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Family › Re: Why Are You Not Married (28+ Men Only)? by Esthered: 12:44am On Sep 09, 2019

Acidosis:
You left me na, left me for my rival

Haba

Family › Re: Why Are You Not Married (28+ Men Only)? by Esthered: 4:54pm On Sep 08, 2019

Acidosis:
Chai, it's been 3 years and I'm still not married. Wahala dey oo

It is well sir.

Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 12:41pm On Sep 01, 2019

UyaiIncomparabl:
Mfana ibagha dear. Happy Married life in advance.

Thanks dear

Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 12:41pm On Sep 01, 2019

ashewoboy:
your potential hubby is lucky to have you. i like you. happy new month darling. enjoy your day.

Thanks sir. You too.

Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 4:13am On Sep 01, 2019

UyaiIncomparabl:
You people shouldn't derail my thread.

Ku yat esit ufan.

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Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 4:12am On Sep 01, 2019

ashewoboy:
who are those that liked your comment though? they are pvssy niggers.
that is because you already have a a spouse already. he should look for his wife somewhere else.

I'm not complaining uncle. Why're you assuming that he's looking for a wife and can't he assume a different persona in peace? Some people here wouldn't even do as he does but mail the lady straight up while some are disciplined to joke in the open with no intention of chasing.
Happy new month and Sunday. Have a great day ahead.

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Romance › Re: What Type Of Guys Do Women Like? (Character Wise) by Esthered: 9:49pm On Aug 31, 2019

Mart1994:
Yen yen yen... Hiiannn...
When ur not loquacious man comes you will begin to take him for granted.
U women are just the embodiment of negativity.
Insensitive, selfish and cruel...
Get rid of all that and u will know what u REALLY want....

Please when next you quote me, write in a manner that's comprehensive or don't quote me at all.
Point of correction, I spoke for myself. I've never taken the men I ever came across with for granted. I'm still in contact with my exes and we're friends still.
I'm sorry about your experience with women as I don't have the characteristics you described above. I hope you don't look forward to becoming a father to girls that'll grow to become women.
I have what I want as my wedding invitation card was delivered today. Mail me to invite you if you're in Lagos.

Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 8:16pm On Aug 31, 2019

Acidosis:
Sharapp

Take it easy dear

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Romance › Re: What Type Of Guys Do Women Like? (Character Wise) by Esthered: 7:51pm On Aug 31, 2019

A selfless man who isn't loquacious, well behaved and I can look up to in certain aspects.

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Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 2:55pm On Aug 31, 2019

ashewoboy:
I actually thought he was the potential husband. you have nairalandzoned him. hope he finds his own wife here and stop calling you his darling.

I hold him in high esteem as his comments are one of those I look forward to on this forum. Why is his choice of addressing me your concern?

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Family › Re: Was I Wrong To Leave? by Esthered: 6:50pm On Aug 28, 2019

Our Daily Manna

TOPIC: THE PHILADELPHIA SODA TAX!

Basic scripture: 2 SAMUEL 6: 1-11

Some years ago, in her fight against WEIGHT GAIN (OBESITY), the city of Philadelphia in USA passed a “soda tax” – a US $1 tax on a typical 2-litre bottle of soft drink! But the citizens/residents didn’t lose weight or cut calories as a result of the tax on sweetened drinks, neither was there a shift towards any healthier option.

Instead, most PHILADELPHIANS just drove outside the city to buy the same drinks, from stores where they didn’t have to pay the tax. Gosh! The result was that the poorest people – who could not afford to drive outside the city to buy their drinks, paid more! In the end, the city suffered a loss of revenue due to lower sales whereas the lower section of society paid more!
This is another example of an unintended consequence for a well-intentioned idea! Likewise, because you are human, sometimes, your well planned goals do not produce results! I know of believers who married early to avoid fornication, but alas, they made marital mistakes due to limited knowledge on what marriage was all about! They meant well, but failed!
I also know of believers who made financial mistakes despite the fact that their goal was to become kingdom financiers and financial pillars in the house of God! I know of a Christian sister who went back to her marriage in the name of forgiving an abusive husband, but today, she is dead! She died two weeks after returning to her home! She had good intentions but the consequence was deadly!

This was the devotional message on the 16th of August. Dear OP, the closing paragraph is my message as you wear the shoes and know where it hurts.

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Politics › Re: Taking A Different Look At The Yahoo 80: The Guys Are Geniuses by Esthered: 12:37pm On Aug 24, 2019

bLacKGoLd3:
May your pot of wisdom never run short or dry! God bless!

Amen sir.

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Family › Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Esthered: 10:25am On Aug 24, 2019*

Jetland:
It's men's responsibility to take care of their families including their wives. What's women's responsibilities? would you have said the same to men that can't take care of their wives?

I know your Indomie knowledge would tell you that cooking it's not meant for wives alone, but also men. Now, if that is what your reply is, I want you to educate me; what are husbands and wife's responsibilities in their respective homes?

The care you mean, is it financial care as women are now in the labour force to support the home front. Therefore if they're both working to improve/sustain their standard of living as a family, they'll have to define their roles as the sole duty of providing is shared and she can't be expected to do all in the house.
The reason I don't want to reckon with the saying of Calabar women knowing how to cook but don't run world class restaurants but pride in cooking skills sad

All these men saying that a woman who can't cook stands no chance, when they find themselves in saner climes, cooking skills will never be a top prerequisite to be considered for marriage. All Nigerian ladies should therefore aim to relocate to saner climes. grin

Family › Re: When A Lady Is 23 Years And Cannot Cook. by Esthered: 10:14am On Aug 24, 2019

lordweezy:
If your woman only has sex and food to contribute then I suggest you to dissociate.

A woman must be kind to enable relationship or marriage work, what is kindness ? A kind person knows the condition of a situation and thinks how best to salvage it, a kind person doesn’t waste another’s sweat cause she recognize how hard life or wealth can be and so will always think how to support to earn more, w[b]omen naturally think when they demand from a man and he gives you that he is a mumu,[/b] some people give because they feel it’s their way of showing kindness , but any woman who is not kind,whole hearted loving, pls I know we confuse respect to be love, it’s two different things but a woman must never give excuse or I don’t know how to cook cause if the guy says I don’t know how to marry e go be like relationship abuse

Please I think you should reassess the type of women you deal with as I don't have that mentality by default. Receiving for a man for me is a privilege as the act may have been borne out of love or altruism.
Not a bad idea if she can afford a cook and work on other areas of her strength to make the marriage work especially if he knew prior to marriage that the kitchen isn't her forte.

Politics › Re: Taking A Different Look At The Yahoo 80: The Guys Are Geniuses by Esthered: 4:35am On Aug 24, 2019*

Adonko:
Well I don't know you and am not in a better position to know how far life has taken you to ...but one thing is sure and also an undeniable fact that the situation, circumstances as well as the trend of life can either make or Mar a man, meaning it can inform the basis of your decision.

I saw hell in life I wanted to die, those who met thier parents in stack poverty will understand this deeply, and those who met thier parents in affluence don't know what God has done for them, the odd against a poor man's child becoming successful in this modern times is getting slimmer and slimmer daily without engaging in some stuff, yes I said it, it takes grace to succeed in Naija without being corrupt.

I totally disagree with this your comment sir

"No matter how bad government is, a person not inclined towards criminality will avoid such and rather suffer instead of turning to crime for solace. "

maybe I could agree with u if you wrote this in the 60's but certainly not now.

You're still making excuses for crime sir, my parents were comfortable, but life happened and we became broke. Dad lost his job, mum's health deteriorated and she couldn't work. I started learning to subject myself to work hard than demean myself by engaging in prostitution... to make ends meet. I focused on needs only and not wants. These criminals can meet their needs legitimately if they want to but rather it's their wants that's insatiable they want to satisfy.
The reason they come on social media to display their purported success. It takes a man of integrity to face poverty head on bearing in mind that he's on track to change his status but how soon, he can't say.
I can't be with a man without integrity as I don't want offsprings I'd worry about in the future. I have a personal brand to build that transcends beyond just having money by any means.
The government has done nothing for me but I can't wait for them as my destiny is in my hands. It's easy to trade blame when we fail than accept responsibility for our actions. Why didn't they collectively come together to oust the government, take over power and put the right things in place to make the country work......

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Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 7:34pm On Aug 22, 2019*

ashewoboy:
give me a mail to reach you.

Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 2:01am On Aug 22, 2019

Acidosis:
Wow! Congrats my dear

Thanks sir.

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Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 9:11pm On Aug 21, 2019

ashewoboy:
see me in my dm. Let me know if you are for real.

I can't access the mail I used in opening this account and what does it profit me to lie.

Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 5:53pm On Aug 21, 2019

ashewoboy:
you have what? a picture of you and your potential hubby or adonbilivit. abi you are event planner?

I'm getting married sir. grin

Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 12:38pm On Aug 21, 2019

ashewoboy:
this sounds more like you are advertising yourself for a potential spouse. I like it. you have a nice cv. can you cook? what type of delicacy can you cook? tell me that and we are good to go.

Cooking is a chore and not a hobby for me. I'd rather hire a professional cook than perfect a skill I wouldn't want to commercialise as long I know beyond the basics. I work hard to earn to ease my living sir. You can look elsewhere as I have a wedding to plan. wink

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Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 2:04pm On Aug 05, 2019

IamPlato:
dont Mind Her. I Will Get Her Married Soon So She Can No longer Be Jobless

That's harsh.

Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 2:02am On Aug 04, 2019

UyaiIncomparabl:
Don't mind me, eyeneka. I'm just trolling around. I'm even planning to shed some weight off.

Mfanaibagha dear

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Family › Re: Help! I Want To Add Enough Flesh! by Esthered: 3:34pm On Aug 03, 2019

Dear OP, you just want to be fat because you want a bunch of nobodies to respect you. I think that's preposterous. Why not achieve a level of success that makes you earn respect beyond food. I'm of a small stature and weigh 50kg. I'm in my mid 20s and people tell me I'm underweight but when I go for check up, all is always well and that's what matters to me while I focus on my career and build relationships and with this, I'll earn the respect I deserve. I'm not a food person and care less about my stature as people think I'm in my early 20s but then I'm a chartered accountant with years of experience. I'll only think of weight when doctors say it's necessary for child bearing.

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Romance › Re: So I Fell In Love Today.... by Esthered: 8:47pm On Jul 29, 2019

hucknall:
my apology

Accepted. Good night.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Esthered: 9:17am On Jul 29, 2019

Prestonn:
Wow!!!.....Thanks Sweetheart, I appreciate . Dinner on me today

That's so kind of you.

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Romance › Re: So I Fell In Love Today.... by Esthered: 4:06am On Jul 29, 2019

hucknall:
go and sleep jor!

I'm not a toddler to be ordered around sir. Is my being awake a nightmare to you? Learn to be courteous as first impression is everything. You don't quote me rudely as I don't troll on this forum. If expressing myself doesn't sit well with you, please don't hesitate to break your phone. Have a great stress free week ahead incase you're a productive person.

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Romance › Re: So I Fell In Love Today.... by Esthered: 1:40am On Jul 29, 2019

I've been following this interesting story and hopes it turns out for the best for the OP. I feel she may be older than you and I hope she wouldn't mind if she finds that out. I'm amazed that a woman can humble this OP. Truly, never underrated/underestimate the power of a woman.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Esthered: 4:19pm On Jul 28, 2019

Prestonn:
Anything you found yourself doing, do it well. Never allow any person talk you down.

Photo below is a shopping ticket till December. due to a photo I was the brain behind, which the company gonna use for advert nest month.

The company will be responsible for my food stuff, which gonna last for three years. Apart from the normal contract they signed with us.

I and my friends cooked in the kitchen, wi took a photo and I told them to put the Company product beside Sharp Nija boy

Congrats Preston aka Chasers. It's my 1st time commenting in this section as I can't keep calm as you deserve to be celebrated. I saw how you deactivated but was delighted upon your return and now this.
I was telling a colleague at work that passion gives monetary rewards either directly or not to the owner. Yours just did. God bless you and give you more and better than this. I hope those that criticized you earlier in humility acknowledge the fact that it's your passion and accord you the respect you deserve and encourage their wards to pursue their passion with utmost alacrity.

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Career › Re: My Heart Felt Message To GRADUATES Teaching In Private Primary/secondary Schoo by Esthered: 12:51pm On Jul 28, 2019

Dear OP, you didn't mention if you're making efforts to leave the school soon by applying for jobs.

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Romance › Re: I Want To Know More About Akwa Ibom Girls by Esthered: 7:51pm On Jul 09, 2019

Do you mean those of us based there or of the origin scattered across the world?

Christianity Etc › Re: Photo: Man Urinating On Bible By Punch. Sensational Journalism Against Religion by Esthered: 9:58pm On Jul 07, 2019

[quote author=Anas09 post=80039966]You expected a muslims to respect you? Na wa for you o. [/quote
Lol

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