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Mumu, can't you just say congratulations, and shout up, that is how you people keep spoiling people marriage and relationship, with this nonsense, talk, she looks older, she looks older,

What i

SarutobiEky:
Why, the woman looks older than the guy Happy married life though.

This woman is the most useless woman I have ever seen, fighting another woman because of your useless husband that careless about your emotions, a useless man that is busy IMPREGNATING different women, you are defending a dog that will still marry the next available woman,. Shame on you woman , shame on you, no wonder he left you, you lack sense.

No perfect marriage, if she is unabituos she will not be having her Msc soonest,.
Even if you meet a new girl, she will sure have her weak points, concerning going to buy things for cooking, you guys can buy in bulk, [so you will not be going out always, stock the fridge, with all that is needed for cooking, most women do not like going to the market always. Ones she gives birth she will be calm, pregnancy comes with lot of emotions, do not make the mistake of calling off the wedding.
Do not let your first child be born out of wedlock, you people can always get help to come do the cleaning and errand work.




quote author=jondon11 post=99865927]So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.

She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.

I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference?

Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told her in clear terms that that's not how I imagined my life...having help for chores and the likes, besides, it's just a two-bedroom flat.

I've purchased some of the things we'd be needing for our wedding and we're supposed to do an introduction this coming week but I'm having cold feet and just want to call it off.

I'm bringing this here to know how I can manage this situation...I can be lazy but I'm a really ambitious person so this pushes me but my girl is not just lazy, but unambitious. How do I manage the situation...there's a child involved now and will need to consider the child but at the same time, I can't take on this much stress nor have my ambitions cut short because my partner is lazy.

What can I do??

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Yes your mother can be a witch, the fact that she is your mother does not mean she can not be a witch, but a wise wife will not say such out, even if she observe it, rather she will pray, that God reveals her findings to her husband, meaning God should exposed things to the husband.

Now do not let anybody advice you to divource your wife ,because she said what she said, and do not let anybody tell you to neglect your mother ,because she is a witch,

As long as you are sending your money through bank they can not use it against you, secondly , do not stop helping your mother, do not neglect your mother regardless of what your wife is saying, and do not even try to give her money to start giving your mother, that is wrong, keep giving your mother by your self, and keep praying for God to let things be exposed to you.

Are there no other suitors coming?


Leave him and accept other proposal s

See a guy that trully loves you will be the one shouting for marriage, even without any money, he will not mind starting from a room because he does not want to loose you,. See the guy has alternatives , like there are other girls he sees as better choice, he is only waiting for you to go, so he can propose to them.

even if you talk him into marriage you will not enjoy the marriage, he will still cheat on you.



You have try, accept other suitors,


But you can test his love by telling him, somebody is interested in marrying you, and watch his reply, if he should reply you with marry the person, it is a sign he has no interest in marrying you.

Secondly you can stop sex in the relationship, and other wifey duty you are doing, hope you are not living with him, because living with him, is a big error, that will never make a man marry you,
Stop all duties, like sex , cooking , washing,. At least you have done it for 8years no result stop it, and give your self , self respect.

For eight years I am sure you have been removing pregnancy for him,

What is his reaction when ever you are pregnant, did he say keep it, or remove it?

If he has been saying remove it, sister run run run run from that relationship.



If you grow old with him, when he dumps you, nairaland boys will call you old news paper,. Be wise , and act fast.

What do men offer in a relationships if not money alone?


You want her to be faithful
You want her to respect you
You want her to come for weekend wash your cloths, clean your house, respect your friends ,cook for you and your friends.


Give you sex
Obey your orders, like telling her where to go, and where not to go, friends to keep and friends not to keep, some of you even , stop the girl from playing with other guys


The only thing she will gain is money, now spend the money, you come here to seek advice,

Do you come here to seek advice when you ask her to do all the above I listed.


Stop taking advice from some men

Some of them do not have good relationship ,and they can never have, because they have been abused, used dumped ,suffer,. Now they are polluting the mind of other young guys, from good homes, your woman deserve all your love and care if she is loyal and faithful



If you find a loyal woman to you, buy the world for her, she deserves it.


God said a man will till the ground, (work) you can not change it,

God says a man that can not provide for his household his worse than an infidel


You can not change it, that is the responsibility ,God gave men.

Your post and comment, shows you are from a faulty family system, a riff raff, that has no home, a riff raff, that has been abused, used, dumped, suffer hunger, a drug addict, high way robber, a dirty smilling, frustrated pig, with no future and hope for the future, that is who you are, continue to talk down on women, you will suffer till you die. Women are not your problem, if your Yahoo is not paying you, then commit sucide, stop using women to learn how to talk, just wondering why your mother that was used for exercise by different men, did not abort your pregnancy . Bastard

Bastard. Your mum is for excercise.


uote author=Lion26 post=99484834]Currently. 1k People Are Reading This....

Well I Wish Davido The Best Of Luck. He Was A Real Nigga That Knows The Right Way.... Wish Him More Pussy... In Dj Khaled Voice Another One. After Another One Still Another One..Women Are For Exercise..[/quote]

Your mother is born for sex too,
They have really used her for sex, reason she gave birth to a maggot like you.

See big fool, see bastard, and useless idiot, do you have a mother? After your mother breast fed you, her breast became useless and the fool that his sperm, fertiled you, married a new girl.


All your sisters husband's will obey your advice, dump them immediately they give birth to just a child

Fool.



quote author=Jakumo post=99479619]When a woman has borne a child, her breasts droop and flatten, while her belly gets loose and flabby, which all adds up to be one major turn-off for many males. That is why married men are most likely to stray from their wives the instant pregnancy enters into the equation.

In short, wives are for breeding and child rearing, while nubile young women are for hot sex and fun times. Rich men, as a rule, hastily upgrade to tender young single women with pert jiggly breasts and toned midriffs, the instant their wives grow fat from bearing babies. Blame nature if you will, but the male human being is hard-wired to seek out fit young women that have NEVER been pregnant. Once that woman's belly grows large with a baby inside, the sex drive of her husband DIES.

Expect our man Ned Nwankwo, of the Young Puszy fame, to hurriedly dump his child-bride of last year, since she has borne a bouncing baby for him, thereby becoming a housewife with zero appeal to the billionaire. Time to move on.[/quote]

Can you report to women of Inestimable values foundation, is a NGO, that fights for women and girls, even go boys going through domestic violence rape .

zedegit:
The man doesn't provide for her. He's a loafer; always in one betting shop or the other but feels entitled to food.

He bares her from coming home after 7pm and often locks her out of the house.

Yet same nincompoop comes home anytime he wants. What should she do?

She's tired of his nonsense.

Frustrated Egoat, it shows an Edo girl has use and dump you, move on, Egoat











uote author=SatanicPriest post=99324341]no be edo again. it is cult related. edo delta are the most useless states in naija. if they are not armed robbers, they are pick pockets, if thy are not pick pockets, they are ritualist, if they are not that they are useless cultist like this one.
if the women are not olosho, they are ashawo, if they are not ashawo, they are prostitutes

if the old ones are not witches they are wizADS


EDO , LAND OF USELESS PIPU

QUOTE ME TO COUNTER AND DIE LIKE YOUR EDO BROTHER[/quote]

Even your sisters cousins, nieces and mother?












uote author=mosdii post=99210696]Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them[/quote]

Please where is the location, and how can this boy be helped.











quote author=donprincebigt post=99217636]Jst as I was leaving for work this morning. like I always did. I branched the complex our studio was before we relocated to a new place. On getting there, I saw everyone in the complex gathered inside a shop and I was hearing noises coming from there. One of a friend then holla at me to come watch film.

To my surprise I saw a young boy who was being beaten. then I asked what's going on. So I was told he came to steal 15000naira from one of the shops in the complex yesterday. unfortunately for him he came again this morning from the same shop. probably he thought it could be easy as it was yesterday. He wanted to escape through ceiling by breaking one before he was caught.

He was caught with unloaded cards in varieties too.
He got the beating of his life this morning before I had to beg the angry men to take it cool on him. he confessed of coming from Bohlar(one rugged slum in Lagos)

He said he delivered the stolen money to his boss which he refused totally to tell despite the pain he was going through. the funniest part was when he said he was giving 200naira from the 15k

Well to cut the long story short I alongside the woman he stole from with my friend pleaded on his behalf cus of his age. so we let him go stripped and injured to walk home like that as a punishment.... he took to his heels when we released him...

I hope we handled the situation well cus I think that should be better than jungle justice. and we all know involving police in Nigeria is another thing entirely. we don't want scenes.
the last picture is the ceiling he broke.[/quote]

Did your sister record where he was begging, I can connect you to an NGO that can help you with the case, note, if you free that guy, he is going to rape others .

uote author=RayJr post=99169921]Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped

Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.

I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.

My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.

Now I met her and asked what's up.

She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.

She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.

I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?

No insults please. Thank you all[/quote]

Mumu Man, do not be happy yet, must DNA results in Nigeria reads positive, do not be surprise when you repeat it when you are travelling abroad it might be negative,. Everything is fake in Nigeria, before you belive Dna test ,do it twice , if the result whatever s negative before you act ,do it again, if it is positive do it again, all Nigeria, labs are scam, especially on this Dna stuff, what if your wife saw you went for dna, and she went to bride them to make it the result positive.



Now the fact that your children are yours does not mean your wife is a changed person, some women are smart, not to keep another Man's pregnancy, some are not,


The good news about this thing, is that your problem just started, your wife already know your weakpoint that you so not trust her, or she should not rely on you,

Now she will plan her life well,
Just watch your marriage , now, you will be doing extra work to please her,


You think you have peace now, where as your marital problem just started.

Is your brother wife, you are talking to like that, just cause my brother accept her, imagine nonsense you are spiling,


my brother go get a new bed spread, pack the old one into the laundry basket she will wash it, after val, when she is done resting, look for a new wrapper to spread , but Wait oo, you are very useless, how come you have only one bed spread, you are supposed to have two or three , when one is dirty you change to another, from your tune, it shows you hate your brother wife, it is brothers like you, that use to cause trouble between wife and family, at 26, there is nothing wrong if you have your house.









quote author=Gang90 post=99062116]So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.[/quote]

Mumu senseless fool.














quote author=Walkee post=98960680]That was how I brought my female friend home and started fuccking, this thing was smelling like Ugbore(locust beans) I couldn't even keep erection for 40 seconds.
The idiot will now be thinking I'm Usain bolt[/quote]

You are sick, may your 13yearbold daughter enjoy sex from a 70 year old man, Amen.


So that we can all type she is enjoying it.

Read and understand, before you are spilling rubbish, my write up was not a conclusion ,reason I use the word Maybe, you ate too much, or lacks table manners,
since it was after food you did not see her or she changed it is not phone conversation, go see her and discuss with her, one on one, something is wrong somewhere.

After the launch you have not seen her, lol, maybe you are too much that day, or you lack table manners, or you ate without even giving the mother cash when going to say thank you, did you even give her younger ones money for biscuit after finishing their food? Nairaland boys will deceive you without telling you your fault, your new relationship might crash if you do not work on your faults







uote author=sapien post=98882906] Lol. You reply cracked me up.

I am a completely loyal guy. While I don't condone cheating, I don't cheat as well in a relationship.

She didn't give me any reason to cheat on her, hence my dedication.

Now, I know better.

And regarding her mother, she was the one who invited me for lunch. Her daughter gave her my number and she called me herself and told me to come over, that she would like to see me. Since then, the woman decided to take interest me. I haven't seen her since then.[/quote]

U have not seen her for more than four months, and you can not go to her place and see her one on one , to discuss, u are only calling her on phone, can you see you are at fault here, allow nairaland boys to be fooling you, with she is with another guy, move on, a relationship of four years ,you calling she is calm or not picking , you know her house and you can not check on her, let me tell you women test guys in different ways







uote author=sapien post=98847409] Nasty? Nah. I won't. That's why I have decided not to visit her place, otherwise I could have stormed her place, especially after her last episode.[/quote]

Do not get this please what happened? Please




uote author=Kilishihunter post=98844623]
Did you by chance get his number or any of his info[/quote]

Mad man, see the way he looks, dirty and unkept, some women are trying I swear, marrying anything



ote author=onthehill post=98833768]Previous Thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6386030/man-kills-wife-daughter-anambra



https://igberetvnews.com/1381718/killed-wife-child-wife-cheated-evangelist-obijofa/[/quote]

Your story is all lies, you have been eyeing the girl, a girl that does not want to touch a girl, will invite his own girlfriend, how come your sister, also when your sister was leaving you should have allowed the girl leave with her, to her own place, finally why did you not leave the house for the girl, you should have go stay with your male friend , and leave her alone at home, you are a dog you lack self control, stop coming here to form angel, because you know all these boys will support you.

More than 3.6 billion men on this planet why will she stay with a man that does not value what she values.

God bless her, she did the right thing, the worst thing that can happen to any woman, is to marry a man that does not love God



God bless her, dating can lead to marriage , do not date a man you can not marry.

I pity you, you are looking for social media validation, he go shoock you, say, after the advice they will give to you, they will all leave you on the long run, and abadone you to your family problem,




Think outside social media.

How many is a question, or drop your whatassp number.








uote author=younglleo post=98818410]
Followers no too plenty oo[/quote]