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frog12:
na LIE. even if doctors from advance nations go, can you PAY THEM?
THEY always come back!
nigerians like to think like ducks, that's why THEY ARE RUNNING AWAY, instead of trying to solve the problems.

they come back for holidays or outreaches. Once their parents die, or no relatives holds ties them to nigeria, they're gone with the wind

Many of my senior colleague and classmates keep encouraging us to come over. They don't have plans to come back.

Many of those who come back with innovative ideas are met with frustration and sabotage and eventually pack their load vack

frog12:
I have given you one of the answers. Look, the advance countries lock their DOCTORS. THEY ARE not shithole countries

they lock their doctors with juicy pay and better working conditions.

martineverest:
don't forget how our government subsidies education compared to what American citizens pay for same education.

the quality is different na.

To travel abroad, the medical doctor, nurse and pharmacist has to write exams, pay for lessons to learn about their system and still work for the useless 120k they are paid

frog12:
they are GOING because of GREED. all AFRICAN countries face this PROBLEM. they pay our DOCTORS around 200 thousand a MONTH, and that's not enough for them? GREED. Ghana knows the problem, so THEY MAKE IT difficult for their DOCTORS to run away!
it's because we subsidise education, and make it cheap to STUDY medicine very CHEAP! it's expensive to study medicine in the Western country. You have to get LOANS to study so you are locked until you pay the debt.

their doctors still runaway o. All their PLAB slots were booked for the rest of the year within 4 hours.

martineverest:
haaa....my sister paid Les than 80k cumulatively for 6years of medical study in federal university.thatsvkess than 250 dollars compared to what Americans and Europeans pay

how much is textbooks, practical fees and so on.

Back in med school, if you broke one beaker, you had to repay with 10. And it wasn't cheap.

Yankee101:
You go were you are appreciated

I believe it's high time we begin to charge tuition on courses like Medicine or at the least have a minimum contribution you must make to your country before leaving

US doctors and lawyers have student loans of 200 to 500k USD after graduation

thid is a dumb post. They already charge tuition.

We also have a minimum contribution before leaving. It is called internship and NYSC.

Also if they want to charge tuition, they should charge tuition for all courses.

A large fire was said to have started around 10am at access bank at Adetokunbo Ademola street victoria island, when a diesel tanker caught fire. Fire service took 15 mins to arrive at tge scene.

culf:
its not by shouting or giving order, calmly explain to her, like someone said, advise her.

Je should try feeding the child himself

Abusadiq01:
If u cook this shit for ur husband, na dat dey u go reach ur father house

with 200 naira. he husband will worship her as a virtuous woman

swiz123:
It looks like it was prepared with way less.

You should have used that money to buy Coke and Egg roll

lol!!!

savage!!

may op one day eat correct jollof rice with full chicken. Amen.

nappy760:
Ladies this is food for thought o

We're not interested

I really feel for the guy.

No one deserves to be embarrassed like that.

If you as a guy want to do a public proposal, to removes stories that touch like this, please ask her in private first.


Then wait later for her to do it in public

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
I talk am
Wetin dey take like forever before the card dey come out
Na im the app one function immediately...

I register since 2015 up till now i never see the card na the slip i dey manage

i registered since 2012

laborious:
Call Dr oyin 08138811922

thanks

My alsatian is 10+ years old.
It started early last year. He had an ear infection with discharge coming out. He would occasionally howl in Which lasted months before my dad noticed and found a vet who assured us that it was due to old age. The vet came by everyday to give him a shot of antibiotics for 5 days or a week. The condition went for a while and we thought that was the end of it

Now it's back, and the condition is worse than before, we tried cleaning it to no avail, our dog is in pain. The discharge drips down his ears, matts his fur and attracts flies. He howls day and night. It's making him weak. We are afraid that our dog will go deaf, we call his name many times before he hears. Someone suggested we put him out of his misery. But no one wants to or has the courage to do so. He doesn't eat much anymore. Our former vet is no longer in lagos.

Please if you know a good affordable vet based in Lagos, we would like to appreciate.

Ladycewhy:
but some women do know when their daughter is pregnant Sha.

But that is not due to maotherly instinct, don't let africa magic deceive you

Ladycewhy:
I am more concerned that a woman didn't know her daughter was pregnant even at 5 months . What ever happened to motherly instincts.

that doesn't exist.

Motherly instincts are stories told to bind women with a guilty conscience

Mowriyah:
Madam, sorry for the challenges you are facing with your son. I have a son with a similar challenge that has made significant progress overtime. Call me let's talk. You definitely will not find the solution with Nigerian doctors. You need to believe in God first, and then physical help counsel ( nutrition and therapy) from experienced mothers. You can call on 08155058336. I will be glad to talk with you.

really?!

GWagonlover:
Dear Experienced parents and child development experts,

I have a 4-year old child suffering from mild autism which was discovered when he was two. As a concerned parent, i have taken steps by spending a lot in hiring speech and behavioural therapist, and seeing a development pediatrician with some success achieved at least in getting him stable to be able to absorb what he's being taught in class.

With diagnosis done confirming the mildness, i was encouraged to allow him do things regular children do which will help him grow out of the disorder.

Now i noticed that he has memory challenge in terms of ability to retain and recall information especially in his study which is a big concern to me. He also dislikes reading and writing but enjoy visual-based instructions.

In light of above, i need help from parents who have gone through this challenging phase with such kids and also autistic child development experts on how I can help my child over come the short term memory problem,repetition of words, writing and reading.

Please help!!!

That sounds like either a little ADHD on the side which is not unexpected in austistic children

donbachi:
The day she caught me with another girl.after the girl left,she went to the market,bought soup ingredients,prepared sea soup,we ate together and had gud sex..i proposed 2 months later.

Is this fiction

sirjamesjnr:
. Well I know there is a possibility but the odd is against black women. You can choose to accept facts. It is what it is. Trust me I will advise any black lady to go for a white guy but be ready to for anything.

Keep pushing that twisted narrative of yours. I will not internalize your negative self talk.

What's the big deal about black men anyway?What have they contributed to civilization? To history.

What great feats have they done to improve their economy. All they do is make excuses and leave black women to clean up their mess. They see the white women that enslave them as a status symbol. They aren't good father figures, lack ambition, are all talk and no action. The only thing they have going for them is the thing between their legs. It is most likely inversely proportional to their cerebral capacity.

Thank Goodness our eyes are becoming opened. Ladies go where you are valued regardless of race, nationality or tribe. Let men like sirjamesjnr continue to whine in victim mentality and blame others for their unhappiness.

sirjamesjnr:
Yes it is. I will tell you why, in our society, it is expected that the man is the initiator of relationships. Women are supposed to wait around for a man to ask her. It’s OK to use feminine wiles to influence the man, but she isn’t supposed to come out and ask him. (Not saying this is how things should be, just saying how I perceive it to be.).So do the maths, how many Nigerian girls will approach a man for a relationship? t
They are forming hard to get in their country ( because men will call them hoe), in Western world a lot of men are not expressive like Nigerian men.

Next comes cultural determinations of beauty. Let’s face it, when you watch TV, or the movies, or magazines, who is presented as beautiful, eh? Blond haired, blue eyed, skinny white girl with big tits. If you keep getting told that that is what is beautiful, it is very easy to buy into that. How often are you seeing black women try to look more white? Again how many of our women wants to keep fits and eat healthy? An average American or Westerner are fat so will naturally prefer a skinny lady.

Now, going back to racism and status. Remember now, it’s the men doing the choosing. Now, instead of thinking of the women as a person in and of herself, think of her as a status symbol. Just looking at race and gender, highest status is white male, lowest status is black female. It will take a white man or Asian man of some independent thought to choose a black woman. And, of course, she has to be good with that, too. Again how many Westerners want to cross breed? An American will prefer a Chinese woman, Caribbean girl to an African. In some Western family, your skin determine the level of relationship they have with you.

The vast majority of black women and black men you see in interracial relationships are in the media and have fame and money, very intelligent and smart.The only men I’ve seen who regularly look for women who have money are black men, so that won’t help a black woman who wants to date or get a chance for marriage ( How many black women wants to build with their men?). The odds doesn't favor Black woman. Like I always tell my girl( a Nigerian whom I adore and love deeply), if I didn't met you, I will have steadily work my way up, get marry to a western lady due to the fellowing factors 1 economic power, 2. Loyalty and respect 3. World influence. Don't get me wrong, I have a world view and selfish interest. You can achieve a lot been in the circle of white ladies if you play your cards right why 1 they have a lot of connects compare to black( a Nigerian ladies)2: Very loyal and faithful 3: Ready to support and build up. I strongly believe most Nigerian men, has same thinking mindset. A black guy in America will gladly take a mature American white ladies for a date, endure all the bullshits, because of the above interest. Love is the least considered factors when it comes to long term relationship.
Another strong point; 1 in 5 black American are in jail,or has been to prison.
4 in 5 African men in Western world want liberation ( economic liberation), 4 in 5 white man doesn't want a long term relationship with a black lady. The end RESULTS, so many American African women, a lot of Asian women, and some white ladies want a black man. What chance does a Nigerian girl with ego, strong African influence, unattractive body ( due to bad eating habits) and unsupportive attitude get in a western world? Truly there are still some classy Nigerian girls, well mannered with high IQ.
Family influence: An average Nigerian girl still take instructions from her family when it comes to marriage. Go to school, settle down to build a career then marry from your tribe. This is a regular advice from a Nigerian parents.
So if you are a Nigerian girl who wants to travel to Western world, kindly forget marriage, if it comes be happy. The grass doesn't look green out there. If you even stand a chance be ready 1:To take a white guy bullshits 2: Drop your African lady ego 3 Be a high Target lady( smart, classy, homely, intelligent)
4: Have a lot of money
5 Be ready to split bills ( something you find it difficult to do in Nigeria)
6 career driven person.
Have an hour attractive body and beautiful face.
This is solely my opinion, you have yours. Will like to hear your contribution. Bashing are welcome.
Cc Isilove, all African American women in the house, Dr Funmi, potochantas, cococandy,Association of feminist, Alpha male community, broke shaming community, Nigerian living in Western countries etc I like your contributions.

Lol!!!

Keep saying that to comfort yourself. 4of my classmates married white men from Europe. Two married white from the US.

We will go where we are valued, whether it is nigeria or Ndi Abroad

ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

Tell him

NYCnextStop:
I thought you sell one of those their cosmetics they claim makes one glow when I first saw your moniker

But you are not a doctor na

i am

I wirk in health, I'm a funmistic person, and i glow

cmecproblem:
Women who are independent financially won't think twice before leaving an abusive marriage.

Many women who endure horrible marriages are financially dependent on the man.

That's why men are complaining & crying on NL that they want women of old like their mothers who will tolerate BS from them.

An independent woman will walk out and leave him ASAP.

xynerise:
Outsourcing the housework is a case on its own that may lead to another issue in marriage especially when the opposite sex is involved

We cannot come and kill ourselves for men that cannot control their prick.

My goal is to be the kind of woman that a man will think twice before misbehaving and if he does misbehave, he would be vert afraid of what i will do.

xynerise:
Reason why every woman should see "housewifing" as an impending disaster

Outsourcing the housework is the way forward

McTobe:
This thread got me very emotional. There are some things that we should not pray to happen, in our lives. I rather move out of my house for my wife and children, than allow her move out with them to God knows what situation. I rather bear any shit from their mother and allow them get up to eighteen years and once they can take care of themselves, off she goes.

By the time they're 18, you'll be so used to the sham of a marriage that yoy won't want to move out. Time has gone afterall

pocohantas:
I am not even gonna lie, my reasons for staying won’t be in his best interest. For his own good, he shouldn’t think otherwise.

exactly. If a man thinks he can make me miserable, he has another thing coming.

xynerise:
So money is the reason most women won't leave?

That's degrading

But it's true, no matter what, the fear of starting over from scratch is real

Time2soar:
Your sister is the person that knows why she settled for the three private universities, there are other schools like MUN and UNB that have better reputation and also cheaper than these three private universities.

The second options TWU is preferable of these three and tuition is $35,000 not $41,000

she applied to one of those schools mentioned but was rejected because she graduated with a 2:2