₦airaland Forum

exstreve:
We would start seeing posts like:

"lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw steps out in a cleavage bearing outfit'

"checkout these lovely throwback pictures of lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw'

"Davido meets with lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw"

"Lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw flaunts her engagement ring"

"Brother of lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw graduates with 1st class"

So true.

Preciousgirl:
Was attached with this guy emotionally
He was always on.my mind even though I am married
Now I have made the decision to detach myself from him.

I have refused to contact him for about three months and deleted his every info on my phone.

The sad thing is, he is still on my mind, even though I am striving to forget him but he is still there.

I am ashamed to confess that, I miss him but I am never going to contact him.

But please how can I forever unmiss him?
How can I forever forget him?
How can my emotions be detached from him?

Please, only serious replies

This is simple.. Just give your life to Christ and read the scriptures. Naturally you will discover you have been fornicating with your heart all along and you will hate that you did.

How did his ex got wind of his proposed wedding with your sister, especially since they are no longer room mates? Your sister would have called to inform her.

You see, ehen, we are sometimes the architect of our problems.

Advise your sister to ignore her and never divulge the date of her wedding to her or to any of their mutual friends, especially the ones with leaking mouth.

You better restitute your way by asking for their forgiveness and focusing on your family.

Op, what type of double life is this nah? So anytime you open your mouth you ooze out lies upon lies, abi? No iota of truth in you.

Look at how you're toiling with the emotions of two women. You don't even care about the state of your pregnant wife or the heart of an innocent lady who loved you genuinely and even went out of her way to introduce you to her workplace. Whom you could have opened up to from day one about your marital status. You led her into breaking her vow and you think that is fair?

Keep deceiving yourself that you'll divorce your wife.

Wicked man.

For posterity sake my sister, let the bride price be paid to that undeserving father of yours and do a little traditional rite that will involve one or two of your siblings and your paternal family.
No canopy, no music, no wasting of money entertaining them.

If I were you, I will even present my husband as a Youth Corper or a Final Year student in one the Universities. In fact that's the reason we're doing everything in low key because he doesn't even have money. I won't hire a photographer. My siblings will take us pictures with their phone. Don't give an impression there's going to be another wedding afterwards.

When you get back to your base, my sister, organise your dream wedding where none of your paternal family and village people will be in attendance. And this is where you'll give your maternal uncle and mummy's relatives all the honour they deserve. And your uncle, of course, will walk you down the aisle, unless he personally delegates your brothers to do it.

BigDick70inch:
Lol..
Size of dick doesn't kill..

If you say so.

BigDick70inch:
Pls nairalander..
I'm Corp member presently serving in enugu..met this girl who is also a teacher in my ppa..
Now..have been tellin her to let's hang out maybe one of the weekends..but she has be declining my invitations..

Pls..What could she be think??

My dear, your moniker would have been responsible.

Who would want to commit suicide!

0KNM:
Bro, I have dropped my own advice; quit now when you can. A failed relationship is better than failed marriage

He said they are already legally married in court. I pray he finds a way out of the situation.

Beautyaddy:
How's that? That's not true.

No government abroad is holding any foreigner hostage to stay back in their Country

Please read between the line. I never mentioned government holding anybody hostage.

iCauseTrouble:
Everybody will start saying its not easy but they won't come back to Nigeria and let us enjoy Baba Buhari together

Some of them are actually trapped abroad with no means of coming back.

kollinz1234:
Brother, a lot of men married having lesser than what u have now, today they are living conveniently;

Secondly, u may wait till ages if you are planning to make your family financially stable b4 getting married; Gods plans are different from ours, and it doesn't rest on your shoulders to make them financially stable, they are Gods responsibility. That is one of the mistake many of we africans do, especially we the firstborns, that is why most of us (firstborns) are behind our junior ones

Thirdly, my guy there is no flat of 2 bedroom flat for 50k not even in Ajegunle

5 bedroom flat that year in Akungba, Ondo State was N19,000 per annum and it was rented by the company I worked with as Staff Quarter. The parlour alone could conveniently build another 2 bedroom flat here in Lagos State.

We laughed until tears were dropping from our eyes when we heard the amount paid as rent. We just couldn't comprehend it, with spacious rooms ooo. And it was in a very beautiful location.

Op doesn't live in Lagos.

Happy Birthday, Cutie. May your days be long on earth. Fulfill destiny, my baby.

Ironman15:
Life is really hard indeed. Nothing good comes my way. Everything I try doing doesn't seems to work for me

My clothes is not up to three. I hardly feeds daily

Living in this wicked world is like a lifetime jail sentence

I'm cursed and I know that

Ironman, if I tell you my own story, you will cry for me. But suicide? NO, NO and NO oooo. I can't let life defeat me. No way!

You better snap out of that suicidal thoughts and find a legit way out of life.

I would even expect you to ask Nairalanders for help with job and you're here talking suicide. I dislike it when people give up on life so easily. What then happens to "survival of the fittest?"

You better have a rethink.

Sonsly041:
But she also paid huge amount of money to attend and listen to bovi, basket mouth Ay etc comedy's in pidgin English

Don't mind her. And she might likely take her son along "to go catch fun".

goldonome:
I've noticed injections work pretty faster for me than drugs, but I hear some saying drugs are best for use. I remember when I was down with typhoid and was taken to the hospital, the doctor recommended some drugs, and I told him injections works well for me but he declined, after some weeks no major improvement he then recommend injection, and that very day I was very much relieved and that's all. to the medical personnel, is there any sought of side effects taking injections?

Op I was like you until I had serious injection abscess that almost crippled my enemy. For more than a year, I was battling with it. The scars are still visible.

Since then, whenever I see syringe I die a thousand times over. That experience forced me to prefer tablets to injection. Otherwise, injection works faster on me.

BathingSoap:
Few months ago, i created a thread on front page on how i have lost interest in school and education because of my poor academic performance

https://www.nairaland.com/5253585/help....i-lost-interest-school-pls

Today i just found out that i failed two of my final year papers, thus giving me an extra year, i didn't know at first but as my mom kept pestering me to apply for law school, i had to check the list my school forwarded to Abuja, Garki, for those eligible to apply for law school, and discovered my name was not included.

I was discombobulated because i already made good the due process involved in the application prior to this day, i was advised by colleagues to check my result and lo and behold i failed 2 courses in my second semester yr 5.

I have failed my parents, especially my mom who invested a lot in my schooling, i might not be able to go back to the school for the extra year, i don't even know how to tell my parents, or what to do next, if i had known i would never have attended the uni, rather would have learnt a skill or focused on freelancing but i guess its all too late now.

Please google the below article.

50 Famous People Who Failed at Their First Attempt at Career Success

https://budbilanich.com

Princewell2012:
Some people are wicked sha

How can someone live with a broad daylight witch for 10 whole years, a woman without manners and lazy for that matter, and he comes here to ask what he should do!

Or can't you see she has everything that defines a bad wife?

Wait Sir, are you really asking me what you should do?

Well, I think you should stay. Try and provide more knives, cutlasses, broken bottles, hammer and even get a gun for her. Make sure it is littered at strategic places in the house so she wouldn't need to move an inch from her position to pick any whenever she's in the mood to use them.
Later, your obituary will grace every social media platforms and feature on Nairaland too, and I will quietly type RIP, because God knows I won't have the energy and time to type that in full.

So, this is exactly what I think you should do!

Enroll your son in a taekwando class in school. Some private schools have it as one of their extracurriculum activities. Then teach him other methods of self defence.

Make sure to include drinks like lucozade (not lucozade boost), ribena, glucose, etc in his diet.

The result of all this combination will amaze you. And who's that bully that will come near your son?

I am talking from experience.

Embrace Christ totally and you won't be bothered about death.

And anytime such fleeting thoughts or feeling comes your way, always pray and cancel it with the Blood of Jesus Christ.

There's power in prayer and in the spoken Word of God.

bigeric100:
Specter, can i pls av ur contact.... i like ur reply to the ops post and i will like for us to talk pls.......i really need advise from you cos u the only one that said something sensible in all the comments as per the op post....That post is my story, n it was posted by my wifes friend who is based in Abuja....I to open up to someone sensible pls cos am tired of the marriage myself ....am just done i swear

Please you guys should have a deep conversation and resolve whatever is the matter. You two shouldn't be tired of the marriage at the same time.

No marriage or relationship is without a problem, Sir.