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See his stupid face make Nigeria government buy nuclear weapon when we never eat well for this country. Or we go take loan from China take buy the weapon?.

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Who be this?.

U will soon see scarcity of fuel in Nigeria because of that tanker.

Fibonacci88:
My D light has been blinking intermittently for some time now. Looking for genuine Honda transmission oil is not easy. Ppl have recommended using other transmission fluid but fear no let me.

i changed my Honda pilot with transmission oil from fortoil and it is working very fine and it has be 6 months now.

Baitullah:
Some people get Ododo sha. How do you intend to farm snakes? Never heard of it

they do seriously. even our former Army chief of staff buratai has a snake farm. The problem is I don't know who will buy snake..

Teettyllayho:
Please I need advise from people with grown up kids.

Honestly, parenting is not easy. I don't even know what to do anymore.

My first son is 7 but he is kind of slow. However, he's above average in learning and he's learning at his pace. I understand all of this and I'm always happy to guide him.

But I don't know if I'm too hard or too soft on him because I use to talk to him a lot. I only beat him when he does something serious (like going against my rules, or not doing his homework when he should).

These days, whenever I scold him, he would give me a sad look and he might even shout saying: "I've heard you!" Then, he will be alone in a corner for some time.

Sometimes, I'd go close to him and tell him why I had to scold him and he'd say "I don't like it when you shout at me" I'd apologize and hug him (I don't even know if I'm spoiling him by apologizing). .

I don't know how to scold without putting a bit of action at least. Shey I'll be whispering and scolding ni? Sometimes, I'll leave him and pretend as if I didn't see him when he brings up such attitude.

Last week, he mistakenly brought back someone else's lunch box home because they look very much alike. I told him it's okay that it happens and I promised to write his name in bold when he brings back his box the next day to prevent such from happening again.

Could you believe that he came back with the other person's lunch box again? When I asked him, he said he didn't see his lunch box and the boy that took his own. Then I asked: Did you tell your class teacher? Are you sure you know the boy?

His reply: I didn't tell my teacher because I know the boy and I went to his class but he wasn't there.

So, I figured that he must have gone to check once and didn't bother to check again. And he didn't bother to also tell his class teacher.

So, I was very mad this time and told him not to bring someone else's property home again, no matter what!

I think he would have told his teacher if he really valued his property because he told me something that made me really mad the next morning.

"Mummy, or will you buy me another lunch box since we can't find mine?" Luckily for me, he was brushing his teeth then and I was bathing for his sister. The resounding slap I gave him on his back brought back his senses.

I don't know why he always want something new. He spoilt the lunch box I bought for him and his sister o and he's using another one now. That is, he wants me to buy a third one while his sister is still using the first one? How na?

I don't even know what to think. Why would he want a new box when he's barely used the new one?

Then, he's always talking about how his classmates use to bring different kinds of food ( he wasn't like this before o).

I try as much as possible to make different foods for him too, and he's stopped complaining.

We recently changed his school and his new school has quite a lot of pupils. I Don't know if that's affecting him.

Honestly, I'm bothered about the changes and I don't know how best to address it.

I've made him understand countless times that he should always be content with whatever he has and he shouldn't compare himself with anyone.

I just finished with another round of lecture now and he has tears in his eyes saying:

"Mummy, stop shouting at me. It makes me sad"

I was heartbroken and felt guilty seeing him like this and I did everything possible to make him see why I had to shout or scold.

Please how can I scold a child without shouting? Am I spoiling him? Can someone help with tips?
Honestly, I'm tired!

where is his father?.

Foolish government who band the importation of Rice that we don't have enough and also they don't pay any subsidy on it, but still import fuel with heavy subsidy.
See how senseless they are.

Rubyjade:
My cousin sister who went to study her masters just came back home with her husband to be, she introduced him to my parents and the are making arrangements already for introduction. But, I have had a one night stand with him while he was in Nigeria in the club, in the rest room for that matter and he paid me.

Should I tell my sister the kind of man she is about to marry ? The guy did not even recognize me, I guess he has done it to a lot . BL should I save my sister or mind my business?

see wetin ur toto weh they scratch
u toto want cost ur sister. Allow the boy be, except na the only guy u don fucck be that.
By the way have u no shame? How would u open ur mouth to tell ur sister that, u as lose as to fucck a guy in the toilet. Person u just met.

adewumiopeyemi:
My question is why must you collect loan if you dont this issult wount come

do u read at all?.

wirinet:
It is out of place in a sane world to blackmail a prospective groom to pay bride price (marry) the mother of the bride, because the mother's lover (bride's father) was not responsible enough to marry the mother.

But then some cultures still belong to the Paleolithic age.

why is this thing making you angry?. I have seen a similar case, but in my case the man was still alive so they said it's a taboo to take bride price on ur daughter while u haven't paid urs. Before the marriage the man had to pay his own wife bride price before he could take on his daughter.
If the guy here likes her enough he should go ahead and pay or leave the girl. But also don't forget he can also decide to house her without pay just as her father did.
I'm not from South or any where near there, but I feel they are trying to maintain some orderliness. It is an act of criminality to take bride price on ur daughter while u didn't pays urs.

wirinet:
It's not about the money but the principle. Paying even N1 is morally wrong. So what happens if the mother wants to marry another man? They will have to return my bride price?

We must learn to start taking responsibility for our own decisions and actions. It's not the guy that asked the mother to have a child for a dead beat.

see how ur mouth they sharp. If it is out of place they won't be asking for it.

U for show us the picture make we know wetin you really want sale because from where I stand, nobody go like buy Corona on.

Verysmart101:
It is a serious matter.You fail to realise that the same tradition would hunt him if he wanna do trad.The mother's trad must be done before her daughter's.U didnt remember that abiiii? He should look before u leap

there will be no party it would just be the family people I bet u it won't cost up to 150k.

Drsnives:
Good morning nairaladers, pls pardon my errors.

I met this girl late last year, she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife. i love her, though her dad is late and her mum should be in her late thirties.

Yesterday we were chatting and she was like her dad didn't do the necessary rites on her mum and hence according to tradition i will have to pay her mum's bride price to her family before i will be allowed to start her own (my babe) marriage rites. I just weak cos have never heard of such. Where i won see the money for double bride price?

Pls nairaladers, have any of you come across such ridiculous tradition or she's making it up herself cos i feel like quiting the whole thing.
I just tire. Your opinions are welcomed

Modified: she's from obiaruku in ukuwani local government area of Delta State.

I guess she is from the south south. It is not totally out of place. Try pay the money, it won't be much because they are aware u are not her husband. But if wish u can marry her without the consent of her parents.

senatrpaichulo:
The car is not for you!!! How do you buy Ferrari spare part in Nigeria? I advertised the car for people with class. Who understands antiquity and artifacts... The older the wine, the better. Do you know what it will take to make such a car stay from 1973 till now?. The 1940-1960 Mercedes collection goes for about 50M. Erase that poor man's mindset

lol. The older the better, Na wine you dey sale?. 1940 to 1960 sales for 50m in Nigeria?. You don't know where u are. Poor man mind set, talk true make devil shame, can u buy that thing u post for urself. "Ferrari part" can be seen because it is a receent car. How can somebody with his normal sense be driving car of 1973 on todays roads. At 1973 I'm sure one can count the number of cars in Nigeria.

3m

Na wa oh. If u give me that car for 600k I honestly no go buy. In fact if u keep that car and Nigeria used Toyota camry 2000, I'm sure I will prefer to pick the camry.
To me it is a sign of disrespect to drive car weh senior me. And e no stop there yet oh. The car no get airbag and where exactly we go buy the spare part or the motto no go spoil?.

Happened:
Happy Birthday Ebube Dike

Chief Pete Edochie, MON (born March 7, 1947) is a Nigerian actor. Edochie is considered one of Africa’s most talented actors, being honored with an Industry Merit Award by Africa Magic and Lifetime Achievement by Africa Film Academy Although a seasoned administrator and broadcaster.

He came into prominence in the 1980s when he played the lead role of Okonkwo in an NTA adaptation of Chinua Achebe’s all-time best selling novel, Things Fall Apart. Edochie descends from the Igbo people of Nigeria and is a Catholic. In 2003, he was honored as a Member of the Order of the Niger by President Olusegun Obasanjo.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pete_Edochie

see how he looks while our youth leader @ 68 abi na 70 they look like ancestor.

TarOrfeeek:
Definitely a Gaboon Viper

You're very lucky.

I think it is Nigeria Viper not Gaboon. Don't take lala food to other country.

TkhGuy:
I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,

Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,

Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,

I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character

The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.

I guess you already know my choice,

Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,

Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,

we are here with our legs crossed like village people.

TkhGuy:
I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,

Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,

Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,

I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character

The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.

I guess you already know my choice,

Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,

Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,

picture of the queen or I don't believe you.

Just allow the skin to heal.you had already damaged the skin.
Bleaching is not for hustlers.

L1TTLE:
I've been dating her for over three months now, first day I saw her I didn't like her or anything, I just did some biz with her, had a short Convo and left, so along the line we got familiar and we exchanged contacts, went on a casual date, then she painted herself as a God fearing girl, who don't want anything with guys, then I asked her how come her relationship status isn't single on fb, she said she put that to deter guys, I was wondering what she's doing with me since I'm also a guy then she gave me a shocker, that immediately she saw me she knew God want us to be a thing.

Honestly I'm not a God guy, I'm not religious at all, but I have good morals, I have been single for long so I decided to give it a go and we started dating.

not long after that she came to my place, and one thing led to the other and we had sex, it was a very foolish mistake I made because we agreed not to indulge, at least for like three months, and barely two weeks into the relationship we had sex, then I started noticing changes, first she became possessive, like she always wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, where I am at, and I hate that, I don't like feeling like someone owns me but she would always throw a tantrum when I point that out.

Things started going bad for me, financially I was failing here and there, it was a clusterfvck, bad luck everywhere, but I didn't think she was the cause because like I said, I'm not religious, I just believed it's just trying times they come and go, but it started shortly after the sex, I'm just stating it because it's significant.

Second, she calls herself a goddess, at first I thought it was this self appraisal thing girls do, I discovered it's not self appraisal at all, her birth name is some kind of deity where she's from, at this point I started wondering what I got myself into like she's all over me, I can't breathe, I sat her down and tried to talk to her that maybe we should breakup, she started crying and guilt tripped me into having sex with her, and since then whenever she comes around it's always sex, like I'm tired of it now, I will resist and she'll do things, touch me in places and I'll be aroused in seconds, for someone who claimed she's not into sex, she's a vixen on bed, I feel like I don't even know her anymore, lastly I have terrible nightmares now, and it's always sexual, that wasn't the case before I met her, right now I can't think of a way to free myself from her shackles, I just want to undo everything, make everybody dey him dey.

have you tried Daddy Adeboye or Oyedepo. They might have solution to ur problem because from where I stand you are in for a very long thing.

loosingfaith519:
I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him.
As soon as money enters his hand, he starts funding some online app and start gambling.
We got married last year Nov.
We have needs and plans we agreed to achieve before the end of March. Which a better accommodation is one of our first goal. Our present accommodation is not ok at all.
On my own part, I'm saving to meet up with our Target, but I discovered, he has nothing. He collected contributions last month, over 200k. All that money wasted. He can't account for it.
January salary has entered, he has started wasting it again.

I'm expecting him to provide 300k at the end of this month. So, that when I sum it with mine, we can have over 600k. Get a decent accommodation and invest the rest.
We need to plan, save for our baby, but his attitude with money is not encouraging me.
The truth is, my husband is stressing me for lack of accountability.

Pls, how do I go about a peaceful divorce? I'm confused, because I'm pregnant.

All the things I'm seeing him do, suffocate me.
What do I do?
Pls, advise me.

you are an idiot. You just got married November and u are thinking of divorce in less that 4 months. What I see here is an over possessive woman who will ruin here husband if she does not change her attitude.

RisenJoe:
Does someone who wants to commit suicide removes his cloths and that of his girlfriend?

Or is this another murder case that was made to look like a sucide

don't mind this police people. He carried the lifeless body into his car from the compound without be spotted. He drove down from lagos to Ibadan express way then pull off his clothes and killed himself, with what anyway?.

The man in the iron mask

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Typing....
Sugarpapi wow just wow..so you really had to sugar coat and paint the occurence like it's some movie..what's this all about?
Well your problem is easy..tell your wife about what y've been doing.. apologise to her..call the same gal and tell her you no longer have interest in her and wouldn't want to have anything doin with her cos you are married..
After that cut her off your life and move on.. simple and easy or you can keep deceiving yourself..

home breaker!!!! He should tell his wife that he cheated. Anyway I don't don't where ur are speaking from, but I have a feeling that it is out of ur ass.
Opps I hope won't you do what this person had said because if u try it, we will be glad to attend ur next wedding.
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She was a corper she travelled all the way to PH from kogi twice and she refused to give me kpomu. I was pissed off, but what will a just man do? As it is not our way to take it by force.she wanted to come again for third time, but I said no because I don't know if I had exceeded my elastic limit before the kingdom surfers violence.

oilPUSSY:
http://saharareporters.com/2022/02/28/nigerians-stage-protest-abuja-over-russian-invasion-ukraine-0

useless people when we have bandits kiddnapers and Boko haram ravaging people here, yet they do not protest about it..

Pursue all those girls flocking around you, then go for one that u like. All those girls around you are actually chasing girls from you and also, every of them believes u are already doing something with the others so they have to play safe.