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Beremx:
I don’t have a daughter yet anyway but from my own experience I started menstruating at 11years, I didn’t have a cramp though.
I was having gists with my male cousin and siblings when all of a sudden I stood up and my male cousin told me there’s blood stains on my cloth. I checked my body and there was no injury. My female cousin who was far older than me quickly entered the house and told me to bathe and she got me a sanitary pad called Simple ( no longer in the market though) . I learned how to put it on mother care pants ( those who grew up in the 80s and 90s will know the pants).
Mum got to know my menstruation had started when she came back from work and the rest is history.
It’s a beautiful experience in every girl’s life

Godada:


It's sad.

However, medically there are sex determination measures that can be practiced to improve the likelihood of having a boy.

Surely, your friend should have searched the net on such practices.

Or he could go for IVF........Sex determination is also handled in an advanced way.

Owing to the fact that your friend is blaming the wife, the level of enlightenment of your friend is called into question: it is what you put in, you get out.

It is like the law of the farm.

If he plants a boy, he gets a boy and vice versa.

No more, no less

Rosenews2233:
https://twitter.com/YAttabae/status/1525434910185558017?t=VbRIsml0wjNrHryK83XS6Q&s=19[/quote]THE MAN IS

PETTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm here for it. Let the vawulence continue

Mademan5:
Hhhmmm what happened to your SirjamesJnr, are you guys not together anymore?

Vinnie2000:
In the wake of the killing of Deborah Samuel by those Blood-thirsty Northern muslims,
i have been seeing comments such as 'Oh, Such a beautiful lady murdered, they killed this fair, pretty girl just like that?'.
Same with the Igbo medical student who lost her life in the train bombing.
Most Nigerians were like 'Oh, such a Beauty disappointed by her country'.
Does it means only Beautiful Girls deserve Love and affection??
What about the Ugly ones??
If those 2 ladies were Ugly, some peeps wouldn't have shown any empathy.
Why such discrimination against Ugly ladies?
Is it their faults that they have worwor faces?
Dem commit any crime by being ugly?
Why the indifference and lack of affection for them?


Lalasticlala
Pls send this to FP.
Thanks!

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

angelfallz:
Okay, I'm aware, but so don't you think using trousers instead, is better? We use British English in Nigeria.

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

angelfallz:
@bolded,
did you mean to say trousers and jeans?

Realmi:
so all the days of their lives na jean they go dey wear


War happens the day they wear skirt or gown

Myexdisturbs:
We know, concern is in damaging the jeans

bujebudanu1:
It bleaches jeans.

I have a friend with same issue

Emaggy:
Available

6pack:
I know this might sound too good to be true but I make 2million naira monthly but I have the most bleeped up life. I don't have a house , I don't have a good car, not married and no kid. Always in one form of trouble or the other. Sometimes I wonder if I am jinxed or cursed. Someone said I should look for a good lady and settle down but with the way u see naija girls act and behave, I don't see myself doing that soon.
Well let me end the rant here. I have a serious wahala I need to settle maybe after that I will look for a fat yansh girl marry and see if my life takes proper form

ityP:
Men, you don't need to know any fucking thing about a woman's body. If you no dey medical line, it's a big waste. Stop killing yourselves trying to satisfy any woman sexually. You can't. When it's time for sex, enjoy yourself and go. If you like, stay 24 hours on top her, she'd still not be satisfied. After everything, she'd use her hands to touch herself in order to cum. Men have died trying to understand this creature. Don't be those men please. Thank you guys

Magnoliaa:
You're seriously sounding unhinged, redpiller.



Oooh, I see it was a personal hit.

Your unstable deflection is cute to watch.
They don't know what or where a clitoris is and how to use it, ignore them

MadamVanessa:




Poor innocent baby

Imagine a mother doing this to an innocent soul like this. You don't have to do this regardless of the situation you find yourself. May God punish her wherever she is.

SATANICALLY:
Atiku Abubakar didn't only delete his tweet and Facebook post condemning the barbaric act of his marauding "clients", he also took to Facebook, with his verified "Atiku Abubakar Hausa" account, to outright deny being responsible for the post altogether.



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0iNqVFT27uUB3voBwAw95WgEL8PDFQwBu6u4iDnX9kAs6yVZw4Pgyen3gy2wPXDqFl&id=100044596862139


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7124096/atiku-deletes-facebook-post-tweet

Cassahav:
I am a fortysomething man in a long-term relationship – nearly 20 years – and have two children. For the past 10 years my partner has been having short-term lovers. These were clandestine, but more recently she has stopped hiding, called our relationship “open”, and currently has a lover who I do know about. But this “open relationship” can only be one-sided, because she is jealous and suspicious while I am basically not polyamorous. So why stay together? We get on, communicate well (other than the no-go zone of her other love life), rarely argue, are bonded by bringing up our children and are financially tied together.

However, the years of suppressing my emotions – of jealousy, rejection, insecurity, being lied to – have left me broken. Sex (which we still occasionally do have) has become stressed: if I don’t perform enthusiastically, it will justify her seeking other lovers. Also, I am expected to remain sexually attracted to her, which gets more difficult when I know she’s been with someone else recently. We had frank talks when she offered to end her extramarital affairs and be monogamous with me – or plan how we might separate without affecting our children. We were both very upset, as we are very much still in love, and wish the sex side of our relationship wasn’t such a terrible mess.

But it has occurred to me that I am emotionally and sexually broken after this past decade. If I was single again – or my partner was to become monogamous with me again – I don’t think I would be a viable person to be in a relationship with. How do I start to repair myself, inside or outside this relationship?

Any advice would be cool.

pweetygal:
he says am too jealous,i talk recklessly,i am stubborn,am disobedient,i have numerous wooers n i dnt drive dem away n d worse is he doesnt lyk me on make-up, d last tym we had a disagreemnt,i almst lost him cos he said he doesnt 1nt 2 c me 4 d nxt 1 week, n i culdnt do anythng about it, bt 2 my gr8st surprise,he snt me an apology txt n told me "d truth is,no mata wot u do 2 me,i cnt do u anythn bck" n i cald bck n promisd 2 change, bt d qusestion is,cn i rily change

MrOjay1:
I've been having this re-occuring breakouts of little boils around my torso.

It first started from the back of my right arm before it spread to the whole of my back and my chest area.


It doesn't seem to stop despite the medication I've been taking.

It has also spread to the back of my head.It's giving me migraines and also affecting my sight.


When I stare at the TV,I see things slightly doubling and also sometimes little cloudlike shade forms at the corner of my eyes.


It's getting me seriously worried

HiringSpree:
Nairalanders,

I have been hired to hire!

So, I have been partially paid to hire 50 proficient writers by an agency. The pay is more than I have seen in Nigeria. They pay N8/word and above. And their eligibility criteria is quite flexible. Job is remotely and you're not needed to pay any fee

I will be dropping more info soon.

Just follow my Nairaland account, as I will be dropping their website URL once I have the go ahead.

I will be using about 3 other platforms too, so stay at alert, because I am sure I will meet the number within 2 weeks


Let me use this opportunity to also inform you that if you have a company you wish to set up, I am the perfect online HR for you. I will hire the right people

Please, If you're not hiring an HR, don't PM me

Kriss216:
I love and agree with everything you said about Nigerian girls. Funmi must really be proud of you.