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LoveUdie:
1. Most women subconsciously seek validation from men to feel good about themselves.

2. They know if you're confident or lack in confidence through body language.

3. Every girl had a first love whom she gave her entire soul to.

4. No matter how mature a girl behaves, she will always try to find a guy who can handle the little kid in her.

5. Women get mad at men for not sharing their feeling but most women won't say what they are truly feeling.

6. Your natural smell. Women find distinctive smells attractive. The next time she hugs you, she'll smell you too.

7. They lie about their body count.

8. They stalk your social media.

9. When a man sweats after some form of sport/exercise, the sweat on the face is a turn on for some women. If they like you secretly, they definitely enjoy eye contact. A lot of it.

10. Every woman is emotional and passionate.

11. Women's public bathrooms are lush havens beyond men's wildest dreams.

12. Nothing makes a girl laugh harder than when you copy something they said in a weird way. They just find that thing too funny.

13. They don't need any solution to their problem when they are sad. They just need warm console.

14. Just tell them what you are expecting from them from the beginning itself. Don't beat around the bush.

15. When they are in love, they smell your clothes.

16. If they get upset, they love it when you make up for it with kisses and apology rather than manliness.

17. They hope your guy friends secretly have a crush on them.

18. Girls will never admit that they like you. They just start talking to you everyday and start asking if you have eaten and other stuff.

20. They want a man who's good at seduction.

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone, I've been driving for over a year now and I've noticed we don't know how to use headlights in this country even my friend that visited from the US complained same thing.
I don't know if it's selfishness or what but how will someone be on very high beam even when opposite an incoming vehicle, I almost entered a ditch because an SUV beamed on my small Corolla to the point I couldn't even see properly, are there rules set for all these in this country?
God's willing if I don't leave this country within the next 2 years I'm getting a bigger vehicle and I will purposely install massive led lights I will be counter beaming people till they notice their mistake.

L1TTLE:
All my life I have dated only one unicorn, I call her a unicorn because she exuded characteristics that aren't typical of our dearly beloved Nigerian girls, first, I never asked her out, I was a teenager in secondary school and her mum was my mum's best friend so we were friends, dating just happened, and we were together till I was 19, her mom died and she moved away, this girl is hardworking, brilliant, emotionally intelligent, clean, and has high intellect, I don't talk much but with her I come out of my shell, we have engaging conversations that you won't believe she's a Nigerian girl, even though we couldn't make the distance thing work we're still friends, I'm not insulting anyone btw, lastly she doesn't bill me, and when she get me things she doesn't consider if I have given her something earlier, I mean what kind of Nigerian girl would even ask you out to start with? Talkmore of the rest.

now men in Nigeria are brought up with standards that are entirely different from women, you're supposed to grow up with virtue and wait for a man to marry you? But it is totally different from a guy's upbringing, take me for example, I was compared to my mates since I was old enough to want something or have ambition, I was taught to stop being a weakling and be a man, and when I reached a certain age my parents started expecting me to take care of the family or make meaningful contributions, I was so uncomfortable and I moved out, and it didn't stop there, my mom started expecting me to look for someone and settle down, although it isn't as brazen as the other pressures I get from my parents, and this is all because I am a man born of an ambitious and tough father who never smiles because he doesn't do all this with my sisters, and I have tried to know why he's so tough with me and my only explanation is that's how he was raised, so they pass that tough upbringing to their male children and their male children pass it to their children and the circle never ends, imagine working your ass off everyday with stress and everything to fend for an entitled wife and your children and someone expect you to still manage to be smiling and being obsessed with a wife who doesn't do anything to aid your predicament.

I don't have room for emotional attachment because I don't have it good as my sisters who were pampered all their life, for instance when I was schooling my dad expected me to survive with the peanuts he gave me every once in a while and when I complained he will ask me to hustle and stop waiting for him for everything, when I needed to rent a self contain he forced me to get a roommate so we can split bills, I thought that's just how he is until my sisters got into the university and I started seeing the same father sending them money upon money and renting secure and high quality apartments for them, when I graduated he expected me to get a job and move out, point is, my life was hard from the beginning simply because I was a guy.

I hardly see my dad smile, although my mum is the opposite which is why I confide in her most times and through her I learnt how to be caring and respectful towards ladies, but I don't have the time or willpower to be as mushy as a typical Nigerian girl would want, and considering what I went through I'd expect a supportive and hardworking wife to ease the hard life I had, Nigerian girls can't offer me that, because all they do is wait for a man to go and work his arse off then come and marry them, and when you marry them they become another financial burden, she will add her family join and they'll suck you like leeches, she and her family will pull you from the left and your family will pull you from the right until they tear you apart, that's why they get fat and you the head of the house will remain slim, they'll blame childbirth for gaining weight like wtf?

why I go carry my hand buy burden for myself, I'd rather marry from a society where women don't feel entitled and that's not Nigeria, no offense but yes Nigerian women are very entitled despite the fact that they have nothing to offer than birth children and make you pay bills till you die.

Vinnie2000:
What!!! Egg for N150? 😯😯

Where in this Country, exactly?🤔🤨

Quality20:
Many men are in the habit of sleeping with all these sex hawkers as if there are no good chaste girls around. How do these guys even cope with the terrible smells exuded by these dirty things? Of do they think that good chaste girls are all pretenders or what? I Reilly can't imagine myself or any right thinking person making out with a public hookomg up lady, its at the very least disgusting and very dirty

Opanka44:
I have a girlfriend who we intend settling down together if God permits. I love her so much and have never cheated on her cos it is not in my nature to cheat at all. We have known for two years now. But I feel really not convinced that she wants to settle down with me. I have broken up with her severally but she keeps coming back. I feel like running away from this town, so I don't get to see her again. Here are a few of her unconvincing attitude that get me sceptical:

1. She hasn't introduced me to any of her family members or friends yet. Though I know her elder sister and Brother. But I got to know them by virtue of my job. Her elder sister is my Boss and her elder brother comes to visit us at work from time to time. Her elder sister (my Boss) once prayed that God should bless me so I can quickly pay her kid sister's bride price. She said so jokingly anyway. She already suspects something is going on, but it isn't official yet. I even asked her to inform her sister about us so she can see her reaction since she's very close to her. But she said, it would be an Insult to her & husband to introduce me to them as her man, because she lives with them & finds it not to good to do so. Also, she says I'm not ready yet and when I'm ready she will do that wholeheartedly. She is awaiting NYSC mobilization. And I am praying God for a Better job. But I believe it still doesn't stop her from introducing me to at least a friend & family member. She requested for my sister's number, I gave her. But up till now, she hasn't called my sister. I even bought her Airtime same day I gave her my sister's number. It's really disheartening.
2. She doesn't post me on her social media accounts. But she enjoys it when I post her pictures & write romantic stuffs about her. When I complained about this, she posted our pictures on her Whatsapp with the caption "And we Snapped". Since then, she hasn't posted any.
3. We can't hang out or walk on the streets. She claims her Elder sister's Husband may accidentally bump on us and it will be disrespectful to the husband who houses her.
4. I once saw her chat with a guy who she's also dating. She claimed they met online, & the guy traveled from Kano to Porthacourt to see her. The guy lodged in a hotel and she was going to see him everyday till he traveled back to Kano. She said they only kissed and there was no sex. That's her problem anyway cos it's not business. At the time, the guy visited her, we hadn't started the relationship. She broke up with the guy for some reasons.. but keeps chatting with him. She said there's nothing going on between them. I got angry. And her response was that, if she checks my WhatsApp and Facebook now, would she not see my chats with other girls? I was so shocked to hear this. Last year, I opened a Facebook account, posed as a big Politician & used my political godfathers picture on my profile, I sent her a friend request, she accepted & we started chatting. Of course she didn't know I was the one. I requested for her number, she gave me. I asked if she's in any relationship, but she denied it. I fixed a day that we would meet physically & she accepted. I felt really terrible. And I when I opened up & confronted her, she denied giving out her number. She said she wasn't even willing to go meet him anywhere that it was all joke.
5: she doesn't give me sex. She claims to be a virgin which I know she's lying. She's 28yrs old. We only kiss and do other stuffs but no penetrative sex. She asked that I wait until our wedding night. I believe that if u love someone genuinely, sex is the least thing to argue about. Until I met her, I had never sucked a woman's Vagina, she's the only one. And she knows how hygienic I'm. Though she appears to love and respect me so well, but why is it been hidden from the friends and family members?
6. I read her chat with her female friend on WhatsApp. She said "Who relationship help"
Then, I started wondering if I'm actually in a relationship with her or I'm in a relationship with myself.

I'm quite an emotional type and I'm really hurt. I do everything to make her happy. But the indices of a healthy relationship are missing from her end. This is same lady dat would call me at 2AM to profess her love for me. She said she is ready to start life with me even if it's in just one room apartment. Even if it's garri, she'll drink with me. But her actions are not in tandem and in consonance to her words. I'm confused here. Pls help me.

Sholuwa241:
Please not every black man be empty skull biko e get while.

pendragonbladgo:
May God continue to allow more hunger, until African stop having more than one or 2children.

The major cause of poverty is over population.

Germany was 70million in 1970 and Nigeria 40mlion.

Today, Nigeria 220milion and Germany 130Million.

Can you see that Nigeria have no other purpose but to fvck and give birth to children and be crying to governornment. Once a Man and woman in Nigeria don get small house and change, mumu marriage don start, before you say jark, children don reach 4.... Will dey eat sand?

Or Government will come and feed you?

Let them die...
I need more hardship...
Fuel should rise to 3000 so people will die more.

Skyview01:
Most of these people suffering will still vote according to religion and tribe during the next election.

Iamanoited:
TINUBU PLEASE PAY THE N35000 SUBSIDY RELIEF MONTHLY ALLOWANCE TO WORKERS AND PENSIONERS. IT IS TO BE EFFECTIVE FROM SEPTEMBER 1ST. SO SEPTEMBER AND OCTOBER HAVE NOT BEEN PAID AND IT IS HURTING.

Angelfrost:
Subsidy was only partially removed. Lol!

This administration is still subsidizing Petrol and the weak ass Naira.

If not, you should be buying petrol at N1200 per Liter based on the incoming price of over N750 per liter.

Naira would easily be at N1600 to a Dollar if they were no longer propping it up with loans.

Honestly...There is no significant improvement from the catastrophe of Buhari so far.

Bea1234:
https://www.nairaland.com/7900699/testimony-after-boss-sacked-me/5#down

https://www.nairaland.com/7894356/got-sacked-after-asking-four

If you think the handle that created the above post is being sincere and have at any point in time rendered financial help to her, sorry you have been scammed full time.

I will post evidence later cos I'm busy now. Too many scammers lurking around here. That's if she doesn't get to see this post and deactivate before then.

Rich4god:
So went to prepare and decorate a hall in a hotel for our friends wedding. We were there into the night of Saturday and also came back Sunday morning for final touches.

I noticed several matured men going in and out of the hotels with young and very immature ladies. Haba....

Yes we all know that these young ladies are into hook up full time. But as a matured man, how can you stoop so low to pick up a girl who is below 18 years. Assuming the ladies self have matured body, like maybe the look older than their age, I can even understand. But these young girl one can visible see that they are so young and could pass for students of SS 1-2.

To the men, plz of you want to pick up ladies, pick up matured ones or maybe those who looks matured by appearance not toddlers.

Let's not be the ones encouraging this hook up because of the little money we give to these girls.