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phemmyfour:
Limca n gold spot were my favourite.

Loved that India limca advert

The Zing thing.......Goldspot!
I loved Schweppes.

But Canada Dry was our local soft drink by Okada Air owner back then. Sir Chief Dr Gabriel Igbinedion.

YNWA!

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

You "friend" na idiot. Your sister should be like a sister to him.

He should certainly never date her behind your back. Unless to marry.

Your sister may think you are aware and you gave him the all clear.

Unless you are also like him. Who will he hit on next? Your girlfriend?

addmole:
Why are you laughing. This is not funny. I need help. What do I do?

Look, a great deal of our women have no idea about good sex or the importance of it. Due to nil sex education. Result is lousy sex.
Very annoying.

From the background story, your wife clearly has some unresolved traumatic experience growing up. Very common.
Depression may be there too.

Quite funny how the female in-laws intervened. It appears the women in her family have no idea about importance sex as a marital obligation. But they will be the first to scream to high heavens when you cheat.

Seek counselling together if she's willing to. If she refuses to seek counselling, then she is not in love with you or never ever did to begin with. At that age 30 or thereabout, many women marry just anyone who proposes. To satisfy societal expectations.

You missed the chance to address it before marriage. Never ignore such signs.

Do you both have kids? If yes, divorce would be detrimental if all else fails.

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

In any clime without social welfare system and there is rampant economic insecurity, relationship is transactional. It's business and everything else is secondary or a bonus.
The bolded will be difficult because women are overwhelmingly economically worse off. It's about survival.

However, women with enough income can lead the way. We have to be realistic.

The problem now is even most well off ladies still feel entitled to a guy's money, irrespective of his pocket strength.

madone:
This is what I try to make men understand on this forum but most of them can't spot it.
Some weeks ago a very successful woman wanted to jump into the lagoon cos of man. That is just one out of many who have gone beyond just thinking suicide to attempting it. This is another successful lady thinking about settling down. My point still remains that being successful will not make a woman forget or kill her need of a man. Am not talking about the perverts who claim feminist online but are craving for a man's touch. My advice is this guys look beyond social media groom yourself, work hard and be ready for the future. 7 women will still say let us bear your name we don't need your money. Please guys don't die now stay alive for the future.

I thought men already knew that?

Most of those online wannabe feminists dey even house, feed and cloth one efulefu guy like that. Even if they have to collect from their "sugar zaddy" to feed him.

Not to talk of a half-decent guy that is the prize.

AllenSpencer:
Their own people failed them!

Too much lies by our foreign brothers has led many astray! Few always say the truth.

But at some point, when you tell them the truth, they will think you don’t wish them well!


Many have sold a good life in Nigeria to buy depression and frustration.

The minute I began hearing "why are you still there if UK is that bad", I stopped advising people. All I did was to make people realistic about expectations.
The next thing is for them to say you are stingy, no matter how much you have tried.

People forgot that you cannot just pack up and leave a place you have lived in for decades, with children.

9ja people nor dey hear word. Let people experience their own. They will be alright las las.

workchopNG:
I don't know if this is the right section for this topic, but then, since it's about relationship/friendship, I decided to post it here.

So, I read a rumour of how a young girl who scored 9 As in her WAEC result was poisoned to death. I can't confirm the authenticity of that story, but it took me to memory lane... Maybe, it was her best friend that poisoned her to death out of jealousy. That led me to create this thread.

Back to the topic. “It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington.

I had my taste of a very bad friendship which lasted for more than 10 years. We met in school (higher institution). He approached me during my first few weeks in school, and we became friends.

He had some good sides, but the bad sides makes me question the good ones. We study and sit together during exam. We share answers codedly in hall, but I'm now thinking he might have been giving me the wrong answers while I was busy supplying him with the right ones.

All of this guy's effort was to have a better result than mine, and to make over 3.0 CGPA which he eventually succeeded at. There are times I could've gotten an A in some of my courses including a carryover, but this guy blocked it and have me got a C. I don't want to go into details.

Many things happened between us until few years ago when he referred me for a job, I got the job and was made the manager. The same company employed him a month later as a line manager. This is where he couldn't hide his true colour anymore and started being a thorn in my flesh in our work place.

Apparently he was pained that he referred me and I got a higher pay and position than he got. After many years of friendship, it was then I found out how dangerous that guy can be. I had to cut off that friendship few months into the job, and I'm never ready to have anything to do with that guy in my life again.

It's surprising how the same guy you dine with, drink with, party with, even travel to their hometown and sleep for days, has always been in competition with you without your knowledge. Such a person can kill out of jealousy.

We have to be careful of the kind of people we keep as friends. The funny thing is that I'm not even the best student while in school, why competing with me instead of the best students? Abi first class no dey sweet you Some people are perhaps and furthermore 😂🤣, even notwithstanding. 🤣😂😂

Una good morning o jare

Sorry about your experience. Some friends are more genuine than blood relatives but that's not so common anymore these days.
Sadly, the only place most friends want to see you is below them. Forget all the fake smiles and famzying.

It can be quite painful if you are the type that truly loves co-operation and everyone growing together. Not knowing that codedly, some others are competing fiercely with their shadow while you are minding your business.

But with experience, you can easily spot such people. Just be innocent as a dove but wise like a serpent around them. Otherwise, you will be painted as an ingrate. Be careful.

The guy probably only helped you believing you won't amount to much doing the job. Or there was some other advantage he saw for himself by referring you. If you now take to the job like fish to water or he didn't quite realise your ability previously, envy will grow. He will become the stumbling block and obstacle. To upstage you at every turn. It's a common thing really.

Oh, bad belle and greedy people may appear on the surface to "have more" materially or otherwise than you but they know you have some assets or attributes they will never have. Whether you know it or not.

chaiks:
I am a Nigerian and I support this. Why can't we just be careful and win England? We are too careless as a nation and we need to erase this mindset of "we tried". Why can't we just break the jinx or are we not humans like they? The manner we played England annoyed me. We should have killed that game because England weren't at their best. I am surprised they reach final.

NFF messed up as usual.

Remember the ladies nearly protested over pay and the manager told NFF hoha that they are poo weeks before the tournament.

It's fine margins in these games. A better mental fortification through a good FA can make a difference.

We had the chance to reach final this time like men had the chance in 1994.

Who knows when again?

DarkandHandsome:
Michelle Alozie is so fine mehn!!!

Well, some women still think say na by bleaching dem dey take fine.

Who don fine don fine.

Add that she's a cancer research scientist.

Hope nor be American kpale you dey see for Michelle so.

Vinnie2000:
I Just Laugh @such Pple.😏

A Man works his Head off clock the Clock and suddenly a Relative start Calling and Begging for Money.

When he doesn't Give, they say he is Stingy.😒

You, the Beggar, what have you been doing with ur Time? 😏😕

You know when people can't cheat you anyhow, they call you names.
Britain through prudence, resilience, innovation and living within their means ruled the world. Until US became a World Power after investing heavily to help Britain and Russia defeat Hitler in 1945.

Britain had to let colonies go, albeit reluctantly and focus on recovering from the war.

In 9ja, we want to live large, spray money at parties, have girlfriends all over the place, etc. We want to be brash like Americans without the enabling environment of America and means of Americans. If possible on the sweat of friends/relatives abroad.

UK functions on the foundation of everyone sharing the load, being modest and ready to manage. Even housing in a small Island is modest with 67 million people.

Anyone who has lived in other Western countries before living in UK knows the difference. How 9ja folks used your money to play betja while in other Western countries. They never appreciate what you did for them last week. Only entitlement. They don't care about you or how your family abroad progresses. Only about siphoning your money.

Anyone abroad killing himself with excessive work to please entitled people na mumu. When you kpeme, same people will say they didn't get enough rice at your enemy's burial.

UK is the best place to be to cut the shenanigans of entitled 9ja folks.

Whatever they call UK people, fact is our kids have the chance to attend some of the world's best universities. A bonus for their social mobility. No other country the size of the UK has even half as many top universities. That's worth it.

Ok

Chunedujohnson6:
It takes at least six months which is approximately 25 weeks and nothing less.

See the requirements you need to apply for your UK student visa here.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_8eIPCfi0ZA

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raskymonojendor:
Better than Okpa and Jollof handed out in Enugu, or Ikpeazu Eba and Egunsi in Abia

lexy2014:

So how will that mitigate the effects of removal of fuel subsisdy?

What of those that aren't mallams a d cleaners?

Eat beans and garri to get energy to trek from Ikoyi to Mainland.

wunmi590:
My brother, majority of the people in Ikoyi-obalende are not suffering, there is alot of development there...

This is just to extend his gesture to the few people who might needs it...

Alot of things they share during this time, most especially to student...

Free jamb card, waec card and alot of things to keep student in flying colours

Ok show us the bags of rice they shared at Bariga, Ajegunle and Alimosho axis.

Depriest2020:
Beans 2 mudu 850 × 2 = 1700
Garri 2 mudu 500 × 2 = 1000
Rice 2 mudu 1500 × 2 = 3000

Total = #5,700.

Still more than 5k for a vote that gives access to state and national treasury for good 4 years.

Georgejeez:
Sorry to say this but many Nigerian women are just boring and frustrating in relationships and marriages.

They want hot hard sex all the time yet don't like participating or initiating it .
They see it as solely a Man's duty to start it , satisfy them and make them cum while they lie down on their backs like fallen timber while moaning with Big Show's voice .
This is one of the reasons why Married men cheat because overtime they get tired of same positions , same routine and same formula , so when they meet a bad ass chick outside who is ready to give them good "one corner " vibes , they find themselves hooked , that's why you will see a Married man married to a pretty goddess of a wife with wicked figure 8 yet sleeping and having an affair with their ugly housegirl or a not so fine lady , many atimes his wife is beautiful but boring in bed ..

Ladies if you must enjoy your relationship or marriage, learn to bring some Victoria Cakes and Moriah Mills vibes to the bedroom instead of waiting for someone's son to give you 4 rounds every 3 days, each round lasting 40 minutes , while you do nothing but to lie down .

100%. Dem nor sabi what sex entails. Only to complain. They want a man to be an expert in bed but they won't participate. No time men nor go cheat.

fyzaila:
Is it necessary when you meet a divorced man or woman and you want to start a relationship, to start asking what happened? Like starting to dig and dig into the past of the person who is divorced.

In my opinion i don't think it's necessary, just focus on the person and see if you guys can work things out.

My fellow members, what's your opinion?

I know of a lady whose cruel action led to the death of her hubby few years later.
The man refused to involve the police because he didn't want their young daughter to suffer when mother is incarcerated.
The man is long forgotten now.

The woman has remarried and current hubby does not know her history. At least he did not know before marriage. I don't know about now. I just dey pity the men, but late and current.

People dey change sha. Only time will tell.

Tinububalls:
How can we sing the gods song on a strange land?

By the rivers of Babylon..........

achimendy:
You only saw and complained about what the guy did, but you didn't do thesame for the cheater girlfriend that was following somebody's husband. Is that the kind of woman a sensible guy will take care of.
May God have mercy on you Nigerian women.

Oh boy, you get time o.

So you want cow to condemn green succulent grass? Most of them are at it. The category of women here who consider a man's poverty as a major crime will now condemn sugar daddy's sexy toy olosho of a girl?

Jennyclay:
Another unfortunate broke foolish man looking for green card again.

Biko, you nonsense men shouldn’t kill me with laugh

And later he will take a 9ja lady abroad and give her the paper he got through this senior oyinbo lady.

After enduring scorn and all things just to settle down and survive.

Then the 9ja woman who benefitted from the whole thing will kick him out abroad later.

If in USA, the man might kill the 9ja lady.

Then the man will be termed "a monster" by you.

So either way, you will laugh at the man now and condemn him later too if that happens.

Lol, It's always the man's fault.

Her man realised her gullibility and closely monitored her. But she called it controlling and toxic,

Look at her now.

Even though opportunity maketh a thief, a woman who wants to cheat will find a way to cheat.
Simple.

lexy2014:
Do you mean that for the next 4 years Tinubu will use an important government position to "groom" Alake for governor instead of using the position for the betterment of Nigeria?

What is your take on his appointment as Minister of Solid Minerals and Development?

Alake is 66. The guy means grooming until 70 years old to become a governor.
Since in 9ja, a 57 years old grandpa is often "youth leader".

Long way to go in 9ja, I tell ya.

Kilometres:
About three now

Maryam Babangida

Patience Jonathan
Remi Tinubu

You forgot the very first ND first lady. First lady under military in the late 70s and beginning of current democratic era.

Late Stella OBJ.

When women that generally don't fear God since Garden of Eden say they want a God-fearing man, you go know say wahala dey.

They mean a mumu man whose destiny they can use to play betja like Eve did with Adam's.

And yet some human beings cannot think about their life.

I won't be surprised if Oyinbo soon give dogs the right to vote in general elections. Dudu will first condemn but will copy it later.

Clearly, dogs can't do worse than many unthinking humans out there.

FalseProphet1:
Open this one in Nigeria and watch it run down within a week, cos Nigerian girls cannot afford to spend money on themselves.

This I have seen.

Na coded lesbian hang out.

IYKYK.

mushroomFarm:
Least I forget...let me sound you guys a note of warning. Don't ever try to hold your pastor's wife like I did up there in Naija oooo talkless of swimming with her..

Mush, nice one. Like how much is a 2 bedroom or 3 bedroom flat/apartment to buy in your city in Russia? In $ or £/Euro?
In a decent part of town. Are non-Russians allowed to buy property?

Thanks.