Our Northern people nor go waste time if they find out such fraud. Divorce by pronouncing it a few times don solve it.

Ah ah!

Happy Africa Day!

Seun, Mynd and Mods, why is this not on FP?
You wan see Toke's bum story, snake, Ipob, Rufai and which story on FP?

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Well, if you provide materially and emotionally as an average man should, she's not ill physically and mentally and she's not performing her wifely duty, you have the right to return her to her parents jeje. Tell them you want a wife who can keep her own basic part of the bargain. Not too much to ask for, is it?

RIP Mama T.

nairalanda1:
Nigerians should stop blaming the guy

The decision had already been taken since

The guy ran his mouth unnecessarily.

But he didn't say what UK authorities didn't already know. Oyinbo close one eye if something favours them for the time being.

Britain gains overall. These are young people largely under 50 or with specialist skills already.
9ja will always find a way.

dauddy97:
Do you work to do?

I may recommend someone to patronise you.
Thanks.

Na skit.

Who get such time?

pansophist:
In every other areas of your live, your past matter. You wan borrow from bank? Oya bring employment contract and pay slips. You want do masters? Oya let's see your bachelor degree scores.

You wan be President? Oya let's see what you've done for the people previously. You wan enter heaven? Jesus will check how you acted on earth. Job kwanu? Let's see recommendations from past employers.

But somehow, when it comes to romance, past doesn't matter. Some girls are walking without womb, their sexual and naked videos scattered in different guys phones, but it doesn't matter.

You are mad. Nonsense.

Na play dem dey.

Let them go apply for job as policewoman but you have criminal record of serving jail term as an armed robber.
In a working society you won't dare. But in romance matter, abort 15 babies, cheat recklessly on boyfriends, sleep with father and son BUT it's all in a day's work. No problem. You can marry a virgin guy,

Hypocrisy.


People forget that the main purpose of sex intended by nature is to have babies. Na we humans commercialised it and made it leisure activity.

A man can be duped with paternity but a woman can't be duped with maternity. That is the key difference between infidelity in men and women.
Till tomorrow, in many animal species, once mating season is over, males and females separate until next mating season.

As of now, around 35% of first born kids belong to another man and 25% of all kids too.

Some women ask: Is it not men they are sleeping with or cheating with? Yes. But the woman made a free choice to do so.
A man biologically wants to spread his seeds, the woman grants access to it freely or can refuse.

IyaTola:

Our immigration and police are very friendly to people with non-black skin.


Most Nigerians speak pidgin English very well i.e our own version of English language.

In no particular order;

You can't understand Nigerian religiousity even the Christian, Islamic or the traditional brands
Don't critise our politics
Don't critise our football
Don't critise our parties, the social type
Don't critise ANY tribe
Respect our world famous policemen
Respect our soldiers, Lastma, traffic policemen, neighbourhood watchmen, Red Cross members, Boys Scouts and even Girl's Guild. In short, anyone in a uniform
Respect yourself, very important
Remember to call the following OGA, secretaries, bureaucrats, gatemen
Respond to all greetings till the greeter is tired; example, good morning, how are you, how was your night, how is your day, etc
Enjoy Nigeria!

We just like respect too much.

MasterJayJay:
How many have you adopted?

You know castigating other people is easy.
Make she tie her womb and wait for new born throway inside gutter. She go find plenty such babies in PH.

JungleJustice01:
My appreciation to everyone who took time out to give some advice.

As advised, I'd just leave the house as is and do minimum maintenance to keep it standing. I don't have any grudge with my brother and I do hope that someday, he becomes financially successful as well.

I believe it's better I focus on other personal ventures at this point.

This is where culture and tradition play a big role. No elders in your family? No olori ebi, okaegbe or whatever equivalent is head of your family in your tribe?

In my culture, if the house was your family homestead, where your father primarily lived in his lifetime and probably raised you all or the only house he built by himself anywhere, by right it belongs to the first son. In the same way the family relied on you to lead your father's funeral rites, (whether traditional or of Middle Eastern religion) when he exited. You decide what privilege to give your junior brother to use the house. Most tribes have clear cut traditional answers to these things.

It is your responsibility to keep the house in good nick. Anything you don't repair well now will cost even more a few years later.

Okpeke22:
But what was an 80 years old woman doing in the farm and alone for that matter? She should be at home being taken care of by her children except of course she has none or they are irresponsible children.
I can't allow my 80 years old to do such hard jobs, she deserves to spend her last years in the comfort of the warmth of her children.

Actually some women/elderly people of that age in rural areas don't want to stop what they have been used to. Stop them and they will die very soon. Just don't let them overwork but activities keep them going.

The lady had every right to go to her farm and feel useful. Nigeria failed her.

RIP iyagba.

Sweetvie:
He got a point. They should be arrested for patronising prostitutes... That's the only way to reduce hookup. And, there are other ways to satisfy ur needs as a guy.
If no one is ready to buy what they sell they'll find other things to do.

Then the lady who offered sex, or accepted money for sex should not be punished?

While this may earn you cheap popularity with women, it's actually not in their favour long term.

It implies that, in your estimation, they are somehow deficient and cannot be treated equally as men or can't take responsibility for their actions as can be expected of men.

So much about gender equality.

PeterTinubu:
Ahnie,are you okay?

Are you okay,ahnie?

Smooth criminal. Ahooo!

davidtemi:
Is there a snake dat is not venomous??

Yes, many. Pythons and other constrictors are not venomous. They use sheer muscle power to wrap around a prey, squeeze and constrict it to death before swallowing. The largest snakes including anacondas are not poisonous.
But this large viper in this thread has large amount of venom, large fangs like hypodermic injection needles and HIGHLY poisonous. But not aggressive like cobra. You have to step on it or disturb it where it is hiding to strike.

chinchum:
Hope it is not independent candidacy that will make every tom dick and harry want to contest as governor or president?

There may be a whole textbook as ballot paper o.., there must be stringiest requirements to be met to contest as independent candidate.

Dude, na format. Power brokers will just sponsor many people to crowd the field. Then settle them last minute to withdraw.

They will never do anything that will truly empower the masses.

Imagine how Wike could have mixed things up with Rivers cash, by recruiting many "independent" candidates. Atiku too.

Tinubu would have had an even easier ride to the presidency if there was independence candidacy.

They won't take of death sentence of kidnapping, corruption or electoral fraud.

Dem never ready.

fyzaila:
Are you sure this your last paragraph exists in this country?

Maybe 30 years ago or in some villages,

Nor be only coma or comma. Na question mark the policeman day.

These darkness people sabi lie o. Chai!

So their policemen are so unfit that a slap sends them into coma. Kikikikikiki.
Haba!

Camberlo:
The hidden online university approved is in Sokoto state and it's named ICONIC UNIVERSITY.

I don't know why the education minister is hidden names of approved institutions.

Anyway, congratulations to us all

Edakun, who get the format to apply for a license for this type of online university?
There seems to be no openness about the whole thing.

lovediehatelive:
This one is strong o.

10 years?

The thing here is that I can never forgive a cheating partner.

It's not me, it's above me. My soul doesn't accept such.

So I believe a virgin has lesser chances of cheating than a non virgin

Dude, whoever you marry, if you decide to have kids, jeje do DNA test on your kids. Nothing like absolute trust.
Eve defied God Almighty, so who are you or me to expect much?

If the kids are yours forget the rest. As long as you did not catch her cheating. A lady can cheat with three other men under your nose and you will never even suspect. Virgin or no virgin. Na today?

socrates007:
Females folk's can't pretend for long, just takeaway what they enjoy or stop giving what they derive...boom you will see their true nature.

Sharp sharp, no dulling. They won't even say hello sef.

Men should invest their money wisely. Even if na property or business that can fetch you on going money.

With solid material achievement, calmly and carefully find a half-way decent lady. Invest ahead for kids just in case.
If you fritter away your money on a woman instead of investing, when you are broke, she will either move on to a more beneficial guy or cheat on you.

Yes, wealth doesn't buy love but better be well-off than poor.

jesusjnr2020:
John 6:60-66 (KJV)

Many therefore of his disciples, when they had heard this, said, This is an hard saying; who can hear it?
When Jesus knew in himself that his disciples murmured at it, he said unto them, Doth this offend you?
What and if ye shall see the Son of man ascend up where he was before?
It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.
But there are some of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that believed not, and who should betray him.
And he said, Therefore said I unto you, that no man can come unto me, except it were given unto him of my Father.
From that time many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him.

Apt!

olukaygold:
Saw this 3D on fb. Portable 3bedroom
Features:-
Ante room
Parapet either Pre-Cast or Direct Casting
Hipping roof(Long span)
Stone wall tiles
900/1500 casement windows

Concrete Blocks , budget 2500 blocks if your land is flat terrain
Total costs 8m-10m depending on location and your Taste

Fine design.

Congrats, Lady.

Solofresh2:
What did you mean by you mistakenly impregnated her?
Did you mistakenly fvck her or what?
You are even a married man
You are a disgrace to manhood

No, he went to visit his child and mistakenly tripped.
His Baby Mama was directly opposite him.
As he tripped and fell on her, both of them turned to incredible Hulk.
Their clothes torn of their bodies.
The pressure of falling on her suddenly inserted his USB stick into her.
Of course he could remove his USB until the download was complete.
The rest is history.

Very funny guy, this OP with naff threads.

pocohantas:
Every single lady that left Nigerian men is regretting it way into her 70s. I bet my friend's ex in Ijagemo is saying the same thing while she is happily married to another guy with two boys. If the homebased guy had created a thread here, you people would still claim she would regret it for living him to marry a diasporan. Please, get over yourselves and stop waiting for your EXes to regret.

Regret indeed. Na the ones wey dey with una for 200yrs while pursuing better suitors no regret am. All this story when women leave, but men leave their gfs and wives everyday.

Regards

Poco, one thing you do often is to generalise. Maybe you just make up things here, so you believe other fantasize too.
A woman whose 9ja hubby now has several other wives/concubines outside and hardly come home? Well, maybe that's normal thing for some women in marriage.

What matters to me is that it was a blessing in disguise. At least she had the chance to follow another man and she took it. Enjoying or regretting it is immaterial. Nobody can blame me for holding her down. I wish her well.

I have remained close to her birth family who have always been good to me since childhood. I have always told them to support her, even when they were livid.

You have your rights to your opinions. Good luck!

pocohantas:
Pele Sir...
The girl had to act fast. However, she should have broken up with you first. There is nothing to say you would be back or wouldn't impregnate your own gf in the UK. The girl should focus on her homebased guy. I wish them well. If she spent years waiting, world people would say na because she wan marry abroad guy. So, nothing spoil.

Marry a foreign woman. Foreign women rush Naija men at airports all over the world.

Poco, having read another post you replied to someone as to if what the lady did is good or bad, a lady who did this over 20 years ago is still regretting it. Her friends told her exactly the bolded and encouraged her to do.
Life is not all about men versus women. Some men truly love or loved but when disappointed, women come up with various excuses. In so doing, it simply tells men that if a woman does anything, they will never take responsibility. It helps programme men negatively.

Guess what, the lady who could not wait over 20 years ago still has the effrontery to say "you didn't fight for me after you returned, you abandoned me in a bad relationship, my friends said you have probably married oyinbo already", etc.

Fight for another man's "wife" or another child's mother? Like seriously?

Why do you still communicate with her you might asks? Because the families have known for years and contact between certain members on both sides are inevitable.

The immediate response of girls hearing the story include "maybe you were not taking good care of her, maybe you were not communicating well with her, did not assure enough", etc. Just anything to avoid responsibility.

Yet her parents advised her to wait because they were sure of one's character, honesty and integrity that they saw as one was growing up. Yet she defied her parents.

Some ask how come the guy didn't know of the pregnancy, very easy. Even these days, a girl can position herself under a duvet during whatsApp chat or somehow manipulate things to avoid being seen pregnant. There was no GSM back then even.
A girl moved to another city those years ago, was dating and got preggy and her family only knew too late. They were too embarrassed to tell one or let relatives know when they finally found out. They still hoped she would leave the man. She tried to leave him when guy man suddenly landed. But guy man found out the game luckily. Phew! Bullet dodged.

Truly, the chance to date and marry oyinbo was there aplenty, especially from among fellow students but no. A girl was in 9ja waiting. Or so one thought.

These things happen to real people daily. It could happen to your son, nephew, cousin, etc.

It turns out it was actually a blessing in disguise. Thank God it so happened. Her folks have remained as good as ever.

Everybody must live with their own decisions. I hope this lady ends up luckier than the lady of over 20 years ago.

Anybody can choose to leave a relationship at any time. Fair enough but should do the honourable thing and be honest.

The guy will cope fine. Just move on. He shouldn't let the experience define him.

9ja too like expensive ceremonies. Performing Prime Ministers or equivalent in UK, Japan, Australia, Canada, Germany and co will enter power jeje, no yeye expensive parade and ceremonies. Na American over-bloated ceremony we go copy. At least US presidents and institutions perform for their citizens. Our own na lie.

linearity:
So how do you know, that the operation was carried out by a consultant?

Because the hospital said so? Also, during operation many doctors are involved including student doctors.

Plus, it is even damaging that it was a professional that carried out the operation because if I recall, the husband said, during child birth, the wife experienced a complication and they were advised that her womb have to be taken out and in the process of operating the womb, they tampered with her liver or kidney.

Also the hospital here stated they invited the husband to a multidisciplinary meeting, which means the hospital knew there was fault on their end to have setup a disciplinary team.

Dude, I don't know who is right or wrong but in healthcare "multidisciplinary" means a team of different care specialists that can involve physicians, surgeons, pharmacist, nurses, midwives, psychologists, etc.

Even physicians can further be various specialists: Anaesthetist, haematologist, nephrologist, neurologist, endocrinologist, consultant microbiologist/infectious disease expert, etc. Surgeons can be vascular, general, ENT, orthopaedic, cardiothoracic, etc. You will have obstetrician/gynaecologist who is basically a physician-surgeon whose work is typically medical-surgical in women/maternal care.

Since this involves death of someone, a pathologist, what 9ja used to call morbid anatomist, would probably be involved. May be a neonatologist (new born baby specialist paediatrician).

So it doesn't mean there was a disciplinary committee to punish someone was set up.

What happens is that surgeons spend many more years in training after gaining their medical degree. Health care work is apprentice work basically from day 1 at university. Especially from beginning of proper clinical placement, in UK by year 3 or depending course structure/length of degree. At least in UK and UK system adopted by 9ja.

Postgrad, you must keep learning under prof, consultants and specialist registrars for years. "Student" can technically be someone who is now in postgraduate specialist training but gained medical degree 5 years ago. These junior registrars are the backbone of health care everywhere, doing donkey work under senior physician/surgeon supervision. They are qualified clinically.

Etcetra:
Please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy amen

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Faith
First Bank

Look, you are registering with different monikers but same bank account. There is something dishonest about this type of behaviour, no matter your condition.

Someone asked if they give you 200k if you will stop begging. What was your reply to that person?

Michelle55:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what the heck did they eat that accumulated to 400k abeg?
Dem kill live cow for them ni?
Serves them right!
No dey do pass yourself ontop another person money, he was kind enough to request for the splitting of bills sef😏

You can be sure none of them has ever taken their mum or dad to a restaurant and say let's just eat out today, dad, mum. But they can fritter away loads of money anyhow. These girls that carry crowd about, she believes that if that hefty guy bail them up with a gun and force them into a car, her long throat friend can rescue her like Charlie's Angels?

Pure lie. That's how those girls gather to eat free food from men. Na today?