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Kai!!!!!!
I love my dear country Nigeria....
Just thinking about turning the house up side down, will warrant a punishment that will reset your brain, talk more of actually destroying things ....

This cr.ap can only happen in America ....
And to think that an adult will be present and videoing this act is just unimaginable ....

"God created man first. Sometime later, having acquired experience from all the mud huffing and puffing involved in the manufacturing of man, he perfected skills..."

For you to say that God acquired "experience" before creating a woman is to say that God isn't all knowing.... It is to say that God does trial and error before He can make something perfect....

Well, maybe your god doesn't know everything, maybe he is a god of trial and error, but I know for certainty that my God isn't in anyway like yours....

Secondly, you asked "can a man look good in femininity?" Well men don't have to act in a feminine way to look as good or even better than women....

That was the point WatchYourSix was trying to make, and you called him a fool because of that....

And yet, when he asked the reverse of that question, you said....

"Why would a woman want to move about with no make-up, hair, lipgloss, no tight fitting clothes cheesy"

So if women wouldn't move around without makeup or hair etc like men do to look good, why then should men do what women do to look good??

I hope you can see clearly that WatchYourSix isn't the fool, but you ....

The guys above me, please be civil about this and not throw insults around, please....

Madam OP...
You talked about men objectifying women, don't women do the same thing to men too??

When a girl sees a man, what is the first thing she sees? A WALLET!!! OR AN ATM!!!! Isn't that objectification??

Or is it okay for one gender to do it and not okay for the other?? Or maybe you missed the memo ....

Listen my dear....
You can't act a certain way and not expect people to treat you as such...

If you act or dress like a wh.o.re, then don't complain when men treat you as such!!

How can you (figuratively) allow yourself to end up in the bed with a man after just eating 500 naira suya, how?!!

And then you expect the man to take you seriously?? Haha!! I laugh in Spanish...

If you want to be treated with respect and with value, if you don't want stu.pi.d men to say trash about you, then start acting appropriately!!!!

But for as long as most women keep acting like che.ap w.hor.es, then they should expect to be treated and talked about as such ....

Twaaaah!!!!
How pathetic, that bedding a girl in the 21st century is as cheap as 500naira suya ....

Oh pleeeaseee ....
What exactly was misogynistic about those comments??

Misogyny literally means hate for women, how does saying that a woman who can be bedded for just 500naira suya is cheap.... How is that misogyny??

What our fathers had to work for, for years before they could see..
Our fathers had to work on their crush's father's farm...
They had to have a very large barn of yams...
They had to proof that they were capable and responsible to the father of the girl...

They had to be all these, just to be able to get in between a woman's legs, but today, for just 500naira suya or best still "hungry man" sized indomie and egg you can get ALLLLLL the things our fathers toiled for, for years ...

Madam OP, isn't that cheap!!!!!!!

You ladies don't like it when you're faced with an uncomfortable truth ...

Fact is simple, a lot of ladies in the 21st century are cheap!!!

If you can't deal with that, then advice your gender to learn to keep their legs closed!!

OP...
Just place a paper or a material in-between your clothes and the iron when you're using it, that way you prevent the iron from staining your dress ...

Cause the state of that your box iron is unsalvageable ...

Why not?!!!!!
Se.x before marriage is irresponsible! Just as expecting a guy you're dating to pay your bills is criminal ...

Why on earth should a male be expected to spend money on a woman he is not married to, like how?

If he is doing it out of his own volition, then that's fine, but if not, then that's bullsh.i.t!!!!

Ladies bikonu go and meet your father to meet your needs or you get a job, you're not too small to work... I came to date a partner and not a liability! ....

And just before you throw in the "then he shouldn't expect se.x", please understand that only a wh.o.re gives se.x in exchange for benefits ...

sokeril

Pleeeeeease...
Advice your brother not to go abroad just yet...

The fact that his wife is already threatening him whilst in Nigeria goes to show the extent at which she is willing to go to get what she wants...

If now that your brother isn't dependent on her, she is acting like this, how do you think she will act when he is now dependent on her?

Personally I hate being threatened and i cannot be bullied into taking any action I'm against... If I was in your brother's shoes, I will just ignore her, let her do her worse...

That's because someone that can threaten you with your unborn child cannot be reasoned with, their mind is already made up, so there's no point trying...

If however your brother decides to go, let him write all the professional exams to enable him kick start his career immediately he goes there, if not ehhhhhhh, I pity him ....

Isn't it amusing that no one above me condemned the actions of the woman? ....

Like, it's either they asked the man to "tell the real story" or they take it with a pinch of salt ....

Imagine for one second if it was a man who perpetuated this brutality on a woman, I'm betting that the man will be called all sort of unprintable names, I'm also certain that the woman's story wouldn't be seen as "cock and bull" ....

Anyways...
What I cannot understand is why a person will carry out this monstrous act on a fellow human being... An act like this is at the peak of wickedness and witchcraft ...

What I also cannot understand is why a human will put up with this brutality, like what exactly was going through his head when she was doing all this to him?!!!

It's just unimaginable!!!

OP...
In today's society eh, men are not allowed to have standards, atleast not without being shamed or called names ...

If a girl says, I want to date a rich man, no one calls her broke and insecure or lazy for wanting to leech off a man, rather they cheer her on for "knowing what she wants"...

If a man on the other hand says he wants to marry a virgin, he is instantly shamed and he is told he is not a "real man" and can't "handle and experienced woman" ....

If he says he doesn't want to marry a fat woman, he is instantly called a "body shamer", yet no one calls a woman a body shamer when she says she doesn't want a short man....

But one thing remains true...
Females will "mello" once men starts having standards and they (females) know this, that's why they keep shaming men who have those standards...

As for me...
If she isn't a virgin...
If she can't cook....
If she isn't submissive...
If she isn't smart and intelligent...
If she doesn't have a very high financial IQ...

Then she CANNOT QUALIFY TO BE A WIFE and thus is only useful for recreational use only ...

"I expelled only the 15yr old boy cos he is a cancer that has no cure. Busy sleeping with 2 friends in different classes. At this age?"

Why was only the boy expelled?
It takes two to have sex, so why didn't the girl's face the same punishment?
Oh yeahhhhhhh, right, the girls were the "victim" ....

Anyways....
The parents are to be blamed 100%...
Who gave the child this gadgets?
Who gave them unlimited access to Internet?
Who got them a sim card and recharged it?
Where does the kids spend most of their time, in school or at home?
Who refused corporal punishment to be meted on their kids?

Taking care of a child isn't just about feeding and schooling and housing o, the sooner parents realize this and act appropriately the better for the next generation ....

Honestly, I still don't understand why men tolerate abuse of any kind... Like, you would be responsible for a grown adult, paying her bills and taking care of her, prolly even start a business for her and yet she speaks bile at you on a regular basis and you do nothing about it!!! What sort of stupidity is this?!!

Either ways Sha...
Na wuna matter be that o ....
All I know is that the day my wife abuse me in any way, whether verbal, emotional or otherwise is the day the marriage ends ...

She will go back to her father's house and go and run her mouth ...

Girls Sha dey see themselves o ...

On a serious note Sha...
If anyone ask you to choose between them and something else that's important to you, pleeeeeease DON'T CHOOSE THEM!!!!

Let everyone in your life know their place and act accordingly ...

sirjamesjnr:
My advice is for men who believe they take advantage of women. You still accomplish nothing, even if all you wanted was to have sex.

OP sir...
The word "accomplishment" is a very relative term ....

This means that what is seen as an accomplishment to one may not be seen as an accomplishment for others ...

To you, a man who just have sex with his girlfriend hasn't gained anything, but to a lot of people out there, it's a different ball game altogether ...

Even the ladies aren't left out from this mindset, that's why some of them say things like "I chop him money but him no even see my pant"... It's all just relative ...

Watch how no female moniker above me has condemned the woman's action ....

If the reverse were the case, I'm willing to bet that the man would be called all sort of unprintable names, but since it's a woman doing it, they're all trying to make excuses for her .... One of them even said "the slap is from a good place" ...

However...
For it to get to the level where a woman can have the audacity to slap her husband, IN THE OPEN!!!!!!! It means that she has absolutely no iota of respect for the man ...

As for me, I would defend myself and the outcome of that "defense" is in the hands of the Lord ...

OP sir...
I legit get the point you're tryna pass, but I must say that you're greatly mistaken ....

The concept of "gain" or "loss" in any relationship is defined by the individuals involved...

If a guys reason for being in a relationship with a girl is because he want to have sex with her, then he believes he has "gained" once he has achieved that. It's just a matter of what he think his "gain" in the relationship is ...

Personally, I don't think sex is a "gain" in relationships and I'm marvelled that guys think this way ... But if they feel that's their gain when they get in-between a girl's legs, then it is indeed their gain ...

Bradford111:
We didn't fight she is always busy for recent helping her mom with some market duties so we don't always see except on Sundays and she was supposed to come visit this Sunday and couldn't make it only for she to send me this text

Hahahahahah

I laugh in Spanish...

Sir...
Pay very close attention to what I'm about to tell you...
Girl don't make excuses for those they love, they make out time. Once a girl starts making excuses CONSISTENTLY over time, that relationship is already doomed

I don't want to speculate as to why she left you, but blimey when I tell you that there is a reason, just move on with your life and don't sweat it ....

@Bradford111

No girl breaks up with a guy for just "no reason", nahhhhh, it doesn't work that way ....

Just ahrug your shoulders and move on with your life ....

Thats because it's cheaper to wed them after impregnating them na ...

If she isn't pregnant before you wed her, she will be asking for a flashy and expensive wedding, not paying attention to how you get the money ...

But once she's pregnant, you'll hear things like "baby let's just do a small wedding for now, anyhow anyhow, we'll make it work" ...

So there you have it OP ...

imagrg:
No.
Biological mother.
She always slept naked.
The boy woke up in the late night and saw her legs apart. Then the evil attraction set in.

Would you blame the boy?
How can an adult sleep in the nude knowing fully well that there is a minor in the same house/room...

That woman/paedophile should be arrested for having anything to do with a child...
Can you imagine the trauma that child would go through in the near future?? ...
She has ruined his life ...

So what happens next after she has sued her husband?? Will it make him stop cheating?? ....

My dear...
Just walk out of the marriage if you can't put up with such and live your remaining life in peace ....

You're doing very well sir...
Don't relent and don't allow anyone make you think otherwise...
And also, try and save for school too...

As for the phone, you can put that aside for now and manage the one you used to make this post, atleast until you get more money to spare ..

Lemme get this...
She cheated on him...
Got pregnant for another man...
Lied to him that the baby was his for xyz number of years...
And he still forgave her?? ....

Indeed, he is a "real" man ....
However, may none of my sons ever be this "real" ....

blinking001

Stop being stereotypical...
That some person's of a particular race choose to act like lunatics in public, doesn't necessarily mean every other person of that race is the same ...

These two girls don't represent the entire black women, they represent THEMSELVES, so stop with the stereotype ...

@tomtomastom4

This is one of the most educative thread I've read on nairaland in the last couple of years...

Thanks for sharing chief...

pansophist:
Few, some, not all. Stop with this nonsensical generalisation.

It isn't "generalization" if the word "most" is used sir ...

He made the right call...

A woman who can lie to her hubby-to-be (not a mere boyfriend o) about something as trivial as her age, SHOULD NEVER be trusted ...

That's because she might as well lie about who the real father of her child is ....

OP...
A prostitu.te is a person (usually female) that exchanges s.ex for ANY benefit (usually monetary related)...

Se.x for grades...
Se.x for jobs...
Se.x for promotion or a raise...

Even girls who expect men to pay their transport after having se.x are prostitut.es ...

From the above definition, it is safe to say that almost every female out there is a prostitu.te ....

If both parties had abstained from premarital sex in the first place, questions like this wouldn't even pop up ...