₦airaland Forum

Mastakija:
I just reason one thing now
If we breakup who will pay d debt

Anyways u can any kind of pencil portrait u like below is one of our works

na the lady u draw I want .can you give me her number?.

DukeNija:
Make una Dey fear God na

why he price am too low?.

Why are they burning that tractor?.

Retired Ashawo tring to return to active duty.

Hope our ladies would this kind of man that can stand the lion not people like us.

Mad government. You people don't know what ur citizens who are trying to establish one business or the other is facing in this country. If Ghane were to be my country by now I would have give employment to about 5 persons. But here I'm still struggling with setting up. No lite, no road, no security and no single aid from the useless government.

I hope say u no plan to eat am.

meritadavize1:
The igalas are certified haters, OP get ur fact right, the program was to empower farmers, it's was distributed along fertilizer and others farm stuff... But una hatred for governr bello won't make una go details about it....

first of it we can only see wheelbarrow here. Secondly the stuff was given to him by his own brothers so what exactly brought hatred for Bello here. Thirdly is Bello doing any well?.

Enough petrol for you be that.

Where be this in South south?.

God1000:
lol, we need to invest more in science and technology, the world is moving fast with new innovations everyday leaving us behind

we are only concerned about agriculture in this country.

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

please take my advice as a retired guy man. Don't abort the baby I repect don't abort it because u will regret later. Just up what ever u are doing or probably tell ur parents they will assist you. If I know this then my children would have all been in the university.

SparrowLeague:
it's not any herder.
it's Rivers indigen.

stop blackmailing us

English hard to understand oh. Check the meaning of herder maybe u can correct something about ur post.

This is a definition of a real man.

Francis609:
My mum have never liked my wife to the extend of wishing her death when she lost our first baby and I had disowned her for saying that. So far we haven't had any contact since the incident and we are finally proud parents of twins boy and girl born in February. My stepmother have been here for us since day 1 she is in my house taking care of my wife and babies , my mum called saying that she want to come over and take care of my wife and kids and will be spending a month . I lied to her that my wife is with her sister and will let her know when she is back to the house so she can come over. To be Frank I don't want her near my wife because she doesn't likes her and I don't think she have any good plan for us. Did I do the right thing for lying to her my wife is not around or should I give her the chance to come over and see if she have truly change?

Please If you want to understand the full story go through my old threads

I usually don't think like this but right now I'm under the impression that ur step mother has bewitched you. How on earth will speak of ur mother in this despicable manner. What ever she had said about ur wife don't u think it was because of the circumstances at that moment. Now u want to deny her the joy of staying with her grand children. I just hope u can handle the aftermath if she finds out.

shaggy007:
I agree with you.

A little bit of homeschooling, to increase the bond with the family before going out to school.

Another reason is that the immune system of these kids are not yet strong to fend of diseases.

So they need to be contained for a while before released into the world.

we that started school at 5 years what more did we learn at home?. Let them go,. when they come back, they will learn what they can with the remaining time at home.

They way they hype the road I tot it will be up to 200km. Just 29km while a former governor of Rivers State had done 34km from Igwuruata roundabout to elele Road about.
For ur information it was build with the state money not your governor's money.

LeoDeKing:
I don't believe there are shanties in Anambra.

So who are occupants of the shanties?

Because the last time I checked, 98.89% of Anambrarians are billionaires with at least 3 mansions each. The remaining 1.11% are millionaires with about one or two mansions. So who is living in shanties?

visitors

Johnnycastro18:
You won't be able to cheat in peace , beside any lady that comes to visit you as man, it would lead to suspicious attitude from your niegbour partner. To me is a no, no thing

and freely she can go and cheat outside and come back in peace.

robosky02:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/31/2022-world-cup-eguavoen-resigns-as-super-eagles-coach-after-playoff-defeat-to-ghana/

he was already on the sack roll so he just try to out smart his employer by resigning.

funkmrflexx:
She'll be staying in another state

go ahead I'm at back

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

it's not bad thing except u are planning to visit her there sometimes, which will automatically turn a bad idea

Playloaded:
According to the heartbroken man, his girlfriend said she can no longer continue the relationship because they are not compatible.

A heartbroken man has narrated how his girlfriend of five years called it quits after he spent millions of naira in getting a shop for her in Lagos.

According to the heartbroken man who shared his story with relationship coach, Joro Olomofin, his girlfriend said she can no longer continue the relationship because they are not compatible.

He Wrote,


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https://playloaded.com.ng/man-shares-heartbreaking-experience-with-girlfriend-of-5-years/

you cannot try this with my friend Joe. If u want Joe's number on what to contact me.

Iyaebe:
You are not matured,hope you’ll never ask for sex from her again.If I’m her I’ll deny you sex till I decide to let go for making me starve just because I acted silly . I hate tit for tat partners

I'm sure u are not married cos if u are, the last think in ur mind is to deny ur husband sex. As a matter fact u will even be the one asking for it. "Who know go know."

Techsupport:
I guess this is what makes Nigerian men feel like men when the exercise dominance and control over their wives.
All the food that she has given you to eat, did you participate in cooking all of them.

Are u even in a marriage or a contract.

you people will seat here and claiming what you don't know. Is it the men that does the cooking abroad?.

yinkaOdutuyo:
So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.

I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.

When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.

After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.

She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.

I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.

And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.

I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.

Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.

I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.

I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.

So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.

To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:

BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.

At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.

I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.

I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.

But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.

Bit I think as a man you have to man up.

the truth about women is that the moment u begin to help with something, they eventually leave it to you as ur responsibility.
And secondly if u have decided to cook why trying to share the cooking.
All I can say is, know ur limit. I help my wife too but the moment I discover she is waiting for me to do that think I just humbly leave it for her even if it take 3 days I don't care.
Don't mind what people are saying that it is good to help ur wife but u have to study the kind of wife u have.

starbuck:
This looks irritating

I know that fruit.I use to lick it while in primary school. I can still feel the sour sweet taste. I wonder how it suddenly went into extinction.

I'm sure they will blame PDP for losing next election because blaming PDP is all they know. Even as a civilian, if I have the control of the military I can stop this whole nuisance from boko harm, bandits and so call unknown gun men.
Bad government, bad leaders, bad elder,bad military, bad ministers who will prefer to borrow to build railway and pipeline from South to North but can not buid or fix one refinery in the country.

The Hijab they they advocate for.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
The thing is..you will have a frank and heart to heart chat and put forth your view to them..

Because in the end it's your life and your happiness that will count....your parents will surely understand and respect your decisions when you explain it to them in a patient and rational manner..or do they expect marriage to happen all of a sudden...it has to start from somewhere.
Understood?

she is twenty for God sake. She may even be in school why should relationship be her problem. Spoilt generation.

Truvelisback:
So, what is the essence of going to School if u can't express urself well? What is the evidence that u are a graduate or u are well educated?

there are people whose course does not require English. We can mark u correct if ur spell fire as faya as long as you know where u are going