₦airaland Forum

TonyeBarcanista:
[s][/s]you aren't different from the deluded IPod yoots.

I don't discuss with ignoramus, I'll oblige Fratermathy only on this

TonyeBarcanista:
The problem I have with the article is the claim that small Urhobo with 1 senatorial district in Delta state is the 4th largest ethnic nation ahead of Ijaws (60% in Rivers, 100% Bayelsa, 40% Delta, and also in Akwa Ibom and Ondo states- undisputed 4th largest with 20million population) and the fifth largest tribe Tiv (Dominant in Benue and also present in Taraba state)


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I ignore trolls

YungMillionaire:
My guy, I tire 4 these people o! Shu! Must they sow the seeds of confusion among other Nigerians just because they are fighting for Biafra? Their matter don pass play play na to dey swear for them remain.

YungMillionaire:
Leave the fools. Omenka (Benue) criticized them they said he is Yoruba. Frater..mathy, Amberon, Sanchez (Urhobos) criticized them they say they are Yoruba. Even Abagworo an Igbo from Imo is termed Yoruba if he does not agree with their useless propaganda. They are useless people. If Nigeria is a zoo like they claim then they are the biggest monkeys in the zoo.

Amarabae:
I love it where you made the point "Instead of whinning, pls pick up a skill or learn a trade"
that was part of the points I raised yesterday and they wanted to crucify me.
Many Men are regretting their marriage because they were not Financially stable before taking a Wife and the hardship is taking toll on them, thats why some of them have prematured gray hairs due to hardship.
Even if the wife is working, the man will still feel the burden.
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And to all hardworking guys out there, May God bless your hustling.

fratermathy:
I can't wait for when he will "storm" Warri, Ughelli or Sapele with his paratroopers. After all, he "proclaimed" these places as parts of Biafra. Or is he trying to marginalise us already by visiting only Igboland?

fratermathy:
In your bid to delude yourself with tribalistic sentiments, you failed to realise that the honouree is not an Igbo but an Itsekiri (a Yoruboid group).

scholes0:
lol that is what his name means in Yoruba.
Erubami= fear catch me.

scholes0:
Joshua "Erubami"
Fear catch me

MrMoney007:
Idiots!!!

Imagine a position of Graduate Assistant to the best graduating student in that whack university.

Since Delta is an oil producing state, why not give him an internship in NNPC with a job waiting patiently after completion.

Sanchez01:
Oh, so the Ijaws are expected to come and save you in a discourse that had nothing to do with them from the outset?

I have no interest in sowing seeds of discord but the truth must be pronounced. I grew up in a complex environment with the Ijaws and the Ilajes being the dominant groups therein. I recall how the Ijaws came into the area at the time, way back as far as 1990. Today, they claim they own the place and have been there from time immemorial. Interestingly, the said place is Mile 12, Lagos, specifically the river edge within Omobanta.

There are no indigenous Ijaws in Ondo, just as there are no indigenous Igbos in Delta, the same way there are no indigenous Urhobos in Bayelsa. The same applies to the Yorubas.

It is one thing your land was claimed or cut off, just as the case is with a part of Rivers which naturally belongs to the Igbos, and it is another to claim you are indigenous to a land when history clearly beams its spotlight on how your people got there.

donblade85555:
guy, can I pay monthly when using a foreign host?

yarimo:
Mumu women ,in nigeria constitution their is freedom of association and right to live in any where in nigeria . BURATAI and the IGP of police over to you people

Prognose:
I read the whole thing.
You're not alone bro. The problems you're having is the same kind of problems married people have at this stage of their marriage. This is the setting limits stage. This is where you both draw the line on things you can tolerate and things you won't allow no matter what. This is the stage where you show the kind of man you are and your wife will likewise adapt as a woman. Your problem is nothing out of the ordinary that others in these phase of marriage have experienced.


You didn't see all these flaws in her initially because you were deeply in love with her then. You may have even noticed some of these things but pushed them aside. But now the euphoria of love have gone and both of you are seeing yourselves live and direct. It's not a new thing bros, trust me.

So she nags. Almost all women nag, some nag worse than others. It is kind of your job to be patient with her as the man. Pls try and control your temper, this is what will make you matured and will separate u from being a boy. When she shouts and talks ceaselessly find a way to leave the environment or ignore her, depending on the type u can do. Over time she will learn to control herself.
Her controlling herself and reducing her nagging and your not getting enraged to be slapping her shows that you are both coming of age in the marriage and are understanding each other and becoming mature.


Do you want her to go back to her job? Remember she is pregnant (for the first time) and in a delicate and scared state. She is quite vulnerable right now with the changes going on in her body. Your job at this time is to be as supportive as you can. I don't mean you should become her slave but try and give her more rope when she misbehaves. It gets worse at three to six months of age and then she should start returning back to normal.

Set a boundary for her father. The fact that he has cut the phone on you once is enough to piss you off. He's not married to her, you are. If he calls again tell him politely that this is your family and you have your own plans for your wife. If you don't have the mind to do this then u can just ignore him instead. This is your wife now, he should stop butting in.

Find a job for her to do, no matter how little. Also don't give up on yourself. Every married couple went through this stage, it is those that come out of it that last. If you break up now, what's to say in your next marriage u won't break up again at the first sign of difficulty. Your a postgraduate man, you should be more mature and patient bro.

Find an older married couple you can talk to for advice. Not online o. A respectable married couple or couples preferably from the generation before ours let them tell you what they've been through themselves. Marriage is hard work and the more work you put into it the sweeter it becomes.

Cheers bro.

onuwaje:
Cc efewestern

Ajewealth123:
O ga o.
What harm does this pose?

obiezed:
This is one of the things wrong with Nigerians and the way we think in this country.
I have no problems with equating salaries in federal institutions, but the F.G has no right to tell me who to hire or what to pay them in my organization. A b.sc can never be the same as a H.Nd because the entry requirements are different. Most people end up in polys because their SSCE's were not good enough or they couldn't make jamb.period. now giving them the same grade as people who work the asses off to earn B.Sc is unfair and ridiculous. Why don't we just scrap polytechnics then and make them all universities with the same basic entry requirements for all ??.then equate their grades and salaries.

crackhouse:
The question is. Is God happy with what he did? Cos he killed himself and that's suicide.

buharichild:
y do biafuro people like to claim buhari project 4 anoda person, It was Buhari dat did it, lie lie ipods, Mod dat pushed it please verify d news b4 posting again

Kizme:
Please no insult I want honest answer.I decided to be on nairaland because of this issue.I meet this guy 2013.let me forward,2016 I got pregnant for him the month I got pregnant he travelled to America since last year we have been communicating.fellow nl do you think when he is settled he will come back for me and his child.

Emassive:
Biased Urhobo boy still contradicting yourself in the process... WARRI is an Itsekiri Town while They gave Sapele to the Pipe/Urhobo ...... Why do you guys still wish to drag nonsense

onuwaje:
Please read this up

http://www.waado.org/Organizations/UHS/WarriPeaceCongress/BackgroundPapers/ItekiriBackgroundPaper.html

marcondo13:
It is not a supremacy contest but setting the facts right! A couple of guys whip up political sentiments to loot and share oil contract booty and turned it into a tribal warfare! I am still waiting for him to tell me the relationship between the Agbassa founding fathers (Iruowhara, Osuovba and Ijala),who settled at Ijala and later Ukpokiti within the Warri Metropolis, and the first Olu,Prince Ginuwa! Can there be a king without a kingdom? It is time that Africans learn to ask deep questions instead of relying on fables like the Oduduwa story and other African fairytales!

marcondo13:
A typical reaction of a modern Itsekiri youth,who show a distaste for academic scholarship. Do I sound like a pimpled juvenile,who rely on hearsays Who are the founders of the different Agbraha clans? I am giving you an account and you are making an asinine comment! Why not call the oldest man in your family and ask him about the land in Warri, on which the Aghofen, the Olu of Warri’s palace was built,if it is privately owned and was leased to Wilson Gbesimi Emiko (Erejuwa 11) by Omagbemi for the Ewelofu of Ekurede-Itsekiri, or it was a property of the royal family for generations. Then,come back and update everyone on his response.
For your information,I am tied by blood and marriage to the Arubi family, Awani family and the Fregene royal line. So,stop wasting your time believing that you are more Itsekiri than me,because my grandparent's main residence was almost burnt in 2000 because the Agbarha youths even thought that they were Itsekiris. I am not your typical youth,who rely on fables of doubtful provenance. I still repeat and challenge everyone to go back and ask about the origin of the Itsekiri Kingdom! You will be shocked about the interwoven fabric of the Agbarha people and the Itsekiri nation!