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CareerRe: How Did You Cope When You Lost Your Job? by djoe21(m): 11:12am On Sep 11, 2018
islandmoon:
lost my job , sold my car to do business, government demolished it, always wanting bribe , mine was and still terrible, battling depression even till now , the reason I hate our leader, i can sacrifice my life to wipe them away, I even learn a skill but couldn't raise capital to start.
I had thought of killing myself many times but still alive.
I even worked as a labourer just to earn token , joined them to offload rice, I did teaching job n a private school and they couldn't pay, tried sport betting , scaffolding , etc not easy at all I must say,but whenever I noticed the whahala is too much, I take a break like I am doing now , travel to spend a week with a friend to rest and get myself back small, my dear skill is what you need, I know I will break thru one day. our leaders are dull just forget this country.
Hang in there bro. Keep the positive spirit alive. It is only a matter of time.
CareerRe: How Did You Cope When You Lost Your Job? by djoe21(m): 11:10am On Sep 11, 2018
Kylekent59:
Let me just tell you a girl I helped back then after service. 2015 to be precise



During my service year,there was this girl at my ppa then, we became friends and we got to know ourselves better.

She once told me she can cook, she can make cake, doughnut,meat pie,shawama and all that.
I was like complementing her.


Fast forward, six month after service, I saw her status and I knew something was wrong. I had to call her and she started telling me her plight.

I then told her that, she once told me she can cook, bake cake and all that, she said yes.

I then told her to find any secondary/gov't school and book a space that I will support her to start the baking stuff. She wrote down everything she needed and summed it up,she computed and told me it's about 35k.

I transferred 35k to her account and she started the baking stuff. After 2 weeks I called to know how far. I called her for like 3 times between 11am to 12am and she didn't pick. I was like hope all is well.

Around 1 pm she called and was thanking me, she was very happy. She said she was busy selling, that Demand is much that she is making it.
She started telling me she is well loaded, she is a rich lady. I congratulated her and advised her that there is no limit to what she can achieve.


After 2 months, she said she wants to pay me triple, I told her never to worry that she shouldn't send anything, as am typing now she has a home with a ride. She is making it big.







The brain is there, just start with a foot step. Don't give up @ Op.
Wow, this is really nice! May God bless you for what you have done.

Indeed, we really need to learn to invest in people.
NYSCRe: Female Corper Receives 'Miss You' Text From Her Student by djoe21(m): 10:10am On Sep 11, 2018
michlins:
Sincerely I had to think well before typing this

Should this be true then it's obvious some parents have failed in the most fundamental aspect of parenting. There's a significant increase in the number of paedophiles and incest sex and believe me it's not funny and this student will grow up into something worse if nothing is done urgently to rewire his thinking. A teacher is like a parent and which child would be sexually attracted to his parents.

Good morning nairaland
I don't think Sigmund Freud would agree to the last line of your write up. Have you heard of Oedipus Complex?
EventsRe: Will One Million Naira Be Enough For Both Traditional And White Weddings? by djoe21(m): 4:17pm On Aug 25, 2018
zuto4u:
Hmmmm!! Speechless. Bro thank you so much for your heartfelt advice. Honestly, u have just poured cold water on me and have given me a reason to think twice. Your advice is much appreciated bro. And as for putting her to test, I will do just that. The truth is that I don't really know much about women and their way.
I love your honesty. Remember to also put everything in prayer. Wish you the best!
RomanceRe: What Happened To Me In My Aunt's House by djoe21(m): 1:33pm On Aug 22, 2018
Mizk:
Handled? I never handled him thats like sexual harassment, plus i never knew he'd react the way he did, how can a seven year old boy be sexually conscious?
I have read silently but now I just have to comment.... Please, stop being naive.
RomanceRe: No Guy Can Actually F*ck A Girl Till Her Leg Shake, We Fake It’– Lady Says: by djoe21(m): 3:18pm On Aug 17, 2018
XhosaNostra:
I was.
Thought as much.
RomanceRe: No Guy Can Actually F*ck A Girl Till Her Leg Shake, We Fake It’– Lady Says: by djoe21(m): 12:30pm On Aug 17, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Actually, when I 1st laid eyes on him I almost turned back the other way because he wasn't what I expected. He's not a conventionally handsome guy. He was gaunt with acne scars & bleeped up teeth lol. But something aligned that day & I just accepted him the way he was, even though he wasn't my type so to speak. He never asked me to be his GF. We just became an item.

It's not that he didn't acknowledge me. The whole thing was just strange. It's difficult to explain. I felt like he liked me (I don't wanna use the L-word lol), but he didn't know what to do with those feelings. To be fair, I also didn't know what I wanted at the time, so we did a lot of push/pull. We pushed to cool off & pulled back when it started to hurt. We also did & said a lot of hurtful things to each other. He'd say he doesn't want me etc, then call me in an unknown number & say nothing. He was stalkerish tongue There was too much going on. Basically, he was crazy. The last time I was with him I found out he was seeing other women. I was extremely upset. I knew the relationship was over for me at that point. I cried a bit & he just left me crying lol. About an hour later he returned with food. We ate. He walked me to the bus stop & I never saw him again until the day I caught a glimpse of him in town. However, he did call me two days after we broke up, to sweet talk me. I sent him a scathing, 4 page message & broke my SIM card immediately afterwards. That was our final interaction. IDK if he ever responded because I'm using a different number now.

There were many strange things lol. I could "feel" him. It's difficult to explain some of the things that were happening because they were based on 6th sense, rather than something you could pinpoint.

I'm tired of this topic now tongue Like I said, it's over & I'd like to return to the present now.

It was nice chatting with you. Pray that you don't ever meet someone like that because they'll change your perception of the world forever.

Have a good evening smiley
You must have been quite young
FamilyRe: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by djoe21(m): 3:27pm On Aug 15, 2018
fitinwell:
Hubby's Phone is Locked with Optical Locks
grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by djoe21(m): 3:24pm On Aug 15, 2018
ekanDamie:
GBAM!!!

accessing my baes fone was one of d reasons we dint last. she totally passworded her fone from me, sotey d app she installed will snap me pics anytime I make an attempt.
d day I got hand of her fone, coman see voice notes of love professing. Choi
I was so devastated. I never trusted her since den.

my rule now is, if any future spouse dare try to lock her fone in d future,no excuse, she's gone!!!
Got me ROTFL with this your comment grin
CrimeRe: Lady Escapes Being Killed By A Stray Bullet Inside Her Room In Port Harcourt by djoe21(m): 5:05pm On Aug 10, 2018
ClassRep001:
If only she had spent the night in a guys house all these won't have occurred.

She would have enjoyed a marathon knackings and also many other goodies.

Well this lady is ugly sha, it won't have been a bad idea of that bullet should hit her ugly face sad
Please mind what you type.
CelebritiesRe: Olayode Juliana's Parents Reconcile After 17 Years Of Divorce by djoe21(m): 8:49pm On Aug 07, 2018
This is the reason why Christ said when one divorces, he/she shouldn't remarry as long as his/her spouse is still alive because there is always room for reconciliation.
RomanceRe: Military Officer Knelt Down And Proposed To His Military Wife (Photos) by djoe21(m): 10:13am On Jul 24, 2018
favourbaby:
Hope they would be given the luxury of leaving together at least for a year before sending either of them to the slaughter table of boko haram?


meanwhile ....


Someone needs a good self-contained apartment in a serene environment within Agbara axis. It must have constant power supply, potable water and not too far from the main road.
Constant power supply in Nigeria? When you see 'the place', let me know so I can come be your neighbour. I dey find house too. grin
FamilyRe: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by djoe21(m): 5:23pm On Jul 23, 2018
Elder001:
Let's be online friends.

Do you mind?
Really? SMH
FamilyRe: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by djoe21(m): 5:17pm On Jul 23, 2018
dingbang:
alright.. Mention me when you arrive please
Remove the 'please'. Never ever beg angry
RomanceRe: I ...pls Advice Me! by djoe21(m): 1:58pm On Jul 17, 2018
JESUSBOIY:
Assuming your friends raped your sister, how would you react?
Mind the kind of friends you keep. Birds of a feather flock together.
CrimeRe: Cultists Stab Man Who Tried To Save Lady From Molestation. Graphic Photos by djoe21(m): 3:22pm On Jun 25, 2018
tobida:
u are a fool.

u die for nothing and will be forgotten.

ur father and mother wasted their time.
And you too will not die and be forgotten one day? You talk as if you will live forever .
CrimeRe: Cultists Stab Man Who Tried To Save Lady From Molestation. Graphic Photos by djoe21(m): 3:12pm On Jun 25, 2018
ChiefAzubuike1:
This is what happens when you poke your fu*king nose into other peoples business.
Really? SMH
Nairaland GeneralRe: What's The Most Traumatic And Scariest Event You Have Ever Witnessed? by djoe21(m): 8:27am On Jun 25, 2018
Emytea:
Mine was on 17 dec 2000, when my mother was on d sick bed vomiting blood, and by then she and my dad ave divorce so i was by her side, taking care of her ,all of a sudden a wife to my mommy brother came to call me and all of a sudden she has being giving some certain amount of money by my dad to kidnap me bt to God b d glory that nite i escape and run back to d hospital but imediatly i enter d hospital my mom just died, xo painful dat i ave always vowed to retaliate
Please don't. Just forgive and let go. It might be difficult but it is very much possible and the right thing to do.
Nairaland GeneralRe: When Was The Scariest Moment Of Your Life? by djoe21(m): 4:08pm On Jun 22, 2018
stubbornman:
When I went to bang one girl like that during my final year...
Same night I had that sleep Paralysis couldn't move a muscle ....opened my eyes and saw same girl by my bed side smiling with glowing clothes....I was struggling to breathe .... And then I started pleading the Blood of Jesus and she vanished , I also came back to normal..... next day I no no wetin give me morale I went and gave her a stern warning never to come close to me or else I'll kill her....
Babe just stood there staring at me.


Also was the day I heard lots of children and people playing behind my window , fetching water ....by 1:00am....
my guy called me from his room if I could hear anything... The noise was so loud and lively.... people who stayed there previously said they could never get used to it ..... endured till my rent expired... packed my bag and ran away..


Lastly I was chatting with a girl in club sometime around 2015 in Owerri ,we got friendly and I decided to take her home since she said her place was far...
Entered a bike with her, her body was so cold ( was gonna make it hot after all) we got to a spot and the Okada guy pretended not to have change ,in cause of looking for the so-called change he called me aside and told me that that girl is not human at alllll, he knows them, that I should run for my live and not take that ghost home....immediately he entered his bike and zoomed off....almost in the middle of nowhere.... I nearly cried... I went to meet the girl and told her my room mate has another girl in the room so I can no longer take her home.... As she raised her head to scold me I saw wat the okada guy was telling me... her face turned white...I could barely see the black stuff in her eyes... I was just begging for forgiveness...
She warned me not to joke with any girl I see in a club or night function.
Finally a big boy like me she barked "RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK" I was running ,crying thanking God....

I don't go to club till date
grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: When Was The Scariest Moment Of Your Life? by djoe21(m): 3:32pm On Jun 22, 2018
Pipedreams:
What will I derive? Go to www.joyofsatan.com, pick a demon and draw it's unique sigil then follow the steps on how to summon a demon or conjure a spirit. Try it by 12mid night. Then come and tell us what u see.
Naaa, gonna pass. Wetin I dey find for there? undecided
Nairaland GeneralRe: When Was The Scariest Moment Of Your Life? by djoe21(m): 1:57pm On Jun 22, 2018
Pipedreams:
So many scary moments for me:

Story1: I was bored on a weekend. My car was at the mechanic and was home alone. So I started reading deep things about magick, satanism and Satanic sigils. I drew up one of the Sigils of a demon. After a while I went to bed...omo! See attack. I saw powerful Cosmo beings. A man with a lion's head asking me why I called him and what he can do for me, A short man laughing so hard with red horns. I struggled before I woke up. Damn it. I was so so scared.

Story 2: I went to a club with buddies at ikoyi to have a good time. Then I became so tired and opted to leave them there by 2am on a Saturday morning. As I climbed third mainland, doing like 140km/h, I noticed that I was alone on the bridge no car front nor back. In front of the mist darkness, I could see creatures making faces at me. Then I kept hearing a voice to park my car and come into the lagoon. I looked at the lagoon and it was becoming illuminated with subtle music coming out from it . I was dead scared. I increased my vehicle stereo to the loudest to drown the evil music and held tight to my steering while saying NO! I won't! with my heart beating like a drum until I passed the water and got to land (oworonshoki)

Story 3: I went for evening service at church. The church closed around 9pm. On my way back to the house I saw two innocent Old women and decided to pick them up to assist. Only to start driving, they started coughing. I looked into their eyes only to see thier eyeballs moving 360 degrees and it had many colours. Mehn! I started going mad! It was as if knives were driven into my skull. I almost fell into the gutter. As they coughed my spirit was living my body till I managed to get out of the car and forcefully scream and told them to get out of my vehicle! Still warming up I'll share some more soon wink
grin Very funny. But you can lie for Africa sha
RomanceRe: India Sucks!!! Do Not Date An Indian Woman Let Alone Marry! by djoe21(m): 1:08pm On Jun 14, 2018
tuk2ato:
Your school might be a exception. Your school is a small sample size to judge 1.2 billion people. India has a country is more technologically advanced than Nigeria because her people her more gifted in science, medicine and engineering courses. Go ask the contribution of Indians to Silicon Valley. India is the 6th largest holder of nuclear warheads. Why does a lot of people rush to india to undergo difficult surgeries which usually have high rate of success in India. Guy i no gree at all, Indians are ahead of Nigeria in civilisation and technological development.
Do you not think if we had good leadership we might be better? I think the bane of this country is bad governance. Nigerians are smart, brilliant and very adaptable. So whilst his school may be a small sample size, you should also take into cognisance the bad leadership of this country which has set us back.
RomanceRe: Ways Girls Handle Breakup (pictures) by djoe21(m): 6:12pm On May 26, 2018
folake4u:
kiss Team 23 .
Life is too short
Hmm. Are you sure?
RomanceRe: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by djoe21(m): 8:34pm On May 18, 2018
Nofav0rs:
People should understand there's difference between LOVE and LOYALTY.

People can love without being loyal due to reasons best know to them. I personally feel you can love and still cheat.

I'm sure Kevin Hart loves his woman but he cheated. John Terry cheated in 2006 after the birth of his twin but there's no denying he loves his wife.

It takes more than love to keep a relationship/home

My opinion
I don't think you understand what love really is
FamilyRe: Mother Of Nine Who Is Not A Fan Of Family Planning (Photos) by djoe21(m): 10:16am On May 17, 2018
DIKEnaWAR:
I am yet to see the 9th kiddo or did she lay down on the bed to have sex and give birth to her husband too? It seems he is the 9th kid.

Besides, why do people all of a sudden adorn a victim mentality just to celebrate a thing? You have 9 kids and so what? Why run to post and act like the whole world villifies you for it?
Maybe the 9th kid was the one that took the picture
SportsRe: Mohamed Salah Biography, Age, Profile And Lifestyle by djoe21(m): 4:19pm On May 14, 2018
Laple0541:
Though I love Salah so much, yet I want Liverpool to lose the final come May 26.

REASON

In 1981 Liverpool were European Champions and the Pope died

2005 Liverpool were crowned Champions of Europe and the Pope died.

I DO NOT WANT THE WORLD TO LOSE THE POPE NOW.
What about the other 3 years Liverpool won it, what happened to the Popes?
CelebritiesRe: Emeka Okoro: "I Am Tempted To Cheat On My Wife Everyday' by djoe21(m): 5:12pm On May 12, 2018
Muzanga:
Both married men and women are tempted to cheat. Your ability to control it is the main thing. Wetin dey hungry you dey hungry ur wife too. Naija men think they have the monopoly of cheating. I laugh.
Hmm. You have started. Where is this coming from?
RomanceRe: South African Man Refuses To Give His Roommate & Girlfriend Privacy by djoe21(m): 12:58pm On May 10, 2018
faithfull18:
To prevent fornication grin
See my profile....
How does MTN data bundle help prevent fornication?
CelebritiesRe: Tobi Bakre And Cee-C Cover Media Room Hub Magazine (Photos) by djoe21(m): 12:36pm On May 10, 2018
HawkToBar:
Beautiful Couple
They are not a couple.Tobi doesn't even look happy tongue
FamilyRe: In Response To A Previous Thread Created By Amara Okafor by djoe21(m): 3:56pm On May 09, 2018
Avedonn:
People like this are the reason I don't take female advise, read their comments or respond to their comments on nairaland.

If you take girls advice here on nairaland, then be rest assured you are on the path of self destruction.
I think she is quite bias
FamilyRe: In Response To A Previous Thread Created By Amara Okafor by djoe21(m): 3:43pm On May 09, 2018
biacan:
She said she has three sisters including her that their elder sister is married remaining she and her younger sister....... looks like the guy is lying he's wasting her time and don't want to give others a chance to woe her...... amaka if you're reading this thread break up with him and give those guys that are ready for you a chance...... remember you're a lady don't ever trade your time with a man....... kiss
Madam calm down.
FamilyRe: Why Marriages Don’t Work: The Change Factor by djoe21(m): 2:57pm On May 07, 2018
mellow:
We will never pardon you if once again you have to write so long a letter.

WTF--- It was ok sha.
...and we will never pardon you if once again you have to quote so long a write-up.

SMH --- It was not ok at all!

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