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If God bless you, one person can not make marriage work.




rriage no work...na the fault of both parties.

No gender is perfect in any aspect.....marriage is all about compatibility which our forefathers had that the current generation lacks[/quote]

Senseless comment, it shows women have used and break your heart, so you have turn to a misogynist.

Mtcheew.


uote author=lilmax post=97922207]Men didn't change

Women changed.....most of the ones unmarried at the moment are rotten


They are not intelligent, innovative

They just want to party, hookup, hoe till the find a SIMP that is moved by tears, then hold him down for marriage because he has low self-esteem

According to studies, the simp eyes tends to open in the 7th year of marriage, we can say dna can cause his eyes to open, or he's no longer moved by her body[/quote]

Same with men, the only thing a random man wants when they meet or approach a lady is sex.





Nothing more nothing less,quote author=Kriss216 post=97974300]The only thing an average Nigerian girl can offer in a relationship is just sex.


The truth remains, sex is the cheapest commodity in town presently. Chat a random girl online, promise her lunch or dinner and watch her open legs like a fountain of river.[/quote]

Scam

Fasting is good for your health, you can give your kidney rest by doing such,





uote author=Fasindo post=97947025]







Hope him and his family will join in the fasting.


One thing I will never do is to fast
Our problem in Nigeria is simply a leadership problem.
A political problem can't be solve in a spiritual way.

Chinese, Americans, Canadians, Asian tiger country people, Russians etc didn't fast to become an advanced nd developed country.
The truth is that you don't need to fast to get a job, you don't need to fast to be financially prosperous, you don't need to fast to be protected from insecurity all you need is to elect good leaders who will put things in place

Not discouraging anyone that wants to fast but me am not fasting[/quote]

[Marriage is two forgivers living together, forgive her.


author=CrescentMoon post=97932450]Let me first tell you my kind of character. For you to make me angry, you have to repeat an offense more than 30 to 40 times. After each offence, I would only give you facial expression that will let you know that you offended me. And I would ensure you get the message.

So wife kept repeating same offence. I told her I don't like what she was doing. She said she would adjust, but kept repeating the same thing. When I got fed up, I tried to retaliate. My only retaliation is that I stopped being around in the house. I would leave the house very early in the morning and return late at night. I would go for business in another town and return 4 days later. She knows nothing stops me from coming home everyday from the other town because I have means of transportation. She flared up. Started calling relatives that I'm maltreating her. They asked her to say which ways I have been maltreating her...she said I'm avoiding our home. Relatives asked if I'm beating or starving her. She said no.

I know why it pained her very well. If she wants to go and urinate outside, I would go and drop her there. When she is through, she would call me and I would go and pick her up again.

She's a woman that's always settling fights for couples in the street. So, she never wanted it to be heard anywhere that we are quarelling in our home. She won't want anybody to come to our house to settle disputes. So this prolongs our fights always.

When she couldn't bear it again, she sent a message to me that goes like this: I INITIALLY DIDN'T WANT TO DIVORCE YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR DISABILITY AS I PITY YOU. BUT NOW, IT'S OVER. YOU HAVE TO BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS TOWARDS ME ALL THESE YEARS. WHAT DID I HAVE TO DO WITH A JUJU DIABOLIC MAN IN THE FIRST INSTANCE.

Let me disect those words in capital letters for you. I have a disability, but you can't notice it easily until you start talking to me. She said I have to bear the consequences of my actions towards her... looking back, I have done unimaginable things to make her happy. I even saved her life when she didn't want blood transfusion from unknown persons as a result of her Christian belief not to contract demons from the blood of unknown person. Fortunately, my blood group is that of a universal donor. That means I can donate blood for anybody. Note that she had never done any noteworthy thing for me apart from giving birth to our babies. About being a juju man, I will tell you how she arrived at this: somebody was about to give birth from her family side and the baby was in breech position. She asked for advice and I told her that if I take the woman to the village my uncle will give the woman a concoction to reverse it. Her faith is against it, but because someone from her side just gave birth through CS, which almost led to the death of mother and baby, she asked me to take the woman to the village. The breech position was reversed. I'm surprised she now labelled me a juju man.

Instead of me to take her message personal, I urged her to please herself. This infuriated her the more. Instead of leaving me, she invited someone to intervene, tracked me to the second town, and it was settled there.

My problem now is that those words are still ringing in my head... someone I thought was a lover said she married me out of piety.[/quote]

Pls report this case to a human right group, I know of one very active ,

Women of Inestimable values foundation, report any rape , child abuse and domestic violence case to them.



quote author=ebukajay184 post=97935704]Man Throws Down His Househelp From Second Floor Of A 2-Storey Building In Aba (Photos)

A Nigerian man identified as Emeka Igwe from Imo state, has been accused of throwing down his househelp from the second floor of a 2-storey building in Aba, Abia state, IgbereTV reports.

Twitter user, @obaino_ shared photos of injuries the girl sustained and also disclosed that the incident occurred at 204 Niger opposite Newday dast food in Aba.

He tweeted;




https://twitter.com/obaino_/status/1347822357264674816?s=19[/quote]

The guy is wrong, even if it is fruits like apple he ought to buy,
If you are going to visit a male friend , fine you might not buy anything, if you are going to visit , your mother inlaw, or friend mother especially for the first time, as a trained child , you must buy something, even if it is bread of 200,naira.


.all these mumu nairaland boys will not learn, but keep insulting the girl and the mother.








quote author=Chujor1634 post=97809439]Your mentality and that of your mum is so annoying, to think that you had to even call him him instead of talking sense to your mum is the height of it all.[/quote]

Stop laughing to nonsense, kill the child, they will kill you also, how can you be so heartless to kill a child, is the child at fault? Kill the child and die in jail

baski92:
hahahahahaha

I have not receive ooo, Biko who don receive?











uote author=Ebunoluwa2020 post=97770040]

https://dailypost.ng/2021/01/06/many-nigerians-have-received-grants-osinbajo-updates-buhari-on-economic-sustainability-plan/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1609912477[/quote]

Shut up, court clear you does not mean you did not do it, in Nigeria today anything is possible when you have money, beside s he was not clear, there was no enough evidence so that does not mean he is free.




quote author=HonKong post=97647342]
How is he a sexual predator? He has cleared his name and the court has vindicated him, don't fall for these useless rape scam from sad ladies.[/quote]

Don't Be stupid, any boy that neglect his mother because of 5k, is a poor boy, and poverty striken boy, the mother should go to mountain and pray for him, and pray on his head, you are giving a girl 5k because you are having s***x with her, at least you can not have s***x with your mother, so you are paying her to give you what your mother can not give you.

Fact, they can.not afford urgent 5k, but they are best, in calling a girl 100times when they want to have S****x, mumu boys them.




quote author=virginprincess post=97628615]You are looking for who to insult na abi, can you afford urgent 5k? reno should stop saying nonsense because 95% of nigeria guys can't afford such amount urgently.[/quote]

Sorry Bro, you brought it to the wrong forum, because most of them are in same category with your dad,


Anyway you may need the help of a psychologist to talk him out of this habit. At 67, he is already old, you can sit him down, and let him know the danger of his action at that age, or three of you that are his children should plan and dis father him, if he refused to stop.



author=Emperormartin post=97552319]Compliments of the season to all nairalanders...

Please I noticed a disturbing scenario playing in my house as I came back for xmas... My 67yr old dad use to smoke weed (Igbo) in our sitting room.

When we were younger, he use to smoke outside and occasionally smokes around the house especially late in the night or in the wee hours.

As a matter of fact I'm 30yrs and I have another younger brother who's 27yrs then my sister who's the youngest. But Non of us smoke weed or have toed in his line... My mother has tried in that aspect not to raise us like that!!!

I brought this issue here because I need help on how to make my aging dad DESIST from that lifestyle... It breaks my heart seeing him popping smoke like that and it's degrading when we have visitors in the house... And secondly I'm wary of his health!!!

Pls help a Brother!!![/quote]

Stop displaying frustrations everywhere, read the post, and learn from it.

quote author=chatinent post=97524255]Nonsense and ingredients.[/quote]

Chai , and the Guy is Handsome ooo, killing of a police officer, is a serious Crime even in Nigeria , he is doing to die, no solution to that.
[quote author=IamHeWrites post=97572669]The family of Sulaimon Olufemi who has been on death row for 18 years in Saudi Arabia over a mob action that resulted in the killing of a police officer is pleading for clemency, Igbere TV reports.

Chairman of the Nigerians in Diaspora Commission Abike Dabiri-Erewa said that the Nigerian government is on the case of the man.

She told the family who paid the commission a visit on Wednesday in Lagos that NiDCOM was working with the Nigerian mission in Saudi Arabia, adding that the Minister of Foreign Affairs Geoffery Onyeama has been in touch with Saudi authorities on the case.

According to Mrs Dabiri-Erewa, all others arrested over the incident have been released except the Nigerian.

Chairman, House Committee on Diaspora Tolulope Sadipe is also involved in the case.
‌
Olufemi’s freedom is dependent on the daughter of the police officer who was killed when she was two years old. She is now 20.



https://twitter.com/abikedabiri/status/1344355817483612160?s=20[/quote]

Brother way mumu,




uote author=Driedfish post=97468751]Meow meow.


Nice One Burna. Me and Burna share a lot in common.



I always make sure I give this aww aww people mental problem.[/quote]

Share the link please

Karleb:
That was how I felt. Some months ago I can't say confidently I'll pay back such amount but as of now, I can pay back 10m loan.

I'm applying this time though. The deadline is till 2023.

U are frustrated, take your frustrations out of here, egoat.




quote author=Kriss216 post=97444835]
Only a foolish and insane man will impregnate someone like you![/quote]

Mumu




uote author=SultanOfPuna post=97365948]Men like Tee billz don't know about
Female Nature

Females are built for Survival
If the world had apocalypse and we have 100 men and 2 women. The world will go extinct
But if there are 100 women and 1 man.
Then the world has better chance of survival. As more women will book children and population will grow.
Nature made women more important than men
Men work Women Enjoy
Men killed in war, Women and children saved.
Back to what I was saying

WOMEN ARE NEVER SATISFIED
WOMEN LOVE TO UPGRADE
Now this is why I don't stress myself in relationship.

WOMEN ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A BETTER OPTION THAN THEIR CURRENT PARTNER.
A woman will worship you when you earn good income from ur job.
But she will dump you she find a more richer guy
Or when you lose your job and can't bounce back.
She will endure maybe 3 months and see if you will get another job.
If you can't, my friend forget her
She will go cheat and find rich guy and replace you.
Because females have survival instincts
They can do anything to survive
If it means dumping you for a rich guy or a more greener pasture.

Inorder to keep a woman
U need to be constantly upgrading because the moment you stop getting cash, swag
Omo the woman go leave you straight up!!

That is why I Bleep, have great time and vibes the end. No relationship
U orgasm, I cum, we both enjoy, see you next time bye bye[/quote]

Release,who, do they think the world belongs to them, that they can break rules anyhow, if Nigeria is a lawless country, the world is not lawless, that is they break the law any how here, let him stay there and face the law, infact he should pay fine of billions, rubbish begging.





quote author=CastedAyo post=97063301]Singers Burna Boy, Fireboy, Teni, Laycon and others have called for the release of their colleagues Omah Lay and Tems in Uganda, Igbere TV reports.

Omah Lay and Tems were arrested by the Uganda police on Sunday.

They had performed on December 12.

Burna Boy in a tweet begged Uganda to release the singers.



https://twitter.com/burnaboy/status/1338493485016641536?s=20



https://twitter.com/fireboydml/status/1338479649584795650?s=20

Teni said,

https://twitter.com/TeniEntertainer/status/1338490161328513026?s=20

In another tweet she said,

https://twitter.com/TeniEntertainer/status/1338492141673254917?s=20



https://twitter.com/itsLaycon/status/1338485253015527425?s=20

Laycon also added that,

https://twitter.com/itsLaycon/status/1338487953312636929?s=20

Others who reacted include Chike, Oxlade, Rema, Joeboy and Ycee.[/quote]

Mumu, you can not read?

did she talk about her mother, f****l she gave the best advice you can get in this world, you can not involve your mother in all issues happening in your home, because it will lead to more problems.







quote author=ILoveDemMANNA post=97018950]
Na bastard pikin now, wetin u expect.
She think say every mama be like her own mama.
See as she wash the old woman for public.[/quote]

Simple English, she did not say leave your mother, or not care for your mother, she said , do not involve your mother in all marital iisues, simple as ABC, that is the best advice you can ever get, the way you reason is different from the way your mother reason, if you keep involving your mother in your marriage or you keep talking about your wife to her, she will hate your wife, and there will be conflicts between the two of them, which might crash your marriage, keep your marriage from third party.






ot tell your mother everythinuote author=fuckdemrepented post=97018873]Nonsense.... Wife that can leave anytime but mother is for ever[/quote]

You are a big F****l, for comparing a woman to your computer, very anyhow sombody. Must you post, u compare a thing to a thing, how dare you compare a human to a computer, no matter how useless a person is, their family will pick them over anything, even over a car.

Untrained street boy.


quote author=oyolohi post=96967926]Let's end this matter today: will you choose your girlfriend over your computer?

Before you rush into a conclusion: think about your npm modules, configs, shell history...

Just curious. So, this is like a survey.[/quote]

Iceberd25, , u need help.

Uyi168:
.
Provide proof that EVERY married man out there is regretting ever getting married or u remain silent..

Honestly 99percent of guys here , are misogynist, they hate women and talk down on women for no reason, nairaland is a home of abuse men, just wondering how some ladies are marrying some of them here, I hope they will cope.


areuote author=AuntRose post=96784319]
You can't handle being cheated on? So you completely rule out the possibility of you cheating on your wife. You won't be taken serious one bit if this stereotype you have towards women persists. Change it first.


You're saying trash... Why the hatred towards women by NL guys? It's so annoying and disgusting [/quote]

And most men are full of what? The truth is when you marry the wrong man, you will regret marrying, when you marry the wrong woman, you will also regret it.


It is both parties.


quote author=blinking001 post=96779812]Most married men feel deep regrets after getting married. It's an Esoteric truth actually. Most women are full of shit.[/quote]

You better care, because he will not outgrown anything, maybe until his mum dies, let us assume his mum will die when she is 100, and she is 50now, it means you have 50years to suffer, because you can not cope, you will just be sharing your man like you are the second wife, the man will control him, over everything, even tell him, the money he should give to you, how he should run your home, withing two years in the marriage you are tired..

I really don't care how close he is to the mum. with time, he'll outgrow all that mummy's boy and get closer to me. So??[/quote]

Uncle take advice, I am happily married, and my son can never behave like most of the homeless misogynist here. Because he will be well trained.





quote author=Starzo post=96748743]
antie Goan marry and stop being bitter[/quote]

Write out her negative character, paste it on your wall, or where you will see it daily, read it daily, then you will start hate her, and start Thanking God she left,

But six years is long, without proper marriage. And engagement, maybe age is no longer on her side, after all it is you people here on nairaland that will start shouting she is old, news paper, bla bla bla bla, ladies are reading what you people are saying and they are learning not to watse their age with you guys. At least if she met you at 20, after 6years , she will be 26, very soon nairaland boys will start calling her old cargo, that she has useless her life, only God knows how many abortion she has done for you., If after six years you can not marry her let her go and marry.



























thequote author=surebona post=96700014]Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful[/quote]

[Hope he is not one of those alpha male on this forum, those misogynist, that spill our rubbish, about women, and encourage cheating, sister if he is, just call off the wedding oo, because marriage is a long life event, you need a well trained man, with the fear of God to have a sucessful home, not most of the abused , and heart broken guys on this forum, degrading women. Boys that were not trained , and have no home, that has turn nairaland to where they talk rubbish about women.

[Edit your write up, she is a graduate, not a graduated .




quote author=NaijaMutant post=96529372]Such a beautiful girl




Does any guy here need her number [/quote]