₦airaland Forum

Vinnie2000:
What!!! Egg for N150? 😯😯

Where in this Country, exactly?🤔🤨

Quality20:
Many men are in the habit of sleeping with all these sex hawkers as if there are no good chaste girls around. How do these guys even cope with the terrible smells exuded by these dirty things? Of do they think that good chaste girls are all pretenders or what? I Reilly can't imagine myself or any right thinking person making out with a public hookomg up lady, its at the very least disgusting and very dirty

Opanka44:
I have a girlfriend who we intend settling down together if God permits. I love her so much and have never cheated on her cos it is not in my nature to cheat at all. We have known for two years now. But I feel really not convinced that she wants to settle down with me. I have broken up with her severally but she keeps coming back. I feel like running away from this town, so I don't get to see her again. Here are a few of her unconvincing attitude that get me sceptical:

1. She hasn't introduced me to any of her family members or friends yet. Though I know her elder sister and Brother. But I got to know them by virtue of my job. Her elder sister is my Boss and her elder brother comes to visit us at work from time to time. Her elder sister (my Boss) once prayed that God should bless me so I can quickly pay her kid sister's bride price. She said so jokingly anyway. She already suspects something is going on, but it isn't official yet. I even asked her to inform her sister about us so she can see her reaction since she's very close to her. But she said, it would be an Insult to her & husband to introduce me to them as her man, because she lives with them & finds it not to good to do so. Also, she says I'm not ready yet and when I'm ready she will do that wholeheartedly. She is awaiting NYSC mobilization. And I am praying God for a Better job. But I believe it still doesn't stop her from introducing me to at least a friend & family member. She requested for my sister's number, I gave her. But up till now, she hasn't called my sister. I even bought her Airtime same day I gave her my sister's number. It's really disheartening.
2. She doesn't post me on her social media accounts. But she enjoys it when I post her pictures & write romantic stuffs about her. When I complained about this, she posted our pictures on her Whatsapp with the caption "And we Snapped". Since then, she hasn't posted any.
3. We can't hang out or walk on the streets. She claims her Elder sister's Husband may accidentally bump on us and it will be disrespectful to the husband who houses her.
4. I once saw her chat with a guy who she's also dating. She claimed they met online, & the guy traveled from Kano to Porthacourt to see her. The guy lodged in a hotel and she was going to see him everyday till he traveled back to Kano. She said they only kissed and there was no sex. That's her problem anyway cos it's not business. At the time, the guy visited her, we hadn't started the relationship. She broke up with the guy for some reasons.. but keeps chatting with him. She said there's nothing going on between them. I got angry. And her response was that, if she checks my WhatsApp and Facebook now, would she not see my chats with other girls? I was so shocked to hear this. Last year, I opened a Facebook account, posed as a big Politician & used my political godfathers picture on my profile, I sent her a friend request, she accepted & we started chatting. Of course she didn't know I was the one. I requested for her number, she gave me. I asked if she's in any relationship, but she denied it. I fixed a day that we would meet physically & she accepted. I felt really terrible. And I when I opened up & confronted her, she denied giving out her number. She said she wasn't even willing to go meet him anywhere that it was all joke.
5: she doesn't give me sex. She claims to be a virgin which I know she's lying. She's 28yrs old. We only kiss and do other stuffs but no penetrative sex. She asked that I wait until our wedding night. I believe that if u love someone genuinely, sex is the least thing to argue about. Until I met her, I had never sucked a woman's Vagina, she's the only one. And she knows how hygienic I'm. Though she appears to love and respect me so well, but why is it been hidden from the friends and family members?
6. I read her chat with her female friend on WhatsApp. She said "Who relationship help"
Then, I started wondering if I'm actually in a relationship with her or I'm in a relationship with myself.

I'm quite an emotional type and I'm really hurt. I do everything to make her happy. But the indices of a healthy relationship are missing from her end. This is same lady dat would call me at 2AM to profess her love for me. She said she is ready to start life with me even if it's in just one room apartment. Even if it's garri, she'll drink with me. But her actions are not in tandem and in consonance to her words. I'm confused here. Pls help me.

Sholuwa241:
Please not every black man be empty skull biko e get while.

pendragonbladgo:
May God continue to allow more hunger, until African stop having more than one or 2children.

The major cause of poverty is over population.

Germany was 70million in 1970 and Nigeria 40mlion.

Today, Nigeria 220milion and Germany 130Million.

Can you see that Nigeria have no other purpose but to fvck and give birth to children and be crying to governornment. Once a Man and woman in Nigeria don get small house and change, mumu marriage don start, before you say jark, children don reach 4.... Will dey eat sand?

Or Government will come and feed you?

Let them die...
I need more hardship...
Fuel should rise to 3000 so people will die more.

Skyview01:
Most of these people suffering will still vote according to religion and tribe during the next election.

Iamanoited:
TINUBU PLEASE PAY THE N35000 SUBSIDY RELIEF MONTHLY ALLOWANCE TO WORKERS AND PENSIONERS. IT IS TO BE EFFECTIVE FROM SEPTEMBER 1ST. SO SEPTEMBER AND OCTOBER HAVE NOT BEEN PAID AND IT IS HURTING.

Angelfrost:
Subsidy was only partially removed. Lol!

This administration is still subsidizing Petrol and the weak ass Naira.

If not, you should be buying petrol at N1200 per Liter based on the incoming price of over N750 per liter.

Naira would easily be at N1600 to a Dollar if they were no longer propping it up with loans.

Honestly...There is no significant improvement from the catastrophe of Buhari so far.

Bea1234:
https://www.nairaland.com/7900699/testimony-after-boss-sacked-me/5#down

https://www.nairaland.com/7894356/got-sacked-after-asking-four

If you think the handle that created the above post is being sincere and have at any point in time rendered financial help to her, sorry you have been scammed full time.

I will post evidence later cos I'm busy now. Too many scammers lurking around here. That's if she doesn't get to see this post and deactivate before then.

Rich4god:
So went to prepare and decorate a hall in a hotel for our friends wedding. We were there into the night of Saturday and also came back Sunday morning for final touches.

I noticed several matured men going in and out of the hotels with young and very immature ladies. Haba....

Yes we all know that these young ladies are into hook up full time. But as a matured man, how can you stoop so low to pick up a girl who is below 18 years. Assuming the ladies self have matured body, like maybe the look older than their age, I can even understand. But these young girl one can visible see that they are so young and could pass for students of SS 1-2.

To the men, plz of you want to pick up ladies, pick up matured ones or maybe those who looks matured by appearance not toddlers.

Let's not be the ones encouraging this hook up because of the little money we give to these girls.

surefx:
Hi everyone,

I never knew Roosters could be extremely noisy. My Neighbour recently started raising some and lately those things have been disturbing like crazy. They start crowing around 3am and I am unable to sleep anymore.

I tried to discuss with him but he didn't see anything wrong with them. Took the matter to the Ministry of Environment in Oyo state but nothing was done.

Moving out is not an option as it's my house.

I don't know what to do. Please help. Those things are tormenting my life...

Monsignor22:
They've been peddling this same bizarre narrative all over twitter that Igbo women are obsessed with Yoruba men and prefer them to Igbo men, thankfully so many Igbo women including popular social media influencers politely but vehemently debunked the nonsense and made it clear they will always choose their Igbo men FIRST before settling for any ethnic group. For yoruba men, dating/marrying an Igbo woman is almost a fetish, like a psychological conquest for them...very strange mannerism.

Statistically 90% of Igbo women are married to Igbo men, infact the NEXT most common index of inter-tribal marriages when Igbo women choose to marry outside the culture are to South South men (especially Delta, Edo and parts of Rivers state). The tiny percentage that marry yoruba men are predominantly the ones born and raised in Lagos and have mingled more with yorubas more often than not, it's practically unheard or extremely rare that a core Igbo woman raised from the soil of Alaigbo will settle for yoruba, if she marries out then it's a man from a neighboring South South region.

Igbo men barely marry yoruba women, they are just bottom of the desirability index in Nigeria. After Igbo women our next preferences are Ibibio/Efik women, so many Ibibio/Calabar women are married to Igbo men. Then after South South women we tend to marry mostly foreigners like Caucasian women, Asian women, and in Africa South African, Kenyan, Cameroonian and Ugandan women in that order. There's even a Kenyan and South African page on Facebook where women from those countries specially discuss their marriages to Igbo men, South African women in particular probably have the highest number of children to Igbo guys who live there, a situation that has always caused serious problems between them and their men who accuse Nigerians of taking their women.