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God1000:
I'm completely fed up with my neighbour that sees my munificence/beneficence as stupidity.

He screwed himself up due to his improvidence and gallivanting lifestyle, he's a pain in my neck right now.

He's married, his wife has been sharing my cooking gas with me for over three months now since his own was taken away as sequestration.

I'm a salary earner, he's a bike rider, but due to his unseriousness he doesn't have his own bike, dude is a drifter.

I'm thinking of leaving the place because this whole thing is insufferable, his wife isn't helping as well, maybe due to immaturity, all she does is cook, eat and play.
Frugality is one of my 2022 new year resolutions, I don't want anything or anyone to interfere with my life next year.

We both agreed to fill the gas together, but he doesn't contribute much, I end up spending twice than the usual amount before.

These people have benefited so much from me because they know I'm a cheerful giver, they collect almost everything from me including money, I really don't want spongers in my life next year.

I've advised him countless times to look for another alternative, but he's hard of hearing with his lackadaisical altitude.

My biggest concern right now is how to withdraw myself completely without causing enmity between us because we're really close, yesterday I put my cooking gas inside before going to work against the usual act of giving them everyday when I'm leaving for work. None of this shit will happen if I'm married, but I'm single.

Does withdrawing myself from them make me a bad person? This is a serious dilemma, I'm at my wit's end.

just buy a stove.

No small respect to the dead. See how they carry them.

Ok oh

thesicilian:
With his lean budget of 600k I'll suggest he goes for the second option

as what nah? Was he a painter or a mechanic. If he tries no 2 his money will vanish before 4 months.

Raalsalghul:
I like your husband already.

don't u think he is greedy?. Why would he marry wen he is not ready to have a child and he didn't discuss it with her before marriage.

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

as a real Niggar I will advise you to stop calling her and try to reduce any form of contact with her.also look for another girl to cushion yourself for the shock ahead . She is seeing another man whom she believes is better than u.

Good bless Africa see how old he looks at 41.

GurlFriend:
They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes

did u read the post? Or you have an already existing problem with my gender?.

Why one leg of his trousers long pas the other.

dre11:
https://punchng.com/some-people-will-blame-buhari-if-they-cant-get-pregnant-amaechi/

with this kind of stress he has put people,, why won't he be blamed for lack of pregnancy.

alignacademy:
Hi there

Please can you help?

Just received the message below from a friend working in the Plateau State Civil Service:

Good evening my dear...I'll soon be retiring from service by the grace of God, come February 2022, any vacancy for me somewhere as a Fire Safety Officer?

Please what do you suggest as the best way to connect him with legit career opportunities and not scams?

Thanks for your help

@backT
@LaurelP
@davide470
@mukina
@uboma

this what is killing this country. Somebody will retire and still come out to be looking for job while some person had not gotten any before.

donklens:
This is the weather condition in port Harcourt is covered with Black soot as you can see the plantain and the rest are all black, this is what we have been inhaling here 24hrs, u always wear bathroom slippers in ur house, u mop ur house every time even when all windows are shut and Air conditioned, u must noticed ur hand and sole covered with Black Soot like a norm here.

Please I plead with the Governor of Rivers State and those concerned to put a stop in this black soot people inhale every time, this calls for an Emergency.

black soot or rain? Stop misleading people or is it not the same weather I saw this morning before the little rain.

Why are they always doing this.

I don't know why Buhari is this wicked why would he do that to them.

2.5m I come for it.

I see!!!! That is why they don't understand what we are passing through here.

Lies. See the second picture, he is dodging from been hit. The first one also shows that he was been absolutely controlled. This are even the best pictures they can provide.

From where I stand, I see no aggression from the boy.

HornyTave:
Building a house ain't very difficult except you want a mansion as your first house.
One thing I've understood about real estate, no matter where your land is, development will reach there so instead of buying Expensive land with limited Cash, its advisable to buy Land at developing areas, lands in these areas are very cheap.
Secondly planning is everything, you dont need to kill yourself all in the name of ' I want to build House ', one system is to divide the work loads in section. You can decide to build normal 3 bedroom flats. 45 bags of cement blocks would be needed. moulding 25 bags in a calendar year means in 2 years you've gotten all the blocks needed, then next, you save up for foundation, sand filling etc....

House no really hard to build, na laziness coupled with pride make Papa Emeka still be tenant after all his years in the City.

no be as u think oh!!!! Just DPC has cost me about 3 million.

Now everybody will be blaming the woman, ofcourse what she did is wrong but the master blame should go to our useless government that had deprived the people right to to hospital.

Kriss216:
Underestimate village people at your own risk.


God rest her soul.

this no be village people. It is our poor medical system she was looking good in the last picture at the hospital. If she was given a good medical attention she wouldn't have died.
Our bad medical attention is killing us and we are busy calling village people that still suffers the same thing.

Na so they give one olosho this kind thing after fuccking her 2 days.

Hell fire is real.

If this one engine spoil, where we go see am buy?

Wait, this senior me?

desiredhome:
Yes we important almost everything including food... almost every Nigerian wants quick money (corruption) so are not ready to work, the reason they import......
The little they produced here, they out of greed inflate the prices.....
We were importing rice to the extent they started importing plastic as rice to us.....etc
If not for rice revolution in Nigeria, by today maybe the imported rice would've made rice cost over #50,00:00 per bag

you can say that because in the neighbouring countries rice is still within the range of 11 to 15k

I missed that school sha!!!!

desiredhome:
Things are not only high in Nigeria, it's all over the world after the lock down......
The question is how do you manage yourself after the pandemic as a consumer nation you are?........
With the high rate of corruption, you go complain tire .....

what aee the basic need of a common man just food and shelter. Do we import that too?.

favor914:
She is only pointing out the hypocrisy blinding you people. Bishop should not be making statements like that, when we clearly know that he is a Pdp sympathizer?

are you saying his words are wrong about the present government.
If u don't know let me tell u this country is finished under Buhari's watch. 16mm rod that use to in between 3300 to 3500 is now 7800. Young men that are struggling can not do anything because of the price of things.

Drienzia:
The problem sometimes isn’t really the government. We are so engrossed in disorderliness as a people, even while growing up, we attribute disobedience to bravery. This is the resultant effect as an adult

the bridge is till under construction. Beat traffic lite in PH and have wile boys to deal with

wallstreetnews:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EeMpPyJIFVc

https://www.instagram.com/mufasatundeednut/tv/CXWLe1Cj_u-/?utm_medium=copy_link

honestly is u that is mad. That bridge is still under construction so the lite is not in use. Stay there till somebody hit u from behind.

Geeeky:
Aunty, as you kill yourself wetin u gain, see how complete she is, nawa o... as long as death didn't come knocking at my door, I'll live my life to the fullest o

don't worry when steal offering and they catch like sister Maureen you go then no say suicide no be clear eyes.

toyad1:
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