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Women always want to be placed on a pedestal... They love the attention and all...

And nonvirgins know that if you keep them in a room with a virgin, nobody will even look their side twice and that shut hurts them like mad ....

And besides...
People will always hate the people who have what they want but can't have ...

Officialgarri:
But let's agree Peter Obi is Chris'candidate, is he going to openly tell us his revelation is fake if eventually Obi doesn't win this election?

Mixing politics and religion is a dangerous that should not be toyed with and I thought this so called big pastors should know better.

Just for the record, I'll keep this screenshot here so we know if these people will call the God of Israel a liar

You're getting it all wrong chief...

What Pastor Chris and anointed men of God are saying is that, this is who God has chosen...

Now we have the right to go against God's choice and do what we like or we follow God's choice, cause we aren't robots..

Let's look at scriptures...
The first king of Israel, Saul wasn't God's plan was it? But still the people wanted Saul ...

God didn't want Israel to serve other gods, but still they did...

God told the prophet to tell Hezekiah that he was going to die soon, but Hezekiah prayed and God added extra 15years, does that mean the prophet was a liar? ...

They were many things in scriptures that God didn't want, but man still did it, does it change the fact that He is God?

The summary of the story is simple...
Whether or not PO wins doesn't make these men any less called by God...

All they are saying is "This is God's choice" out of all the presidential candidates, it's left for us to go with God's plan or out of it ...

Not when, if ...
Nothing about this coming presidential election is set on stone ....

First of....
3months is too short a time to be considering marriage...

Secondly...
There is no being just friends with someone you've slept with...

Once you sleep with a person, the dynamics of that relationship changes, there's no going back, especially with feelings involved...

In an enclosed space, things will most likely happen...

Now to her, it's just friendship, but to those men? Nahhhh I don't think so...

Thirdly...
She went on a f.u.c.king spree after her ex broke her heart, think of what will happen when you offend her and she needs a "shoulder to cry on" ...

We all know how women behave when they get all cranky when things don't go their way ... And eventually, they will turn to those "friends" who'll be there waiting patiently for her ....


You're not in the wrong for wanting her to not have anything to do with the people she has slept with...

I mean...
I wouldn't be comfortable knowing that my wife to be is still "friends" with a man who has na.cked her...

She said she has slept with two guys, but the question is how many times per guy? ...

She may have slept with one for like 10times and yet there are still friends, nahhhh man, I can't be comfortable with such arrangements ...

Any relationship with an ex that isn't purely business is a no for me, if she can't do away with them, I'll do away with her ...

Suspend what sir?
OP better clean your mouth well o ...

The sooner we kick out this corrupt party the better for us as a country ...

1Sharon:
Lol and you're the average inventless Nigerian man

Hahahahhahahah ...
**This social experiment just got better** ...

Is this all you've got? ...
Abi do you want to prove my point some more? ...

1Sharon:
Did I force you to mention me? Abeg getat

Hahahahhaaha ...
You just proved my point ...
You're indeed the average woman I thought you were, how pitiable ...

1Sharon:
Your red pillar talk say you shouldn't marry a woman you personally didn't disvirgin yourself.

Sighs ...
((SMH))
**It is indeed a headache conversing with the average woman** ...

Go back and read my earlier write-up again ...

This time, do it sl-o-wly ...

1Sharon:
So why haven't they married her? She's now 33 and what you Nigerian men will call an evening newspaper.

That's because virginity isn't the only trait that matters in a wife.

You're right @bolded...

Virginity is not the only trait that matters in a wife, but it's an important trait worth considering regardless ...

And besides....
I'd rather marry a virgin with good character than a w.h.ore with good character ...

saphiere:
I am Igbo. Enugu precisely. I got this to say.
When you do the same thing over and over you will definitely get the same result.
Men have been governing us since 1960 and nothing comes out. Give chance to the female folks let's see if there would be a chance.
After all, Queen Esther changed the history of her people.

What do you mean "give chance to the female folks"? ...

Is there any policy that is stopping women from contesting?

Why don't women go and contest like everybody else are and let them win so they too can lead ...

Abi are you implying that a woman should be handed the presidency all because she has a hole in-between her legs? LMAO ...

Most of y'all women be thinking that your holes can get you anything you want ...

Abeg shift one side jareh ...

Oga sir...
You alone know exactly what you can handle and if you can't handle being with a single mother, then BACK OFF!!!!!!

See eh...
Unless God Himself thunders from heaven, I will NEVER marry a single mother, NEVER!! And I can't advice any man to do so, cause the garbage surrounding them are just too much, nahhhhhhh ....

With all due respect sir, you're a fo.ol ...

You've been begging a woman for over 4months, jeeeeezzzz!! Are you high on cheap drugs or something?! ...

Alaye dust yourself and move on jareh!!
Go to church and do Thanksgiving because God just saved you from hell ...

Let's do small analysis together shall we?

The fact that she could listen to her family over you is proof that there's already trust issues - red flag!!!!

It's also proof that in your marriage, your in-laws will have more say over you as far as your wife is concerned - red flag!!!!

Begging for 4months and yet she can't forgive over this trivial matter, is proof that unforgiveness is her second name - red flag!!!!

And to hold a grudge for a matter as trivial as this even after explanation and begging from you - red flag!!!!!

"Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are". What sorta woman keeps a friend who will go the extra mile to ruin her engagement? - red flag!!!!!

And finally...
The fact that a man sees no shame in begging a woman consistently for 4months is proof that the dynamics of that relationship is reversed - red flag!!!!!!

Oga sir...
If this is the most neutral reason (not just your side of the story) as to why your fiancee won't forgive you, then go for Thanksgiving, God just saved your life ...

I thought "men are scum"? ...

Why cry over a scum? ...

Why faint over a scum? ...

Indeed she must be scum-philic ...

Most of y'all ladies be saying "my past doesn't matter, yen yen yen" and yet when it's time to settle down y'all be hiding it ...

I mean ..
Why hide what doesn't matter? ...

If it truly doesn't matter like you say, then have the balls to tell him that you're a w.h.ore from the get go and then let's see if he would even consider dating you, talk more of proposing to you ....

This clearly shows that y'all know that men will have an issue with your past...

Y'all know that your past when in the open will be a deciding factor as to whether or not that man stays long enough to propose...

But for some reasons y'all still be delusional into decieving yourselves into thinking otherwise...

And when it comes out in the open, y'all start begging on your knees like your life depends on it ...

May God keep disgracing w.h.ores wanting to decieve men into getting the ring, in the mighty name of Jesus name, Amen!!!

You asked for 200k, he gave you 80k and you're complaining? What sorta level of entitlement is this?! ...

He's not owing you...
He isn't married to you...
He's just your boyfriend and you're this entitled? ...

And besides if that guy has half a brain he will dump you, cause no man in his right senses will marry a thing who isn't afraid to get physical with him and embarrass him in public ...

I'm guessing when your friend said "he is everything she wants in a guy", she also included character ...

I can't tell your friend what she should do, but listen to me...

The things that matter in the long run in marriage, in other words, the things that keep a marriage going successfully are the things that money cannot buy...

Pediatrics and woke kids in adult body wouldn't understand this, but I pray God gives you wisdom ...

See eh...
You can teach a grown man how to make money, but you can NEVER teach a grown man character ...

This is not to say that money isn't important, because blimey money is very important, however finding a person who ticks ALL your boxes is as rare as finding a unicorn...

Don't lose that for a hiccup that can be changed with time ...

Lastly, seek God's face on the matter...

Your pastor is 95% correct ...

For a vast majority of women out there, once they start lifting small financial responsibilities for sometime, the respect they have for you flies out the window ...

A very large majority of women out there can't respect a man they provide for, no matter how much the man has done for them in times past ...

A woman who is not a virgin is unfit to be my wife and the mother of my kids, period!! ...

If you like...
Call me immature...
Not a real man...
Stupid...
Whatever rocks your boat, that's fine by me ...

It still doesn't change the fact that w.ho.res don't make good wives ...


Ladies be shouting "My past don't matter"
"I'm an adult and I can do whatever I want"

Yes I agree...
You're an adult and so you can do whatever you want, but news flash ladies!!

I'm an adult too and just as you can do whatever you want, so can I!!! ...

Just as you made a decision to sleep around in your peak years, I'm making a decision to not deal with your rammed-through ass!!! ...

And that shouldn't be a problem!!!
I mean, a man is allowed to also have preference ba? ...

One thing ladies and sadly men have failed to understand is this - You're free to do whatever you want with your life, but I don't got to put up with it ...

Wanna be a wh.ore? That's fine!! Go for it!!!
But stop demonizing men because they refused to put up with your bad decisions ...

highchief1:
let’s see ur response when u get married.this message is not for university students bro

"Why throw a tantrum when I can communicate"

You're very correct bro...
My message is indeed not for university students ...

If buying my mother a house and being responsible for her makes me a loser, then ladies and gentlemen, may I introduce myself as Fahvvy the Proud Loser ....

And also...
I hope she would have this stand when her son's neglect her for their baby mama's ....

Food that I provided for, I shouldn't eat it because I'm upset? Lol ....

That will only happen if she returns back my money ...

And besides...
Why throw a tantrum when I can communicate my displeasure to her in ways that doesn't out my stomach or peni.le infrastructure at risk ....

All this talk of don't beat women you is BS!!!

So women are weaker vessels and yet they know how to run men down with their mouth ba? ...

They are weaker vessels and they never hesitate to slap men in arguments, that could otherwise be resolved by a mature communication ba? ...

Tis well sir ...

As for me...
I don't care what anyone says...

Any woman who makes the mistake of laying hands on me will collect, no stress...

If she can beat me, that's fine, but if she cannot, then she best prepare to spend some time in the orthopedic ward ...

So my advice to men is simple...

Don't lay hands on a woman, but if she lays hands on you first, make sure you give her the beatings of her life, so much so that she'll regret ever making the same mistake ever again

Goodlady:
You wrote trash. What an unfortunate man

Hhahahahhahaaah ...
Typical of the average woman ...

Well I'm not surprised ...

You are a woman after all ...
An average on if I might add ....

Enjoy your day ma'am ...

frozen70:
Its obvious you have comprehensive problems

The writer said build house before marriage

I said rather, marry and build house together

Which is better for you

Hahahhahah ...
As expected ...
You're indeed the average woman ...

Tis well with you ma ...

So much truth in one thread!

frozen70:
I think it should be, once you get married start planning to own your own house by buying a land and start building

If you wait until you buy a land, build it before getting married, with the present economy, you may finish building your house and get married late

How do you now train your children with old age

I didn't even need to look at the name of the moniker to know that this statement is coming from a woman ...

Guys follow this advice at your own peril!!

With the kind of entitled and broke women we have littered all over the place, it will take the grace of God to even own a fridge after you get married ...

Money that could be used for more productive venture will be used to pacifier the broke and entitled fellow who knows nothing but how to make incessant demands and complain ...

And even the ones that are somewhat well to do still have the whole "my money my money, his money my money" mentality, so don't even think it ...

And please don't come to my mention and tell me 'there are still good women out there', cause EVERY WOMAN on the earth still wants to be taken care of by a man she's bleeping with

And you talked about the economy up there, is there anything about the economy that mysteriously changes because a man has gotten married?!! ...

Once the kids starts coming, do you expect the man to neglect the kids welfare to build a house?

Whilst I advice early marriage, men please understand that there are some things that needs to be in place and things that will be expected of you as a man once you get married ...

The girl is a very foolish girl ...
And what's even more pathetic is that lots of females have her kinda of mindset ...

Some of y'all females think because you got pregnant for a guy or did an abortion, that automatically means he won't leave you LMAO ...

Continue eh, because say them tie him placenta keep with you na ba ...

Goodlady:
What I ll give him is none of your concern but I m not in the league of ladies giving boxers and singlets. Accord me with some respect pls.

No matter what you intend give to him, one thing is for certain, your gift will NEVER EVER be equivalent in value (or anything close) to what you're expecting from him, talk more of exceeding it ...

And also...
Go and pick up a dictionary and check the meaning of the word "gift" ... If you don't have a dictionary or can't use one, just Google the word and see how far ...

Then hopefully you'll realize how pathetically disgusting your sense of entitlement really is ...

Sincerely...
I pity the guy ...
He really is unfortunate to be in a relationship with someone with such level of entitlement ...