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Christianity Etc › Re: Photo: Man Urinating On Bible By Punch. Sensational Journalism Against Religion by Esthered: 4:38pm On Jul 07, 2019

[quote author=sulasa07 post=80033460][/quote] cheesy

just take a nap

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Christianity Etc › Re: Photo: Man Urinating On Bible By Punch. Sensational Journalism Against Religion by Esthered: 4:30pm On Jul 07, 2019

[quote author=sulasa07 post=80033138][/quote]I no get strength for you oga

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Christianity Etc › Re: Photo: Man Urinating On Bible By Punch. Sensational Journalism Against Religion by Esthered: 4:19pm On Jul 07, 2019

sulasa07:

you're a case sir.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Photo: Man Urinating On Bible By Punch. Sensational Journalism Against Religion by Esthered: 4:13pm On Jul 07, 2019

sulasa07:
Abegi Ode,who invaded Afghanistan,Iraq,Syria,Libya and is trying to invade Iran with flumsy Excuses as we speak.

I'm no troll on this forum sir. If you must quote me, do so with respect and don't insult me. It's a public forum and I'm entitled to my opinion but I'm sensible enough not to insult people I don't know. You mustn't quote me to insult me if my post doesn't sit well with you or break your phone. Have a great week ahead.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Photo: Man Urinating On Bible By Punch. Sensational Journalism Against Religion by Esthered: 4:53am On Jul 07, 2019

The OP reminds me of Charlie Hebdo attack in France few years ago by a Muslim as a result of sensational journalism. If Christians were as aggressive as the other counterpart, more nations would have been at war. I think christianity promotes civility indirectly. The author of the article and even the artist may be church goers but the liberality allowed by the religion is sometimes taken too far.

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Romance › Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Esthered: 8:46am On Jul 06, 2019

sirdouglas:
Bro, my experience with anambra women is personal and it's cost the life of someone dear to me. If I should tell you the whole story, you wouldn't be saying all this.

I NEVER ABANDONED HER. IT HAS NOT BEEN 3 MONTHS I LEFT OGA AND I HAVE BEEN COMMINICATING WITH HER. HOW ELSE DO YOU WANT ME TO HANDLE THIS?? SHOULD I START BABYSITTING HER?? OR STOP BUILDING A FUTURE SO I CAN HELP HER AND THE KIDS??

AM I NOT TRYING? WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE THIS MEAN AND INCONSIDERATE?? AM I NOT HUMAN ?

I'm a sister sir. I'm sorry for not being sensitive to your plight since I don't know your experience but I hope you forgive the state.
I didn't say you aren't trying. Take it easy but do the right thing you would do to yourself. Be emphatic. If you read my post well you'll realise that I was considerate with my words.
All the best in your endeavours. I pray that God gives you wisdom to make the right decisions.

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Romance › Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Esthered: 6:59am On Jul 06, 2019

Dear OP, I understand that marrying out of pity isn't the best. I'm dazed that at your level of exposure that you don't want to marry from Anambra state due to either experience or limiting beliefs as a result of stereotype. I had my worst experience in life in the east that made me detest Ibos but I grew to learn to deal with people based on who they are and not based on where they're from as you don't know what value the person can add to you that'll propel you to your destiny as man is created to be interdependent and fortunately my best friend is an Igbo lady.
Concerning the issue on ground, don't overrule doing a paternity test and involve someone you trust to minimize the risk of the result being tampered with as you're faraway. If the kids are yours, please try not to be an absentee father even if that's what it's going to be.
Help her to become a better person so that she can seek financial freedom because you didn't state the extent to which you were committed to her development while the relationship lasted. Don't try this in your current location as you may never get away with this. I pray no one does this to your daughter(s) in future and you reminisce in regret of what you did to someone's daughter. Still think about her potentials that may be worth it when you've ascertained the paternity of the kids.
I pray that when she grows older and discover herself she'll pursue her dreams and become altruistic towards women that get abandoned by their baby fathers that could have done the right thing.

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Crime › Re: RAPE: FAQ On Nairaland Since The COZA Saga by Esthered: 4:06pm On Jun 30, 2019

Catchfirez:
Very funny a young Lad behind a phone.

I'm young but not a lad responsible for my family. I hope this will not happen to anyone you share blood ties with. Have a great week ahead.

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Crime › Re: RAPE: FAQ On Nairaland Since The COZA Saga by Esthered: 2:41pm On Jun 30, 2019

Catchfirez:
That write up is fake

Don't mention mr next time to spill..... It happened in my parents house, I was in boarding school. She grew up with us, she was to prepare lunch from my uncle that visited from the AKS. He defiled her dude. When we succeed in doing the needful in future, I'll mention you d****** in the future. I'm sure you're neither a dad nor an uncle but a young lad behind a phone. When you start having REAL responsibilities, you'll understand.

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Crime › Re: RAPE: FAQ On Nairaland Since The COZA Saga by Esthered: 2:17pm On Jun 30, 2019

Thanks for your write up OP, some will still come out to say the blogger's sister seduced Salisu, she had to pay for the gifts she collected........ The mum was already defensive of an outsider and this is what happens in an average Nigerian home. All those people on this forum saying they smell lies in Busola's story should start with the minors in their family and build rapport with them overtime to find out if they've not been violated or have a near violation experience. Our favourite uncle raped a cousin under our roof. I hope the victim press charges in future when she becomes relevant as it'll bring her closer to justice than now that she's nobody and he's touring the world as a highly revered person in his profession. Even if it's 30 years after the rape incidence.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Protest In Front COZA Church, Abuja As Security Tightens Up (Photos) by Esthered: 7:26am On Jun 30, 2019*

weyreypey:
Something just didn't make sense to me there.
I have no intention of making anyone feel bad here but I think there was no rape in the whole saga.

We're not fools please

The woman should just admit that she was wrong as much as she claims that he was wrong.

My cousin was raped in my house by my uncle when we weren't at home. She never told us till she fell pregnant 2 years later. She was quite young and we started tracing her sexual history and found out she was raped under our roof. Till date we haven't press charges because of....... The 1st time without consent is rape but the subsequent ones is not consensual either as the victim is manipulated and acts under fear. I think you need to meet a rape and not near rape victim from a home they aren't allowed to be expressive, then you'll know that the reaction you expect is not the same as those that grow in homes where they're allowed to be themselves this is regardless of if the person is an introvert or extrovert.
All those people on this forum saying they smell lies in Busola's story should start with the minors in their family and build rapport with them overtime to find out if they've not been violated or have a near violation experience. Our favourite uncle raped a cousin under our roof. I hope the victim press charges in future when she becomes relevant as it'll bring her closer to justice than now that she's nobody and he's touring the world as a highly revered person in his profession. Even if it's 30 years after the rape incidence.

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Family › Re: "Akwa Ibom Child Witch" Left To Die By His Parents, Now Transformed (Photos) by Esthered: 8:26pm On Jun 23, 2019

Acidosis:
Happy Sunday dear, trust you're having a blessed day so far

Yes I did and you?

Family › Re: "Akwa Ibom Child Witch" Left To Die By His Parents, Now Transformed (Photos) by Esthered: 1:23pm On Jun 23, 2019

Acidosis:
sweetheart

Happy Sunday

Family › Re: Marry Within Your Class. by Esthered: 12:40pm On Jun 23, 2019

[quote author=Wizywiz post=79590715][/quote]Bro, what's your own with our online affairs?

Family › Re: "Akwa Ibom Child Witch" Left To Die By His Parents, Now Transformed (Photos) by Esthered: 12:36pm On Jun 23, 2019

Wizywiz:
the accountant has spoken ...how is ur bobo acidosis?

My baby boo @ acidosis is fine. wink

Thanks for asking.

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Fashion › Re: Colourful Plain Tee-shirts Available For Retailers And Wholesalers by Esthered: 8:41pm On Jun 22, 2019

yhermmie:
Can be used for as long as you want

Okay

Family › Re: Men Who Insist Their Fiancee Get Pregnant Before Marriage by Esthered: 5:21am On Jun 22, 2019*

What's the guarantee that if she becomes pregnant, she'll carry to full term, what if she loses the baby and suffers secondary infertility as liberalchick said? What if that's the only child she may have and lose him I'm the short run, what if.....
OP, your sister is just desperate. Who told her she can't meet a good man that'll will make her his wife in less than 6 months without putting her under unnecessary pressure. Don't come and tell us stories that touches the heart in future if she refuses to take caution now and set a standard for herself.
To the guys above talking about abortion...... I had STI (popularly called toilet infection) years back when i was in FGCL and I wasn't sexually active, it became a recurring issue even as a virgin years later to the extent of PID these leads to infertility if it's not treated properly. She should go for a medical check up now since she's worried about it especially if it's a case of hormonal imbalance.

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Family › Re: "Akwa Ibom Child Witch" Left To Die By His Parents, Now Transformed (Photos) by Esthered: 5:02am On Jun 22, 2019

I'm ashamed sometimes when I mention AKS as my SSO. We're known for either bed skills, culinary skills and witchcraft. It's demeaning and needs to change. If you check the culinary skills mentioned, how many of us own world class restaurants with the skill we're praised for? Indigenous people regardless of where we are have to change the narrative as there's more to us beyond the aforementioned. This can only be done when we see it as a problem and not a compliment that we treat it as. An oil producing sate has no billionaire in the oil business and we talk of owning oil with pride. If you go to the state, skill acquisition centres are scarce. I had to travel to another village in 2014 to plait my hair from where I stayed for a short break. They emigrate to urban areas to do menial jobs but pride themselves with skills that don't commercialise. I'm calling Akwa-Ibomites on this forum for a start to see how they can be altruistic towards the state. Let your legacy you want to leave behind have your state of origin as a part of it.
Sorry for my rant huh

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Family › Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Esthered: 12:29pm On Jun 21, 2019

Acidosis:
lol. No mind me oo sugar.

Okay baby boo.

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Family › Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Esthered: 8:39am On Jun 21, 2019

Acidosis:
Foolishness is when people can't seem to understand that gender equality does not entail sexual equality. Keep preaching it @OP. Man and woman, as in gender, may be "equal", but male and female, as in sex, are not. This thread dwells on the latter, reason being there are too many biological and anatomical factors against the female.

Aside perpetual insanity, I don't see why anyone would get mad because the "society" seems to place more and better emphasis on the one with higher risk factors.

The extent of bitterness as seen in many responses here is beyond my understanding. A man will shoot his shot and japa in peace while you're there worrying about missing period, contraceptive, abortion, and 9 months of sickness, yet you wanna compete on a fcking spree? You m a d, sister??

Take it easy please.

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Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 4:33pm On Jun 20, 2019

Acidosis:
If I don't, who will?

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Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 3:40pm On Jun 20, 2019

Acidosis:
Lool relax baby, but I don't trust that niggar

Thanks for looking out for me.

Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 3:22pm On Jun 20, 2019

Acidosis:
Yes I am o..

Better as overwhelm wanted to whelm me.

Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 2:42pm On Jun 20, 2019

Acidosis:
**cough**

Are you fine?

Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 2:41pm On Jun 20, 2019

ashewoboy:
Ohkies. it was a nice time with you. toodles.

My pleasure. Have a great day.

Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 2:07pm On Jun 20, 2019

ashewoboy:
mcdonald. I read a story about immorality in that school by aunty something. how true is that?

wow! you must have graduated with a first class too I guess.

I didn't school in the branch t happened so I can't verify the claims of the post.
I didn't make a 1st class

Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 1:10pm On Jun 20, 2019

ashewoboy:
what school did you attend? you also did accounting? perhaps other discipline.

Madonna University
Yes I studied accounting

Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 1:05pm On Jun 20, 2019

ashewoboy:
the amount is small na. compared to the amount you spent in taking ican. they are stingy. that kpmg suppose give you automatic employment. hope you work in a better place?

It doesn't work that way dear. On it dear. Thanks

Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 12:42pm On Jun 20, 2019

ashewoboy:
wow! you are a scholar. how come it did not make Nairaland front page? how much was given to you?

It's no big deal na. 23k, 13 and 10 from KPMG and one other coy

Romance › Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Esthered: 12:31pm On Jun 20, 2019

FatherBona:
I've already absolved you of all the sins you may have committed now and in the past, including the ones you are about to commit in za oda rum.
Enjoy

Thanks Father. cheesy

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Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 12:30pm On Jun 20, 2019

ashewoboy:
what course did you win prize for in ican? are you through now?

I was the best in Advance Audit and Assurance and 3rd best overall in November 2016 diet. I did my induction November last year.

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Celebrities › Re: Man Boldly Ask Genevieve Nnaji Out On Twitter -See Her Reply by Esthered: 11:44am On Jun 20, 2019

ashewoboy:
are you not making assumptions like this?

Mail ain't accessible, how can I be of help?

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