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Sagamite: You are a person!

Your brain is worthless!

Same way your entire life is a mistake...just get a rope and a squeaky chair and end it...spare us your folly..

Sagamite: You sound like a pathological person!

Tell me about it bro....seems you talking outta of experience.

Sagamite: person, you know it is not only me that has told you that you are a person?

How many threads have you opened now that people have joined and told you that your are a cretin?

About 5?

hoohohoho..and the drunk jobless Arrow opens his gutter mouth again..pray tell....who released you??fccking fcck..feels good to read from you man...have been busy and stressed all day..feels so good to read the words of a serial ph000l...oops..did i just call you a ph000l...ouch..it hurts but thats what you are...you are a monumental failed ph00l....deal with it and get off ma case.

Sagamite: You are a person!

Have you not destroyed your worthless brain yet?

s1lly Arrow feeling fly on NL.....go face the real world you monumental dumb0000.....all you do is flex your insipid vocabulary skills on NL...go get a job and a life...bleeding ph00l....

Sagamite: Explain to me the vision of one Northern governor.

N1ggah..who released you

the easiest and most effective way to lose weight is through heartbreak....not some s1lly stressful exercise.

MRbrownJAY: ^^^ you do know that a woman can get these dudes under Marina bridge to cripple your aaasss when YOU fukc up...... Beware of what you wish for!

bro..the best form of defense is still attack...when you attack first you intimidate your opponent man..it works well..try it man....

N1ggah should get even...for fccks sake it will only cost him 20k to get some dudes under marina bridge-akpongbo...let them cripple the b1tch..no time...

Op...wots the latest on your babe??....oh..i know...she has finally left you abi..she has finally broken the news that you dread so much...hahahaha....you are hurting man..guess thats why you have not come on NL for a while now...cheer up bro..some of dem gals are b1tches man..try log on lets cheer you up man....peace..

She cheated cos she felt I never loved her...I just had to let her go..I hate her for causing me such heartache...may she feel the same pain I passed thru 300million times..desh say so

Cripple the b1tch...let her enjoy a slow painful existence...rubbish

mehn...women....the guy should inflict pain on her..like cripple her or something..he should do something that will definitely last her for life...permanently cripple her and the husband will assuage the man's feelings.

Idowuogbo: ^shyte!!! Damn! Damn! Damn! Kai! Osano!
Deshy! Abeg pause d gist Biko!

dear..u know every nah..even here on NL..i dey even make mouth with her...never knew she was like the rest of them...God dey sha....

Idowuogbo: See u smiling... Gat u! U'll b fine desh!

Thanx dear....still in shock..am like..so this is who i would have married?..so this is who would have had the rare honor of birthing desh's cute kids....geeeeeeeeeez...........my ex fall ma hand finish..still cant fathom why she did what she did..for fccks sake this chic accepted me back then in school..when boys never even chop...stayed with me all thruout 2010 which till today ranks as the worst year of my life....she stayed with me in abject poverty till God heard our cries and blessed me with an awesome job.....she was with me in my wilderness...its just sad...my friends and family are still in shock...this was a gal i was so proud of..i boasted and bragged with her..all i ever wanted was make her proud and boy..she was so so proud of me and ma achievements..she was ma world..her smile was all i needed to work hard...i was even planning an elaborate engagement this November....with all our friends from back then in attendance...i am still in shock....hardly sleep at night...all i keep asking myself was..what went wrong...

Idowuogbo: Awwwh my boi is Heartbroken! Oya let's start our e- flirt na! My sugar banana! How ur kini?

Hahahahahahahahahahaha.....a kini self dey down mehn...e still dey hurt..lol

Idowuogbo: Aaaawww... My stalker got d stinger! Jokes apart, desh as in d same gal u keep going on about? Ur fiancé rite? She got drugged and her father was happy to hand over his daughter to sum1 dat drugged her? White lies! Lies! Lies! It's sad gals dat cheat try cover it all up wiv obvious lies. I guess to love is natural but to understand d variations of love is wisdom. She went as far as getting pregnant? Dats cold! Erase d fawcking LovePeddler from ur memory if u can.* hugs*

You r right dear..am copin buh its nt easy...I will be fine..thanx dearie...ur words of comfort means a lot to me.

Dlyna: I've been in your girl's position. Although I didn't cheat I left my almost 5yrs relationship for another guy. And when I realised how stupid I was cause I wasn't adored by this other guy like my previous guy.
I went back. But it was too difficult for him to look past the fact that I've been with someone else. I begged, cried....in as much as he wanted to take me back, it was so hard. I knew I couldn't be with someone who doesn't trust me either and that I really messed up. So I had to let go. We both know we love each other but can't be together anymore.
Honestly I think every girl passes through this phase especially if you are the first and only guy she has been with. And we become better persons after losing so much to fantasy.
I'm not sure you should continue for now cause you'll only start hating her.
Just let her go. If she's yours, you'll come back. But if she isn't but one thing I'm sure of is that you'll both find love again and be happy. Its just a lesson learnt. No one is perfect.
Most of my friends can't believe I did what I did. I can't even believe it myself. But such is life. I'm happy it happened now, cause I appreciate the man in my life now and I don't feel its because I'm too whatever...
You'll only end up hating her if you don't let her go.

God bless you for your assertion...its priceless..gals pursue fantasies more dan reality..a gal is ready to lose a sweet 5yr old relationship cos of a single affair..the truth abt guys is dat no matter ow many gals a guy sleep with,he still loves his main gal to death..gals just wake up nd tk s1lly decisions dat will haunt them for life..op should just move on jor...a gal dat cheated on her guy while wearin his engagement ring is demonic.

Fcckin thread and fcckin op...useless signs indeed...same gal will show you these signs but will run off with another man ...nansense..

O boy sup with the matter??/....abeg give us gist

nne3870: dn't mind him, with the mentality he has he would remain a saddist for a very long time

Hey you..its ma opinion..and i suggest you respect it...i can't remember countering yours..kindly respect yourself...i won't be this nice next time...

SERVES THE GAL RIGHT...it feels good seeing a guy dump a gal ...it sure do feel good...the gal should just go find a rope and a squeaky chair and end it...she was rejected,abandoned and dumped like hot coal..nobody wants her..let her just end her misery...rubbish s1lly naija gals...ph00lish ph00ls...let her end her life jor...


@op...abeg buzz me the guy email..i wanna thank him jor..he sure is a good man...may God bless his hussle in the foreign land...

@op..you hit the nail on the head but you forgot to include ebonyi on your list..ebonyi and abia are the symbol of underdevelopment in igboland..with two redundant governors..don't knw d kind of blood dat flows in the veins of the citizens of both states..they just allowed their governors to reign supreme..tufia..no governor can try such sh1t in my beloved anambra state..lie lie..we go burn them..same ish we did to d dimwit mbadinuju nd chris uba..Anambra..always setting the pace for other states to follow.

Gals.....just got to work and heard the said gal is doing her introduction this weekend.my friend confirmed from her brother..who called and adviced him to forgive his sister and move on...am so devasted..we all thot she was the one for our friend...but seriously gals r somethin else..why lead dis guy on,why didn't she say what was on her mind all dese yrs?what is in this life self that a grown gal will be postin a guy for 3yrs?why will a gal stay with a guy durin his tryin tyms nd leave when things get better?why do most igbo gals disappoint their men?what is all these for God's sake?

@all..the guy is depressed..he was adviced to tk a few days off from work..as I type,the gal's number is still switched off nd she has remained incommunicado..infact some of our guys went to her office today at kpmg nd were denied access to see her..everybody is still in a state of shock..I remember visiting the guy some few weeks back..durin the ramadan public hols..we all had a nice tym with the chic..we even discussed about family nd kids and she contributed extensively..at a stage she nd the guy were even arguin on d number of kids they would love to hv...so its nt like d guy neva discussed marriage with her..I knw dis guy..he is wot u will term mr perfect guy..he loves only this gal,even kips malice with his sister all becos of this gal,he has never cheated on her nd has always provided for her so hence his shock..gals r really something else..I just pray dis guy pulls thru..cos he might get suicidal..gals..am really scared sha.

LastApostle: Nairaland,
My girlfriend invited me to an unschedule meeting with a strange man whom she introduced as her fiancee. I understand that she has even taken the rich man to her parents who certifies him and they have given their blessings to them.

The rich man offer to pay me the sum of N1,000,000 to steer clear of his ''wife'' as a contribution to all the assistance I have given her. it is to my credit that she is a graduate.
My girlfriend adviced me to accept the money offered me by her NEW man saying she had kept the affair secret from me because she never wish to hurt me as I am a good man.
What do I do?

Bro,d gal is a good gal..some gals will marry the man without bathin an eyelid..those kind of gals don't have conscience or feel any guilt...moreover u messed up by even thinkin abt d offer..d best u would hv done was to thank them for the offer and politely remind d gal that you did all those stuffs because u loved her and u never expected her to pay back..dat way u would hv made ur point nd karma would hv fought 4 u..bt as it is nw..u will never get a dime nd the gal back..mark ma word,dem go dey look u like one hungry mofo..ow poor r u dat u will be demandin for money from an ex?o boy me go break any man head for even tellin me such rubbish...wot is 1m?..all these mushin boys sha..nawaoh

Women...there is nothing I would not see in this life...a friend and colleague arranged a secret engagement party today at lareal hotel vgc..his gf was oblivious of the plot...he invited a couple of friends (me inclusive) to the engagement bash...everything was moving on fine till around 9.30pm when he went down on his knees and proposed to his gf of 3yrs...to our shock ,the gal just lifted the guy up,hugged him and ran outta of bar...she rejected the ring..this is a gal that he has dated for 3yrs,has always loved and cherished this gal,never lifted his hands on her...infact we were all in shock,at a point pity replaced shock,there is nothing as depressin as watchin a grown man cry..I weak..this happened in the prescence of the guys close friends nd relatives..what can be worse than this my people?what will make a gal reject her man of 3yrs,in public for that matter..am just down and sad...

naptu2: Wow! It's clear? What's your evidence?

I said methinks bro..not definite..its a possibilty though..

stormm: I think folks here should be careful in their contributions. Ugo is a personal friend of about a year and people should be cautious before spewing their gibberish on people or events they know nothing about. Ugo is a young man that recently finished his Msc in Unilag. He got a job for which he should resume in October 2012 after several months of being without a job

A thoroughly detribalised young Nigerian, he moved into the house around UPS area, Gbagada after he got back from his 3-day honeymoon on Wednesday. Only for the police to kill on on Thursday.

Please, lets be mindful of other people's sensibilities and not doubt the veracity of this particular story. I am personally touched because, I saw him that day around 4pm. He was in the company of the same friend mentioned in the story. The friend came in from the UK to attend Ugo's wedding. And they met again when he came back from his honeymoon.

To those who think the story sounds somehow, may they be killed 5 days after their wedding

N1ggah you have said nothing...wot in fccks name is the morale of ur story?methinks d said guy or his wife jilted somebody..(His is a clear case of revenge.

Seems like a hitjob to me...maybe a jilted lover from d guy or wife's end must hv done d job...nd made it look like it was d police.

holyeye: @ OP,
Bleed no more.

Wash your mourning raiment.

Get your swag on. Act differently.

Do some turn around to everything around you.

Your relationship is obviously unhealthy at this time.

Efforts to address this issue will make you two drift apart more.

It will be seen as nagging which is very unattractive for a man. Nothing is unusual.

Spice up your life with or without her. New cologne, new shoes, clothes, gadgets, work out, smile etc are all you need.

Though you may hurt deep within, it does not kill, try nd shun it.

Thereafter take her out on a very romantic date with the new you. Laugh all through, play all through, look into her eyes affirmatively all through d date with absolute forgiveness. It is important you do not fake it.

Please endeavour to resist every attempt to bring up the gory topic of her ineptitude. I forsee a very passionate night afterwards.

This may mend your relationship and put an end to her new found place of exciting solace OR may result in complete confession of her undying love for her new found lover which will enable you both part amicably. Please note that she has a right to be happy irrespective of the nature of events that lead to same. It is safer than marriage under pretense.

If she opts for the latter, that is confessing to love the new guy more, there is a high probability that in 5 yrs she may regret the decision especially if the romantic date and passionate night unfolds accordingly. The graphic image of the new you will never leave her memory. When you eventually find someone else, she would grief with envy because she would notice a trasure is lost, if indeed you are a treasure.

If you both choose the option of mending your relationship which implies that the new you worked, please do not be regimented. Be dynamic in everything.

To answer your question, pend any discussion on Marriage with both families for a few more months and please disregard any attempt to cajole her back to you by sharing the ongoing with her family members. What happens between two dating or married couples should be kept within.

We all have failed at one time or the other. Expect less, Love her more!

Wrong advice bro...no offence but u r wrong..d more d op stays on his own,d more d gal clings to the new guy..dats d bitter truth..the no contact technique doesnt work for people that have been in a long term relationship..it is for people dat dated for like 4-6months nd broke up..in op's case,d gal don see am finish..nothin is new unlike her new guy dat she is discoverin new things about him daily...gosh..don't u knw ow a new relationship is?how all u do is hangout with ur new catch,all d dates,s3x,games ,outings etc...abeg put urself in d gals's shoes..wouldn't u be so keen on knowing ur new gal than ur old gal...abegi tell op d truth..his gal is gone full stop...think d best advice we can give him is on how best to heal..not giving him hope where there is none.

Poison her,or set up an accident that will cripple her permanently for life..do not kill heroooo...let her be alive to suffer the rejection and shame...rubbish upon ingredients..I pray my legally married wife tries such ish with me..I won't even accost her..na to kill am slowly be dat.nansense.

BOLOSKY: OP should also pic d nasty things dude has done to his chic within those 4 days...like pulling her hair while he cumz on her face..do u xpect her to tell u all dat.

Lmfao....u wan give op hbp..but its d truth sha..@op..ur gal for don even use dat same mouth wey she use kiss u give the guy better head..infact d guy for don even c0me for him mouth...chaiii...women..lawd hv mercy.