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AwkaetitiBabe:
frugality is rational while stinginess is irrational

I want to hear you give instances of frugality and stinginess.

kestolove95:
I need a guy DAT will not demand sex till after wedding..

If you're a virgin, then we got ourselves a deal.

AwkaetitiBabe:
A man who has and yet stingy to himself and those around him should b avoided

How do you distinguish frugality from stinginess?

neonly:
Watch yur tribe men come after u now

Do you even know who his tribesmen are?

AwkaetitiBabe:
I detest extravagant men. Rich people stay rich by investing and being frugal. Give wisely.

For some ladies they can't draw a line between frugality and stinginess and view both as the same hence they detest such men.

Omojudy:
As painful as this will sound, I will ask the girl what she wants to do, clearly giving her the right over her own body. She is my relative not his and I will support her while watching my husband prayerfully without a quarrel.
If she does keep the pregnancy, I will request her to give us custody of the child and voila we have another child.
Whatever she decides, I will stand by it. Anything other than him and her continuing their affair.
Yes, I will also have the baby’s DNA tested when born if we have to accept the liability.
Life is not that hard, it’s betraying and hurtful but we will always take the right decisions putting emotions aside.

Wow! You'll just sweep his wrongdoing under the rug like that?

Ain't your husband lucky to have such a wife. I pray he doesn't take it for granted.

Abomination. How can a man even begin to consider the thought of having sex with a girl who is young enough to be his daughter?

Confront your husband and tell him to confess now in order that his case could be forgivable because there is foolproof paternity tests that will prove if he really got her pregnant and then he would not be forgiven and all his remaining reputation will go to the dogs.

sinaj:
Quota system Doctor

Flesh and blood did not reveal that to you.

Lastorator:
Its called interpretation.
Unles the law states categorically that the person to whom immunity is bestowed cannot waive it, the duty will always be on the court to give interpretation as to whether a person can waive it or not... It is until the law is changed to block that loophole, before we can all say that it is impossible

Are you saying that legal precedents are useless?

Lastorator:
Was it not the courts that ruled in the US that same sex marriage is not allowed ? Was it not the same courts that ruled to allow it ?

In case you know,Judicial Precedents are not set in stones, they are amenable, either by distinguishing or by new circumstances...

Its the courts that will determine if he could waive it or not depending on his case

You need the constitution to be amended before multiple legal precedents on the same issue can be invalidated.

And in your analogy on same sex marriage in the US, I hope you realized that the definition of marriage by the law had to change before that could be legal?

Lastorator:
Go and read on rights and privileges.. Immunity is a privilege, its something that someone is lucky to have, but can do without it..

A privilege is given me to fly with the President
Are you telling me that i cannot waive it and proceed to journey by road ?

You're busy speaking English when someone quoted multiple Supreme court cases that unequivocally ruled that immunity cannot be waived.

And by legal precedents, Osibanjo cannot waive his immunity as long as he is VP.

Quietness over sexual harassment could come off as a subtle "yes" and thus embolden the harasser to try new things.

You must sternly warn him, if it requires shouting at him in the public to embarrass him, do that.

And if none of that works, make a formal documented report to your boss stating that you cannot tolerate such unprofessional conduct from colleagues and you have addressed the issue personally with the harasser but he would not change.

If it will cost you your job, it is better to have your integrity and lose your job than lose your integrity over a job that won't last forever.

If he knew enough of the word of God as a Christian he would have known there is no effective repentance in the grave and no amount of prayer could turn the hands of his last actions on earth.

"You err not knowing the scriptures nor the power of God in them"

patfemy06:
But this is one of the development we've been clamoring for and u said d timing is incorrect and that is because of 2023.Let me ask one question. When would have being the best time to take his son to public school?....something is wrong with us in this country

If he has enough money to have his son in a private school with unequivocal better learning and yet puts him in a public school then it is blatant publicity stunt or at best poor parenting.

And let me add this, a good action with bad intentions is still wrong. And hence should be criticized and condemned as vehemently as a bad action.

Anyway from Sani's long epistle I learn that the public school in question is not that public considering he referenced public office holders that had and has children in that school.

There was no one there to explain the question to him again.

But what he did was stupidly smart. Instead of leaving an empty sheet of paper, he decided to write off point. Ever come across such answer scripts? My parents were teachers, so I have.

But what is most painful is that APC apologists are not hiding their face away in shame. I am ashamed that he is my president howbeit I never voted or supported him, but for APC apologists not be be, implies that there must be some lobectomy that is needed to become an APC supporter.

How sure are they, it is suicide and not homicide?

piagetskinner:
I don’t know how you can call this grace when it’s a program that teaches immortality

He was just lucky Abeg...

Autocorrect got you there. Even autocorrect subtly support immorality.

It is the endtime, iniquity shall abound and the love of many shall wax cold.

kestolove95:
Wasted kpekus guys will say

So you're a girl? Smh

EtihadAirways:
My only concern is to know why he always kill them, bcs he don't look like a rich man or blood money guy. They should torture him well

Anybody can confess to anything under torture.

Torture can make you confess to killing Buhari even if he only just travelled.

chrisdstar:
Why exactly is he killing them?
Is he a psychopath or a ritualist?

That is the question I'm not seeing the answer to.

What these people mean is that, all the girls he killed went to collect 100k or 200k for sex.

A lady who realizes that premarital or extramarital sex is a grievous sin, would never ever fall into this trap. This is akin to how a greedy, desperate person is prone to be duped.

Starke:
I am a young professional sharing a room and parlour self contain with a friend. Now my friend has always been in the habit of bringing all sorts of girls to the house. This is a conduct which I have tried my best to ignore in order to allow peace to reign.

At some point he brought this particular girl and she stayed for sometime with us. From my conversations with her, she has an impressive body count and really dislikes condoms. At some point, she became very sick. Had white patches in her mouth and was very feverish. We had to take her to the hospital so she doesn't die in the house. The Doctor ran several tests on her and her HIV status was positive.

About a week later, I took my laptop to work and when I returned, I dipped my hands in the bag to retrieve my key only to be severely cut by a razor blade my roommate left in the bag. I asked him who owns it and he said he it belongs to the girl and he put it there hoping to dispose of it later. My heart bled. I rushed that night at about 9:45pm to Ikoyi military hospital to get PEP, but the hospital said I have to wait until the next day as the pharmacy had closed. The next morning at about 11:00am, after a lot of delay, I finally got the anti retroviral drugs.

Now after taking the drugs for about 3 days, the side effects were terrible and unbearable. I already had a subsisting kidney problem and the drugs was making it worse so I had to stop. What I want to know is what are my chances if I permanently discontinue the drugs? Am I going to seroconvert? I am scared shitless and if this happens to make me HIV+, I am seriously considering suicide.

Pls help me people.

Pls help me to move this post. I need to get as much input as possible.

This story is believable and hence I'll give my advice.

HIV is a very manageable disease just like Hypertension and Diabetes. The stigma around it appears to be reducing especially with moral depravity as most people don't have that moral power to judge a HIV positive person cos it could be them.

She will have to have been cut by that razor blade to increase the chances of your becoming infected.

Live your life, eat healthy and worry less then in 6 months do the HIV test. Even if it is positive, it is not the end of the world.

And this is why it is unhealthy to associate with people with questionable character. Meanwhile has this roommate of yours tested for HIV yet? He should be more worried of his status than you should.

I hope the police swept all the body for prints and DNA.

If they did, and his print match all the cases, then case closed else they need to ask him which Babalawo asked him to do those. Arrest the Babalawo and have him vomit all his client list.

Serial killing is foreign to us, ritual killings I'll believe.

pocohantas:
Lmao. Anyone that thinks women are manipulative has never met some men in action. They will present it like the logical thing to do at that point- for you guys FUTURE.

1.They always have the marriage card somewhere in their script.

2. Unlike women, they are never BROKE, like BROKE over irrelevancies. What they always need is money to help their business-working capital and shii like that.

3. When you don't want to give. They will claim they were testing you (as Dragnet abi Workforce that they are) or try guilt trip you with talks of how guys do same and more.

They will soon be here to prove me right.

Your writeup appears to stem from wide range of experiences.

The marriage card is as old as man, previously it was the password to guiltless premarital sex. But with the lax morality in our society now, I guess the password is now being used for other areas. Lol

This article is junk. The YouTube video, I don't understand. Is that a CCTV footage that is following one person?

Chi59:
Hanty you no fine reach me, yet I'm still single. Shift make I siddon

Really? Beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder.

This is just a mediation show. Nothing serious.

Bolustical:
It is the same ineptitude that didn't allow her to know that a proper noun like Cambridge ought to start with capital letter.

PMB is educated than most of you and your parents.

You are so keen on correcting her failure of using capitalization on a proper noun, yet you don't know what comparative adjectives are, and how to use them.

Nigeria's problem is not minimum wage but inflation.

Increasing VAT will further worsen the inflation making the minimum wage increase useless.

If it is not for leaders who are not true to the people, they should have known better to know that this is not economically sound.

I would expect Labour to protest the increment, if they really want more value from the minimum wage increment.

Iamgrey5:
This is what you want to believe.

Even if Buhari was dancing naked to entertain them, you would still find another thing to say.

So you believe FG would rather buy airtime and give them than give them the 40k.

Well if Buhari danced unclad you would still argue he is not mad.

fineboynl:
lol, MTN to give them this data and airtime and not FG. buhari doesn't care or careless about it all. the only thing he knows is Fulani herdsmen.

That's exactly the truth. But FG is taking the glory not even mentioning the telecom that offered this, like if it was FG initiative.

GoodFaith:
I have friends and coworkers who want to visit
The dude just came back from Israel and was asking me when can he come visit Nigeria?
I said I will let him know
I do want to visit Egypt - security is a big issue for me

Egypt, that would be a good historic trip.