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Bro she is gone...she is obviously not feeling you anymore..she has somebody else..just forget her man..but don't break d relationship by ursef..let her do d breakup herself..dat way ur conscience will be clear..just detach ursef frm her..tho painful bt very necessary man..welcome to manhood bro..you become a man the day you are played and dumped by a woman...

Mehn lovely topic...just met this gorgeous brillant gal 2weeks ago and am already thinking of marriage...geez...it depends on the chemistry u feel with the person...

@ojdollars...akpa amu gi there...how dare you compare texas and lagos? Do you know lagosians provide virtually everything they need to make life easy for them,ranging from power,gd health care,education,housing,water,security etc..then the only infrastructure that govt has monopoly (which is road) is now tolled.after paying tax someone will insist I pay tolls too..of what use is my tax then?.have you been to ajah-epe axis?what has govt done for those people?no decent general hospital,no modern public school,nothing at all...yet eti osa accounts for like 60percent of property tax generated by the LSG...the annoying thing is that the said road is built below standard..who builds huge roundabouts these days?come to ajah roundabout nd see the incompetence of the LCC guys..has d road eased traffic..NO..yet you want people to pay tolls..we are just too docile in this country..nobody wants to challenge govt..no wonder the govt takes us all for a ride cos they know all we can do is talk but no action.rubbish

Nwoke n'ife...truly to Be a man is not a day'a job...God help you man!

This Debe guy runs his mouth anyhow...always granting interviews to all these amateur newspapers...I don't believe he is ikemba's son..a true son does not discuss sensitive family issues in public..d man is just a sellout jor...no wonder ikemba rejected him..a grown man running his mouth like a woman...smh

@op...P4VS20 has said it all...worst that can happen is her telling you no...tell her ow u feel ..better try and fail than not try atall..but to be honest,this chic will not fall for you..dats d bitter truth..going by the way u've described her..she is way way pretty nd she knows it..she has no time for small timid boys..,nd moreover she is d very first gal you intend asking out...I suggest you leave her nd build up ur confidence by asking out nd playing with other not too fine gals...who knows,by your final year,u might just snatch up this chic..my 2 cents tho

charles009: i told u to take a walk, rather tha spit too niggi! dont need ur advise bst

Fcck you man...u r sick nd bereft of any iota of braincells..phool talking to desh..go grab some balls nd tell ur ex galfriend d plain truth..u can't stand up to some gal dat gave u life when u had none..its desh u wanna raise ur s1lly voice at..I wish I can B1tch slapp u nw..monkey with home..

I agree the op is a scumbag,lily livered useless excuse of a man..but y'all should just pipe down on all dese karma talk..sh1t happens nd d best one can do is dust his bum nd move on..is it nt better the ungrateful op leaves d gal nw than marry her nd mk her miserable for d rest of her life...I don't nd hv never believed in karma..que sera sera has always bn ma watchword...nd y'all should stop all dese talks about op nt findin a gd gal...good gals yakpa everywhere nd d irony is dat gd gals fall for badt guys like op.. I only pray d jilted gal gets a far better man than dis woman user op..moreover one has to kiss so many frogs b4 meetin her prince charming..she just kissed her frog (op)..her prince charming will locate her.

poshdiva: really is english so hard? even while typing?
poster did you go to school? i mean any school at all.....even daycare or creche

Kettle calling pot black.ur punctuation skills sucks...re-read d poo you wrote up there nd feel sorry for ur self.at least lefulefu was modest enuff to write in hardcore naija pidgin..you claim to have a full grasp of mama charlie's language but you cannot get ordinary punctuation right..nansense..all these mushin gals...answering posh diva..posh diva indeed..class has its own fragrance..u don't need to answer posh diva b4 we consider u to be posh.

@op...o boy your pallies no dey ever finish??..how many pally you get self?.

Sagamite: I agree it is better to try.

But it is key you are not just another one of the guy that is attracted to her. As you said, she is hot, so she would have them in a queue.

Leave the queue and move to a distance 20m away and tell her to come over. She needs to know you are not one of the guys that will laugh and try and please her, you are willing to tell her to fck off.

You have already messed up a bit twice. Taking the FB offer and contacting too soon when she accepted.

Now when you chat with her, make sure you are yourself and emphasis the areas of you she complains about with confidence. If she says she does not like loud/confident guys, then tell her you are actually very loud/confident and you love being so. Pile up all the things she might say she hates about you, instead of adapting to her wish, don't tell her what you do for a living so as not to appear you are trying to impress her (turn it to a joke of something she knows you are not e.g. gang banger), keep the contact light but polite, if she is not generating at least 30% of the conversation in a chat, tell her you have to go and you will chat later, and make sure you let her know you are not in a hurry to see her again that you have other things to do. Definitely don't be extra nice to her, it is obvious the monster inside her feeds on that. Give her a project!

Word man...

Btwn; ur new supplier is da bomb man..he supplies original ish ..stick with this guy..he is definitely giving you d real unadulterated ish..peace man.

PortHarcourtBoy: I bet you say as night reach, this man dey stroll go one Mamaput to tidy Ewedu and Amala with 4 extra Shaki and Kpormor

LMFAO....no mind the N(1)ggah...he never ready...he thinks GEJ reads every letter that is addressed to him...dude just wants publicity...the man is deluded...check history and see that pensioners die every year in their numbers cos the govt is so insensitive to their plights..even the pensioners that served in the Nigerian Armed forces are left to roast not to talk of this tushed up banker...The truth is that Nigeria is a dead country..thats the bitter truth..the govt doesn't give a hoot about anybody...no job for the millions of graduates roaming the streets and a pensioner is embarking on hunger strike..what will i not see in this country?

Intelligence..am d kind of guy that loves to show off ma gal..ma best turn on is hanging out with friends nd family and watching ma gal tk on older nd more experienced peeps in positive nd educative arguments nd discussions.

Beautiful..inside and outside with sweet smooth skin nd legs..hv worked too hard to settle for less.
Tall..I no wan shortchange ma offsprings.

What a sad way to die..dude should be buried in a shallow grave ASAP..no need for any religious rites...sleeping with a married woman is one of the most unforgivable sin ever...he just wrecked his life and that of his family..imagine the shame the wife nd kids will pass thru..that one's husband nd father was killed cos of mere punny...smh.

Ma dad told me only 2things about women...

1)The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is to sleep with another man's wife..it is the fastest route to a man's downfall and outright death.

2)The second worst thing that can happen to a man is to marry a woman that constantly beats him.
It kills a man's confidence and belittles him in the prescence of outsiders.

@okija...engineer..oyibo bu agbara nwanne m.

This op na bleeding pipehole..yOu have been lamenting about this ex of yours for the past 2yrs..what's ur problem man?why can't u move the hell on?are you the only guy that has been dumped or played by the daughters of eve?always running down seun's site with ur sad pathetic tales of ur ex did this nd that..spare us ur problems man nd go get urself a gd gorgeous gal..the earlier u stop stalking that ex of urs nd move on,d better for u..she was a lesson to u man,pick up urself nd move on..next tym don't buy things for a gal you have never nyashed.that's d morale of ur story...peace

This op na bleeding pipehole..yOu have been lamenting about this ex of yours for the past 2yrs..what's ur problem man?why can't u move the hell on?are you the only guy that has been dumped or played by the daughters of eve?always running down seun's site with ur sad pathetic tales of ur ex did this nd that..spare us ur problems man nd go get urself a gd gorgeous gal..the earlier u stop stalking that ex of urs nd move on,d better for u..she was a lesson to u man,pick up urself nd move on..next tym don't buy things for a gal you have never nyashed.

what do you expect from amala people? Yoruba people always run from their problems....fear fear tribe.....i trust ma igbo brothers..they will rather do 10 menial jobs than abscond from their responsibilities...

count slowly from 1-100,give her time to spew whatever she wants to say...wake her up in the dead of the night and talk......it works for me bro.....used to be an angry freak then but everything changed since i started this 1-100 formula...walking away is not 100% effective cos you will definitely come back to meet the problem.

Smh...somebody's son..spewing and thinking trash...some parents dey suffer sha...ur dad must hv spent a lot of money on ur christening..but alas..o boy go read ur books man..leave women for now..you are 21yrs for petes sake..

@dabrake..o boy howfar nah?..werrin dey?

fluid26: Hey bro, your story is quite deep and disturbing. You should know that mind games are almost always inevitable in any relationship...friendship, dating, even marriage!

You appear geared up for the endgame, sequel to a cascade of heart-wrenching events. It's really sad that she did all that to you under the guise of adventure and you being inexperienced. It's even more shameful that she chose to seek a redress giving reasons of naivety and peer pressure amongst others.

Here is my argument: what will you gain by checkmating her?

Let it go. Do not be the harbinger of her nemesis. Your vengeance would only be a pyrrhic victory.

Dude you get sense really...best advice

@2sexy...let her be man...just let her go....she is not worth your time...you deserve a gorgeous,responsible and faithful lady...your ex is a skank jor...moreover you talk about her with so much passion sef..from your posts one can easily deduce that you are still hurting man...just let it go...don't sound nice to her when next she calls...make her realise that its over period...the best form of revenge you can give to a sknaky ex that left you for a rich older guy is to be more successful than she can ever imagine...success my man is the best form of revenge..plus topping it up with a lady that is way way better than your ex in all ramification...let the b1tch go i beg you ma guy.

freecocoa: You dull sha for having unprotected sex with people you don't love or don't want to bear your children, you even call them flings yet you entrust your life in their hands.
I feel for you sha, please check yourself, you are not as healthy as you think.

Nne save ur sympathies..am good..moreover I work in a coy that makes it mandatory for us to go thru series of tests every quarter hiv inclusive..am as clean as a whistle...thanks for ur concern dear...

Ocutegan: I already gave her my virginity, so she's ggonna get everything else, my trust,undying love, kids, money and everyother thing Ʊ cld think off. She's not nigerian o. Those hoes don't deserve a good guy like me.

She will be the first woman to feel the glorious sensation of having my full optioned hybrid fertile and healthy seed inside of her...the seeds that will produce my lovely kids...that my future wife go lucky sha...cos i have deliberately refused to pour into all these flings and greedy gals...desh always use pullout method...no damn gf or ho is worthy of my healthy semen.

omotola1: Bros u wicked o!
In essence what u need is her punny?
U are heartless!
Don‘t u have sisters?
Imagine if she were to be ur sister....
What so ever u sow, u shall reap in one way or the other!
Remember u will have daughters one day too.

bro why are you bringing his family into this matter?...its a free world afterall..if his sisters want to play the f00l and give out their punny to every man on the street what business of his is that?he is looking out for himself abeg..give him genuine advice or stfu.


@op...you be f00l sha...if the gal give you punny chop and clean mouth but NEVER promise her love or open that ur dirty mouth to tell her you love her..just fcck and go...qed

Bullshit .....am about to start a fruitful relationship with one at the moment and so far so good she has proved herself in some key areas...guess the reason people run from female lawyers is because they are principled ,know their rights and are well exposed and exude immense confidence...no biggy..i dont even want to marry a woman that lacks confidence and doesn't know what she wants...and it depends alot on personality sha....the worst form of wives are house wives...sit at home all day waiting for you to come home and fcck despite the long hours a man spends to eke out a living..housewives are very troublesome..geeez

Gbadebo01: men! some guys deserve to b shot o...

Omoh calm down...u talk as if u don't know naija gals..am not supporting what d guy did tho..but always remember there r two sides to a story..see d way you swallowed everything the chic said..where is ur wisdom man?same some peeps were scatteryarning about me when I collected my ring from my ex and she was rattling dat am a monster etc...story changed the day I aired ma part of the story..the desh dat was castigated turned to hero to the point people were advicing me to go do thanksgiving that the relationship crashed cos d gal was just despicable and very shameless.

legalwealth: I'm not that love freak or let me just say that I too busy for babes but I want to be serious with one or that my EX as she was my 1st love ever and I love her so dearly.

Shaatap nd stop disgracing guys here...d earlier you change ur mindset that ur ex is the best gal in d world d better for you...dude,clean,gorgeous responsible gals yakpa everywhere..come out of ur shell nd socialise..you will meet nice gals that are 300million times beta than ur ex..stop believing your ex is beta..nope..u deserve better than her..give her a reason to lick her wounds by getting a gal she can neva compete with..a gal that is better than her in all ramifications...dats d best form of revenge..not come nd whine on a public forum.


N.B...my advice applies to guys that their ex cheated on...not for guys that caused the breakup.