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sgtponzihater1:
There are not so good people. Like the girl that visited me once chilling and doing nothing. I noted how cruel she was with the waitress. I noticed how harshly she spoke to the taxi driver, for an issue that could be resolved without exchange of words. I knew this was fire, and gladly withdraw myself from that relationship. Looking back I am grateful to that lady for being true to herself, and showing me who she was.

The one that hurts the most is the one that acts like a Saint before you dive in. Seems kind to everyone. Calls you as early at 8am in the morning. Says she wishes she was there to cook your meals and keep your house tidy. Then when she comes in, does the direct opposite. That thing can pain!, but God keeps us all happy

PonziHater

So sorry to hear you are going through this my friend.

I think maybe you are being emotionally,and financially abused.

The question now is, what do you want?

Could you see a counselor/ therapist who specializes in dealing with covert narcissists.

Happy Easter my friend.

Stanweezy:
My sister sent the attached picture below for me, according to her she said the chemist she went said its bkus of the water she bath with.

Please I need answers on what could be the cause of this boils.

Thank you

Looks like acne(pimples)

Kriss216:
Don't allow broke girls access your glorious gbola. Starve them.

Poor girls feeling ho.rny should be treated as terrorists in a sane country.

you would be doing us a service.

0038360001
Union bank

If I am chosen, it would make my Easter. Thank you regardless.

Happy Easter!

QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.

This is so insightful

The part in green is very important. She should not be shamed

LadyRosa:
Money no be the problem.Can it be done?Since his birth he has been suffering dentition problem.If money go solve the problem no wahala.

okay o

LadyRosa:
You're actually not feeling any serious pain yet.Person wey teeth dey pain no go get strength or mental stability to chat.

By the way, there's no such thing like dental surgeon in Nigeria,even if they are,very rare.What we have here are dentist whose only specialty na to uproot and fill up your teeth and after few months,back to square Everything go just open waaaa!Or you swallow the crown along with Amala.

My elder brother is making plans to travel out to get his dentition done after spending so much on the so called dentists in Abuja and Lagos.Nonsense!

he will pay through his nose abroad. You never see anything

Wizzy13:
Girls dont really like me i don't know why?

Am sad check my pics below

you look young and inexperienced with life.

TechSpecialist:
we are also waiting for your sex escapades stories with uiur lober sirjames. Feel free to post it in the ashawo beer parlour thread

perv

ObaKlaz:
Will Smith faces more humiliation as Jada Pinkett Smith's ex-lover August Alsina references 'entanglement' affair in new song and is set to write tell-all book about their sex life.

It's also been reported that August - who was only 23 when he first met Jada - is set to write a tell-all book that will go into detail over their sex life.

'August is getting ready to sign a big money book deal which will detail his romantic liaisons with Jada,' a source claims to The Sun.
'He has always maintained that Will gave him permission to sleep with Jada, something they have publicly denied.'

The source adds: 'August will go into detail about his time with Jada and will also speak about how he spent time living in homes owned by Will when he was away filming.'

'There are several publishers bidding for the books and August is lining up the best deal.

'He knows there are a lot of people fascinated by his story and is happy to tell it.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10688911/amp/Will-Smith-faces-humiliation-Jada-Pinkett-Smith-ex-lover-August-Alsina-references-entanglement.html

like milking the breasts of a post menopausal woman.


Dry!!!!


People do anything for clout

RedpillAnalyst:
Alrighty sir,

I didn't pull this out right of my ass sir.

https://link.medium.com/eKevFdsicpb

what kind of reference/citation is that? So outdated.

This is how you know people that didn't go to university, or completed their project work in uni.

Here's mine

By how many years am I older than you?

OlabodeTECH:
Good morning NLers,

Kindly assist with names of affordable hospitals that treat stroke effectively around Ikorodu, Lagos.

Patient is 60 years with no previous underlining ailment.

Current status: HBP and partial paralysis.

Any advise would be appreciated.

there's no cheap place to treat stroke. Recovery takes a while

It

RedpillAnalyst:
Not poorly timed and insensitive sir/ma.

Over 70% of domestic violence cases are instigated by women. However, they bear the brunt and get injured over 70% of the time when the man retaliates.

A good woman is loved and cared for. No man gets married because he wants a human punching bag. The media always want us to believe that all these men just rush home from work to suplex their wife while they were busy reading the bible or making dinner for the family.


What you will eventually find out is that the woman has been chasing the man around with knife in house or she is nagging and blocking the door to prevent the man from exiting the house and most times, DV cases get out of control because of 2 children are in relationship and can't handle their raging emotions.

stop quoting false statistics you cannot back up.

You seem to be blinded by red pill rage. Guess I shouldn't bother

Randy100:
Since the news of osinachi alleged domestic violence death broke the internet, I have seen so many women having massive orgasm about the news some have used the opportunity to bash men and call men all sorts of name.

What happened to her is unfortunate and I hope the husband if guilty, is made to answer for his crime. I condemn what happened to her.

It's quite lugubrious, that many men have lost their lives in domestic violence, but, it is those of the women that is well over flogged in the internet space, I ask, is the life of those men not worth it? Why are we unbalanced in reporting this evil of domestic violence? Or are we saying that women are not capable of domestic violence.

I once had a girlfriend kicked me so hard on the rib while I was lying down answering a call of another lady, probably she heard me say something that provoked her. I stood up locked the door and designed her face with blows, but, she was the victim and I am the aggressor, I was the one who slept in cell, the one who paid her hospital bill. Nobody believed my story, neighbours and most annoyingly, my close gs. It's fuking annoying.

Every day men get stabbed in their home and we don't condemn it enough. I am pissed at you all.

May God help those who are going through domestic violence and give them the courage to walk out of abusive marriage.

as sympathetic as I am to the plight of male victims of domestic violence.


Your post is insensitive, poorly timed, you just want to participate in oppression Olympics.

Someone is dead and you still find a way to make it about you.

Adeoye11:
I know of one, ND she needs a relationship too.
But the issue is you have to pay me for connection
Asking price: 30k

you and op are ritualists

PaulOtl:
" If you follow this OP's today , you will be so unhappy, yada yada..."

So, serving God and the other point he listed about a good Christian wife loving her God and desiring to please Him, are all to make her unhappy? You must know more than God who made you, and who authorised those scripture verses to be included in his holy book.

Anyways....He said it that in the end times people all be lovers of themselves and not like to take heed to sound doctrines. He said we should expect these things and more. So, I expect most women here to be vexed in their spirit about the Bible verses and the instances or enumerations the OP wrote.
It has to come to past.

you sound so brainwashed.

AZUH:
Vp just know how to confuse Nigerians with English. No achievement . Best candidate is Peter obi and Tinubu . Lagos is working no matter the corruption. Peter obi is honest and can turn Nigeria to Dubai .

Peter obi in the Pandora papers is honest?

Your memory is very selective.

manehtech:
If you are married, or if you aspire to be married, the Lord calls you to be submissive to your husband. Your husband is called by God to lead your family. As his wife, God has placed you under his authority and has given him the responsibility of leading and caring for you. He must answer for how he leads and cares for you before God. You must answer for how you submit to your husband’s leadership before God.

A godly wife does not talk back to her husband or argue with him in public. She does not try to control her husband or tell him what she thinks he should do (Proverbs 21:9). She does not try to change him (Proverbs 27:15-16). She does not tell him how things should be done (Proverbs 9:. Rather, a godly wife is submissive to her husband both in speech and in action (Ephesians 5:22-24; 1 Peter 3:1-2; Colossians 3:18; Titus 2:5).

A Good Wife is God-conscious
A God-conscious woman recognizes that there is a creator of the universe who has authority over every aspect of her life. She follows his guidelines and respects his will for her life.

A good wife honors, loves and cherishes God because she knows that he first loved her. As she knows him, she desires to please him in all things by being a doer of the word and not just a hearer. Her prayers are powerful as she faithfully prays for those around her and always gives thanks to the Lord for everything (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

She respects her husband
Respect is an important part of a marriage because it helps your husband feel confident in who he is and in his role as the head of your household. Respect him for the leadership that he provides, for his parents, for his friends and their opinions, for his dreams, for his authority, for the decisions that he makes, and even for the time that you spend with him.

You can show respect to your husband by:

Listening to what he says without interrupting or becoming distracted
Acknowledging his accomplishments (i.e., thanking him when he fixes something)
Letting him know that you need help around the house so that you don’t burn out
Giving a word of encouragement when he needs it most

She serves the Lord
God’s Word has much to say about women who are preparing to become wives and mothers. The qualities of a good wife in the Bible exist both within the pages of Titus and Proverbs, where we learn what we can expect from faithful women in God’s Kingdom. Women who are exemplary often possess many characteristics, like a godly trustworthiness and generosity. They also manage resources wisely, have a good reputation within their community, and are kind to others.

https://churchgists.com/qualities-of-a-good-wife-in-the-bible/

dear christian women, if you follow this op's today, you will be so unhappy and miserable, that you will be begging for divorce. The scammer of a pastor you will run to for help will only give you bible verses without any assistance, condemning you to hell on earth.

Submission comes naturally when your man loves and respects you. If your husband hasn't done that, you are under no obligation to be scammed. Pursue your happiness first because marriage will definitely not provide it, neither will children.

Look at the gospel singer that sang 'Ekwueme', the current news is that she died due to domestic violence.

saphiere:
I've been pondering on the above question fpr days now. I'm confused. I need answers.

People keep saying how men were raped by women. How? How is that possible?
They never brought proof.

Intercourse has to do with penetration. Who does the penetration? If it's a man who does the penetration, who then do you say he was raped? Is he not supposed to be the one committing the act?

Men sex when and women do not sex men. So how do women rape men?

Someone please me with answers.

The highest a woman can do to a man is sexually harass him maybe seduce but not rape him.

How is it even possible for a woman to rape when she isn't the one performing the act?

Please I need answers.



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/01/can-a-woman-rape-a-man/amp/

women can, and have actually rape(d) men.

The definition of rape is having sexual intercourse with someone through any means WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT.

Sixfiguresmart:
Met this girl while running my degree course in UBC. She approached me, dropped her number in my pocket. All I wanted to do was get my deg and a career cos parents done spent too much already. She was going for my body but I snubbed her. She was too young for me. I met her half sister (Irish-mexican) who is older. The blue eyes, the hair, height and teeth were mesmerising. I fell one time.

She was all over me like she found a priceless trophy. I thought we could be married but she didn't want any kids yet. She wants bikini body rather. We dated for 9 months. She treated me like a toy. I saw that marriage would be harder for me. She was so scared of losing me. The insecurity made my life miserable. I had to inform her wherever I went. Take pictures and send. Be on video calls like every time I was away. She knew all my friends and the people who walked past me on the streets. I had to be on the fone all my life to prove that someone else wasn't hitting on me.

I couldn't admire any lady or stare. I felt like a prisoner being watched constantly. I had to mention that she was my girl to every girl around me. She put a ring on my finger. I have her pictures on my walls. She had to be my wallpaper on my laptop and the theme on my fone. I had to save her number as "My baby". She had to check my wardrobe and ensured that she bought all items in it. She checks my pockets for numbers. Picks me up from the gym.

She was controlling and she taught me how to never be controlled by a woman again. She was more like a mother than my girl. She cries every time I try to talk about this issue. Saying that she wanted me to be safe. That she was scared to lose me. I did everything to prove to her that she was the only one but I tried too hard. Honestly, there was no one else. She was persnickety over nothing.

Finally, she attended a family funeral in Alberta and stayed for 6 days. Longest time away from me. During this time, her friend called me asking of her since she couldn't reach her. Then, she told me that she was coming to the house. I obliged innocently. As it wasn't the first time. When she arrived, she stayed the night since the weather was very bad. We only talked and the only nice thing I said to her was complemented her hair.

Nothing happened. As a matter of fact, my girl permitted her to stay the night and asked for her to sleep in the other room. My girl and I had a lovely conversation till I went to bed. She usually talked till I felt asleep.and watched me sleeping. When I sleep, I die. I didn'thear the fone ringing and didn't see her messages. Now, when she returned 2 days later, she acccused me of cheating with her girlfriend. Asking me if she was my type. So, anyways. We fought over this, for 3 months she nagged and uttered irreversible damage into my life. Still, I apologized and begged and did everything to win her over.

I felt heart-broken. We broke up. She moved out. 2 weeks into break up I went to her, begged and called but met silence. I gave up. 3rd week, she called and demanded that I could have kept on fighting and begging into the 3rd week if I truly loved her. I apologized thinking that we could get back. She asked for all my passwords, I gave her to win her over. She went through them found nothing. Cried on my shoulders and still went back to feeling broken and uttering vile things.

A month after break up, I knew it was over. I couldn't end up feeling miserable for the rest of my life. I moved on. Never been able to fix a relationship since then.

This is how broken women break good men and, then call men so many names. Many bad men in town are products of broken women. Today, I just can't stand any woman who is a control freak. Many men are battered. We also cry, but we don't tear. We also have emotions, but we die in silence. Many men home and abroad are controlled but they can't utter their pains

chronicles from team foreign babes. Grass isn't always greener on the other side

Sorry about your ordeal though, have you tried therapy?.

klassyguy:
Good day everyone. So after all the advice, criticism, and others from my previous thread on this topic, I had a chat with my wife about taking my son for an evaluation. Like I mentioned in the previous thread, I had spoken to my mum and asked her if I was ever tested when I was younger, and she told me the school advised they do the test on me, which came out negative for ADHD. With that in mind, I convinced my wife to let us at least rule it out.

I took him for the test last Wednesday morning, The little guy seemed nervous. He was not the usual chatterbox that he was whenever we were in the car. The doctor took him in and after about an hour, they came out. He told me he will have the results sent to me as soon as they were ready.

On Monday, the call came through. He asked me a couple of questions about the boy which I answered. He said from the cognitive tests and analysis they conducted, they see NO SIGN OF ADHD. The result came out negative. He told me that during the test, he first had a bit of a struggle getting him to concentrate. But what made him initially doubt ADHD was later on in the evaluation, my son repeated every single thing the doctor had thought he was not paying attention to. As in everything. Word for word. He also said he was quite impressed when he started telling him about things he usually observed in kids that were way older than he was.

His conclusion - the kid is just bored. He is not being challenged enough. He said he has a very bright mind and we should try develop him. I thought about it too - the little guy is six. If he was in Nigeria today, he would be in primary 3. We Africans generally have brighter minds than other nations. He would have been doing more challenging stuff than the Grade 1 material he's doing now.

Thank you all for your suggestions and comments. Now that I know he isn't going through any mental "hell", I believe challenging him is the next thing I have to figure out. Like i mentioned, I put him in a soccer club and so far, with gentle prodding, he seems to be doing better. I also talk to him more and remind him everyday when going to school to behave. He seems to take the advice and his teacher told his mom last week that he behaves in class more. I rewarded him with some hours on the PS5 on Saturday and he was very happy. He recently asked me to get him a new James Train to replace the one he misplaced when we were moving house, and I told him if he behaves more in school, I will.

congratulations!!!

You are lucky.

Maybe get him more books of a higher level

SilentFox312:
Then another person will ship that person. Since i'm first, ship me!

I ship SilentFox312 with ashewoboy

odinson1:
Here’s the thing: just because she’s a woman doesn’t mean you should respect her. Of course, you need to respect her privacy and personal space, etc, but you shouldn’t just respect someone because they’re a certain gender.

Don’t get annoyed with me at the comments, but the default is to have some respect for anyone you meet, and then you adjust your ‘respect bar’ accordingly. If he/she is good at what they do, your respect would probably increase. He/she has good personality qualities? You should raise your respect. Are they being nice to you? Respect raised.

And the most important thing: are they respecting you?

See if a woman is laughing and making fun of you, then I’m not assuming you’re going to respect her back. Does that make you a misogynistic pig for not respecting her? No, it just means someone isn’t treating you the way you like to be treated, so you’re obliged to lower your respect for them.

Again, respecting someone personally is slightly different to considering privacy, safety and personal space - which is something everyone to should respect.

So should men respect women?

They Can at the start, but if she turns out to be an idiot, then no one’s telling you to respect her.

#COPIED!

All I can say is that this question goes both ways. I wonder how you'll cope if you're on the other side of this your question

osazsky:
hmmm delivery don by quack doctors.
I even thought its ubth...i dont know y government has not closed down that slaughter house.the hieght of impinity there can be compared to none.people go use two leg waka enter ubth for test or checkup after 9 hrs them don put the person for body bag.i hope fg sees this.stupid doct and they keep shouting strike .ubth should be shut down immediately

the story I heard was that it was the relatives fault

2braithe:
Too late.
Your cover is already blown.

really??

I'm scared

2braithe:
Lol who doesn't know funmisticqueen

who's that?

NewSoul:
Doctor addicted to sugar

That is why you be Orobo doctor

who are you again?

Hi!! I'm sugar