₦airaland Forum

adedolapoololade:
You be werey

this is how to identify a poor person.

How did u make the 7m?. Why not focus on what gave u that money and forget about leaving in another man's country.

800k

kernniejay:
cc : Mynd44, luvinhubby, diportivo, siena, GAZZUZZ, nurey, dru2.

this car no dey market again nah . Except u want buy Nigeria Used.

Zonefree:
Get your own older men and be happy or are you allergic to happiness

that has been her wish. But which old man ready to die in the hands of this serpents.

Coregists:
Will anything good come out this state

Meanwhile more details here>>>>https://salemgists.com/young-lady-found-lifeless-in-a-hotel-in-makurdi-benue-state/

all the yams you have eaten and will ever eat comes from their except you will have to grow ur own.

LeoDeKing:
Very easy for Obiano who is from Anambra.

It could be recalled Anambra is the home of billionaires with each person owning at least 3 super mansions in places like Lagos, Abuja and Rivers State.

Is just to call any Anambrarian to come satisfy those little conditions. Infact, even the 42 billion can be paid by any Anambrarian you see on the street.

Obiano is leaving efcc custody within 30 minutes jor.

they have money but most of them are not civil servants.

I was wondering why is the bed that small however I think I now know why.

If u want to have peace of mind in Ghana, avoid dating fair girls. They are like hot cake in that country.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I always try to wonder and understand why you folks allow your parent or mother have a say in your marriage life...
Why give her that space to even have the audacity to call your girl out whenever there's an issue that can be trashed out..

If you like don't stand your ground and be a man..leave her to ruin your life affair cos of her attitude..it's disgusting at the same time nonsense..let me not talk..

Modified:you already broke up? look go back to that lady and apologise..as for ya momma don't she or you have a house of her/your own? why on Earth is/are she/you still residing with you/her...give yourself/her some privacy..go get her/yourself an apartment and apologise to that innocent lady you hurt..you know what you want for yourself..stand for it and let no mere being have a say in your life...

what do u expect from a man that chose to stay with his mother after separation.

If they were in my country they can not walk freely like this because of their father's sins.

Olujaysmiths:
Jesus wept (john 11 vs 35)

what is it that like about Jesus wept?

Malachi 3:10-12. Daniel 3 :28-29

Bestiee01:
Some men really do have terrible choice in who they sleep with.even if konji wan kill me,I rather masturbate than sleep with this ugly, shapeless mofo.

I beg where the ugly girl or u know her before?. Because from where I stand I can't see any ugly person here. Except my eyes are deceiving me.

jonaifame22:
We started dating in January.

She cries and whines on my bed like she has just heard the news of the passing of a loved one.

have you checked the size of ur ddick relative to her pussssy. It might just be too much for her to handle.

Israelo16:
I know everywhere tight but walahi na the price

you changed the price nah, I been see 2.55m.

Isreal fear God oh!!!! fear oh!!!! For this hard weather u want steal from people.

AnonyUser:
I'm thankful to all the contributors on my previous thread here: https://www.nairaland.com/7032114/how-greet-neighbor-just-gave

I took the advice of some matured Nairalanders, rehearsed them couple of times, went with a little courage and overcame.

Some people from my previous thread were asking me what's difficult in going to greet someone who gave birth?

Well, that's what makes us different. To you it's easy. But for some of my type, it's very difficult.

The one I hate more than anything is going for condolence visit. I don't know of any other visit as hard as that. I always avoid that sh!t

Anyways, once again, thank you all.

hope na my advice you use.

GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

too much hunger in the land. So many girl ordinarily wouldn't have dated some people if not for hunger. And there are no enough job outside for them to do here in this country. The male has taken over alot of job that would have been for them and yet it is even not enough for the men. So help them is u can but my problem is that they still want u to be romantic while u have many bills including their's to pay.

4teenblaq:
Because me, I am tired of this country, I want to relocate, it seems no thing is actually working here again.

Government ZERO
Food ZERO
Electricity ZERO
job ZERO
School ZERO..

instead of going to any africa country, I advise you to stay in Nigeria. Nigeria is heaven compare to all black africa nations. I'm even sure we are better than the north Africa countries at the moment

AnonyUser:
Just like that?

Bro, e get as e be nah.

ha you want talk plenty?. Ok go there, first of all, say congratulations than fellow am up with na wah oh I no know say this belle don reach to deliver oh!!! God is wonderful. Madam u really try. Then fellow am up with another congratulations then con rap am off with I like this kind new born babies eh when I look at them sometimes I find it difficult to believe we were all like this at one point I repect God.
Before u finish all this conversation the people must have bring in 1 or 2 response that will elongate the talk.
Then come back here and thank me. But don forget to buy something for the little baby. You can buy 3kg of sunlight detergent the pink one it is less than 5k.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Did they really kill this lion in self defense or they killed it for fun?
Can they prove that they killed this Lion in self defense..why do Africans always glorify and smile at the death of an animal?
They should be investigated..you don't just shoot and kill a Lion in an horrible manner then claim self defense..

Let's see pictures of the attacked hunters..let's see everything..this is not nice..

Modified:if you don't understand my point don't quote me to display your Petty attitude.. disgusting and primitive people who feel it's ok to brutally kill a lion for fun..

sometimes I listen to u people and I wonder where u speak from. A country where hunger strives and nobody cares, a country where human live does not matter, it is the same country u are expecting that the life of an animal should matter.

If u cannot give a correct information about the odometer, I wonder what else iwould be wrong.

ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

to see genuine girl now hard oh. So what u have to to keep the one u love.

Preshieben:
Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?

who cares!!!!! Your life, your pussyy handle it anyhow you want.
But the truth is that 80% of guy that comes are you is because of ur pussyy and if they remain with u after the Congo shining, it would be what u can offer that will keep them.

HenryDion:
I believe the secret is working out, eating right, having enough sleep, surrounding yourself with positivity, and loving yourself.

I see guys claim they don't give a damn about hitting the gym, that all they care about is making money.

F&ck it!

Working out wouldn't stop you from making money. Don't use that as an excuse. If anything, the clarity of mind after a workout will give you the confidence.

I'm a testimony.

Take your health very seriously. Work out, eat right, have enough sleep.

Your future self will thank you.

Health is wealth.

You're free to crush tho

PS: NL males who are easily intimidated or prone to envy, you're free to leave your comment

nobody should say that.

Betterprospect:
Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.

I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.

Now my dilemma is:

1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?

2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?

3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.

4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.

P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.

leave him and invest on that ur 50k business. U can grow it. If u decides to stay a year or two at the end you might not even get any much money than what u have now.and u Will begin to get use to the work.

Totilopussylick:
Could be that the bird came from Edo state

that bird flew all the way from a foreign zoo. Una come kill just for nothing

So fine girls dey prison like this and niggas no know to extend search to that place.
See the other one Nyash.

ElonEmpire:
GoodMorning all ,

I will make this as short as possible.
Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,

I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can.
While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.

But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything.
She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.

What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war
We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.

I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.

But right now am seriously confused
it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.

I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .

What could be her reasons and
What should I do?

I honestly wonder why stuff like this should border you?. As a matter of fact u have a perfect marriage you are the one disturbing yourself. When u pray to God that he should bless you so can be a blessing to others, was your wife there?. Why putting her into it now?. Do you know if she prays in opposite direction.
Just do ur stuff without telling her?. And if u must give to her people, give it to her if she like let her give it to them or not, it's her business.

Check her very well she must have joined APC.

They no dey buy land build house for abroad?. Just asking as an average Nigeria man.