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Romance › Re: Man Dies Of Heart Attack After Discovering The True Paternity Of His Kids by eazzzy1(m): 11:36am On Jan 01, 2021

baralatie:
That is not even solving the problem.it is making the problem act fast

Lol it’s not going to solve the problem but it’s part of the problem. Office relationships are very discreet, it’s harder catching someone involved in an office affair.

The office couple spends more time with themselves than they do with their partners at home.

There are lot of women who would not risk cheating in their neighbourhood or churches because of the rumours.

It is also easier to meet people in position of power/attractive people at work than it is on your street or elsewhere.

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Romance › Re: Man Dies Of Heart Attack After Discovering The True Paternity Of His Kids by eazzzy1(m): 11:14am On Jan 01, 2021

This is why most Nigerian men don’t like their wives working. It is almost impossible for a woman to resist a man with power and influence, especially when it comes with charisma, charm and money.

It is also not about knowing your partner, this woman could have married as a virgin, be an active church member etc before marriage, you think you can’t do certain things until you are tested with those situations.

The importance of a DNA test cannot be overemphasized, if he did the test for the first child the second wouldn’t have happened.

You go through mild heartbreak when you catch a cheating partner and show her the door than when a cheating partner does the break up.

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Romance › Re: Stop Playing A Wife by eazzzy1(m): 4:51pm On Dec 26, 2020

Lol.

Romance › Re: Nigerian Men,how True Is This About Some Of You?? by eazzzy1(m): 4:16pm On Dec 26, 2020*

Lol the girls in the group were talking about black men, not Nigerian men. There are Jamaican men, Sudanese men etc that may leak ass, Naija men are in demand abroad.

Now back to your topic - I will highlight the differences in been with a white woman and a typical African woman, both pro and cons.

Pros of a white woman over an African woman;

Independence - The average white woman is able and willing to provide for herself and in some cases her man too without grumbling, that’s a taboo for an African woman.

Commitment: you can meet a white lady, talk a few hours and start having seex, continue your relationship for years without her wanting more than what you have. The average African woman wants you to meet her family after 2 weeks relationship.

Hypergamy: The average white woman who is a 9 can settle with a guy who’s a 5 and love him to death, you see this model looking dressed to kill beauty holding the hands of a pot belly, slippers wearing chubby cheeks geek strolling in the mall. The African woman would never lol. A 9 wants to date a 29.

Loyalty: An average white girl in a relationship does not exchange her number with any new guy, you approach her for a conversation she tells you immediately ‘ I have a bf’. She cuts off her male friends when she starts dating. The African woman continues to keep her friends and make new ones. To her they are just friends, but we all know 80% of your male friends wants to hit, 18% of the rest would not say no if you offer it to them.

Cons of dating a white chick;

The white chick isn’t as clean as the African chick. The average African chick takes good care of herself, the white chick is very casual, they also have a peculiar white girl smell, not really foul odour but just white smell.

It’s more interesting dating someone you share a lot with from upbringing to experiences. There are some inner jokes you have to explain to a white girl and vice versa. The Nigeria girl with get it immediately.

P.S I have only dated African girls, 1 Nigerian, 1 Cameroonian, 1 Ghanaian and a brief entanglement with a senagalese. All the white girls I have been with were fwb, flings, casual relationships etc.

Investment › Re: What Are Some Realistic Ways To Get Rich In 5 Years?�✔️ by eazzzy1(m): 9:02am On Dec 25, 2020

Most realistic way to me is working on your mind. Listen to people like Napoleon Hill and Earl Nightingale on YouTube everyday, practice what they teach you everyday. Once your mind is renewed and you have the abundance attitude, the physical will manifest on its own accord.

P.S: I started listening to those guy this year and it has made a huge difference in my life.

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Family › Re: Relocating To Canada by eazzzy1(m): 7:23pm On Dec 13, 2020

Like other people advised, check the express entry route. It's not necessary to learn french, with your education and work experience you are very likely to qualify.

When you get to Canada make sure you go to school, even if its an eight month diploma, having Canadian education helps you land a better job faster.

You can also look at coming to study and then bringing your family after settling. Coming with your family may make you desperate to take on menial jobs to survive, better to come alone, do a two years Msc or MBA or PhD, get a three year post graduate work permit, big organizations are always recruiting from top institutions.

If you absolutely have to come with your family, you will need more than your 8m savings, you need a bigger house, daycare for the kids etc.

Family › Re: My Opinion: Reason Why A Man Should Not Choose His Mother Above His Wife by eazzzy1(m): 9:30am On Dec 05, 2020*

OP, the only reason you don’t hear much about men complaining about their father in-laws is because men are logical. It’s not because our fathers treated our mothers badly.

Personally, the only way I will think my wife puts her dad before me is if she sleeps with her dad, and I’m sure it’s the same for most guys.

There’s really no logical way a man can put his mom above his wife, it’s you women who engage in unnecessary comparison.

There are many women who are bread winners of their extended families, they work, pay their brothers fee, take care of their parents but leave the responsibilities of provision for their immediate family to their husbands, and the husbands are proud of them.

A man buys his mom a car and it’s a problem, he buys your mum a car and he’s a good husband. I’m not putting the blame on just wives, some mothers can be trouble too. All I’m saying is it’s a woman’s thing to be jealous over trivial things, most men don’t have such problems.

Family › Re: Deciding To Love Or Falling In Love by eazzzy1(m): 3:46pm On Nov 07, 2020

I’m a man and I do not choose to fall in love. It just happens. Sometimes I see someone, I just want a good time, basically sex, then we get talking, feelings starts developing, you think of them often, you want to see them or talk to them all the time, there’s an emotion beneath void of any logic, you stay up longer than your sleep hours to talk to them even when you know you have to wake up early the next day.

Just as we do not decide to think, feel pain, feel anger, disappointment etc these are automatic response to stimuli, so is love. You can consciously decide not to fall in love, but you can’t conciously decide to fall in love, then the love will be fake.

Now this is only for eros love or romantic love.

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Romance › Re: Is It Bad For A Lady To Propose To A Man? by eazzzy1(m): 2:28pm On Oct 11, 2020

There is nothing wrong with women proposing to men. However, will a woman be able to take the shame of her boyfriend saying NO? Most women once they get to age 23 and have a serious relationship are ready to get married, Men know the timing of a woman’s readiness.

On the other hand how will a woman know a guy is ready to settle? It’s far more difficult to estimate a guy’s ready time. So most proposals will end in a NO.

Women already ‘propose’ to men by asking us the ‘when are we getting married’ question, ‘I’m not getting younger’ statement or constantly bugging us to go see their parents etc. Adding going down on one kneel to this makes them come off as desperate.

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Romance › Re: She Broke Up With Me Becuz Of An Sms (Updated) by eazzzy1(m): 2:16pm On Oct 11, 2020

Brunosamel:
this first thing I did was to apologize, told her there's nothing going on between our two but she didn't care at all, she broke up with me via sms... Please is there anything wrong this sms

If you see a text like this on her phone telling another guy what you told comfort, how will you react? Cheating isn’t until you sleep with the other girl. The other girl is clearly talking like you are asking her out and your reply didn’t say otherwise.

To answer your question, everything is wrong with that text. Now you can focus on comfort.

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Romance › Re: She Broke Up With Me Becuz Of An Sms (Updated) by eazzzy1(m): 9:24am On Oct 11, 2020

You made a post about finding the redpill constitution on October 4, 1 week later your girlfriend dumped you.

You are hurt but masking your hurt under the thought of let me focus on my life, you forgot to focus on your life till you got dumped? You won’t focus on your life, she will move on and you will also start looking for someone else to show you can move on too, but whatever you find will end again, till you fix your thought.

Your girl found an implicating text on your phone, instead of you to apologize or explain to her you tell her she will regret leaving you, are you Jeff Bezos?

This is just the beginning of series of heartbreak for you. The redpill teaches you how to treat women like trash, they don’t teach you how to deal with the resulting heartbreak.

The earlier you know most of these redpill guys are just good writers the better for you, most do not practice what they tell you. This is why young people should stay off social media, TV or anything that can adversely influence them.

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Romance › Re: How Do I Get Female Friends With Benefits? by eazzzy1(m): 12:01am On Sep 08, 2020

Like the name implies ‘friends with benefits’ are friends who starts fucking, usually it starts with friendship and then you both decide to start nacking.

So start with your female friends, your bestie, start talking raw around them, then start being playful, pretend kisses, rub their hair, arms. If they allow that then proceed to playfully touching legs, thighs, Laps. If they allow that then you can move to ass and boobs.

Key word is to do it playfully, if they reject your moves, apologize, turn it to play and move on, continue being friends though.

Another sure way is to have money, lot of girls will want to date you, but you tell them you aren’t into relationships. Most of them will stick around with the hope that they can win you over. The period when they are trying to win you over you just keep having casual, no commitment sex.

They will walk when they realize there’s no hope for a relationship.

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Romance › Re: Please Help. How Can I Stop Been A Simp? by eazzzy1(m): 10:49pm On Sep 02, 2020*

if You beg to have someone, you will beg to keep them.

You are already aware that the relationship isn’t beneficial to you, so just drop it. It’s not time to learn about how not to be a simp.

Dump her and learn your lesson, don’t beg or buy your next girlfriend.

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Romance › Re: Do Physical Attributes Play A Major Role In Successful Marriages? by eazzzy1(m): 12:56am On Aug 30, 2020*

No! Physical attributes can not solely make a successful marriage. Once you have the object of your attraction, the attraction begins to wane. So the once pretty body and face soon becomes regular because you see it everyday.

Relationships are kept by benefits, once a relationship is no longer beneficial then the other thing that can keep it is religion/faith/spirituality.

As long as you are doing for your partner what they can’t do by themselves and they can’t get outside easily, you are 80% guaranteed to keep your relationship.

No one can avoid been cheated on in a relationship/marriage. You are not responsible for the cheaters actions, whether you are rich or poor , fit or obese, man or woman, never let anyone tell you it’s your fault that they cheated.

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Romance › Re: I Need Advice On A Sweet Relationship That Turns Toxic by eazzzy1(m): 12:54am On Aug 30, 2020

Why are you trying to control what she posts on her status though? You think she does it to get to you then you make it get to you, so her toxicity is making you toxic. She’s succeeding in turning you into a complainer and nag.

If you know her status gets to you, block her from seeing your status, that way you don’t see hers either. I know posting about such is therapeutic to most girls, they feel better when they do. So basically you are angry that your girlfriend wants to feel better.

At 32 your gf wants marriage ASAP, if you don’t see yourself marrying by mid next year please let her go, you don’t need that kind of pressure in your life. Once a naija girl hits 25 she doesn’t have more than 2 years to spare in a relationship.

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Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija: Watch Sad Moment Erica Broke Down In Tears After Pouring Her Heart Out by eazzzy1(m): 12:17am On Aug 30, 2020

Even after all the insults she dished out to him, and this is who people call alpha male?

Family › Re: What Would You Have Done? by eazzzy1(m): 1:51pm On Aug 25, 2020

faithfull18:
Formalised relationship you can't be opting out or in at any slight misunderstanding.

What you call slight misunderstanding is obviously a major issue to the OP. His peace of mind is eroded and the only way he can get it back right now is through separation.

Romance › Re: What Semen Retention Will Not Do by eazzzy1(m): 12:55am On Aug 25, 2020

Except you tried semen retention and it didn’t work for you, you can’t say it doesn’t work. There are many ways to make a fortune, a footballer giving you advise on how to make money will be different from what businessman will tell you, which will also be different from what a pastor tells you. It is your prerogative to pick one or non at all, but you can’t say it doesn’t work especially when so many people have said it does.

When someone says things start working out for them after they tried semen retention it doesn’t mean they went from broke to billionaire, it could mean they got a job, they got a raise, a gift, something they have wanted for long showed up in the same week etc.

I have no interest in joining the challenge but I can’t say it doesn’t work when there are a lot of people testifying to it’s effectiveness.

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Family › Re: What Would You Have Done? by eazzzy1(m): 3:00pm On Aug 24, 2020

faithfull18:
Bad advice, this is marriage not a mere relationship.

@OP, you guys should talk it out.

Lol marriage is a relationship so no difference. Does the wife attitude look like someone who wants to talk it out? He’s going to continue to suffer till he acts .

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Family › Re: What Would You Have Done? by eazzzy1(m): 2:48pm On Aug 24, 2020

I would leave. When will you have enough? When she starts cheating? Sometimes people have to realize that the marriage ran its course and has come to an end. I’m sure your wife doesn’t want you again she just don’t know how to tell you, staying with her is forcing it.

Your options are simple, take it as your new normal or take a walk. As for me I will rather be in a loveless marriage than a disrespectful one.

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Family › Re: In A Sinful Relationship by eazzzy1(m): 2:32pm On Aug 24, 2020

bukatyne:

Lol abi sis, na to scatter everything since the love Dey shack am. I don’t think it’s a soul tie, I think it’s adults acting like children.

Unfortunately their selfishness is going to destroy two families, turn the kids to children from broken homes and their respective partners to divorcees, something non of them bargained for.

Calling it a soul tie kind of takes the responsibility out of their hands making seem like they have no control over their actions.

I wish their partners find out and decide to date themselves too, so basically family swap. I no holy pass but to fall in love outside your marriage and even worse to a fellow married person. No judgement here sha. Let them keep chopping life .

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Family › Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by eazzzy1(m): 4:59pm On Aug 23, 2020

[quote author= post=93140681]Experience.. people won't read and learn o.. experience 2oukd teach them Sha[/quote]My brother the difference between dating hot girls and ‘casual’ girls is as clear as night and day. Some of these casual girls are even prettier. Their looks just isn’t their priority. So they pay less attention to it.

The hot girls are only hot before you nack, once you have sex 3 times they become regular. Only guys outside who only see them with clothes on think they are special.

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Family › Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by eazzzy1(m): 4:39pm On Aug 23, 2020

Klass99:
I am not Nengi and character never hides itself, it always shows. I've been described as difficult and hard to please. So, if I say someone has a good character from assessments made, based on continuous interaction with them, you best believe me.

What I liked about Nengi was that, with all her beauty she wasn't arrogant or self conceited. She was in her prime with loads of boys/men chasing her but she maintained a level head, pleasant and decent persona.

Guy las las just say, you no get anything to talk and don't try to spin this around as ''only the people in a relationship knows who has good character'' People outside of a relationship can tell good character too.

Lol it’s not the same Joor, Nengi won’t tell you if she was killing him with billing, or denying him sex, or there are things the couple fight about that we aren’t privy to.

She may not have a bad character, but there are some things she and her ex didn’t see eye to eye on or would never compromise on . It could be anal sex, oshiomole gave him anal sex or agreed to a party or let’s him cheat, or agrees to split bills or agrees to the whole chores etc many reasons lol.

Thank God Nengi moved on, Paul wasn’t hers to keep.

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Family › Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by eazzzy1(m): 4:09pm On Aug 23, 2020

Klass99:
Like what pls? Educate me.

And recall I said Nengi had a good character in addition to her hot looks.

Only the people in the relationship knows who has good character. Except maybe perhaps you happen to be Nengi.

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Family › Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by eazzzy1(m): 3:55pm On Aug 23, 2020

Klass99:
What would make a man in his right thinking mind to give up a Nengi for Adams, if not jazz?

A whole lot. I dated a girl like Nengi when I was in school, every other African guy wanted to be with her, she was pretty but was also high maintenance. Lots of guys bought her gifts for no reason, I then started cheating just to show I could get attention too. We argued all the time, she didn’t even know it was wrong to receive gifts from admirers, till I started giving admirers gifts too.

When we broke up I dated someone less flashy, less make up, no short gown, bum short etc. This one had her own money and she was very reserved. We dated two years never argued for once.

Girls are always looking for ways to call their replacements ugly, some will say why are you dating your mothers mate, your own na Oshiomole. Na only man know wetin he Dey find o, if oshiomole doesn’t give me wahala I will date her. Nengi can kiss my Ahole.

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Family › Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by eazzzy1(m): 3:54pm On Aug 23, 2020

Klass99:
What choice do any of us have in such a situation, except to move on? You wan kill the betrayers before?

Nengi is married now with kids of her own, but she told me years later that, that was her first and last heartbreak ever. She was the one breaking hearts afterwards.

As for Adams Oshiomole's lookalike and her cookies, I won't completely rule out jazz like others said. I wasn't exaggerating when I said she looks like Adams, she has his stature (short and masculine) with a slightly better looking face than Adams though.

What would make a man in his right thinking mind to give up a Nengi for Adams, if not jazz?

Family › Re: In A Sinful Relationship by eazzzy1(m): 2:42pm On Aug 23, 2020

When you get caught, the feelings will vanish. When her husband kicks her out you won’t find her attractive anymore. There’s that subconscious feeling that you are better than her husband. Sleeping with someone’s gf or wife can be exciting but it always end in shame for one or both parties.

If you want to be with her, break her home and divorce your wife. Make a secret video or audio recording and send it to her husband. I’m sure if you end up together you won’t trust her.

If you are serious about leaving her, next time when you kiss her, just remember she sucked her hubby’s dick the night before, so basically you are sucking dick.

Another method is to think/know that if she’s nacking you she may be nacking someone else too, so you aren’t special she just belongs to the street.

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Family › Re: Simsify (A Nairalander) Gets Married by eazzzy1(m): 1:32pm On Aug 19, 2020

KristaPretty:
You are clearly DUMB and DAFT for you to say such especially when you can see there there was nowhere in my comment where I mentioned or referred to the woman in particular.

Be sensible and receive little sense to understand that I was referring to them both.

You are the type that clearly blames your misfortune on anyone doing better than you!
Tueh

Ahan! All these insults is revealing your frustration with life my sister. You were referring to both of them? What’s a man to be ashamed of in having a long term relationship?

You are the type that get married to someone you dated for two months and end up cheating with the ex you left him for.

Your last paragraph is funny, where I was 10 years ago you can’t get to it in 30years to come.
It’s a absolute waste of my time to indulge you. Be gone!

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Family › Re: Simsify (A Nairalander) Gets Married by eazzzy1(m): 10:12am On Aug 19, 2020

KristaPretty:
8years dating= Two Bsc Degrees or One Bsc and 4masters degrees or even One degree plus 4years ASSU strike in Nigeria.

Congratulations on this graduation to the next level!

Why do you women shame other women who had/has a long term relationship? What difference does it make if someone marries after a 2 month relationship or 8 years relationship?

Romance › Re: Introvert by eazzzy1(m): 2:18pm On Aug 08, 2020

If you are asking this question then it seems like it’s a problem to you. Introverts prefer to be alone and they like it. Do you like being by yourself or there’s a condition making you be by yourself?

Others can’t convince you of being normal, if you like the way you live then you won’t have second thoughts about the normalcy of it.

If on the other hand you are ashamed of yourself and thus hiding from the world while covering your shame with the cloak of introversion, you can work on yourself.

Romance › Re: What Was Your Funniest/most Stupid Answer To A Question In School. by eazzzy1(m): 10:10pm On Aug 04, 2020

Agric assignment: What is Animal husbandry? Me :Animal husbandry is when animals have husbands.
Agric teacher : idiot, see me.

These were before the days of google or before it became popular in naija.

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