₦airaland Forum

SmileDance:
He should use the house as a collateral for a loan or better still sell the house

Op, please here, SmileDance has giving you the answer to your question.

You see, the issue of land or house dispute, as the case may be, is always a dicey one. Tell your dad to thread cautiously and you too. In fact, you and your siblings must not get involved in the matter at all.

Tell your dad to go source for loan from the bank, use the house as collateral, with the intent not to pay back and use the money to build another house somewhere outside the family compound.
And the building of the new house must be kept secret.

Bunch of wicked uncles married to unreasonable wives.

pocohantas:
Please do you know the name of who you paid this money to and how much you paid?

My mum's test result vamoose all of a sudden because I didn't pay "egunje". As soon as I heard that the director just arrived, I rushed to his office upstairs to report, but the lab technicians intercepted me, prostrated and assured me that my mum's result has been found.

The drama in Randle that day wasn't funny at all. That was when other patients began to voice out on how they were made to undergo a repeat test of the same test they had already done for same reason they gave me.

Since that incidence, I never stepped foot in Randle again.

Dear Poco, they didn't succeed in exhorting from me that day because I was determined to pull them down, if that's what was required.

Thank you.

@Op, just this little experience and you're lamenting? Oya visit Randle General Hospital in Surulere, Lagos and then write down your experience.

It is so bad that, if you don't tip the lab technicians, Olorun your test result will disappear. That's, after paying the so-called consultation fee ooo.

Every facet of the Nigerian system is corrupt.

Sorry for your experience. And I wish you speedy recovery.

There's no job security in the bank. And as a contract staff they will use and dump you later.

Moreover, because of limited number of staff available, you might also be required to work weekends and public holidays.

You will just wake up one day to find out you no longer have a social life. And the opportunity to improve academically or in your career will be frustrated, because they will keep telling you the bank is not ready to employ, so you either forget about school for now, or resign and go back to school.

IMO, I will advise you opt for the school job where you'll have all the time in the world to pursue other passion.

Best of luck.

tugrow:
We have put our reason on our website , our customer team will also explain to you our reasons , and it is clearly stated that it refundable,saying we want to exhort 3,000 from you is very wrong, GREEDY TENDENCY sir/ma ask others we do not forfeit your 3k it part of your money. let learn to say things as it is , i am so sorry for telling you to keep quiet.

You would've gently explain to me like you just did instead of asking me to shut up.

Well, like you rightly said in your initial post, it's left for me to either strike a business relationship with you or not.

Why I actually wanted to patronize you in the first place was even based on Gideon's recommendation and nothing more.

@Op, God actually sent you there to be a destiny helper to that man and you'll have everything to gain if you obey.
1. If he's considered for the position, he'll surely handover to you before relocating to his new place of assignment. That means he'll take you round and properly introduce you to his contacts in that community.

2. He will pray that God should bless you. You may not know the impact of that simple prayer, God bless you, but it works.

3. Your conscience will be clear.

4. Even God Himself will raise helpers of destiny for you and you will begin to experience accelerated promotions.

He's even the one you should be bothered about because he's going to start afresh from an unknown and a new environment.

Please don't make the mistake my former boss made some years ago. Today he's regretting why he didn't give us (those reporting directly to him) the opportunity to grow when it was in his power to do so. I can't count the number of times he has called to ask for my forgiveness because of what happened in the past. I think he now realized his mistakes and of course, I have nothing against him.

So, don't deprive the man an opportunity to experience a lifting. You said he has been in that position for years. Now is the time for you to do for him what other people failed to do!

frank417:
Na rogue. Forget am

Thank you, jare.

tugrow:
keep quiet if you don't have what to say it is not a must to comment on the thread, every organisation has their policy and mode of operation if you are not fine with it you move on.... Our commitment fee is refundable and nobody is here for your joke , we are in for business,

https://baohero.com/ check out this agent, you will pay a minimum membership fee of $100 (N36,000) before they can attend to you... And they still have customers... If you have not okay with our operations move on sir/ma ... Thanks

Mr Samuel, or whoever is behind this moniker, do you know you can actually be civil in your response without telling me to keep quiet? You probably thought you're addressing your baby at home, right?

Business minded people are always courteous in their manner of approach both to their existing and intended customers.

Please be guided.

sirjoe1124:
I repeat never ever try Tugrow, he's a joke.

A very big joke for that matter. I wanted to try his services last month, but the man wanted to exhort N3,000 from me first. Commitment fee he called it. I just stopped every form of communication with him immediately.

He has greedy tendency. And that's a big turn off for me.

Why is Uche Jumbo looking like she wants to suffocate.

BabaIbo:
WoW, I will do that anytime I'm free or have any biz close to their branch...

Same here, I remember some years ago I tried opening an account with them, I was shocked when they told me the amount involved.

Just go with a passport photograph for a savings account, utility bill and means of identification. They will open and generate an account number for you immediately. But the account will start functioning proper as soon as they're done with your residential verification. They actually visited in person.

And if you want to be receiving and paying in cheques into the savings account, you will then need to bring two reference, as is obtainable in current account.

BabaIbo:
Free kor, Freeze ni...

I saw it somewhere that for non-zenith bank account holder, you gats open account with them. I hope you know how much them dey collect for their own.

And for their account holders, make I no just talk.

When they found out people no longer take notice of them, they began to advertise zero balance account opening. I kuku seized the opportunity to open one last month, not because I needed it, but to spite them for denying me that opportunity some years ago when they insisted that mere opening of savings account in Zenith Bank was N50,000.

You can grasp the offer and open a free account with them now, even if you presently don't need it. It might come handy some day.

Once upon a greedy bank.

Contumely:
antinatalist

food don done oo

I was expecting your pre-wedding pictures with the lady that indicated interest.

Contumely:
olu michaels

When am I coming to eat rice at your wedding?

I wish you happiness in your marriage.

Oblongata:
The first key to passing an interview is by being confident...

Over the years, I discovered the best way to get confident is to see the interviewers beneath you and that they don’t worth your time, but you just want to showcase your talents to them, and don’t really care if given or not.

You are absolutely right.

State of mind, adequate preparation and confidence are all that's required in any given test, examination or interview.

But you see anxiety written over some applicants as soon as it gets to their turn to be interviewed and I'll be like, this is not a do or die thing nah.
You see them failing before the test/ interview.

Oblongata:
Yes I am very creative...

My spontaneity and innovative skills in the face of an impending challenge enables me to create new channels to solving problems with apt ease.

Under interview pressure, you might not even remember to construct your sentence with such apt/ease/innovation/spontaneity and creativity.
What am I typing sef?

Things like this happen. Op might be telling the truth.

burggerx:
One thing that scares the hell out of me about my girlfriend is her attitude. When you talk about a disrespectful and unsubmissive lady, my girlfriend is the headquarters of all the disrespectful and unsubmissive ladies I've ever met. Even if she does something good, I don't tend to notice it because her bad attitude has already overshadowed the good side of her

Even if she acts respectful to me, it's so obvious she's only forcing it since it's a trait she lacks. Just when a little brawl ensues, curses and abusive words are usually not far-fetched from her mouth. She has even insulted my family before during a heated argument. The only thing my girlfriend is yet to do is to beat me up

I believe they say respect is earned but I've done everything a man should do to earn respect from his lady yet this lady talks to me like a kid. No sign of humility at all

My girlfriend is not only dominating but toxic and does not accept correction. She makes it look like giving authority as a man is slavery and she questions my authority every time. The annoying part is that she argues a lot and always wants to be right at all times. Feminism is written all over her to the extent that even in movies, my girlfriend will have the back of a woman who is unsubmissive and disrespectful to an innocent husband.

Although she acts like a respectful girlfriend in the presence of my family but my mom in question is smart enough to know that she's only faking it despite trying all my best to portray my girlfriend as someone that gives me joy in the face of my mom

Before my mom traveled to the UK in September, she sat me down up to three times and advised me to let go of this girl if I really want to spend the rest of life with peace of mind and that if I insist on marrying her, she doesn't have a choice than to respect my decision but she will remind me of her advice which I didn't yield to if I eventually end up as a frustrated man in the future

I've tried to terminate the relationship but she cries and makes the whole thing look like I don't love her and that if I do, I should be able to cope with her flaws. There was even a time she told me she doesn't have a choice than to respect me if I marry her and I was like WTF!

I have decided to call the relationship a quit once and for all since I'm not in for any future drama. I don't want to end up with a woman that will be rude and disrespect me in the face of my own children.

But there's one question I want to ask is that, can a ride girlfriend ever change after marriage? Is it worth taking the risk that she will change with time?

Even Mama Churchhill would've warned him also, but he said "no mama, she'll change". Did she change? No, she only got worse.

Gentleman, listen to your mother!

majormofor:
You man, your dating yourself o... If a girl truly loves you she would buy something without telling you.
Best advice---"buy something for urself and let her know it's New and tell her, it's one of your female friends that bought it and you love it soooooo much..
Let see how we go from there. Her reaction should speak more

The best advise. Op, listen to this.

What do you mean by eatery? A place you sell only snacks and drinks, a place you sell only food and drinks, or a place you sell snacks, food and drinks?

In this economy where many people are barely trying to survive, I would prefer you open a restaurant where you will sell "bellyfulling" kind of dishes and drinks, including water.

A paid employer who probably has budgeted let's say N500 for food every week day in the office, will prefer eating food that will sustain him until he gets home in the evening rather than taking a bite of meat pie and coke, which to me is junk and is even more expensive.

So kindly define what you mean by eatery.

Whichever you've chosen, I wish you best of luck.

Respect55:
There is this inner peace I feel now when I slept and woke up

Do you know God would have shown you other signs about her, but you were too carried away to notice. And because He loves you so much and doesn't want you to end up with a wayward wife, He organized a buyer, who could as well have contacted other sellers, you know?

Indeed, the paths/ways of the righteous are ordered by God. Please in your next relationship, seek the face of God first before even approaching her.

Congratulations for dodging a bullet.

Happinesswithin:
True talk.Bless you

Thank you, jare.
Bless you too.

LoyalRccgMember:
Good morning guys, so there's an issue that has been bothering me for a week now.

it's about my younger sister's childhood friend. so, I came back from school last month after finishing my 2nd semester 300l exams.

And anytime, my friends sister visited our house, she'll sometimes sneak into my room to collect my phone which she claims shes uses for assignments (she's currently in S.S.2).

So last week, she came as usual to collect the phone. after giving her, she decided to stay back in the room while she makes research on her so-called assignments. while putting on earpiece ooo.

unknown to her, even though I was busy on my laptop, I could still hear some noise from the earpiece. I had to pause what I was doing to listen carefully and found out that this girl was actually watching porn in my holy phone oooo.

I got angry and collected my phone after which I sent her out of my room. even after that event, she still visits our house and still comes into my room but I've denied her my phone sha.

So, last week Sunday, after church service, I tried to my Buddy who was a pianist in our church to seek advice from him if I should report the girl to her parents or leave her alone.

I was quite shocked at his reply as he said I messed up that I should have taken advantage of the girl. I was like, the girl is 16 oooo. and i also told him that I don't engage in such stuffs (At 20, I've never hugged a girl before because of my low self esteem as my friends would call it) He also told Me that age is just a number that he have been strafing the junior pastor's daughter who was his girlfriend (17year old girl ooo and dude is 23) i didn't believe him at first not until he showed me the nude pictures of the girl.

he said I should man up that he'll get me a condom this Sunday which I will use. I told him that he should remember that he is a Christian and that as Christians, we should stay away from all forms of immorality and that our body is the temple of God which should remain Pure and Holy at the same time.
the dude's defense was that Jesus has already died for our sins and that subsequent sins we commit will be forgiven.

Right now, I'm confused as to what to do as my younger sister's friend has been trying to seduce me. sometimes, she'll just come into my room without even knocking the door wearing what seemed like mini skirt. mind you, all the while that she has been coming to our house, my parents are not always around. also, her mom and my mom are close buddies.

Please I need an advice on what to do as my friend from the just has already promised to bring the CD on Sunday. also, is it true that Jesus really died for our subsequent sins? that is, the sins we commit later on in life will be forgiven? also, I need advice from those who had engage in premarital sex before. so far, have you had any regrets? please help a brother. please I'll appreciate if I get more views concerning this issue.

Lalasticlala
mynd44
seun

An RCCG member asking such a silly question!

Just because you want to commit fornication, destroy your destiny and damn your soul in hell, you're trying to indirectly justify what your friend said about the death of Christ. So the church service you've been attending all these years and the sermons you've been hearing, fell on the biblical stony ground, abi?

I pray the condom burst. Just impregnate the girl already so that you'll engage in manual labour while still going to school. Afterall, it's just few hours to Sunday. But don't forget that THE SOUL THAT SINNETH, SHALL DIE! Ezekiel 18:20, Ezekiel 33:8-9

A gullible fellow.

Your second picture got me confused, though.
Hold on, let me think about it, ok?

TheGiftedOne:
...only block and you're complaining? Me I wish I could unknow the two of you.

My 2019 list of Nigeria's most stu.pid people:

10. Mopper

9. Hotdog puppy

8. Kemi De kolo

7. Zlatan beans

6. Jarum Her

5. PH First Dullard

4. Turn to Dike

3. Odikwa Risky

1. Ara. Marley

Useless peeps.

You sef you too brilliant.
Which kind names construction be dis gan?
Abi you read Building and Construction for school?