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lalasticlala:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0OyeKapXDg

Aba Residents Resist Nigeria Police Officers’ Attempt To Arrest A Tricycle Rider Who Protested Shattering Of His Windscreen By Policeman In Abia State.

They never disappoint. Nigerian Terrorist Force. Always terrorizing the defenseless.

Wow. Interesting. At this rate boys and girls go begin investigate the scientific study of banditry cos e be like sey e dey very lucrative.

blamingthedevil:
Answer on eBible:

Nowhere in the New Testament does it state that Jesus or any of His apostles ever collected tithes or instructed believers to pay tithes.

The apostle Paul did not teach that everyone is obligated to tithe or to even give, however he teaches that giving is completely voluntary (2 Corinthians 9:7 NLT “You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.”). The first apostolic council in Acts 15 does not say that Gentile believers should title either. There is absolutely no evidence that any Gentile Christian in the First Century ever tithed anything.

Tithing in the Law of Moses was never about giving as there was nothing voluntary in tithing. Failure to tithe would have resulted in a violation of the Law.

New Testament believers are no longer under the Law as stated in Romans 7:6 NLT “But now we have been released from the law, for we died to it and are no longer captive to its power. Now we can serve God, not in the old way of obeying the letter of the law, but in the new way of living in the Spirit.” and Galatians 5:1 NLT "So Christ has truly set us free. Now make sure that you stay free, and don’t get tied up again in slavery to the law."

https://ebible.com/questions/5471-did-jesus-collect-tithes

Yes, Jesus did not collect tithes and also Jesus did not wear a suit, wear snickers, have a car, work a 9am-5pm job, watch football matches, see movies, have a wife or girlfriend, eat shawarma or play PS2. Does it make all of these things we should not do? Tithes are paid by some as an investment in the church and even if Jesus did not take any it does not make it wrong to pay it. The law and prophets are to be fulfilled because not one jot or tittle will pass from the law and the prophets till all be fulfilled. We are to live in the fulfilment of the law and the prophets and do so with understanding.

Myer:
I wish I could believe such gifts are still in existence cos I'm yet to come in contact with anyone with it.

Well if Queen Sheba thought it wise to travel miles upon miles from Ethiopia to Israel just so see with her eyes and hear with her ears the famed wisdom of Solomon then I think you can do the same. The privilege you have to today to be able to read of Moses, Elijah, Paul, Peter etc and their mighty acts is brought to you by those who preserved recorded evidence of what these men did...but today you don't have to wait for recorded evidence all you need do is walk into one of those churches where healings are being reported and see for yourself. If you are not convinced leave and check another. If you have checked enough and you find no convincing evidence then you can say to yourself that all the Bible says about men of the supernatural is more likely a hoax but if you are convinced then spread the word. It's that simple.

adamsmith914:
Are they not your mates, or do they have any super natural powers?

The question is why did you or any of your family members not join the security apparatus to help defend our country, are you not Nigerians off age?

Even if all your ancestors join the army all you will be good at is beating up civilians for mumu reasons...when the real battle comes you will vanish with your tail in between your legs. There is nothing gallant about the Nigerian armed forces. You guys are only gallant when it comes brutalizing defenseless Nigerians. Can't you see that Nigerians are mostly afraid of everyone that is armed? Any armed person in Nigeria is a threat to the lives and property of ordinary citizens. The only difference between armed robbers, kidnappers and armed uniformed men is the uniform nothing else!

NaijaMutant:
The supreme court reversed its own judgement

Hope justice doesn't have a price ?

If you pay enough, justice by humans always has a price.

sonmvayina:
But the Jewish scriptures are all written in Hebrew or Aramaic .
The romans /Greek stole it and mistranslated it and added the new testament at the end of it to make it sellable...

What's your historical evidence for this?

Myer:
This is probably the explanation.
But makes you wonder why we don't have such anymore. Such gifts seem like fiction in this generation.

There are still gifts like that in operation but many would not like to see with their own eyes. They prefer calling men of God names, smearing all men of God based on the inadequacies of some errant men of God and refusing to do their own research. Yes there are fake men of God, errant men of God and confused religionists but I have also seen real prophets, healers, seers, teachers of deep mysteries whose explanation is not easily gleaned from the scriptures, scribes and psalmists and evangelists.

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Your husband is critically ill and his disease is the disease of the soul. His desire for prostitutes will not be cured by mere suasion. If you are still interested in continuing the marriage you need to inform him that he is yielding to demon spirits that are in control of his sexual desires. He needs to accept that he is sick and needs help. He needs a surgical operation of the heart and to start this first he needs to commit himself to fasting and prayer, pray along with deliverance ministers and continually guard his heart. This battle is a difficult one and it needs concerted efforts...but madam you should known this attitude of his before you wedded him and you should have equipped yourself for the battles ahead. Well welcome to warfare madam. You either prepare yourself for spiritual warfare or get a divorce. Shikena. The ball is in your court.

doggedfighter:
Stop disturbing the young man with emotional blackmail

There's no eternity.

There's no God to unify with.


Everyone dies and that's the end.

Rest is an important priority.

If death ends it all...wow! Then nothing justifies doing good and if there is no eternity, no God, no lawgiver then there is no good or evil. We have no basis for convicting anyone of wrong. If your mom gets raped in front you you should accept it as the result of your weakness and not necessarily a bad thing because without a lawgiver outside of man's sphere of influence there can't be an objective determination of right or wrong. Hence rape may be wrong to you but could be right to guy who ties you up and rapes every female in your house while you watch.

Turkey has shot 91% of persons above 18 once and they have shot about 83% of the same group twice. Now they are about to shoot one more time those who were shot twice with Sinovac and twice with BionTech (Source here ). Yet Turkey averages 69000 cases per day (Source [url=https://www.google.com/search?q=new+york+daily+covid+cases&client=ms-android-samsung-gj-rev1&sxsrf=AOaemvIeA613kMdSfFX4YPlm5bdcNM6VzQ%3A1642339752530&ei=qB3kYcDsH4qIjLsPyqmx2A8&oq=new+york+daily+covid+cases&gs_lcp=ChNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwEAMyBQgAEMQCMgYIABAHEB4yBggAEAcQHjIGCAAQBxAeMgYIABAHEB4yBggAEAcQHjIGCAAQBxAeMgUIABCABDoHCCMQsAMQJzoHCAAQRxCwAzoECCMQJzoHCCEQChCgAToICCEQFhAdEB46BggAEBYQHjoFCCEQoAE6CAgAEMkDEMQCOggIABAIEAcQHjoECAAQDToICAAQDRAFEB46CAgAEAgQDRAeSgQIQRgAUMYHWN08YOlJaAJwAXgAgAG0AogBix-SAQYyLTE0LjKYAQCgAQHIAQnAAQE&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp] here [/url]).

Now we are hearing of Flurona and Deltacron. Soon enough some countries will be one huge firing squad where every sheep is compelled to get shot on a daily basis.

Bacteriologist:
Christian Ignorance

Thoughts?

There is nothing like too much knowledge but there is the idolization of knowledge. Knowledge for the service of the LORD GOD is beautiful but knowledge for the purpose of just being knowledgeable could easily lead to an obsession and from thence to the idolization of knowledge. At the end of the day worshipping knowledge will not bring salvation.

First it was wear a mask, next it was social distancing, next it was lockdowns, next it was get the first jab, followed by another jab, followed by another booster jab and yet COVID cases are skyrocketing in societies with high vaccination rates...these worshippers of knowledge find it hard admitting that all they know is failing them and that they need help beyond what they think they know.

Who told you it is no longer happening? What is your evidence that it is no longer happening? If no one wrote about Ananias and Sapphira would you have read about it and known about it? Such events are not palatable and worthy of being advertised so you may not hear about it happening. You ought to conduct a participant observatory research in a living church where the acts of the spirit are manifest to see if the phenomenon you talk about happens or not.

Myer:
[url][/url]One of the major challenges Istill can't seem to understand is how the bible came about.

If you read through Genesis to Deuteronomy, you'll realise that some of the events were private and no one else was there, and certainly not even a writer.
This books were supposedly written by Moses who was born millennia after.
Moses, the supposed writer even in Deuteronomy 34 wrote about his own death.

How also did he know what conversations took place between God and Adam, Between Eve and the serpeant? Between Jacob and the Angel when he wrestled with God, Abraham and Isaac, Isaac and his sons, Jacob and his sons, Etc

In the new testament, how did the writers of the Synoptic gospels (Matthew to John) get the conversations Jesus had alone in their absence? Such as the conversation between him and the Samaritan woman by the well, Jesus and God at Gethsemane, etc.
How did the writer even have the conversations he had with them when none of them was a writer and most of them were illiterates?

The books of Moses are books of prophecy sourced from visions, words of knowledge and words of wisdom. The gospels were biographical accounts of the life and works of Jesus. Hence they do not have to present in every event they wrote about.

cutecommend:
This is a bright and beautiful year, and it is a year of another opportunity. I need to improve my Bible-reading life. I don't read bible often, and sometimes when I read, it's not deep. I need to work on that.

I also need to improve other failing parts.

Heightened supernatural sensitivity!

Ezekiel...the only man recorded that saw the LORD on His throne surrounded by the Cherubim. The only man who raised a full cemetery back to life. Very humble. Totally broken. A man loved greatly by the LORD GOD.

SilasIBB:
GOSPEL ARTIST, FRANT OGOCHUKWU EDWARDS, Popularly Know as Frank Edwards took to his Facebook page to Advocate for Love and Intercession, The Main Essence of CHRISTIANITY.

Read the post:



https://www.facebook.com/100044515986361/posts/469870891173440/?app=fbl

"Christ is interested in the Salvation Of the One you're Praying to die by fire."


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More often than not humans are weapons and demons wield humans. Praying for humans to die in this case is a bad strategy because the demon could use another human. Instead of praying for a person to die deal with the demon and grow into the giant God has created you to be. In special cases where demons become the weapon and humans become the weilder that human has made himself or herself the target of destruction.

beautyfunke:
Pls can someone explain first fruit, is it important a Christian must give first fruit?

This is my own view of this. I could be wrong but I am still open to learning the mystery of God's feast days and their fulfilment.

The first fruits is one of the sacrifices taught to us by God.

Exodus 23:16 And the feast of harvest, the firstfruits of thy labours, which thou hast sown in the field: and the feast of ingathering, which is in the end of the year, when thou hast gathered in thy labours out of the field.

In the days of the law and the prophets, you could offer first fruits of wine, wheat, livestock, etc and all of these are sacrifices UNTO THE LORD (Leviticus 2, Leviticus 23).

In our times, the times of the new covenant, we are to fulfil the law and prophets as Christ did and not blindly observe them without knowledge. Paul said something important about the firstfruits.

Romans 11:16 For if the firstfruit be holy, the lump is also holy: and if the root be holy, so are the branches.

If you consecrate your firstfruits by setting it apart in service of the LORD GOD the source of the firstfruits will also be consecrated and blessed.

Now some will say that all the sacrifices were fulfilled on our behalf by the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus but that is not true because Jesus fulfilled the feasts of passover, unleavened bread and pentecost for us to walk in the light of the fulfilment of these feasts. Jesus fulfilled passover so we too are to walk in the light of the fulfilment of the passover as instructed below:

Matthew 26:26-28 And as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and blessed it, and brake it, and gave it to the disciples, and said, Take, eat; this is my body. And he took the cup, and gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, Drink ye all of it; For this is my blood of the new testament, which is shed for many for the remission of sins.

Here the flesh and the blood of Jesus became food indeed and drink indeed just as the Israelites ate the passover lamb in Exodus 12:1-11- which is what we refer to today as holy communion.

Jesus during the feast of unleavened bread provided a means, by his flesh and blood, for the world to be rid of sin (Matthew 26:26-28), brought salvation to the spirits in captivity (Matthew 27:52-53, 1 Peter 3:19, Ephesians 4:9) and round that week off by offering to the Father the firstfruits of his work on earth (John 20:17). So as Jesus did so must we His children. We must daily be crucified, we must fulfil the feast of unleavened bread by being holy and consecrated unto God and we must offer the first fruits of our labor as Christ did.

7 sabbaths after the feast of unleavened bread (Leviticus 23:15-16) was the feast of pentecost and this was fulfilled by Jesus sending us the Holy Spirit (John14:26) the 7 spirits of God (Revelations 5:6), to seal the new covenant, writing the laws of God on our hearts (Hebrews 8:10). No more do we have to observe to do laws written on tables of stone but we become one with the law of the LORD by virtue of it being written in our hearts.

We are to fulfil these feasts/sacrifices as Jesus fulfilled them and we to do so by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.

ENGINEERG:
House fellowship, just like so many church programs are created by human being. All is not in the bible....so its good, but not a must to attend.
Even House fellowship is like Normal service-
Read Bible, sermon, pray and praise God.
But ancient people just created many programs since they were less busy then.

Imagine in Nigeria, you work from Monday to Friday (Saturday inclusive for some), do house work and attend ceremonies on Saturday, yet on sunday, you go to church in the mornings, and another in evenings for House fellowship..
WHEN WILL PEOPLE REST?

You work from Monday to Friday for money, career and fame that will mean nothing to you the day you die or the day the world wraps up. On Saturday you attend ceremonies that will not grow you one inch taller or make you increase your life span by 5 minutes. Yet you attend the ceremonies with glee. You dedicate 1 day to growing your inner man. You dedicate 1 day to building your spiritual ability. You dedicate 1 day to paving your path to eternity. You dedicate 1 day to unifying with the God head. You dedicate 1 day to joining the family of divinity. You dedicate 1 day to answering the question, what happens after I die? Wow, interesting priorities!

When I realized that fellowship was dampening my inner man...the fellowship was not really the assembly of the brethren but a social gathering of strangers.

greenie77:
I guess you so much believe that money is only what children require from their fathers.

A man disappearing from his children' lives because of the mother of his children is a coward for abandoning his children to a beast as you want us to believe. If he as a man cannot confront the beast, is it the children he expects to do so?

Where he is running to, is he not going to be sexually involved with other women? Are those women he will get involved with outside his marriage, going to be saints

If he remained at home the beast of a wife will create the very conditions that the kids should not be witnessing. Imagine the kids watching their mom tear into their dad for flimsy reasons and imagine their dad being defensive trying not to go full blown violent against their mother and all this happening before the kids. Will the kids have a great upbringing in such a manner. The beast of a wife is obviously not beastly to her children but she is a beast to her husband. Hence the man needs to give her space and reshape his life first. He needs to heal spiritually, financially and mentally. After a long retreat he can return to see his wife and children and if the wife has moved on to the next victim he too can move on with his life. I hate divorces but sometimes it is horrible pill a person has to take to escape disaster.

FamTomx2:
My thoughts as well

She will anticipate this move easily and password her phone. She has already armed herself for the worst...the guy in questions needs to polish his CV and start looking for a job elsewhere because that lady will not sleep until this guy loses his job and if he doesn't she will do all in her power to make his life miserable. He fooled himself from the start and now he must pay the price.

ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest

Ma guy you just paid school fees with your job. Yes. The school in question is the Federal University of Oponu. With that lady in the mix you will surely be fired unless your uncle applies family matters to his business. Anywhere money is involved there is no friend, there is no foe only winners and losers. And you my friend, are a sore loser here. Anywhere money is involved is a battle field where your closest crony could become your worst nightmare...see na, all because of towtow your blood pressure is rising and you have not eaten. Dude, man up, face the consequences, submit the lady's name as required of you, let her play her blackmail card, own your shit before your uncle, accept responsibility, learn your lesson, be conscious of that lady's move after she is fired because a wounded lion is deadlier...and lastly never, ever in your life mix pleasure with anything you consider serious!

greenie77:
Then he shows up again when his children becomes adults and explain to them he gave their mother a lump sum of money to take care of them.

Well they are his kids. He is not fleeing from his kids he is fleeing from his wife who is weaponizing his kids against him. And if the lump sum happens to be 50million naira, just saying, even the kids will vindicate him and come to grips with the beast they have as a mother.

Lamanii22:
Hmmmmmm "patronizing bad behaviour" how? Can you explain please....

Cause and effect is wired into our psyche. Mr. A does wrong, Mrs. B says sorry. Mr. A thinks his wrongdoing must be attributed to Mrs. B in a manner he is yet to understand and hence Mr.A's next wrongdoing will likely be attributed automatically to Mrs. B and this time Mr. A would demand an apology. Alternatively, Mr. A's narcissistic tendencies could kick in and he could interpret Mrs. B unmerited apology as a sign of Mrs. B obsession or weakness thus making Mrs. B a prey and not a wife. The wages of sin is not apology, it is death...when people know that dire consequences follow wrongdoing they tend to act right. It's human nature. Never apologize for peace sake when it is obvious to both you and the offender that you are clearly not wrong.

losak9111:
�‍♂Wives, learn to trust your husbands.
Sometimes your husband may come back home late and give you one reason you cannot find in any book. Just Let love and trust prevail.
Imagine Jonah coming back after 3 days of absence, no phone call, no message, nothing, only to tell his wife he was swallowed by a fish and vomited after 3 days -
Imagine how that sounded�
The wife will feel like breaking his head.
"Swallowed by fish really?
Are you talking to a baby? What an insult, lying to me as if I don't have any brains? Which fish, mackerel or tilapia"?
Even if Jonah reported the issue to a pastor, the pastor will call him aside and say brother Jonah, why not pray against lying spirits�
Neighbors will shout "ahh madam, you don't understand, the fish is another woman".
But between you and I,
Jonah was telling the truth. �����������

Couples should prepare a firm foundation for their marriage. A foundation of honesty, disclosure and sincerity of purpose. Would be husbands should disclose how many ladies they have slept with, who they are, how many children they have already, what sexual habits they have, their fantasies and other relevant matters. Would be wives too should do the same and ensure they disclose their body count. A marriage founded on truth will build trust easily.

Lamanii22:
I always apologize first even when I'm not wrong just for peace to reign... Amongst my friends, siblings and the likes.... Now that I am married I still do it too... So I would like to know if it's a good thing or I should not apologize first sometimes....


I am not a coward or anything I just like everything and everywhere peaceful......

It is not good. You are inadvertently destroying the meaning of the word "sorry" by apologising when you did no wrong. I don't believe all the motivational bs saying you should say sorry even when you did no wrong. You are also inadvertently patronizing bad behavior in the name of seeking peace.

thesayer:
I have read some write ups about issues in todays marriages...and some say it is more complicated for those abroad...but lets use Nigeria as a case study.

I hear some suggestions by some persons and am wondering......is it actually an easy thing to do? especially when u have someone that is demonic n stubborn...Not homely trained actually.

In dating women submit and can give as much sex as u need, but in marriage they demand submission first and go on celibacy.

I hear "If you can't handle this woman it's better to let her go, or send her back to her house...
what if she refuses to leave the house??.. and if kids are involved.
and If the man leaves the house...then he begins to foot double house bills..(rent on the kids/wife and his private apartment)...else the woman can also file for abandonment.

If the man threatens to walk out, and she threatens same but actually waiting for ur move..
some women can be a bone in the neck.

I also hear "u're the man, take charge of ur home...be the man....HOW in this case

my wife can stay as long as possible without sex nor asking for it.....i will have to appease, make her feel good, and put her in the a good mental state before i can sometimes have it.....if she's not in mood...dats all....and only God knows when the mood returns cos she wud never say or ask...thats a burden

For example..my wife clearly refused that she or the kids wont travel with me to see either parents..and that I cant take the kids without her.
will i force her?

Food....U punish yourself by not eating her food cos she doesn't care.

Seriously i have a woman with a big mouth...really big anger provoking mouth.
She is a dominant alpha female actually....A woman without a blink not afraid to raise a hand or call me names..and if I dare retaliate...someone would be dead.

One of the issue is this - she's from a broken home only raised by the father, mother abandoned them since she was 10 or so and is out of country...so no home training.

I missed some vital agreements/rules before marriage..out of pity...am 36, and 3 yrs apart....and we dated long.
U can call me a simp...but am learning n growing the hard way....things are improving gradually...but it's not been easy.....but what else do u advise.

Truly...she was all submissive during dating...no issues

Save your money. Give your wife a lump sum to take care of the children. Change your bank account. Change your phone number. Change your location suddenly. Get a job or start a business in the new location. Shikena. They will think you have been kidnapped or used for ritual. Thou art free.

muheeb01:
DEBATABLE DISCUSSION
A man who is infertile and knows it, keeps it from his wife for good 10 years, allowing her endure insults from both his family and strangers for those years, and even refuses the idea of adoption whenever she brings it up. The 11th year, the wife secretly gets to know about her husband’s infertility and even though she is deeply hurt, she doesn’t confront him. Rather, she gets involved with another man and gets pregnant and then breaks the news to her husband(giving the impression that she is actually pregnant for him).

-Do you think the woman did the right thing? Give reason(s) for your answer.



-What do you think the man should do in this situation?


Give reason(s) for your answer.

The man is mad. The woman is foolish. Only a mad man will be infertile and still force his wife to remain childless against her will. Only a foolish wife will get pregnant for another man and continues with her infertile husband as though all is well when nothing is well. Thank God they are childless. If they had children they would likely have inherited madness and foolishness from their parents.

Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

Dude you sure say you no lash that olosho. You could be hallucinating all this bs you just typed and it could be that you really lashed that olosho without CD. You no wan cheat but you go wia ppl wey dey cheat dey go. Dey dia dey deceive yaself. You wey no wan cheat why you no buy the drink, carry am go house go drink instead you go olosho base. Just tell us the truth. You decongested the olosho holistically and now your conscience is turninoniown.

stampo:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders.
This is real matters that needs your advice..

A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.

This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on.
During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.

During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.

My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him..
My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.

The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels
The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.

Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.

Please your advice on this issue is needed.

A lot of men nowadays do not need marriage they need rehabilitation. See man wey wan marry e don dey cheat in advance. Ladies, stop rejoicing when a man proposes to you. Do you investigation and get ready for a lifetime of headaches if you miss it.

Insanity. The creature was born biologically female yet it is undergoing hormone therapy for the development of ovaries. Una madness never start, this wan wey una dey mad na, na market una dey go!