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Dear OP, if she loves you and believe in you, the marriage is doable as no condition is permanent. Both of you should definitely be working on how to improve your lives as self development is key as an individual that seeks growth.
I was on the same income level with my hubby when we started courting. I am the career oriented person, I was also seeking better opportunities. I got a job that pays twice my husband's income few weeks to our wedding so instead of me fighting him for an instant change, I hustled for myself as he has other areas of core competences beyond white collars jobs.
Please focus on you and you'll meet someone that will grow with you and propel your growth.

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100k for a foreign degree holder, it's poor na. Even local degree sef no go gree like that except say na desperation.

Yes some of us do. I didn't want to be in a relationship because my income wouldn't let me add meaningful value value if I was. My younger sister is in a private university and I'm responsible for her upkeep. I told my husband when he came in 2018 that until she graduates before I'll be in a relationship telling him my financial commitments. He insisted that he doesn't mind. We started our courtship in 2018 as we were both choristers on campus between 2010 to 2013 meaning we had known each other but as colleagues in the vine yard. I didn't want a wedding till this 2020 for me to finalize with her but he no gree. He said 2019 mustn't pass us by. I was also trying to change career then. I got a better job few weeks to our wedding in 2019 that has now made everything better not knowing Coro was in front to spoil plans. She hasn't graduated due to Coro, imagine if he had not insisted.

joliefille:
PID does not equate infertility. You need to do some tests first, make sure it includes a pelvic exam and high vagina swab. The physical appearance of your cervix says a lot and matters in your fertility journey.

Thanks for the enlightenment and to those that advised earlier. I'll do as advised.

Good evening fruitful Mamas here. I've treated PID twice (once this year) and was just diagnosed again of the same PID. I've been married for 10 months now and no show. I was supposed to see a gynaecologist but it's not covered in my health plan with my employer being that I'm not pregnant so I suspended that till I'm buoyant.
Being that I know I have this issue for years now as it started as far back as boarding school, do I just respect myself and plan for IVF than to do series of test and taking drugs?
I intend doing the necessary test on paper but deep down I'm contemplating IVF or surrogacy. I need advise. Please help.
I don't mind being recommended to a good hospital around Ikeja axis.

Good morning @upmanagers, I want to register my parents for the NHIS but I work in the organised private sector, am I eligible or I should ask my dad to do it for himself and my mum?

Letter of introduction on your business's letterhead introducing the signatories and mandate of the account.
Utility bill of your operating address and and other office address if they're different on the form you filled
Valid ID card that matches with details on BVN and BN document
Utility bill of the sole proprietor for KYC

hopefulLandlord:
You can know this by getting access to their computers or phones and checking their browsing history or media files. I'm good with small computer issues so whenever I'm with some they might just tell me of this small phone or computer issues they have and I'd ask to check if it's something I can do

Mail me on hadediong@gmail.com as I can't access my mail I used in registration on this site. Good evening.

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I don't support disturbing the peace of others in the name of prayer. Honestly, it is common with low income earners whether Pastor or member. Can they try it in highbrow areas? Even Daniel didn't disturb. Jesus went to secluded places to pray. They can go to a church and keep vigil instead. I'm a Christian, I wake up 4 am each day prior to the lockdown to beat traffic and if my neighbour were these couple, I'll talk to them, and if they're adamant, third party will be involved. Even if it were to be secular music, I'll complain and if to no avail, I move to somewhere better. Those in support are either guilty or haven't experienced it 1st hand.

Is the question for pastors only? Adoption even not expressly stated in the bible falls under the charity we are told to practice I.e KJV. Some adopted children have better lives than their biological counterparts e.g Zenon and Keke Ighodalo, Joke Silvia.... if a couple wants to give it a trial, why not. Must a Pastor tell us what their perception is which may not be proven by the word. We have full access to the father and need no priest anymore since christ. Careful study of the word will answer your question better.

Dear OP, I'm not sure it's your gap tooth that's responsible but have you tried to evaluate your performance if you did well rating yourself objectively.
I have a poor dentition, visited dentists in Lagos, Enugu... My teeth is too big for my mouth as diagnosed. They overlap themselves, my molars is at the back of my canine....
But I'm a banker, I work in the front office in operations..... please work on your delivery during interviews.
It is well.

BlackSpanner:
Welcome to the Nigerian corona virus premier league with so much inconsistencies.

How can Lagos with no single case on Monday suddenly have 59 on Tuesday. Does that mean no test was carried out on Monday.

The Benue index case has been running for about a month now.

Enugu said it discharged it's 2 cases and Akwa Ibom 3 c7ases last week but the NCDC league table says otherwise.

Kano has maintained it's grip on the top 4 position.

Last week the NCDC boss said all States will surely have this corona virus cases.

Great people, I need your thoughts on all these.

They (Lagos) didn't test as they ran out of testing kit but it wasn't made public as my cousin that works in a hospital that was closed due to a confirmed case wasn't tested on Monday till yesterday.

Dear OP, sorry about your predicament. Are you saying that only a biological child will give you fulfilment in your overall journey of life? Are you saying that you can never adopt out of benevolence? Is your wife's offense unforgivable? Are you saying your siblings are fulfilled with children and nothing more to give them fulfillment? Are you saying you've never lied that it imparted someone negatively? Are you saying the new woman will not lie to you for any reason? You haven't told us your effort in getting children beyond testing for your eligibility. All the best but if she's a good person, you can help her in different ways and yourself too as someone mentioned that you confirm the motility of your swimmers. All the best sir.

Shugavee:
well am very happy I told you ,, if u like suffering others don’t ,, so thinking u need women to emulate u because u feed ur man is a shit ideology.

Mind you, I never said I feed my man. You're the one assuming that from my post. You don't have to be rude to express yourself regardless that it's a faceless forum.

Shugavee:
yeah u need to understand that this I feed my man motivational rubbish, is irritating to some .

Wash ur hands regularly dear

If it irritates you that bad, you know what to do than telling me dear.

Shugavee:
lol I don’t envy you at all, I don’t even see it as motivational in anyway

I didn't write to motivate you Madam. You have the right to react to it and no need to tell me dear. Have a great day and stay safe.

Dearest OP, your concerns are valid as a woman that has a standard and know what she wants. I courted my husband for a year and have been married for about 4 months, I never visited him till this Friday as we live apart due to work. When I got to his place, it can't be compared to his parents place I stay in Lagos but I told myself that that's my matrimonial home and not where I live. We discussed plans to grow especially the cost-benefit analysis of getting a better apartment when we have no children yet. But when love supersedes everything, you'll be optimistic about your growth together as it's a step at a time.
Does he have a vision, dreams and you see his effort he takes in making them a reality? Never underestimate a man with dreams that gives you peace of mind and makes you a priority, with your emotional, moral and financial support he'll go places.
The choice is yours to make dear. Happy Sunday and endeavour to stay safe.

2Ballz:
Do you prefer my clerking you here? I rather would preferred a closure were you answer my questions as quicker as one-to-one chatting. This will make the whole discussion less stressful and my coming slowly and your long time to answer questions will not diffuse this session.

I prefer here sir and will answer all questions asked swiftly.

Good evening doc,
I've been married for 3 months plus but sex has been painful since I got married. After the 1st round, I feel severe pains around my genitals but I have no infection. We use lubricant to no avail. I've spoken to different medical experts and they I'm fine but it's my mind or libido. What do you think could be the problem?

Mizwisdom:
It's difficult to settle down in Akwa Ibom as a stranger because firstly they mostly speak their language so you have a language barrier to deal with then an average Akwa Ibomite is highly vengeful and wicked, they don't forgive so you have to be very careful. If you can conduct your business quietly, be prayerful and learn the language you will thrive eventually, I repeat avoid trouble. Whereas if you establish it in Calabar, it is easier, English is widely spoken, they accept diversity, more forgiving and tolerant, quiet and easy to live with.

Seriously Share your experience in my state please

Acidosis:

Mail me @ hadediong@gmail.com

Acidosis:
Yes. My bedroom is safe

You no well, on a Monday morning

Childishbanjino:
Cool. Great to connect with you on here.
Hope you're doing well.
Best wishes from me to you!

My pleasure.
Yes and you?
Thanks, same here.

Acidosis:
I left you in a safe place

Are you sure?

spoilerx:
"Jazzy Rulz" was the original inscription on that tank b4 school authorities painted over it

Hhmmm

mach7:
Waterworks like no other. A place to chill before 'assaulting dining'. Only a few will understand

I can see a frontliner on the queue, Sunday afternoon jollof rice

Acidosis:
I miss you o. Where have you been?

Same here sir. Where you left me.

niyogeol:
Great. My sister finished that year. Myself few years before then. Nice connecting with you here.

My pleasure