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@Op, you better answer his calls before he gets angry and tells your fiance.

deltateam:
Then what will happen? She will come back and the cycle will continue?

Men should be honest with their women.

No one is coming back to anybody. Isn't it obvious the man has another family?

Of course he'll try to contact his wife as soon as he hears she has eventually left the country.

[quote author=SoNature post=84272748]Uncle, make I send my account details [/quote

Oga, I am a female.

omonikiba:
Person when never see food chop na im wan travel?

What I want for her a a good paying job here in naija

For her sacrifice and total trust for her husband, my prayer is that God lifts her up.

tammie24:
can a woman with kids get a Canadian immigrant visa without the husband input?

My dear, you see ehen, when God wants to lift a man, protocols are broken. Let's assume it wasn't feasible prior to this time, but for the sake of the woman, God can decide to favour her.

Depressed101:
best advise.. I a suspecting he has another woman in Europe, if not, who applies for UK/Germany visa when Canada is saying welcome already .. Itz tricky, he's definitely seeing someone....

Her husband is not reliable. His attitude points to the direction of infidelity and lies.

SoNature:
Will you fund the trip?

God works in a miraculous way. You never can tell whom He will use to assist the woman, myself inclusive.

Hmmm. Please try the Canadian stuff again, for you and the children. When he hears you have immigrated, he'll try to contact you.

@Op, please find a suitable time to tell your wife EVERYTHING and do it fast! It's better she hears it directly from the horse's mouth than from someone else.

Even if you have to kneel down to apologize, kneel down for the sake of peace in your home. You know why? When you least expect, your sister-in-law will tell your wife you raped her and she'll tarnish your image to her family members. She'll paint you so bad that your wife might find it hard to believe it wasn't intentional and might not likely going to forgive you.

That bitter truth will save you lots of things in the future, than keeping mute, all in the name that you don't want to hurt your wife.

A stitch in time, they say, saves nine!

Her decision could be borne out of the mistreatment she received from her husband during their early years in marriage.

Offpoint:
Code to heaven

Code to life

eTECTIV:
U were aware she took postinor and now U want to confront her if she had an abortion? Why exactly is dat? Wetin u want use d information do?

Christmas is around the corner, so dude is looking for a way to break up with his girlfriend.

Skyfornia:
OP stop confusing yourself...you already said that the postinor drug changed her circle.

By the way, are we there? Were we there? Are we she or is she us?? Abeg Abeg stop disturbing our peace...the heat is too much

Aha! Take it easy, bros

Offpoint:
Lost? I will help you fine your way

Not lost. I have the code.

Offpoint:
Lipton
Clinton

Stop jor. I would rather say Oshinle than that.

Please let my last digits fall in this sequence: 5809. Or do you have a better option?

Offpoint:
Slim
Rim

No. Let's say Brighton.

Offpoint:
nothing, i am still questioning my parents where they found me.

Etim!

Kindness and strong relationship with God. I also inherited my father's signature.

RemyDropShadow:
@ bolded. Like a witch?

You can never be too sure.

RemyDropShadow:
I'm gonna make arrangements for a small camera on Monday but I need to ask
Can I really do that with my laptop? That is without the screen being on and on camcoder mode cause it'll be very obvious if that is the case.
I use a MacBook pro. Is there a way I can set up the camera to record with the screen in hibernation?
Thanks for your input anyway. Highly appreciated.

I really don't know much about MacBook Pro, cos I use a different type of laptop, but you can google it. And the idea of installing a camera is even the best, per adventure she's something other than a seductress, the camera will be able to capture it.

RemyDropShadow:
Thanks for your input brother. Can't agree more.
There has to be some sort of spiritual connection to this cause I struggle to understand how my brother always come across these type of girls.
One is by chance, two probably coincidence but 3? That is a pattern.

Op, you have a laptop top nah. Set it on record/video and pretend to be asleep. Let her come as usual, try rubbish as usual and get videoed unusual

The best person to confide in is your eldest sister. Go visit her with your laptop and show her the video. She on the other hand will speak on your behalf to your brother and three of you can actually set her up.

That type of a lady is not worthy to be your sister-in-law.

Felixamos:
Mmmmmm really deep... I wonder how someone who can't even create a strand of his hair talk more of a human being would take his own life created and given to him by God.. @op please listen to @extremelygolden and all the positive advice you've received.. I understand there are situations that could make someone think suicide but when life puts you in a fvked up condition don't say why me, say try me!
Be a fighter not a coward! Btw the op even has a phone to come online..

Don't mind him. I wish I could slap reality into his brain.

He can even get active in the Youth Department of his place of worship. Learn how to play musical instruments and all. He's there thinking suicide.

Rubbish!

LOWLIFER:
We only hope for better in life coz that's convenient. Life offers little or nothing, and it is full of pain and sorry.

If you think life offers little or nothing to you, my dear, and you live in Lagos, kindly visit The Orthopedic Hospital, Igbobi. It is at Onipanu bus stop on Ikorodu Road. And at Morocco Road in Shomolu. Whichever way you're coming from.
Just go round the wards, interact with patients, ask them for how long they have been in such condition, then you will realize how much God's mercy has kept you.

Some of the patients have spent several years there. But you know what? They're hopeful that they will be discharged one day. And you? You've lost faith and hope already and you think being ungrateful to God for His abundant Grace and Mercy is right, abi?

Like someone already said get a letter from the Lawyer for renewal of your rent. You were issued a quit notice in writing, reversal of the same notice should also be in writing before any payment is made.

Please be guided. Those lots are not to be trusted.

General0847:
That applies only to these mushroom nigerian businesses.

And Embassies.

goodnessme02:
How do you tell your employer that you're attending a job interview without lying?

we all want a better life, but also cannot afford to throw what you have away.
Company's policy states that you must give a genuine reason to be granted any sort of permission to be absent from work.

So....how do you get the company to grant you permission to be absent from work so as to attend a job interview without having to lie?

Christians in the house, please lend your voice.....thank you.

I am sorry for posting this in the wrong session.....but I actually don't know where to put it

A day or two to the interview date, don't wear makeup, don't laugh and don't crack jokes with anyone in the office. Just keep mute.

They will be concerned about you and probably thought you're not feeling well or something is bothering you. They might ask you to go home when you repeat same the next day. Tell your boss you will manage for that day, but if you still don't feel good the next day, being the interview day of course, you will have to take rest.

Another method, just send a text message early that interview day and tell your boss that you will be late for work that day. And make sure to switch off your phone afterwards or put it on silence and if you finish on time, just proceed straight to the office.

Darlx:
Op listen to this man! Spoke my mind...

Woman please.
I no be man

RICHOLAC:
Your advice cool pragmatic, but it all depends on the wife.

Thanks. I pray she humbles herself and enjoy her marriage. Flexing shoulder for your husband as a wife? Not good at all.

byna:
My wife will ignore you if she doesnt want to talk about her past mess.

She has her pride. I've always ignored and accepted her sexual apologies. It I just noticed she needs a different tacties

I pray she humbles herself. For her own good, anyway. Humility is an indisputable virtue.

Sha take it easy, Sir.

byna:
My wife will ignore you if she doesnt want to talk about her past mess.

She has her pride. I've always ignored and accepted her sexual apologies. It I just noticed she needs a different tacties

I pray she humbles herself, for her own good anyway. Sha take it easy, Sir.

Op, do you know you can actually find a way of settling the misunderstanding and still have some sizzling sexual intercourse in the process?

When she walked in unclad, you could have pretended you were going to hold her, but just go lock the bedroom door and keep the key under the pillow and lie down as if you don't care.

Tell her she'll get the Bleep when she has finished apologizing. Just pretend you are not happy ( and of course you're not). If she's a romantic wife, she will understand what's up. And I pray she shouldn't let pride and stubbornness put a dent in her marriage.

After the "drill" start up a conversation about what actually led to the misunderstanding and iron it out completely.

She's probably not your biological mother. Why not try renting an apartment somewhere out of her reach? That could help save you from all the wahala.