Righteousness2: I Have always said that the devil (lucifer) is a very smart guy that knows how to Distract humans. He Invents evil, Modifies Iniquity, Flash it to humans through his agents, Make it look harmless and ordinary, Watch humans without knowledge engage in it in the Name of Fun. Land them into Eternal Damnation and Destruction in Hell. Finally Laugh and Mock them in Hell
Never give that guy a chance, he will smash your destiny and throw you into hell
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Ghostmode2two: I really wish that he could stop this. No woman deserves to loose her baby after nine months of gestation. Doctors and other health care providers should also learn to avoid some stupid mistakes that also lead to maternal and child mortality
most cases of maternal and child mortality are often caused by society not the healthworkers, by the time these cases are getting to the hospital, it is usually too late.
dominique: With our religious people expecting women to give birth like the hebrew women even while having pregnancy complications, i doubt if that's achievable.
Joetttimua1811: Good day all I just decide to bring this here to seek matured advise, please don't mind the errors in spellings and construction. I also request that this be taken to FP. It should a bit lengthy but I will try to be brief.
I have been dating this girl since 2011 Feb precisely, though I started asking her out around November 2009 and she finally accepted in Feb 2011. I know you may be wondering why I persist with the long time of refusal, well the answer ain't far as I will not want to go into much details but she's one of the best when you talk of women she's everything a man will want. Let me leave it at that. Upon her acceptance in Feb 2011 we started cos I already met with the mother during the period of asking her out because of gifts I use to buy for her the mother asked her to invite me over
On getting to the house the mother asked me what my intentions are towards her daughter I told her I love the girl and will want to marry her. The mother said well seeing me her spirit accepts me but it's left for her daughter to accept cos she told her she's not said anything to me, she said if her daughter accepts me fine she can't choose husband for her daughter but then all she wants from me is that I the take good care of her daughter and another thing is that the father wants her to go to school to which I agreed to wait for her. Mind you she just finished sec school then i was already working and ok and the age difference between us is 4 years.
By May of that same 2011 I traveled out for an assignment which lasted for 9 months and I returned by January 2012. All these while we had good communication and the relationship was one everyone would wish to have. She eventually got admission that 2012 mind you upon returning back from the assignment I went for we would've done our wedding but there was already an agreement that I wait for her to graduate. I wasn't afraid cos I so much love and trust her.
She was a good girl in school most of her mates and seniors I've spoken with always attest to that. In fact one of the ladies I spoke with said you're lucky to have one of the best. I can vouch for her on that. I wasn't the one that sponsored her education but then I supported cos monthly I send her pocket money and whenever she's in need of anything am always there both morally emotional as the case maybe. I do most of her assignment for her even though we're far apart I just send to her mail and she prints and add cover page.
The relationship was ok no issues all these while, fast forward to 2017 when she graduated and was to go for service, I told her it's time we start our marriage plans she agreed and by March 2018 we did our introduction. She was still serving then, and I started troubling her concerning the wedding to discuss it with the father. In fact during the introduction we requested for list for the marriage proper to which the father said they're going to get back to us.
I continue calling the father he wasn't forth coming cos we're not in same city and base on our work we don't move freely you must obtain permit. When I noticed the father is not forthcoming I had to use the money at hand to complete my building. Now the father's excuse has been that he wants her to get work before she gets married hmm.
I said well let me just give them time since I was able to wait for her all these years the remaining won't be problem. It continued like that till last year I became angree and I told my woman that your father has been insisting on you getting work before you get married is it what you also want?? The major problem I have with my woman as things started getting bad was that she's always like"my mother say, my father say" and I was like at your age 28 you mean you don't have say about your relationship?? She became angree that am talking to her anyhow, she sent me all sort of insultive messages to which I didn't reply any.
But then I was already thinking of leaving her, cos aside the fact that she couldn't make decision on her own she wants me to relocate and live in same city with her parents. And I know if that happens the mother will definitely be in charge of my home cos there's nothing my woman does without consulting the mother.
When she saw that all the messages she sent I didn't reply she started begging that she was just pained about the whole issue I forgave her and we continued but it wasn't as it use to be and when I noticed things weren't working I told her that we should part ways since she can't convince her people for us to get married while she looks for work.
I got the insult I have never gotten the whole of my life from her because of this decision, my thinking was that if I say that to her she may see reasons to try convince her people about us but I got insults upon insults, though I have been told before that I think she's a gentle girl, we may have dated that long but I don't know her. I didn't believe the message but with the insults I started giving the message a thought, mind you she's not a flirt oo, it has been a long distance relationship all the while but then I can still vouch for her cos of the family she came from.
The reason for this write-up is that, since I left her I haven't been able to love any girl, I am not an ugly guy and not too handsome but I am that guy that girls always want to come close to I know of ladies that have said to me I wish I can have you all to my self, I have met ladies that ordinarily I should've gotten married to even as far back 2014 but no matter how you try as a lady to come close I will always tell you I have somebody I want to get married to and they'll back off.
In fact one lady confessed to me that she loved me the moment I told her i am not married but I have a serious relationship that will lead to marriage soonest, she said even married men lie about their status just to get what they want but she loved me cos I was being sincere. Now even with all these people around me I still don't feel or love the way I do for my ex. I don't know what to do.
I still think of her and I don't seem to see any other woman and feel anything for them as I feel for her and recently I feel I want her back. What do I do
i am seeing a lot of red flags here.
You should seek closure and move on.
That babe isnt for you.
It's painful because you invested so much in the relationship. But like a bad investment, you have to let it go.
Aviod dating and focus on healing your broken heart
I'm not one for biblical sayings but all cultures know this that children should honor(obey and respect) their parents.
In an African society, even kids that are not yours obey you when you speak to them.
In as much as we are trying to sound woke and developed, there are certain things that will never change.
My kids owe me obedience. I'm their father. Totalitarianism and Sadistic tyranny are not what I am talking about. Just plain simple obedience, at least till they are old enough for me to knight them as men and women with their own families.
if the father/mother is a deadbeat and nothing more than a sperm/egg donor. Do you think the kids will owe them obedience?
Don't be so black and white in your thinking.
You knighting your children? What are you? the queen of england? Get your head out of your arsehole.
So because I decided to give birth to kids,they must be wayward, untrained, undisciplined and caustic dregs?
In an attempt to sound futuristic and a white man ideology-copycat, you ended up disgracing yourself.
Why on Earth do people seem so emotional and blind to glaring facts and become hypocritical?
Are you really telling me that BS up there or are you in the middle of something extrasensorily mind numbing?
So the biblical phrase of "spare the rod and spoil the child" comes from a place of knowing kids need to be trained,they need to obey. Since you lots love the Bible, check what the holy book says about children and obeying their parents.
So a man that trains and suffers for his kids must tolerate their disrespect because they owed him nothing? I wonder if it were to be the wife being disrespected, what your answer would be.
they don't actually owe you obedience. They should obey you because you have influence in their lives and that brings about respect.
But I agree that he should not tolerate disrespectful behavior from them. He should kick them out. At 20 and 18, they're not babies anymore.
@Op, your brother should send them out of the house to fend for themselves. Since they cannot do things like house chores because they are too big. Let them experience adulting for themselves.
It's his house, his rules. Unless he doesn't pay the rent?
jametex: This incident happened right in front of me, i live opposite their building at gbadabiu in alakuko alagbado, all that was writing here is exactly what happened, Op thumb � up to you..
Akasammyoka: He is been doing worst tasks, why is this one paining him so much. FG need to enact law to prohabit simps from marrying. They are really seeing hell in this union. That was how one was tieing baby on his babe.
Kuns84: It was all fun and games when this tweet went viral - a man showing the list of chores his woman gave him with detailed instructions on cleaning the bathroom of their apartment. Moreso, this woman specified that she will open her 'pum pum' for him that night only if the tasks are completed.
While reading the comments under this tweet, I couldn't help but imagine what the reaction would've been if the genders were reversed. Just imagine if a husband created a list of bills his wife must pay before she can sleep in his house? or even chores to do before he can bring out money for feeding? Imagine the uproar and double standards that would generate.
It is increasingly glaring that men have become the subservient gender in relationships and marriages - expected to give everything while gaining little in return. you aren't even guaranteed the bare minimum (a faithful wife) for your efforts. In modern day relationships, men must remain traditional and be the sole providers while women no longer have to be traditional home keepers (their own responsibilities is now classed as oppression while yours remains a mandatory duty).
The man might be a lazy slob. Especially if they are african american (by the use of slang 'pum-pum') thier men are known to be hobosexuals who don't pull their weight around.
They are most likely not married o. By the use of term 'his woman' and not 'his wife'. If that is the case they are nothing more than glorified roommate. Give the man a broom.
But if he's paying the bills, then sisi should do her chores in peace and not let them be a prerequisite to 'open shop'
drinoayo: Couple Accuse Hospital Of Negligence As One Of Their Twin Babies Dies (Photos, Video)
A Nigerian man, Imbul Dooyum Kelvin, and his wife, Mimidoo Rufina, have cried out over alleged negligence at Gbaja Randle Mother and Child hospital in Surulere, Lagos, which led to the death of their two-month-old twin-daughter, Zoe, Igbere TV reports.
Imbul disclosed the unfortunate incident occurred on Friday, January 15, 2020, two days after they arrived the hospital.
According to him, “We woke-up on Wednesday morning and my wife said our baby wasn’t eating well again so we took her to the hospital, the doctor examined her and said she was ok but let us run a blood test to confirm if there was an infection.
Shortly after they took blood from her, my daughter cried for two-hours nonstop. We called the attention of the doctor and they rushed her to the ER and placed her on oxygen.
She was responding very well not until on Friday, the doctor came in and asked my wife to breastfeed her because she was stable for breastfeeding, after breastfeeding her, my baby started crying and my wife ran to the nurses to please come check our daughter but instead they sent her away, telling her she disturb too much.
My wife begged them with tears that please she’s not understanding her daughter but they neglected her, it was after the baby gave up that my wife started crying that they came to check her but by this time she was far gone already.”
damiloIaduke: Young woman give your life to Christ and stop all this. No once cares about your body transformation anymore. You're being alive is God's grace
Keep hyping... thinking you will escape when judgement begins to be poured out. You will all get your portion of the cup of YAH's wrath. Contniue cashing out.
it's not a scam.
Wear your facemasks wash your hands and pray you don't catch it.
thebosstrevor1: Ok...but that is different from the topic of discussion.
I agree that there are rare conditions but a child that has an undeveloped penis knows that he is a male when he grows up, also a child with an undeveloped vagina knows she is a female.
Is that not true?
What are we going to call a man with muscles, has male physical structures, a large breast and a penis, that wears wig and female cloths?