₦airaland Forum

wunmi590:
I'm writing based on the thread that grace the front page either this week or last, see below for the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6833377/type-relationship-desire

In my own opinion, I feel it is the full responsibilities of every man, to foot every bills in your home, you claim to be the head and as the head you should always be responsible and not shy away from your responsibilities..

It is only broke men that fight their wives to share mans responsibilities, if you are not capable to take up your sole responsibility, please remain single..

You can't see Dangote or Femi Otedola splitting bills at home with their wife..

Your woman can only support you at her own will without being told to do so....

Know this and have peace of mind

u have done noble with write up but just wondering how you would match up a case where the woman's salary Is greater than that of the man and the woman still depend on the man for everything.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

leaving with ur girlfriend!!!!as if that is not enough you still stay with her for 1 Year 8 months na wah for u. That's even longer than many marriages. Some girls sef!!! She no get parents? How come they allow her to stay with a man who is not her husband. Anyway, her eyes do open if u want puck go marry her.

MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

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Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

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What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

you a are wicked woman. What makes her less of a human. Because she works for you does mean she can not grow.
Someone that takes care of ur children, u still see her as nobody meanwhile u are the nobody. Because you are privilege to marry a wealthy man u are now seeing urself like Lord. If u are wealthy from ur home, ur husband would not talk to u the he is doing.
My little advise to you is that u should endure ur father inlaw will move out soon.

Fahdiga:
I doubt this news to be true

there was a video to that effect.

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

let her be. This is a sign of over possessive wife. You have done enough with the option of her going to her own church because normally she is supposed to follow you to ur church. Leave to her church brethren to marry her if she does not want fellow u to ur church. You will get a better lover than her.

TheGameYard:
Quick question. Did he snap with Buhari?

he wouldn't try it.

Lovexme:
Why does the headline make it seem like Rivers Angels are winning 3-0?

it alway that deceptive. They had miss lead me sometimes ago too so when I saw the headlines I had to open up the trend to be sure it is what I saw but unfortunately it was the reverse.

todaynewsreview:
It was a big surprise coming across this in a construction site today.

With all these warnings in the image below, why do people still smoke especially newbies?

maybe we see the picture in a reverse form.

RealMarv:
Most guys I know don't like it when a lady is taller than them especially if they are developing feelings for her. They prefer a lady who is short or of average height. The surprising thing is that even the majority of tall guys prefer going for short ladies.

This begs the question, are tall ladies not attractive? Why are guys intimidated when they are with tall ladies?

no be so! Statistics have it that tall girls no dey get nyash.

Shile981:
I got a loan of 3k from them on October 21. I was supposed to repay back with #3700 on 28th of October but I couldn't due to insolvency. After 3 days of being overdue, Easy Money started sending blackmailing messages to my contacts, telling them that I am a criminal and a thief with all sort of unestablished claims.
Because of the embarrassing messages being sent to my contacts, a family member help me with some fund to clear the debt, I transferred #3000 to Easy Money
Their agent called me and threaten that he will not clear me and that he will keep sending those messages to my contacts after I told him I will not pay the interest on the loan
It was after that I start receiving another form of threat from this agent

who are you leaving the interest for.

X

mattmogan88:
So today I was poking around in my family old stuffs when I stumbled on my grandma's wooden box. I opened it I found a lot of interesting stuffs inside. There's this small bag that contains old Nigerian currency, both note and coins. It pained me somehow because thats a cool cash back in the days.

money weh grand ma for give boys to go buy akara see how she keep am till e become useless.

Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

you checked all this things without even giving small thought to big pricck. Just be careful with her she will get use to it and alway use lubricant.

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM


https://politicsnigeria.com/breaking-unknown-gunmen-kill-police-officers-in-port-harcourt/

Those police men on that side are never concentrated on the work they are just there to Google people's vehicles lenses and ask you to pay an outrageous amount if there is any error. I guess that was what they where doing for them not to take note of their surroundings.

aysnoopy:
The question shouldn't be directed to everybody.
The question should be directed to whoever celebrate 2 months goals.
There are seasons that Messi do well than Ronaldo and vice versa. That's why they compare the two.
We all know that Ronaldo is doing well more than Messi since the beginning of this season, though season has not end yet.
Like I said earlier, Ronaldo is great, no doubt, likewise Messi.
Case closed
Bye

just wonder who else people compare Ronaldo to if not Messi.

Messi would be like whaaaaat?.

Timekeeper:
One of the worse State in Nigeria, kogi

no true atleast we are building flyover.

3million last for that matter car of 12 years ago.

1.850m I send someone to inspect it and pick it up.

570k

Mary08134:
Good morning
Please I all need your help
How can I cure mouth odour please
It really affecting me
Any suggestions is welcome
Thanks

go take shakeoff it is an edmark product. come and take me later with a kiss.

Maxymilliano:
This is stupidity, the smugglers might not be living in those villages .

Government should stop behaving like bandits and terrorists

even if smugglers are leaving there, are they suppose to burn people's village. What is happening to us in this country.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

I would have asked for his number but this is a public space just wished I know him in person and we have small relationship. But my dear, marriage is a bit different from having a boyfriend you can also not expect to have it all from your husband.

Dangote reduce the price of cement. Buhari reduce the price of rod.

I blame Buhari and Dangote. Who know go know.

Iliveforever:
It’s 1st October but I think this is the highest joke of the month

He’s seriously planning for his retirement options

oboy try not to take us back to the month we had successfully escape from the hardship our government had created. Do you know how much I spent just in October? Now you want to take us back so I can repeat the expenses.

Mastakija:
African parents are fond of doing that thing
They'll b like "your children will do the same to you" even what d child did was intentional or not...
And if everything happen now
dem go dey shout Egun idile upandan

me I see that as a prayer to give u long life to see your children. I can remember my mum use to tell me that so one day I told her that I will not even have children let alone them worrying me. Quickly she told me to shut up my mouth. That I will have children.

Nonpartisan1:
https://punchng.com/well-devq3waaa/@Wq"s/qelop-nigeria-as-we-did-before-says-new-pdp-chairman-iyorcha-ayu/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1635674596

truly you people didn't do well but it's just you were better than what we have now.

Federal Government no mind that governor just give me 5 billion I will fix that road and bring back small change.

I can't believe she actually dressed like that to a public space.

AdeOri99:
At least our politicians will stay in their country to receive treatment, but what happens to previous presidential hospitals

that one has only two bed space and we need 14 bed space so we need to collect the money for 14. I hope this explanation is clear enough for you people to let us rest in peace.

Patrioticman007:
Chinko all the way, These Chinese are truly contributing to the development of Africa, unlike our Christian, crusaders aka colonial masters.
How I wish it was China that colonized Africa, Nigeria would have reached its full potential as not only giant of Africa, but also a security council member.

why bringing Christianity into this? Or in your myopic thinking, you think China is a Muslim country.