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backnbeta:
Never say never! Who will ever believe that POS agents will have the nerve to ask people to transfer 12k to receive 10k? This is Nigeria and shit happens

If you believe that that fuel is worth 5k then you can believe anything ...

Even if fuel is sold at 2k per litre, 5k with of fuel should be 2.5litres, take a look at that, do you think it's up to 2.5litres? ....

And shey you know that, that's like a 4litre keg ba? ...

So at the very least, 5k worth of fuel should be half full....

Silentgroper:



Jiggy .. you're getting worked up for nothing..

How so? ...

Your first advice is you encouraging women to be shameless beggars and I find that super repulsive ...

They could just have easily block the numbers of those randy men on all platforms and in cases where that proves futile they could always give firm no repeatedly ...

But no!!
Becoming shameless beggars is the advice you could give to females (sighs) ...

Tis well ....

Medianna:
Guy me, i say i will never have anything to do with a man who ask me such question.
Never ever. In capital letters
If you think I have a flawed or incoherent logic. Then so be it.
My life, my experience.

I'm not your "guy" ma'am ...

And if this submission of yours is what you think my whole point is, then it's obvious you haven't been reading my responses, which in all fairness is typically of the average female ...

Enjoy your evening...

I'm not surprised at the comments of the females above me ...

One thing that's typical of the average woman is that once you say something that puts them in a bad light, their response is to attack you ...

They will NEVER attack what you say, that's because they can't and the reason the can't is because they know it's true! ...

Everything the OP said is nothing but the truth! All this body positivity talk are all BS!! ...

A baby hippo knows that she's prolly unattractive to the male gender and that hurts the sh.it outta the hippo's heart ...

That's why they try to shove this body positivity crap down our throats ...

That's also why they never hesitate to show their "transformation" once they lose a bit of weight ....

Women go and lose weight o!!!!
Your body weight is totally under your control, so stop making excuses it's PATHETIC!!! ....

Hahahhaha ...
The "I'm on my way with jollof rice" got me cracking up ...

But on a serious note sha...
Majority of females are damn broke ...

Most of them can't even afford pads without a man's help, talk more of helping another ...

The remainder of the population are too stingy and entitled to even give money to a man ...

They go about with the "collect - collect" mentality, never reciprocating ...

Only a handful of females literally, will show up financially for their man ...

This is why I don't blame men for wanting to get in-between a woman's legs before rendering any form of assistance ...

Medianna:
I don't understand again, if its quarrel or debate. Anyway I came in peace and i rest my case in peace

(Sighs) Here we go again🙄...
SMH ...

No ma'am...
It's neither a quarrel nor a debate ...
I'm only pointing out the flaws and incoherency of your logic ...

And also...
Not everything is a personal attack ...

Enjoy your evening ...

Medianna:
Calm down abeg. Maybe you just take another look at what i wrote

Typical of an average female ...

Either ways, if you had taken your own advice and "calm down to take another look at what I wrote", then maybe you would've had something coherent to say on the matter, but alas! Here we are ...

Medianna:
Anyhow is it.
I must comment the girls response.
Instead of asking what i can bring, why not tell me what you expect,
If i can meet up fine, if i can't nothing spoil I'll tell you.

So you want him to tell you his expectations so that you can pretend ba? ...

And then when you've gotten the ring you can now show your true colors abi? ...

I mean, it's no news that females in general can do LITERALLY ANYTHING for a ring, and once they've gotten it then their true colours break forth ...

And it is precisely because men followed the advice of "tell me what you expect" that'll give room for pretense and deceit ...

My advice to every male is this...
Don't ask her what she brings to the table. Don't even tell her what your expectations are. Just observe and if she isn't what you want, do not hesitate to dump her for someone else ....

OP sir...
The illustration you gave about a girl breaking the windscreen of her boyfriend is just a video for clout ...

Secondly...
This act you call a "trend" is nothing new ...
Lots of females have been selling their bodies to the highest bidder since time immemorial ....

It's no news that most females want a good life but aren't willing to work for it, so they never hesitate to take the easy way out and the easy way out in this case is nothing but prostitution ...

Those fellows don't mind sleeping with their grand father's mate for some money, how pathetic! ...

As for your little sister...
Whilst it's a good thing that you're showing concern towards instilling morals in her, being violent may have the opposite effect so I suggest you change your approach ...

Nairaland and cruise story be like kilode ...

But on a more serious note, if a female makes the mistake of laying her hands on you, make sure she never makes the same mistake twice ...

And the best way to do that is to give her a resounding slap that will make her reason her entire life ...

The only reason why a woman will slap a man even though she knows is far stronger than she is, is because she knows that there wouldn't be any repercussion ...

Once you let her know that there will be repercussions to her stupidity, then watch her fall in place ...

Men are told never to lay hands on women and women have taken advantage of this to become very vile and abusive ...

That's why I tell men, no matter who it is whether male or female, be sure to defend yourself when you're attacked ...

Medianna:
I like her humility.
If not for money, many men will be single cuz they can't offer anything apart from money.

If you're not blind,you don't need to ask anybody what he or she can offer, cuz action is louder than voice in any kind of relationship.

If all men offer is money, then men offer basically EVERYTHING!!

Let's do a bit of analysis shall we?

Why do you go to school?
So you can get a job to make money...

Why do you learn a trade?
So you can use it to make money...

Why do you learn a skill?
So you can use it to make money...

Why do females do prostitution?
To make money...

Why do people steal or engage in fraudulent activities?
To get money...

What's the purpose of rituals?
Money!!

So basically every human activity is in one way or the other geared towards MONEY!!

Without money you can't feed...
Without money you can't rent or build a house...
Without money you can't buy clothes...
Without money you can't go on any vacation of some kind...

Even the data you're using to come on nairaland was bought with money...

Look at the issues going on in the country, it's all because of money...
People are queuing in the bank and stripping themselves naked, why? MONEY!!

And just as you said, women date men for money, because "if not for money many men will be single" ...

Life without money will more or less be a life of misery!!!!

So if men have only money to offer just like you said, then they have offered the very thing that makes living remotely possible ...

OP sir...

The truth remains that there will ALWAYS be gender roles in ANY relationship involving man and woman and I don't see that changing anytime soon ...

In an ideal setting, your ideals would be valid, but in the context of the society we find ourselves? Nahhhhhhh ...

Just as no matter how much money a woman makes, the man is still expected to foot the bills regardless...

No matter how much "free time" a man has on his hands or how busy his wife is, the woman will still be expected to do the chores...

It's the way it has always been and I don't see this changing anytime soon...

But alas!
Every married folks should figure out what works for them and not conform to societal standards especially on marital issues...

If she's not a virgin, then it's bad investment ...

Paying full price for what indomie and egg could get is nothing short of stupidity! ...

Franzinni:
if not for soldiers ... You will not be typing trash son, you would be manure becasue boko Haram would have finished the whole country ... Be grateful you imbecilic dimwitted excuse for a homosapien.

You are a man but as far as I am concerned you are a wife to the Nigerian army becasue it protects your coconut head

First of...
Soldiers are soldiers not because anyone forced them to be soldiers, but because it's something that they WILLINGLY signed up for ...

We are grateful for the sacrifices that soldiers be paying for our safety, however, don't lord what you willfully signed up for over us, as though you were forced into it ...

Secondly...
That you're a soldier doesn't give you the right to harass anyone... Soldiers aren't above the law ...

Just because we give preferences to men in uniform doesn't mean it's your right ...

Jumping the queue because you're on uniform is nothing short of bullying!! And if you're in support of the military guys actions, then you're no better than a thug - just that in this case you're a licenced one ...

Thirdly...
The only reason why this trash can happen is because of the kind of country we're in ... In saner climes, that fellow would be kicked out of the military long before now ...

Fourthly...
The MAJOR RESPONSIBILITY of a military personnel is to PROTECT the citizens of a country and not bully them ...

Seeing how this military dude neglected his primary responsibility, can you say he is worthy of the respect that comes with the uniform? ...

Goodlady:
You v no sense to know some people can't recognize gold or value. You are an example. Receive brain!

Hahahahaha ...
I expected this ...
Typical of an average female ...

Well...
It's obvious you and I have a very different definition of what "gold or value" is ...

Carry on o, madam value/gold ...

That girl is a thief ...
And I'm glad she got a piece of the "thieve treatment" ...

Goodlady:
I m saving n ll buy it myself. I only expressed my frustrations. If you know Abj well you ll know it's not easy for people without vehicle that goes out daily.
A good man ll make his woman happy.
Seem you are a callous man.

See cheap emotional blackmail @bolded ...

Then what does a "good woman" do for her man? ...

Make (imply) silly & incessant demands? ...
Put him under unnecessary pressure? ...
Inconsiderate towards her man's well-being? ...

If your definition of a "good man" is this trash you're implying here, then I would rather be termed "bad" by every single female in the world ...

And also...
No man runs away from anything of value (or worth), if he's acting this way, then it's proof of what you are ...

When elders tell you NEVER MARRY A GIRL WHO ISN'T A VIRGIN, y'all be arguing rubbish ...

Did you guys read where she said "he's my first?" ... Women NEVER forget their first's - first man who they slept with, first man who they love, etc , NEVER ...

If you must marry any girl, find yourself a virgin to avoid stories that touch the heart ...

And worst still, you just had to marry a single mother, sighs ...

Omorrr...
I wish him good luck ...

And to the woman...
This man took you in when your ex abandoned you...
He took care of you for 9years...
Showed you and your child love for this 9years...
Built a house in your child's name...

And what does he get? ...

Hahahahahha ...

It's a normal thing with women ...
Most of y'all be acting without thinking ...
Almost as if the brain in your head is just for decoration ...

You found out he was cheating, so what?!!
Why didn't you confront him?
Bring up your "evidence" and shove it in his face?

But nooooo...
You decided to make him lose his job, forgetting that you're jobless too and dare I say useless ...

And now you're seeking sympathy, sighs ...
Go and buy yourself clothes na ...
Things have been hard on you and in 8months you haven't had a job ...

Go find work madam ...
You're a strong and independent woman are you not? ...

Tis well o...
Las las...
You'll most likely start wh.oring around (if you haven't already) ...

Since you have refused to use your head, we all know the next thing women will fall back on na ba? ...

So why are you now telling us? ...
What should we do now? Beat him up? ...

You have two options here madam...
Do it or you walk away, shikinah!!! ...
No need for plenty stories ...



And besides...
You seem like one who always love to be on the recieving end of things, never reciprocating ...

Because if you reciprocated value at any point in time, he wouldn't have this audacity to say this thing here, but alas! ...

Tis well jareh...
I hope you and every other person (especially females) learn to reciprocate value and not just be on the recieving end of any relationship ...

I smell barbecue loading ...

Watch how some people will come to this thread and say "virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage" or something of sort ...

That's their wahala sha...
My own be say, a woman who willfully sleeps (whether with many men or "just once" is UNFIT to be my wife or the mother of my kids ...

I can't pay full price for something that indomie & egg could get, nahhhh ...

Why should he lie? ...


When the truth can set him free ...

And how many hours will we use to fear men? ...

God1000:
but only your legs and hands will get dirty most times

True!
But see that girl leg na ...
Examine it for yourself ...

Clout! ...
You can't go to farm and work, like really work and then look that clean at the end of the day ...

Nazgul:
At this junction, I would have to disagree with you.

Sir...
The terrible things we've being through shouldn't be an excuse to do nasty things ..

If you disagree with this, then are you implying that it's okay for someone to do steal and do rituals all because they grew up in a wretched home and are trying to escape poverty?

Or maybe you're implying that it's okay for a person to go on a rape spree all because they were raped when growing up?

Or maybe it's okay for an abuser to abuse a person all because he or she was abused ...

Well...
I don't think so ...

No matter how terrible a thing we've gone through, it still does not justify bad behaviors/vices ...

Nazgul:
You would hold a poor girl who was a victim of randy men responsible for the trauma she passed through in the hands of irresponsible men? That's not fair if you'd ask me.

Sir...
It's terrible what happened to that poor girl, sincerely I feel for her ...

However, if she chooses to who.re around, then it's HER FAULT ...

Everyone, male or female is responsible for the choices they make and thus should be held accountable ...

I understand this sounds insensitive especially in this case, but it's the reality...

"When a thieve is caught in the market, no one cares whether or not he/she stole because of hunger, they'll be consequences" (Proverb)

Everyone will be treated by the way they act not by their story, so if acts like a wh.ore, then blimey, she will be treated as such ...

A thief who steal to eat and a thief who steal because of greed are no different sir, they are BOTH thieves ...

Nazgul:
She's continuing because she has no choice. Most of these girls don't have such choices. They're stuck and have to keep doing what they're doing in order to survive.

There's always a choice sir ...
The issue is that we always want to take the easy way out ...

@Nazgul
Have you heard of the word choice? ...

Whilst I agree with you to an extent, I also disagree with you too sir ...

We've all had bad things happen to us, but still that shouldn't be an excuse to doing nasty things, should it? ...

So whilst the blame should go to the men and the women and all, let's not forget to hold the man culprit responsible - the girl ...

What happened to her as a child (in the instance you sighted) may not have been her fault or her doing, however, continuing in it is clearly a CHOICE ...

Over 502k people have watched this video, and many of them have left positive comments and suggestions for her.

I'm more concerned about what was going through the minds of these people when they left her a "positive" comment ...

It is precisely because things like this aren't met with scorn and backlash that it has grown and festered to this point ...

When you take away the repercussions of bad behavior, you give it room to grow...

If the consequences of her bad decisions were shoved in her face, the second and third child prolly would never have been born ...

But because she was petted and told some "positive" comments, see where it has now led to ...


Single people have expressed sympathy for the woman and encouraged her to be glad for what she has, with one user stating that they will be 28 this year and have only one child.

Glad for what bikonu?
What she has?
What does she have?
3kids from different fathers, is that something to be "glad" about? ...

The lady who is 28, can someone help me ask her if there is a "bearing child outta wedlock" competition that I'm not aware of ...


Another commenter questioned how the woman had three children from several fathers, stating that they are both 26 and without a boyfriend, job, or child.

So having a boyfriend now is now an achievement ba? ... Y'all females honestly need to get your priorities straight ...

And what's even more hilarious is that the girl is even looking for a slave to foot her bills "companion" ....

Weldone o ...
Knight in shinning armour, feel free to apply ...

There's no pride in begging madam, work and pay your own bills ...

And besides...
Trashy minded people such as you can't even make it to my contact list ...

So save your "entertainment" for yourself ...

efewizey:
Trust me. It will get to a point you will you won't say this anymore.

Trust me. It would never get to that point ...
I know me better than you know me. And from the strength of the knowledge of me, I can tell you for free that it won't ...

efewizey:
Encourage your women to work and not feel entitled.

An entitled woman cannot give peace of mind ... So her being entitled already disqualifies her ...

And besides...
Why should anyone be "encouraged" to work?
Shouldn't every responsible adult know that working is a necessity for living? ...

efewizey:
If you are no more tomorrow she can take care of the home without having to sell her body

Who's to say she won't die first ...
Abi is it written somewhere that a man must be "no more" first? ...

As long as the meals are ready on time...
The house is clean...
Laundry done...
S.ex isn't an issue...

She doesn't nag or turn the house to a war zone...
Isn't entitled...
Gives peace of mind...
Super respectful and submissive...

I don't give a darn whether or not she makes money ...